#Premature Ejaculation Example

[angelwings-crossbowstrings]

I’m a Screamer, Baby, Make Me a Mute

Pairing: Daryl Dixon x Fem!Reader

Setting: Quarry era

Warnings: Poorly written smut, degradation, premature ejaculation, borderline stalking

Summary: Daryl has never been with anyone sexually, his only examples having been Merle and pornography. When he decides he’s out of time due to the end of the world, he sets his eyes on you. He’ll do whatever it takes to have you.

A/N: I’m a little more proud of this than I should be. It was really out of my comfort zone but I really love how it turned out. Written for @dilfsandmartinis

gif by @daryl-dixon-daydreams

He had waited and watched and watched and waited. You, traipsing around in those cut off shorts that ended perfectly over the contour of your ass. And that tight tank top that hugged your figure, smoothing over every curve. He could almost conjure the perfect image of your bare breasts going off of how the top fit you alone. 

You had gone down to the water to wash up. He knew that because he had been watching you. He knew your routine from the moment you crawled out of your tent until you disappeared back into it. 

He knew he couldn’t wait any longer to have you. He had done everything that Merle would do when he was chasing a woman he’d eventually take to bed. He would cat call as you walked by, swearing that after you glared at him, you’d sway your hips a little more prominently as you walked away. 

He’d casually lean against the nearest tree while you helped gather wood for the fire, humming appreciatively and licking his lips when you’d acknowledge him. “Wouldn’t be a man if I didn’t take notice of a nice piece’a ass.” You would usually call him a pig and throw a stick at him. “Feisty. I like that.” He’d adjust himself through his pants right in front of you. 

The truth was, he had no idea what he was doing. He’d never been with a woman before, but knew the basics thanks to his brother’s tendency to indulge in female company nearly on a nightly basis. Sometimes more. Daryl would watch through the cracked door, studying how Merle would interact with his partner of choice; what he would say, how he would touch her. Didn’t seem like much fun for the woman but his brother didn’t seem interested in anything other than getting his dick wet. 

Now, Daryl wasn’t trying to be a creep. He just wanted to be ready. The porn Merle would watch was informative enough about what goes where but it seemed like more of a performance than anything. He needed something a little more personal to go off of and Merle was the perfect specimen to study. 

Daryl had been willing to wait, biding his time for the opportunity to present itself; preferably when his brother wasn’t around to critique the skills he’d picked up. Then the world ended. Realizing death could decide to punch his card so easily was a great motivator. Dying a virgin wasn’t an option. 

So he followed you. He’d never take you against your will. Even Merle’s morality extended that far. But he’d sure make it hard for you to say no. 

He crossed his arms over his chest and leaned a shoulder against a tree, skillfully hiding the fact that his heart was pounding a tattoo into his ribs. You were getting things ready to clean yourself up; laying out your fresh clothes and a towel, pulling the hair tie from your ponytail. He was getting hard just from the anticipation alone. 

When you popped open the button of your shorts, you decided to look around and make sure no one had wandered down. Daryl wasn’t even trying to hide. Merle never would. When your gaze located him, your eyes widened and then narrowed. You didn’t move to rid yourself of the shorts. 

“Well, don’t let me stop ya. Was enjoyin’ the show.”

“God, you’re disgusting.” You snapped, still eyeing him. “Okay, you can leave now.” He sauntered down to the water’s edge a few feet away from you.

“Why the hell would I do somethin’ stupid like that?” He drawled, blue eyes roaming up and down your body. He was fighting hard to keep himself still, to not shift from foot to foot— an action that helped ground him when he was especially anxious. Merle would never. “Y’can go ahead with whatcha was doin’.”

“With you gawking at me? I don’t think so, Dixon. Y’know, there are ways to treat a lady that work a lot better than being a disgusting pervert.”

He chewed on the inside of his cheek, mulling over your words. He could try your way, but he’d never seen Merle gravel for pussy. And he always got it in the end. “Don’t see no ladies ‘round here.”

“Oh, really? Yeah, not interested.” You started to gather your things, much to Daryl’s chagrin. “I’ll bathe some other time. Maybe bring one or two of the other women with me.”

“Hell yeah. That’s what m’talkin’ ‘bout. I can handle a couple’a ya. Maybe even three.” He reached down to palm himself through his jeans. He was almost achingly hard but the strained fabric kept it from showing too much. 

“Oh my god, I think I’m gonna throw up.” You shoved past him and stomped back toward camp. 

Once you were out of sight, his shoulders slumped. A swing and a miss. He knew his brother though. Merle wouldn’t stop there. He’d pursue and persuade. 

And that’s exactly what Daryl planned to do. 

He followed you again the next afternoon when it was your turn to look for berries or mushrooms that were edible. His mouth watered each time you’d bend over to inspect something before crouching to pluck it from the ground and add it to your bucket. 

“Shouldn’t be out here all by yourself.” He stated casually, strutting up behind you. He had to restrain himself from making a grab at your ass. “Ain’t safe.”

“Yeah, from lechers like you.” You retorted, not even turning around. 

The hunter tilted his head, studying your backside, round and plump. Just right for gripping while you rode his cock. Your thighs were smooth with that small gap in between. He desperately wanted his face buried between them, letting you squeeze his head while he tasted you. His cock was already responding to the debauchery running rampant in his head. He’d never seen Merle go down on someone but men seemed to enjoy it in the videos he’d watch. 

“You just gonna stand there and stare at my ass all day? Or are you gonna go and shoot something for supper tonight?” You queried in a flat tone. 

“Darlin’, there’s no way m’movin’ when you’re shakin’ your ass in front’a me like that. Pract’ly beggin’ me to give ya what a lil’ slut like you wants.” 

The bucket sat abandoned on the forest floor. You straightened and turned, giving him a look he couldn’t quite read. “Is that what you think of me? That I’d just drop everything and jump on your dick?”

“S’what I know.” The confidence in his answer was nearly betrayed by a tremble in his frame as you stalked closer. 

“Think you’re man enough for me, Daryl?” You stressed his name, stopping yourself right in front of him. He’d never heard his first name roll off that tongue and through the partition of those pouty lips. “Think you can give it to me hard and fast until I’m screaming?”

“Fuck yeah.” He answered too quickly. His voice had dropped an octave; gravelly and breathy. His blue eyes watched you move and before he could register what was happening, your hand was cupping his erection over his pants. 

“I don’t usually let a man anywhere near that would talk to me like you do.” You smiled and gave his clothed cock a generous squeeze. “There’s something about you, though. I can’t put my”— you squeezed again—“finger on it.”

Daryl closed his eyes for a moment and took a deep breath. “Fuckin’ tease.” He managed. Your hand retracted and he longed for the feel of it to return. Eyes opening, you had removed your shirt; no bra left your breasts exposed to his gaze. He gulped, his confident expression wavering in the slightest way. 

“Come on, Dixon. You’ve been talking a big game. Let’s see how good you really are.” You purred, palming him over his pants yet again. 

