#I'm so tired and i should go to sleep

[parkersloths]

A bit late but oh well, it's still the 21st somewhere and this is more of a bday week thing anyway ;u;

I actually didn't have time to draw a new pic cause I've been super busy but I still wanted to do something so here's an edited/more finished version of the first Käärijä pic I tried drawing then left as a WIP, with a little bday tiara of course! Seriously though, I hope he had the best day, his music and general silliness have brought me a lot of joy and smiles and other nice vibes so yeah I just really appreciate this weird little green guy ;u;

[ranos-posts]

HE'S THE KING OF SKELETONS !!!

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I'm bored like always...

[iknowwhereyousleepatnight]

dnkinktober day 17: brat (taming)

….except i cannot use a normal color palate for the life of me

[darcyolsson]

goodnight tumblr if you see me online after this you should send someone to whack me over the head with a cartoonishly large hammer

[disdaidal]

I wanna thank my irl friends who follow me here and also my beloved mutuals as well as followers who still send me kind messages and try to interact with me and my stuff even if I'm bad at doing it myself.

Honestly, things haven't been that great with me lately, so... it means a lot to me. Honestly. <3

[mattodore]

i leave you with these 🫂

[cult-of-the-eye]

WEIRD INTROSPECTION HOURS!!

[i-am-totally-not-a-lizard]

Wow

[mountinez]

Charles arriving at the paddock as the perfect himbo he is ✨

[salsflore]

everyday i wake up and have to start a new boss challenge called dealing with my mother

[shinakazami1]

🙏😭 Are there.... Any other Europeans or Polish folks in the TSP or TBG communities,,, or just people from close time zones,,

why are all whiteboards and community events happening while I'm ASLEEP this is hate crime/silly

[sunfoxfic]

I guess what irks me about a lot of the conversation around canon Marichat is how many people seem to think that this was the Only Way. It never could have gone any other way, it had to be through Marichat. And I have such split feelings on that, because on one hand, yes, this is the direction the narrative went, and the narrative is the definitive voice on what it is. There are indisputable facts about canon, and here are the facts: Marichat confessed mutual feelings toward one another before any other side of the love square.

But on the other hand, it's not like these characters can only have a healthy relationship if they're using those particular costumes, which is how a lot of people treat it, and have treated it for years. Fun drinking game: take a shot every time someone called Ladrien "toxic" or "codependent" or "unhealthy" or "idolizing" or any other bogus word used to justify shitting on that side of the love square.

And it's really, really difficult to see so many people using this rhetoric, but more than that, there's so many things that I've associated with that rhetoric and now those things are basically canon and it's just. Hard. Because so much of my dash is justifiably filled with shit that used to almost exclusively be red flags for "this person probably is unnecessarily salty toward Ladrien."

I don't know. I'm sad. And I have complicated feelings toward Marichat, and I really did love Elation but at the same time I'm finding it difficult to retrain my brain not to respond harshly to the things that everyone is saying.

[itslookingback]

:/

[white-bow-tie]

Hooray they're announcing new transphobic law tomorrow

Can't wait for another nail in the coffin for so many people

[unreadpoppy]

Saw a video and it got me in a mood so i'm making this post.

I don't think people who have never been fat knows how fucking hard it is to find clothing for bigger bodies.

The first issue is finding stuff in your actual size. Because time after time after time and time again I've gone to a store and they only had small and medium sizes. Not even large. And this was not for a few clothes, no. It was for MOST clothes that I found interesting. And then the ones that were marked as large were simply not big enough.

And I know that the reason for that is that brands simply won't make clothes for fat people. It's that because it surely isn't because the large size is selling out fast. They just don't do it. And some people have the nerve to say 'well brands are not obligated to make sizes for everyone' yeah sure, but also, I can't walk naked on the street can I?

Like I don't get it. 'oh but we want our clothes to fit a especific body' so fucking make clothes that are supposed to fit bigger bodies. Doesn't have a to be a whole ass collection.

And then we get on the second problem which is making clothes for plus size people that are ugly as hell. It's always the same stuff: ugly florals, animal print that belongs in another decade, cold shoulders, that weird extra fabric at the end of a shirt to hide the belly, or just black/muted colors.

Like fun fact. If you have big boobs, the hardest thing in the world is trying to find a bra that comes in a color that isn't white, black or beige. Because trust me, I've spent 3 hours walking in the shopping mall and I couldn't find anything that fit my breasts that was like pink (and in that situation I needed a pink bra for a play).

It feels like most clothes made for plus sized people are designed with like 50+ year old white women in mind, and not even that demographic of people are wearing those clothes (my mom is a plus sized 50+ year old white woman and often talks about how ugly some clothes made for people her size are).

It's hard trying to develop your own sense of style when none of the clothes around you are in your size, and when they do, they are just not good looking to you.

But you wanna know what's the down right worst part? Do you know what fucking brand has clothes that look good and are amde for bigger bodies?

The goddamn cancer on this earth that is Shein.

I fucking hate shein. Fast fashion is killin the fashion industry, they literally have people working as slaves and many influecers buy shein clothes by the bulk only to then throw it in the trash. Shein is awful.

But. Unfortunetly, shein is the only place that I found that had clothes that fit me and looked good. I don't like that. I avoided buying from shein for the longest time ever, but jesus christ, when you can't find clothes anywhere else you get desperate.

I tried looking for other places. I tried looking at my local clothing stores and everything was too small for me. I tried looking at online small bussinesses but they either didn't make my size, or it was sold out, or the prices were very high. Tried looking at thrift stores, also didn't find my size.

I try not to buy too much from shein or to spend long periods of time in between buying, because again, I feel bad about buying there. I don't want to buy from there.

Clothing brands/stores gotta do better. And I don't think that's asking for too much.