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Guys white ppl & perisex ppl frustrate me so bad. For context i am wasian (specifically japanese) & intersex. Although i dont really open up about me being mixed or intersex (i am whitepassing, etc.) i did tell my close friends. So they are FULLY aware of me being intersex and being japanese. Anyways, we were on the topic of intersex people and my 'friend' started going "haha they're the ultimate femboy!!" and as a transfem intersex person this just?? hurt me a lot?? especially bc they KNOW im intersex and still decided to make that joke. I just felt some sort of betrayal?? And on second note, they're OBSESSED with japan. Like its all they talk about nonstop and they act as if they know everything (while in reality, they dont know a lot.), they call themselves a yandere, etc. and as a japanese person i just feel so. icky?? when they found out i was japanese they were like ECSTATIC. Like honestly im the only POC in my class and i just feel hurt that my own friend treats intersex ppl and japanese ppl like that, like im basically being fetishized for being both intersex and japanese by someone thats supposed to be my friend.

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Can perisex people please stop deciding for us intersex people what we are and how we should identify? No im not cis bc im intersex and agender, no im not automatically trans bc im intersex. I call myself cistrans but in reality i feel like we're not even that included into either terms? "cis means when your gender matches your assigned sex at birth!" "trans means when your gender doesnt match your assigned sex at birth!", like cisgender and transgender both feel very binary, maybe im just being silly... :(

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i feel like exclusionists/anti-goodfaith forget the point of the queer movement. The entire point is that you can be yourself no matter how weird or odd it may seem to others, if you're gonna say "you cant be a transman and a lesbian!!" then you clearly dont understand the queer movement. Queer identities are personal and different for everyone. Stop policing their queer experience simply bc you dont understand.

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amab intersex transmasc people exist

afab intersex transfem people exist

transmascfem people exist

transfemmasc people exist

deal with it

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can we normalise hc the most masculine male characters as transfem and the most feminine female characters as transmasc. I need to see more masc transfem hc and feminine transmasc hcs... bc why do ppl only see transmascs as transmascs if they present masc and why do ppl only see transfems as transfems if they present fem ://

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Why are people always surprised when an asian person can speak english?? Like guys we're not exotic animals or from an entirely different planet it's not weird for us to speak english.... it's rlly annoying and weird to constantly hear "omg your english is so good!!!!" like... okay thanks...?? Lowkey just feels like microaggression

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thank you!

being intersex is quite possibly the most isolating thing i’ve ever experienced. all my life, i felt alone. that no one in the world knew what was wrong with me. that i was a weird, abnormal freak.

i felt horrible. and so, i made sure that i would make people like me feel seen

every day, i see people sharing the terms i created, talking about how relatable they are. when i first saw someone talking about how seen they felt (i love you smilepilled!!!!) my heart was a damn opera, it was singing so much!

while things are pretty bad right now, i’m grateful to have provided a little bit of comfort to those who need it

with that being said…

i love you “broken women”

i love you “failed men”

i love you “deformed weirdos”

i love you “DSD males”

i love you “DSD females”

i love you “irl futa(nari)s”

i love you hermaphrodites (with attitude!)

i love you diseased freaks

i love you XTFs

i love you XTMs

i love you XTXs

i love you AMAB transmascs

i love you AFAB transfems

i love you trans intersex people

i love you ipsogender people

i love you ultergender people

i love you cistrans people

i love you intersex people <3

intersexuals; the best thing since sliced bread!

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Reminder that hermaphrodite ORIGINALLY referred to intersex human beings and is in fact never a neutral biological term. It's a slur. Stop saying it.

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People forget a lot that transmasc/transfem/transneu don' necessarily mean trans man/trans woman/trans nonbinary/gender neutral, n that honestly annoys me many, many times.

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wasian afab tfem coming from ur post about poc w contradictory identities :3 my race is actually part of the reason im afab transfem bc the way i fit in white vs asian gender roles complicates things for me o_O

Omg im also a wasian afab tfem(masc)!! And that’s so real i feel the same way :3 I’m glad to see others that feel like me!!

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It's always either "you're trans because you're intersex" or "you can't be trans because you're intersex", how about we let intersex people themselves decide what they identify as instead!! Good lord.

Intersex transgender culture is never being seen as trans enough, no matter which way you tried to transition

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As a japanese person i'm so tired of our names, terms, etc. being used by non japanese people. The only reason people use it bc they see it as quirky or aesthetic and its honestly draining to see. "I'm a yandere!!" without knowing the sexualisation of japanese women and demonisation of ppl with BPD behind it. The whole "i'm a yandere teehee!! >w<" just feeds into the whole "im a white person who wants a cute asian yandere gf!!". I'm so tired of people describing things as "kawaii!!", you can just say cute. There is literally no reason to randomly use japanese words to describe something. It doesn't make you cool or quirky or make you seem cute, it just makes you seem odd. Or whenever white people/non japanese people use japanese names and they just go "it's just a name!!", yeah to YOU it's just a name. For us asians our names often take years to be picked out and often also go through our bloodline. And not to mention that we still get oppressed for our names. Us japanese people use japanese names because it's apart of our culture, you use japanese names bc they seem cute or cool. There's a difference. You have no connection to our culture whatsoever, your only reason for using a name is because you find it pleasing to look at or find it cute. Which means you are infact, using it for aesthetics. When white people use something that's apart of POC culture it's soon as cool or awesome, but when the people who are actually apart of said culture use it, they're seen as odd and stupid. This applies to so many things. Like when white people call out racism they're seen as heroes and awesome, when POC call out racism we're told we're too sensitive and that it isn't a big deal. If you're not japanese and don't have BPD, don't use the term yandere. If you're not japanese, stop using random words apart of our language to seem cool. If you're not japanese do not use our names, they're not for you. And overall, just listen to japanese people. I'm tired of people constantly coming up with excuses as to why they should be allowed to use names, words, etc.

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Chat where are my POC lesboys, my POC mspec lesbians, my POC afab/amab transfem/transmascs, my POC transfemmasc, etc. Ofc i love and support all my white lesboys/mspec lesbians, etc. too but i feel like often the good faith and lgbtq community overall is rlly focused on the white side. I have yet to find a POC lesboy in the wild...