Eyes on your chest, he felt a sensation stirring; a strong tingle at the base of his spine that branched out swiftly to map through his veins and straight to his cock. He managed to stifle the sound but had to slap a hand against a nearby tree to stay on his feet as pleasure pulsed through him, his warm spend emptying into his underwear in suffocated ropes. 

He didn’t even wait to bask in the after effects of such an orgasm, snatching your wrist to pull your palm away from his oversensitive cock. “Maybe next time.” He growled, hoping that he had played off what had just happened well enough that you would continue to be curious. 

As it was, he was mortified. Merle would laugh at him tirelessly and crack every joke in his arsenal with Daryl being the punchline. His brother could never find out about this. Returning to the tent, he gave Merle a middle finger when the elder Dixon started complaining about how the others in the camp didn’t appreciate him. Daryl was in no mood. 

His face was burning with embarrassment while his underwear remained against his skin. He rid himself of the ruined article and hid it under his bedroll. He’d burn it later when he was sure his brother was sleeping. Merle could not find out. The camp couldn’t either. 

The shame was enough without involving others. 

Daryl left you alone for a couple of days, in hopes of maintaining that mentioned curiosity. Thankfully, it appeared no one knew anything about his plight a couple days earlier. He chose to believe that meant you didn’t either. He waited until dusk, when you would head down to the water’s edge. Just enough light left for it to be safe, just enough shadow to hide from any prying eyes. 

He found you just as he had days before, this time choosing to go down to where you stood instead of hanging back by the trees. 

You stood straighter and looked toward the sky. “God, why do you hate me? What is it, Dixon?”

“Hang on, let a man enjoy the view for a minute.” 

“The view would have been a lot better the other day if you hadn’t decided to leave me standing there, topless!” You hissed in a whisper, as if anyone else was listening.

“Calm down, woman. Just makin’ sure was me ya wanted. Lil’ whore like ya could’a been ready to jump on any dick.” He stepped forward and let his hands hover over your hips, moving his gaze up to yours with a questioning brow arched. 

“Well?” You stared at him expectantly. “Touch me, goddamnit!” You didn’t wait and pulled him forward, crashing your mouth against his. It took all he had not to moan against your lips. His first kiss and with a beauty like you. He realized in that moment that he wanted to worship you, cater to your every desire. He wanted you to know how much and how long he had wanted you. 

But that wasn’t what you what attracted you to him. You wanted brash and rough and insulting. You wanted Merle in Daryl packaging. 

So that’s what he would give you. 

Roughly pulling you away, he spun you to press your back flush against his chest. “Easy does it.” He growled against your ear, nipping at the lobe. You let out a sigh and your head dropped back against his shoulder. “Desperate lil’ whore. Can’t wait for that cock, can ya?”

With a smirk he couldn’t see, you pushed your ass back against his groin, making his dick twitch. “Seems like your cock can’t wait for this pussy.” 

Daryl bit back a groan, his hands coming up to grope your breasts hard enough to be painful. That familiar feeling was back again, a heat pooling in his belly with electric jolts stirring at the base of his spine. He was biting his bottom lip so hard that his mouth soon filled with the metallic taste of blood. Your petite hand wrapped around his wrist and guided it into the front of your shorts. The second he felt that wet heat through the fabric of your panties, he was gone. 

He had enough cognitive function to yank his hand free and push you forward, palms on your shoulders shaking as the orgasm tore through him. He was incredibly thankful that there wasn’t enough light for you to see what promised to be a wet patch on the front of his pants. 

“Too fuckin’ eager for me t’night.” He ground out, spinning on a heel to start stomping away from you. “Let’s see how long a lil’ slut like ya can manage ‘fore any cock in this camp’ll do.” He didn’t turn to see your face. He couldn’t, lest you see the mortified embarrassment coloring his own expression. 

Another failed attempt. Another pair of underwear to burn. 

It didn’t take long for you to turn to other means of scratching that itch. He sat, cleaning his bolts, watching you flirt shamelessly with his brother. Bending over in front of the man and practically wiggling your ass in invitation. Of course, Merle responded. The elder Dixon gave your backside a firm slap. To your credit, you were great at feigning offense. 

You stormed away from their camp only to return sometime later, sitting yourself so close to his brother that your thigh was rubbing against Merle’s hip. You leaned in while the man talked about nothing in particular. Some racist garbage that even Daryl wouldn’t entertain. The second your fingers reached for Merle’s jaw, Daryl stood straight up from his perch. 

“Y/N!” He barked, fighting off a smirk when you flinched and turned those big eyes toward him. “Need to talk to ya.” He was already heading into the trees, his sharp hunter senses picking up your steps behind him. He’d show you that he could be just as appealing as Merle. He’d be better. 

When he felt the two of you were far enough from camp and saw no signs that his brother had followed, he rounded on you to shove you roughly against the nearest tree. “Was right, weren’t I? Need that lil’ cunt filled so bad that ya’d let any man take ya.”

You huffed in obvious annoyance. “No. I’m just trying to make you jealous enough to actually fuck me.”

Daryl gulped. He knew this was his last chance. You’d get tired of games and he was tired of playing them too. He released you and stepped back. “Take off your clothes. And hurry it up ‘fore I change my mind.” He didn’t touch you while you undressed, your lust-blown eyes never leaving him. He couldn’t touch you. If he did, it would be a repeat performance of the last two encounters. He scrambled at undoing his belt, separating the two ends so he could free his already painfully hard cock. “Better be wet cause I ain’t in the mood to waste time gettin’ ya there.”

He didn’t, either. The moment you were bare, he grabbed the back of your thighs and lifted you. Your ankles locked over his ass while he guided himself to your entrance. Thank god, he found you to be slick. He drove into you with a moan, gritting his teeth to keep from cumming right on the spot. “Fuckin’ slut.” Merle was never tender or accommodating, slamming into his prize the moment her legs opened to him. Dary did the same, hard thrusts that had the sound of skin slapping echoing through the trees. He was already about to burst. “Say it. Say what a slut ya are.”

“I’m a slut. I’m a fucking whore! Fuck, Dixon!” Your fingers grasped for his neck, his shoulders. Against everything he knew, he wanted to bring you to your high. He’d seen how it could be done in those pornos. But there wasn’t time. 

With a choked off moan, he pulled himself from you, ropes of cum dousing your ass and the tree behind you. He let himself feel it, reveling in the euphoria that slammed into him in waves so hard that he thought he might black out. 

As he drifted back down, he quickly dropped your legs and stepped back to tuck himself back into his jeans. Shame colored his cheeks. He thought he might throw up. You’d likely tell everyone what a lousy fuck he was, lasting all of two minutes. He was no longer a virgin but he couldn’t celebrate it. “Get outta here.” He hissed. 

You smirked at him. “Not bad for your first time.” You remained naked, leaned back against the tree with your legs apart to give him quite the view. “We can try again if you want and I can show you how to really fuck a woman.”

