gorjessouls

[gorjessouls]

Just like nature you go through seasons, and with each season there moments of loss like when trees lose their leaves. And just like nature resets, your leaves will begin to sprout again just as beautiful as they were before. You don’t ever really lose anything, you go through periods of growth and loss is part of the journey.

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I did this recently, I took out people in my life associated with a past of pain. Although they may not be directly involved with the pain they saw it and let it happen, they still remain in contact with the individual responsible in hurting me. For that I take myself out the space. It hurts to let go of people who were such a big part of your life but I see there’s no purpose for their presence now and I would much rather be alone than to keep company tied to this past version of me.

I do believe, removing people who no longer serve you will bring space for those meant for your love. Those that bring alignment and peace into your life.

[gorjessouls]

A reminder: it may seem like your narcissistic is successful in their ways and the way they go about life, but it’s all just an illusion. Most of them are miserable and unhappy and will never be fulfilled. They put on an act to convince others but better yet convince themselves. They can live deluded fantasies and it’s best to detach from them and start living your own true, authentic life. Live in a way that brings you peace 💗🎀

[gorjessouls]

Healing Quote

Don’t ruin yourself trying to fix the things that don’t want to be fixed

[gorjessouls]

Healing takes time

Ever feeling it’s the end of the world and you’re stuck and don’t know what to do after taking yourself out of the equation? I promise, you will look back and see how far you’ve come once you give yourself the time to process these emotions and better yourself. If you ever find yourself in an emotionally difficult position, whatever the reason maybe (friends, relationship, family) with time you heal. Whether it be in 3 months, 6 months or even one year. Time heals.

My advice would be to feel those feelings in full and when they come up. If one day you feel sad over that particular event, give yourself the day to cry about it, write about it and just rant about it even scream. Aim to get it all out by the end of the day in all the ways that work for you.

I went through such a difficult relationship and eventually I cut it off because I know it wasn’t right for me. I had so many doubts if I had done the right thing and it’s so normal to have those doubts. I had thoughts of reaching out but I never did because I asked myself is that what I want? To go back to the one person that stresses tf out of me. No.

6 months down the line and I feel happier than ever on my own and I want to live in my single solitude for as long as I can until I am ready. Being single is such a blessing when you use it the right way by learning and growing for yourself. Every time I feel sad or lonely I give myself 24 hours and in that time I will do everything to will about it and feel it to the point I am bored of sulking at the end of the day and I wake up better than ever.

Don’t allow situations to control you and your being, you are made for so much more than that. Use the magic you possess💗

[gorjessouls]

I would have never known the level of love that I can love, until I removed myself from the unlovable.

Sometimes we forget how much love is in our lives and how much love we have to give when it’s constantly being taken away and drained from us and we don’t even realise it. It’s when you choose yourself, you choose self love then does the amount of love you have really register. It’s important to always choose ourselves when situations keep disappointing us.

[gorjessouls]

I think about this all the time, sometimes the people that hurt us the most can be the ones to heal us. They hurt us so much to the point where we have no choice but to choose to heal other wise we will be driven to insanity if we haven’t reached that point already.

I think about the fact that people with horrible personalities, who constantly invoke negative emotions in others whether is be hatred, anger, pain etc, are really on this earth to heal those that need to be healed. It’s not an excuse for horrible people to carry on acting that way but an explanation for their purpose in your life. Everyone has a purpose in our lives and for someone to come and trigger us in unimaginable ways, the reason most likely is to push us to a point where we can make the hard decision as painful as it may be. We choose to let them go, we choose to heal, and in doing so we fulfil our contracts with them. With that said, there is no reason for us to turn back and retrieve a contract that has already been completed, there’s nothing else you can get out of it. What’s done is done and something better is waiting for you.

Life is so much more than the physicality of human emotions, we are souls with a purpose and each and everyone has their own set of targets they need to achieve by the end of this life. Theirs could be to hurt you to help you heal. One time I read something that went along the lines of: those that hurt you the most, are the souls closest to you on the other side. That made me think of the grand scheme of things, souls contracts and all. Helping me to delve deeper into healing. That quote is not to say they hurt me so much we must be soulmates if they want me to heal on a higher plane of existence. We are still living a human experience, if someone disrespects you or jeopardises your relationship- it’s time to move on to better things. The best of the best awaits you, you can’t hang onto someone who is sucking all the blood out of you, soon enough you will be depleted of life then what will be left to experience?

Anyways tell me your take!

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Calling back your energy

why is it important to call back your energy? where we place our intentions are important, because the places we are mentally investing time into by giving it thought are the things that grow. think of plant, if you constantly water it, it will grow. the same principle applies for thought, the things you are constantly giving attention to, the people in your life who you are pouring your energy into - all of that - your energy is being directed in different places. sometimes people and places will take and take and take, leaving you depleted of energy, exhausted and drained.

In order to create the life you want, you need to reclaim energy from people, places and situations where it's being wasted. your energy is precious, treasure it and be intentional with it!