He stood there, hands on his belt though his fingers felt suddenly inept. “Ya knew?” Yep, he was definitely going to throw up. 

“Of course I did.” You chuckled. Your hands began to roam over your body. Watching you already had his cock stirring back to life, half hard and approaching aching. “You can still call me a slut. It’s hot.” You sauntered toward him, smacking his hands away from his belt. 

Daryl watched you pop the button of his jeans open once again and drag down the zipper. “Fuck.” He groaned when your hand wrapped around him, stroking him to fully hard. “Ya really are a fuckin’ slut.”

“I can be.” You purred, licking a stripe from his collar bone to his jaw. He shivered but managed to scoff and turn his head, though his eyes slid back over to stare at your bare breasts. “And this slut is gonna give you a lesson you’ll never forget.”

[princehendir]

Yet another funny example of "people who like men absolutely do not like the things about men that cishet guys think they do" is how every time I post about Alistair Theirin prematurely ejaculating and then crying about it or whatever my activity feed is immediately filled with some of the most wretched horny in tags behavior you've ever seen

[mistyresolve]

| Wayward Behaviour - Simon “Ghost” Riley x F!Reader

Word Count - 1.7 k

Summary - Every time Simon comes back home to you after a mission, the two of you spend the first couple of hours catching up for the lost time. Here is an example of the first hour. 

Tags/Warnings - 18+ ONLY, Handjob, Road head, Premature ejaculation, Begging (yes, it's Simon), Mentions of edging     

A/N - here is something short and sweet in celebration of me passing my pharm final the bane of my existence, and there may or may not have a brief homage to “Talking to the Void”

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It was dark out by the time his charter landed, and the street lights had already turned on. His profile became outlined by those same lights in swells as his truck passed underneath them. Going a little faster than the limit because he was lost in the ecstasy that your touch always brought him. His mind went momentarily blank and looked down at you, his brown eyes curious. He had already changed into his civics, blue jeans, a black sweater, a canvas bomber jacket and that same old ball cap. You once offered to buy him a new cap so you could throw this one out and he simply said, “This one is lucky.”. You never would have taken someone like him to be so superstitious, but he was.  

“Eyes on the road, Riley, “ it was a sickly sweet command. Simon never normally liked to follow the orders of someone who wasn’t his superior, but when they came from your lips he didn’t dare disobey. Not when your hands were drawing lines up and down his thigh. Your pace was unhurried and alluring. With promises of more. 

“They are,” he muttered quietly, his throat tightening as your hand travelled a little more medial. He motivated the gesture by spreading his legs further apart, allowing you better access.       

Simon knew very well that when he came home from particularly long missions he was almost always welcomed with tantalizing ensembles or sensual promises. The sex was sometimes better when the missions stretched over weeks and there was minimal contact. Every moment with you was made all the more exhilarating and frenzied. The heat between you two the moment you got any semblance of privacy burned into his very soul. A burn he wished left corporeal marks in their wake, all so he could return to them later and reminisce. When he was on missions and he had the rare moment alone he would palm himself just for some relief. He never came but it was better than needing to constantly adjust his pants when the mere thought of you made him hard. He’s also yet to decide whether the edging was torture or if it made being you all the better. This time, he was gone for a total of 16 days. 16 days where he went without your touch and he was only able to make one phone call this time. 

One thing he did know was that nothing he did you himself held a torch to what you made him feel. He swore you knew his body even better than he did. 

When you picked him up from the airport and immediately hopped over the center console so he would be behind the wheel, he knew what your plans were. He wasn’t going to be the fool to stop you, not when your hand reached over to his thigh. Between the growing hardness between his legs. 

Simon rolled his hips into the palm of your hand, eliciting a groan at the touch. A pained expression flashed across his bare face, “Bloody ‘ell, baby.”

That seemingly harmless reaction was more than enough to let you know that he wouldn’t be lasting long. He was already on the edge. You’d still try to find a way to draw it out as much as you could though. “Do you want me to stop?” you questioned, pulling your hand away. 

He caught you by the wrist, his head whipping from the road to you and back to the road, his eyes feverish, “I’ll pull over right here.”   

“No need,” you smiled up at him, your tongue darting out to wet your lips, “As you were.”

He let out a deep, breathy laugh, “Yes ma’am,” and he guided your hand back to his erection. You traced the outline of it, adding a little more pressure around the head before flattening your palm over him and making long, leisurely strokes. 

His lips parted as a sigh escaped his chest. The smoke of his tattoo, came to life as the muscle in his arm flexed as his hand tightened around the steering wheel. His other hand worked to undo his belt and jeans, his fingers were nimble and calculated. You bit down on your lip as you watched, knowing exactly how it felt when those same long fingers were inside you. How he would curl them at just the right moment, each and every stroke. His thumb would be rubbing circles into your sensitive clit. 

“Touch me,” he was practically begging as he pulled his hard cock free from his jeans, and began jerking himself, “Please.”

It was rare to hear him out of control, and even rarer to hear him beg. It was a real delight when you’d get him to this point. The last time he was like this he was on his knees before you, kissing up the length of your thigh till he met your center and he begged for you to let him taste you. He licked and sucked and kissed your pussy until you were nothing but a shaking whimpering mess. 

Without hesitation, you obliged him. You spit into your hand before reaching for him again, wrapping around his base and squeezing. You stroked up and down. Up and down. His hips lazily followed the rhythm. When your thumb brushed over the head and he had to lean his head back against the seat to keep from driving the both of you into the ditch. His eyes were on the road, yes, but they were glassy, unfocused. Luckily, since it was already so late the highway was light on traffic. 

You unlocked your seatbelt and the sound snapped him out of whatever trance he was in. He glanced over with a cocky smile, “Wanting more?” He was so conceited. You liked it, but you also wanted to humble him. With your knees on your seat, you leaned yourself over the center console and to his side. You spit down onto him, a string of saliva connecting you two. It slid down the side of his shaft, mixing with the pre-cum that had already started to drip down. 

“Okay,” his voice was tight like he was trying to prepare himself. 

“You’re not going to last very long are you, Simon?” you flattened your tongue and licked a stripe up his length. 

“No,” he admitted, “No, I’m not.”   

You grinned to yourself before taking him fully into your mouth. You could feel him shudder beneath you, fighting back the urge to buck further into your throat. What you couldn’t fit into your mouth you grasped with a free hand, twisting a little every time you pulled back. It evoked a combination of nervous laughter and moans from the man. Something that seemed so at odds with his exterior and usual aloof personality but somehow it suited him. 

You hollowed out your cheeks, your tongue circling around the head, sliding along the slit. You felt one of his hands delve into your hair, balling up a fist full. It wasn’t to push you down or pull you off him but to support himself. Ground himself so he didn’t float out the window and into the night sky beyond. 

“I gotta—” he choked out, and you heard him as he flicked on the turn signal, missing the thing entirely the first time in his frantic state. The force of him turning off the highway was almost enough to throw you into the dashboard. You pulled back, barely catching yourself from falling onto the floor. 

“Jesus, Simon,” you snapped, shooting a glare in his direction. 

“Don’t stop,” he panted, “Please, don’t stop.”     

With his hand still tangled in your hair, you fell back down into him. A bubble of excitement rises in your throat at the sound of his desperation. Wet, gagging sounds echoed through the small enclosed space, and each time he hit the back of your throat it tightened catching him on his withdrawal. You braced your hand on the open space between his legs, your other hand reaching down to press two fingers to your clit through your pants, needing any sort of relief. You rolled your hips side to side, giving him a little show of your ass. 

He squeezed his eyes shut, as he felt his ending. It was coming in hot and fast, and he panted at the pressure of it. He usually prided himself on his stamina and control, but there was nothing he could do to slow it. Nothing he wanted to do. 

“Atta girl, just like that,” he pulled your hair away from your face. It was for two reasons, the first being that you didn’t have the mind to put up and out of your face before going down on him, and the second was so he could see his cock disappear and reappear. The sight was all it took to push him over the edge. The vein beneath his cock throbbed and pulsated against your tongue as he came. His hot seed coated the back of your throat, some of it escaped and dribbled down his base. You swallowed around him, milking him, before finally seating back on your knees. You opened your mouth to him, showing him that you swallowed. A mix of saliva and cum hung from your chin, a lewd presentation of what you just did to him. He reached out and wiped it away for you, a wicked look in his eyes. 

“I might have to go on missions more often,” he half-joked as he reached into the glove compartment and handed you a tissue, keeping another to help clean himself up. 

“Or just never leave,” you countered, using the tissue you cleaned what you could. You looked out the window. He had actually pulled off onto a gravel side road, he almost didn’t make it too. When you looked back at him he had already straightened himself, save the still unbuckled belt. His expression was unreadable. 

“We better hurry home before I ask you to fuck me right here,” you feigned naïveté as you back down onto your seat. All you managed to do was whet his appetite for you because when he pulled into the driveway of the house you weren’t sure you were going to make it through the front door. He wrapped his arms around your waist, ducking down to attach his mouth to your neck as you try to unlock the door. His hands snaked south until they disappeared underneath the front of your pants, finding nothing but slick heat.  

“You’re insatiable,” you gasped, leaning your head back into his shoulder, fumbling to open the door. 

“Wait until we get inside,” he challenged.     

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A/N - im going to try and write a couple of short fics to post for the month of May bc i won’t have time to write, but if anyone has any ideas on what i should write lemme know. 

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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS 111

"everything can be transcended" ✨Sun Scorpio in 5th house: is very dramatic, intense, all or nothing, usually when they where kids they likes to listen metal or very intense music like "gojira" or emo like "placebo", high libido, they love making dark and mysterious art like movie scores, dramatic acting, techno, art that involves chaos, eroticism or s*xuality too. ✨Chiron in our natal chart can be treated a lot and that's when it becomes a healer, but if it's not treated it's just pain. ✨Sun scorpio in Aries degrees(1, 13, 25):  not the mysterious type of scorpio, but rather raw, blunt, and feisty (sometimes quite impatient). ✨Sun square NN: Problems with ego and soul, It is recommended to do spiritual practices here that allow to tame (dominate/transcend) the ego, because the ego here can play a rather hindering role in the evolution of the individual because doesn't want to disappear: fear of letting go, attachment, immature rebelliousness. ✨Pluto conjunct Chiron generation(s): have problems with real self love, because they try to love themselves first without knowing themselves, which generates quite arrogant, immature, lack of integrity and demanding people/personalities (crystal generation). ✨Mars square Moon: explosive anger(like bakugo's type), very fiery, hot, extremely passionate, mood swings, they have to learn to channel that strong energy by doing something physical like running, yoga, exercise, swimming, martial arts, and at the same time connect them with their emotions otherwise that energy can go to extremes such as violence, anguish or overindulgence. ✨Mars opposite Part of Fortune: Gives Mars in Aries type of behavior. +18 ✨Mars aspecting Saturn: Here I am going to share something intimate and an easter egg(for men): I know that this position could indicate small d*ck, but there are so many natural ways/exercises to make it grow bigger that if you do them in a saturnian way (this means with discipline, effort, persistence and persevering) you will be "rewarded" For example in my case(mars trine saturn): A few years ago I had it 5 inches and now I have it almost 8 inches. So everything is possible. ✨Mars in Taurus or Taurus degrees(2, 14, 26): could suffer from premature ejaculation(P.E). They might overload any of their 5 senses during s*x just to increase s*nsual pl*asure... Since 5 senses here are so strong, they have to learn to manage/channel their s*xual energy throughout their whole body, mind and spirit so that the energy is not only concentrated in the g*nital area, which is what causes premature ej*culation. If they do this, they can become very good in bed and even last a long time satisfying each of the 5 senses of their partner and of him at the same time in the encounter. ✨Mars in Aries or Aries degrees(1, 13, 25): Something similar happens with Mars in Taurus but instead here the problem is quickness and selfishness, which could cause s*x to be short and fast, although they are very hot and intense so here the time does not matter but the intensity of the encounter is what satisfies them. Here they are like the partner who likes rough s*x, quickies and if they set their minds to it, they can last a long time since they have a lot of energy/stamina. ✨Mars in leo but in cancer degrees(4, 16, 28): have mommy issues, is very k*nky, childish, they are quite comfortable to be around since they have a dominating aura but in a very maternal way, its like very protective energy, they could be very lazy, they have a lot of drive but they will start only if they feel like it(cancer influence), much of his drive goes to things that give him comfort and nurture him. ✨I have seen that much of what our mars and venus desire s*xually it is very superficial since they make up our personality and ego. And if you want to see what it is that you s*xually desire most deeply, look at your 8th house, even if it is empty, that can say a lot too. Since the 8th house represents our hidden side, it also represents our intimacy at soul level (that's the deep side of scorpio) like all water houses. So in the periods of life where you follow the s*xual desires of your Mars and Venus and you feel empty, remember that they will only fill your ego/persona which always leaves a feeling of emptiness inside that unconsciously makes you go for more, because the ego can never be filled. If you really want to have your s*xual life on another level, in a higher vibration, more spiritual, more transcendental, more healing, more nutritious and full, look at your water houses (4th house, 8th house, and 12th house) or where you have Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces in your chart since s*xuality(sacral chakra) is the water element of our human bodies.

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• all major spoilers for each series will be tagged!!! (example: #one piece spoilers, #jjk spoilers, etc)

kinks:

tickling // gentle femdom // bondage // hands // chase & capture // collars // marking // breeding // fingering // oral // possessiveness // mmf

current fandom(s):

one piece!!!, solo leveling, love and deepspace, jujutsu kaisen, dragon ball

❌ DNI ❌

• minors

• biphobes

• zionists (free palestine 🍉)

• if you're weird about niche kinks

Love and Deepspace

No Escape - sylus x reader

cw: nsfw!! female reader, predator/prey, chase/capture, mild primal, tickling, biting, ass spanking & pussy spanking, getting fucked from behind, penetration (penis in vagina), unprotected sex, creampie, aftercare (hinted at end). this one gets kind of intense & has a little bit of cnc vibes, read at your own risk!

Little Prey - sylus x reader

cw: nsfw!! lee!reader, female reader, tickle kink, chase/capture, pinning, pussy spanking, vaginal fingering, post orgasm tickling

Stroke Game - zayne x reader, xavier x reader, rafayel x reader

cw: nsfw!! penetration (penis in vagina), premature ejaculation, raw dogging/unprotected sex, creampies, zayne and xavier on top/rafayel on bottom

Tipsy Invitation - rafayel x reader

cw: nsfw!! gentle femdom, bondage, oral sex/blowjobs, mild sensation play/tickling

How they care for their mentally ill partner - zayne x reader, xavier x reader, rafayal x reader

cw: discussion of mental illness and symptoms, gender neutral reader, fluff

In the Library - zayne x reader

cw: nsfw!! female reader, public sex in library (discreet), penetration (vaginal fingering), handjob, blowjob

Gentle!dom Xavier - xavier x reader

cw: nsfw!! soft and gentle dom!xavier, gender neutral reader, praise, edging, forced orgasms, talking you through an orgasm, voice kink

One Piece

So Weak - zoro x reader

cw: tickling, fluff, gender neutral reader

The Strawhats tickling you - strawhat pirates x reader

cw: gn reader, tickling, fluff

Jealous - zoro x reader

cw: nsfw!! jealous!zoro, female reader, rough sex, no foreplay, penetration (penis in vagina), biting/marking, mild choking, creampie, fingering, g-spot stimulation, slight possessiveness, no use of (y/n), roronoa zoro is emotionally constipated

The Strawhat pirates when they realize they love you - strawhats x reader

summary: gender neutral reader. something wholesome for a change. this can be interpreted as platonic, romantic, or whatever other kind of relationship you want!

Being a Brat to Sir Crocodile - sir crocodile x reader

cw: nsfw!! female reader, bratting, brat taming, spanking, rough sex, penetration (penis in vagina) unprotected sex, creampie, vaginal fingering, G-spot stimulation, slight degradation (use of the term "slut"), no use of y/n

Zoro and Sanji finding out you have a voice kink - zoro x reader, sanji x reader

cw: nsfw!! female reader, voice kink, vaginal fingering, penetration (penis in vegina), choking, doggy style

Just for the Night - zoro x reader

cw: nsfw!! female reader, lots of sexual tension and buildup, casual sex/hookup, premature ejaculation, oral sex (vaginal), blowjobs, penetration (brief vaginal fingering & penis in vagina), spanking, biting, light breast play/nipple sucking, cumming in mouth, missionary and doggy style, creampie, unprotected sex, alcohol consumption, no use of (y/n)

Jujutsu Kaisen

Behind the Blindfold - gojo x reader

pt. 1 || pt. 2 || pt. 3 || pt. 4 || pt. 5

cw: tickle kink, female reader, vaginal fingering, oral sex, hand kink, size kink, enemies to lovers (kind of), dubcon, light humiliation with verbal teasing, squirting, penetration (penis-in-vagina), blowjobs, creampies, body worship & praise, edging, switching, big dick, aftercare/post-sex cuddling

Phone Sex - toji x reader, toji & gojo x reader

pt. 1 || pt. 2

cw: female reader, penetration (penis-in-vagina), unprotected sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, doggy style, possessiveness, jealousy, vaginal fingering, creampies, dirty talk, size kink, mild dub con, mmf threesome

Suguru's Hands - suguru geto x reader

cw: female reader, hand kink, vaginal fingering, finger sucking, penetration (fingers in vagina), g spot stimulation, multiple orgasms, squirting, tasting your own cum

Double Teamed - satoru gojo x suguru geto x reader

cw: female reader, mmf threesome, jealousy/competitiveness, blowjob & swallowing, fingering, squirting, licking/tasting cum, praise, penetration (penis-in-vagina), big dicks

Boyfriend!Sukuna - sukuna x reader

cw: female reader, four armed Sukuna, kidnapping/stockholm syndrome, inc, rough sex, penetration (penis-in-vagina), giant cock, primal, choking, fingering, hand kink (finger sucking), possessiveness, toxic dynamic, ownership/controlling, marking, squirting, aftercare

Stalker!Gojo - gojo x reader

cw: stalking, peeping tom, voyeurism, obsession, fear play

Sub!Nanami - nanami x reader

cw: female reader x nanami, gentle femdom, male submission, marking, collar & leash, light pet play, objectification, edging, forced oral, subspace, possessiveness

JJK men getting tickled - gojo x reader, suguru x reader, choso x reader, nanami x reader, toji x reader, sukuna x reader

cw: gn reader, tickling, fluff

JJK men tickling you - gojo x reader, suguru x reader, choso x reader, nanami x reader, toji x reader, sukuna x reader

cw: gn reader, tickling, fluff

[just-shower-thoughts]

Premature ejaculation is an example where an evolutionary advantage becomes an undesired trait

[ultfan]

anonymous sent in the best ask i've ever received: When it comes to sex, does his luck/bad luck come into factor at times?

anon thank you so much for making me think about this because it isn't smthn i've considered much — but it definitely would come into play at times. my god. it effects every part of his life, sex should 100% be included. i doubt it happens every time, komaeda's luck isn't something that is always attacking/blessing him constantly. it has it's major highs and major lows. i honestly think the reason komaeda had so many things go his way during dr2 is because he was already in an extremely unlucky situation. — as a reversal of that i wonder if komaeda at hopes peak had a buncha mini fumbles with bad luck, since getting into the school was such a great thing for him. but that's for a different ramble.

yeah ——— i imagine it does come into effect at times. especially when strong feelings are involved. i think neutral flings are kinda a gray area for his luck. he might get passively "lucky" finding things that his partner really enjoys, but i think that's more his skills of observation and general knowledge of the human body at work rather than true luck. on the "bad luck" but not really end for these kinda flings (again, more of a gray area) he's likely to exhaust himself pretty quickly. he is not someone who can exert himself physically for a while. hence why he tends to bottom/be submissive even though he does really enjoy topping/being dominate. again though, not really the place for those wild swings of good/bad luck. in general they're probably just decent experiences for him.

for example... say komaeda is really happy in a relationship. he's feeling so so fortunate and lucky and he's finally able to be intimate with his partner. erectile dysfunction. premature ejaculation. the bed fucking breaks. a stray baseball flys through the window and hits his partner in the face. it just goes wrong — embarrasses the fuck out of him. possibly even frustrates his partner. — if it's extreme levels of bad luck there could be a really shitty instance of something killing his partner during/before/after. or maybe his partner turns out to be really bad at sex!!! or he learns something about them that makes him want to break off the relationship immediately.

but say... if he's together with one of the despairs — be it junko or otherwise — someone he's physically attracted to but hates/has mixed feelings on... god is it the best sex he's ever had. and it's so fucking infuriating. he's able to push through and get extra bursts of stamina to keep it up longer. oh? looks like there's a box of brand new sex toys under the bed in this abandoned house we're banging in! having sex in public in the riskiest place ever and somehow not getting caught. or... they do get caught, if that's what he wants. not that he's much of an exhibitionist, i don't really think he cares if people see him nude.

now i really wanna write threads where komaeda's luck just makes a sexual situation really fucking comedically bad (or comedically good). that'd be so silly. who's gonna hmu?

[sextoyreview]

Types of Male Toys: How Much Do You Know?

Male toys, or adult products and sex toys, are not only a supplement and expansion of traditional sexual methods, but also an effective tool for men to explore themselves, enjoy private pleasures, and enhance emotional communication between partners. This article will explore the various types of male toys in depth, analyze the cultural significance behind them, and how they promote men's physical and mental health and emotional development.

Main types of male toys

Vibration toys

Vibration toys are the most basic and popular type of male toys. They use built-in motors to generate vibrations of different frequencies and intensities to simulate or enhance sexual stimulation and help users achieve higher sexual pleasure. This type of toys includes but is not limited to vibrators (although often regarded as female toys, they can also be used by men), prostate massagers (designed specifically for men, which stimulate the prostate area to bring unique pleasure), and multi-functional vibration rings. The diversity of vibration toys meets the preferences and needs of different men, and can add unlimited fun whether it is enjoyed alone or in interaction with partners.

Simulation toys

Simulation toys, such as simulated vaginas and simulated mouths, are designed to simulate the real sense of human contact and provide users with a more realistic sexual experience. These toys are usually made of environmentally friendly materials such as high-grade silicone or TPE. They are soft to the touch, elastic, and finely designed. They can simulate skin texture, temperature, and even moisture, making users feel as if they are in a real sex scene. Simulation toys are not only suitable for single men to release sexual pressure, but also a good helper for partners to increase interest and explore new experiences.

Sexy costumes and props

Sexy costumes and props are a special category of male toys. They do not act directly on sexual organs, but stimulate users' sexual fantasies and enhance emotional involvement and immersion in sex by changing their appearance and adding role-playing elements. From simple blindfolds and handcuffs to complex role-playing costumes and masks, to various sexy accessories such as feathers and whips, these props add more playfulness and interactivity to sex, making sex an adventure full of creativity and imagination.

Smart and high-tech toys

With the advancement of technology, smart and high-tech elements have also begun to be integrated into male toys. This type of toy not only has the functions of traditional toys, but also incorporates advanced technologies such as Bluetooth connection, APP control, and smart sensing, making the user experience more personalized and convenient. For example, some prostate massagers can adjust the vibration mode and intensity through mobile phone APP, and even automatically adjust according to the user's physical reaction; while some smart sexy underwear can be remotely controlled, allowing partners to share passionate moments even if they are in different places.

Educational and training toys

Educational and training toys are an emerging field in recent years. They aim to help men improve their sexual ability and sexual health through scientific methods. This type of toys includes but is not limited to penis exercisers (promoting blood circulation in the penis and enhancing erection hardness through specific designs), delay rings (reducing sensitivity and prolonging sexual intercourse through physical compression), and auxiliary treatment products for sexual dysfunctions such as premature ejaculation and impotence. The emergence of educational and training toys reflects people's increasing attention to sexual health issues and their positive attitude towards improving sex life through scientific and technological means.

The significance and value of male toys

Promoting sexual health and mental health

Male toys provide men with a safe and private space where they can freely explore their sexual needs and preferences, thereby reducing sexual repression and improving sexual satisfaction. In addition, by using male toys, men can also learn to better control their physical reactions, enhance self-confidence and sexual ability, and promote mental health.

Enhance emotional communication between partners

In a relationship, male toys can be used as a medium to enhance emotional communication. Exploring new ways of sex and sharing the experience of using toys together can not only increase the intimacy and trust between the two parties, but also stimulate more sexual fantasies and creativity, making sex life more colorful.

Promote the popularization of sex education

The popularity of male toys has also promoted the popularization of sex education to a certain extent. It makes people aware of the importance of sexual health, encourages people to face up to their sexual needs, and seek scientific and reasonable solutions. At the same time, the diversity of male toys also reflects the diversity of sexual orientation and sexual preferences, which helps to break gender stereotypes and promote the openness and tolerance of sexual culture.

Several suggestions for choosing and using male toys

Understand your own needs

When choosing male toys, you must first clarify your needs and purposes. Is it for sexual health and pleasure? Or for physical and mental relaxation and decompression? After clarifying the needs, choose according to your actual situation and preferences.

Focus on quality and safety

No matter what type of male toys, you should pay attention to their quality and safety. Choose regular brands and products with quality assurance, and avoid using toys made of inferior materials to avoid causing harm to the body. At the same time, attention should be paid to cleaning and maintenance during use to ensure the hygiene and safety of the toys.

Keep an open mind

Many people may still have prejudices or misunderstandings about the field of male toys. However, with the progress of society and the openness of ideas, we should look at them with a more tolerant and understanding attitude. Male toys are a way to explore oneself and enjoy life, and should not be labeled with any negative labels.

Respect personal choice

Finally, we must respect everyone's choice and privacy. No matter what type of male toys are used, it is a manifestation of personal freedom and rights. We should treat the choices of others with equality and respect, and avoid judging or interfering with other people's lifestyles.

Conclusion

As part of sexual culture, male toys are changing people's sexual lifestyle and sexual concepts with their unique charm and unlimited potential. They are not only auxiliary tools for sex, but also a way for men to explore themselves, enjoy life, and enhance emotions.

[thesinglesjukebox]

KANE BROWN - "I CAN FEEL IT"

A sample that’s no stranger to you and me…

[5.18]

Taylor Alatorre: "Even though the song does draw a fair bit from Phil Collins's 1981 song, the tempo is much faster."[1] [1]

Ian Mathers: As is often the case with modern pop country, "I Can Feel It" evokes a rural area; here, it's the Uncanny Valley. [2]

Jacob Sujin Kuppermann: So dumb! I respect it more for not being coy about using its big sample – Kane Brown and Dann Huff (who actually played on hits from Phil Collins' contemporaries, wtf) hit that big drum fill button over and over again, especially during the second half of "I Can Feel It." Worst part is that it works every time – this is a meta-level arena jam, a crass play that goes beyond the normal nostalgia-worship of so much of the contemporary pop landscape (secularly, across nearly all subgenres in 2024) by virtue of sheer shamelessness. [6]

Isabel Cole: Nothing we haven't heard before, more literally than usual, and obviously it's dumb, but sometimes you don't want smart, you know? It hits all its marks cleanly, and I like the weirdly roiling, tempestuous drama the track brings to a lightweight song about a drunken hookup (possibly why the hilariously incongruous video contains neither whiskey nor dancing — just a mechanic with a past and a dream). [7]

Katherine St. Asaph: The annoying hackwork here isn't the Phil Collins sample. It's that songwriting affectation, rampant in modern country, of awkwardly wording things that are phrases -- in this case "this is turning into a we-should-probably-get-up-out-of-here." (Why does this exist? Is there a thinkpiece?) The Phil Collins sample is, in fact, what makes this not suck. [7]

Mark Sinker: Time for every single song ever released to get its talking-point kinda-cover version. Time for “Weird” Al to become a worm-man god-emperor and rule over the charts for 3,500 years. A Million Golden Hits on the Golden Path.  [5]

Alfred Soto: Kane Brown shows the apparently infinite ways in which "In the Air Tonight" adapts itself to whatever sized foot you stick into it: instead of a cheatin' anthem, "I Can Feel It" focuses on the nervousness of would-be lovers courtin' on the dance floor. Almost everything works except for the guitar solo, an example of premature ejaculation. [7]

TA Inskeep: Theoretically this fusion of banjo, big-ass drums, and an interpolation of Phil Collins' most iconic song should be a lot of fun -- and Brown's winking voice would seem to be the right fit for it. But it all feels awfully forced, especially when Brown actually sings that he "can feel it coming in the air tonight" in the bridge. It's too obvious by half, not remotely country save for that banjo (which would be fine except that it's being billed as, y'know, country), and even though it's a clever idea, never fully gels.  [4]

John S. Quinn-Puerta: I'm tired of interpolations that aren't interested in engaging with their source. It's just so blandly tactical to put on the trappings of a hit to ensure the boring ditty that you've done ten ways to Sunday gets airplay.  [3]

Hannah Jocelyn: Everyone misses the kicks between the toms when they do “In the Air Tonight”! That's what makes it distinctive! "One Mississippi" was legitimately incredible (would have been a [10] from me) and a massive step up, this is trying to be some kind of epic tough country song but that clashes with the uninspired, lovelorn lyrics. By the way, Kane, you’re no mister Kingston. [5]

Nortey Dowuona: Gabe Foust, songwriter/producer for "Trailer Park Barbie" and "Bake It," lets Aaron Sterling handle the drums, and man, does he handle them. His take on Phil Collins's iconic fill kicks the song in the ass and brings it swimming up to Kane's deep baritone, buoying it as the second verse begins, keeping the song steady as Rob McNelley's seething solo dives below the chorus and surfaces on the bridge. The song relies less on the kick of "here's the Phil Collins drum fill, please clap" and more on "here's Kane Brown using one of the best baritones in popular music; leave with him and go steal that money." And Brown is in fine form; his quick trot then strolling delivery of the first verse snatches you up and leads so smoothly into the chorus that you are swept away, your hair flying in the wind, your eyes full of the moon before you can blink. The bass, played by Mark Hill (yes, that Mark Hill !!!?) comfortably purrs below, interlocking with the kick. It pushes Brown into picking up the pace at first, then smoothing out and sliding during the chorus. He delivers spurts of melisma briefly but remains in control of his voice despite the rising waves of the mix. It drifts away into the sky, but you're on a string, lazily drifting behind it. [10]

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xoNECOLE/Sex/All About Edging: The Ways Prolonging Pleasure Makes For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

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All About Edging: The Ways Prolonging Pleasure Makes For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Spoiler alert: It's the determining factor for all earth-shattering orgasms. 

Ashley Cobb

Oct. 28, 2022 05:00PM EST

Have you ever tried to stop yourself from having an orgasm…on purpose? I have and let me be the first to tell you how amazing of an experience it is. Edging is the practice of bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm without going all the way. Tension builds, pushing your mental and physical body to its edge—literally— delaying full gratification. I was introduced to edging by a past lover, who got a kick out of increasing my arousal without letting me orgasm. The buildup would literally make me feel like I was going to burst. 

Think of edging like a rollercoaster. The orgasm is the adrenaline release you feel at the end of the big drop. As you slowly take the rollercoaster up toward the top of the hill, edging would be what happens when the rollercoaster climbs up for the big drop only for it to be a twist and turn instead. The buildup of anticipation is the difference between an amazing rollercoaster and a not-so-great one. The same holds true with edging, it's the determining factor for all earth-shattering orgasms. 

What Exactly Is Edging?

The practice of edging has grown popular in the sexual health world as a form of “better orgasms,” however edging has been around for more than a half-century. In a 1956 paper published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, James H. Semans introduced the “stop-start method” to help people last longer before reaching orgasm. He suggests stopping sexual stimulation before orgasms, waiting about 30 seconds, and then stimulating yourself again, repeating until you’re ready to orgasm. On a more holistic level, edging can make you more aware of your own sexual responses both solo and with a partner, bringing mindfulness–a powerful tool–into the bedroom.

Having an orgasm for some women is easier said than done, but incorporating edging could make it less difficult to achieve. According to a 2014 study, women who masturbate are more likely to achieve orgasm during sex. 1 out of 96 women in that study reported it was easier to achieve orgasm during masturbation than partnered sex. As I say often, you have to get to know your body in order to know what arouses you. The best way to figure out what works for you is by trying out the edging technique during masturbation. 

Masturbation provides the opportunity to get to know your own body better and what really sets it off when it comes to pleasure. Not only does it help increase the chances of having an orgasm, but including edging into solo play also helps to intensify them. OMGYes, a website focused on bringing attention to the female orgasm, reports that 66% of women who edge have longer, more intense orgasms.

The Benefits of Edging and Orgasm Control

Edging is also helpful for those who may prefer or need more time to get aroused. For example, people who experience premature ejaculation may find edging beneficial because it can increase the duration of sex before orgasm. A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that men last an average of 5.4 minutes before finishing during penetrative sex. In comparison, a2019 study found that it takes women an average of 13 minutes and 25 seconds to have a real orgasm—almost three times as long. 

Edging can help partners get in sync. Increasing the duration of sexual activity can also change the dynamics by shifting the focus. When someone senses they are about to orgasm, they can change the intensity by slowing down, changing position, or stopping altogether.

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How to Practice Edging Alone

There are several ways to practice edging and you can go about it however you'd like. If you want to explore edging by yourself, I suggest using your hands or a toy. It’s important to keep in mind to move slowly, paying close attention to your body’s signals. When you feel like you’re close to orgasm, that’s your cue to slow down or stop completely. 

The next step is to cool down and rest to a point where your orgasm won't take over. Try breathing deeply or running your hands over your skin. Let your body simply enjoy a different form of touch. Think about what brought you close to orgasm, and note how your body feels. When you’re ready, you can start again and go through as many cycles as you like. 

Love vibrators? Experiment with different speeds and pay attention to how your body reacts. 

How to Edge With Your Partner

Edging with a partner can involve hands, mouths, and toys. Talk about how to signal when one of you needs a break. It can be a word or a gesture, whatever works best. Experiment with changing positions or intensity when one of you gets close to orgasm. Switch from penetrative sex to touch, or from oral stimulation to using a toy. You can repeat this cycle as many times as you’d like. The more cycles you go through, the more blood will flow into your pelvic area. This helps build excitement and can lead to more powerful orgasms.

Another edging technique is tantric sex. Tantric is all about going slow, being intentional, and tapping into the energy between your partner's body to enhance the experience of sex. To try tantric edging, inhale slowly as you're about to orgasm. While inhaling, try to visualize slowly pulling the orgasmic energy from your vagina or penis upward toward your head. Then go back to providing that direct stimulation, repeating this process again and again. In tantra, this is believed to help you experience a full-body orgasm.

Whether you want to try edging alone or with a partner, remember getting to know your body is always a good thing. Plus, edging leads to more intense orgasms, and who doesn’t want more intense orgasms? 

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[constance-michaela]

The Marchioness takes a Wife

The First Chapter (of eight)

The room was large and well appointed.

The sun was coming up outside, its light starting to frame the heavy damask curtains in the bay window.

With a subtle night light, sufficient light now to make out the main features of this stately bedroom.

A double door providing entry and exit on the left; a substantial fireplace to the right; a pair of sumptuously upholstered wing backed arm chairs either side, facing into the room towards the four poster bed the frame of which was draped in damask matching the curtains; and then to the right looking towards the bed a double dressing table with a pair of stools upholstered to match the arm chairs.

The double door provided egress into a corridor towards the main house, along the second floor. Three further matching double doors on the left marked a series of three more large and beautifully appointed rooms: a Bathroom; a Dressing room devoted to the owner’s collection of lingerie; and a second Dressing room, which included a kitchenette area.

All this comprised the Marchioness’ personal, private suite. It was sufficiently ‘self-contained’ and provisioned with basic supplies to enable the Marchioness to spend two or three days there, undisturbed to reflect, think, plan or exercise her sexual proclivities.

An expensive classic dress was carefully draped across the seat and arms of the right hand arm chair. A pair of black stockings lay neatly on top. A white lace trimmed underwired bra hung prettily from the right hand wing of the chair, the other strap resting on the dress below. A matching suspender belt and full briefs were as carefully arranged on the left.

And as if taking centre stage, a white nylon lace trimmed full slip with adjustable ribbon shoulder straps was placed carefully across the top of the chair, its lace trimmed hem falling out of sight behind the chair while the matching lace trimmed bust rested in full view against the chair back, the pair of ribbon straps hanging neatly down, just touching the dress below.

There was sufficient light for the white slip to be quite clearly illuminated. It was an expensive and sumptuous example of a classic white full slip, or petticoat as its owner preferred to think of and refer to it. She loved it and the many others like it in her lingerie collection. She liked to wear the popular standard forty-one inch length, such that its hem fell below her knees. She favoured classic dresses, fastened or buttoned to her neck, flat or ruffle collared, long sleeved with matching cuffs and cut to a length of forty-three inches, two inches longer than the slip beneath.

The slip would therefore be concealed quite correctly, with due propriety, at least most of the time and should its lace trimmed hem be inadvertently revealed, its owner was sufficiently confident to feel that really didn’t matter at all and to likewise reassure anyone who advised of or remarked upon such an occurrence. In any case, this aspect of wearing a full slip added to this wearer’s enjoyment … her happiness … and pleasure.

Sometimes, she would choose to wear a second, matching slip but with built up shoulders, cut almost imperceptibly a little more generously to avoid any ‘clinging’ or such like contention with the petticoat beneath and cut to a length of forty-three inches long. This could be worn with a slightly longer dress if going out or in company, but at home and with her household she preferred to wear dresses cut to the same length as the longer slip because it felt so feminine, so risqué!

She was a lesbian, describing herself as a ‘lipstick lesbian’ attracted to ‘feminine women’ as indeed she viewed herself. She had engaged in sexual intercourse with a male only once, a young – decent enough – electrician who was attending a fault at her private school who charmed her, really turned her on but then frustrated and enraged her by his clumsy failure to penetrate her fully and premature ejaculation. In talking to her friends about it afterwards, she explained that she’d been obliged to remain behind the tennis courts ‘to bring herself off’ this experience being made all the more worse by the young man’s semen – how rank it smelt! – draining back into her labia and covering her finger tips. She determined from that point that no man was ever going to demean her so again, ever.

As well as deriving so much pleasure from her wardrobe, she was very aware that as in nature, the animal kingdom where colour, texture and display – and even display preceded by concealment like a petticoat beneath a dress – are such a vital, key part of sexual attraction.

She found her clothing both practical for her sedate lifestyle and also – should she pause to reflect – both comfortable and sensuous: in short, feminine. She also felt it made her more attractive to other ladies of a similar persuasion: and wasn’t that evidenced by the number and seeming ease of her lesbian accomplishments? She believed so. She was not ‘self-satisfied’ though and always tried to look and be her best, she felt in a balanced manner of ‘best endeavours’ rather than unhealthy obsession.

Equally she was strongly attracted to women who chose to follow a similar dress code to herself. She loved the idea that beneath their dress, they may – or probably – chose to wear a petticoat like herself. She knew how to tell. The way a woman’s dress hung and smoothly, fluently followed her movement; the feint outline of lace trim at the bust or just below the knee … just a little above the hem of the lady’s dress. And if a dash of white lace trim appeared – even, or especially fleetingly – then that was pure joy indeed! Especially if the lady was unaware, or apparently unaware of this faux pas.

Should she feel a woman was deliberately showing her slip … or deliciously didn’t care if it showed or not … then that was ecstasy and she would be challenged to maintain her own well-mannered composure. At least she would be able to enjoy the gentle swelling of her breasts, the hardening of her nipples and gentle pulsation of her vulva and its increasing moistness in a passive and private response.

In short, she was acutely aware that the petticoat currently draped so carefully and elegantly over the back of her arm chair was a key element of her apparel and particularly conscious of how it projected her own sexual attractiveness to other women in a powerful and she felt irresistible and irrepressible way. It was, she felt the ultimate symbol, a principal component of feminine sexual power and pleasure.

She was also aware though, that she was highly privileged and that many – indeed most women – lived a life of busy toil with stress and strain which denied them the opportunities she enjoyed so much and lived each day. Nor could most afford to dress as she and her peers chose to. The petticoat had also become to be seen by some as a symbol of female subjugation, by others as a ridiculous garment made quite unnecessary in these twenty-first century times by lined dresses and skirts, synthetic ‘easy care’ materials. The movement to promote the equality of women, which she fully supported – indeed, she passionately believed in their superiority – was also a further spur in driving the development of a contemporary female wardrobe which she felt was largely inspired by men’s fashions and the seemingly greater convenience it offered to an increasing number of people than the traditional petticoat and dress.

So she was sufficiently liberal and enlightened to take a balanced view while exercising her own rights to dress and behave as she chose and to enjoy and pursue the company of like-mined people.

She was none other than the Marchioness herself, the owner of this grand house and surrounding estate, of a property in rural France, another in Paris and one in Belgravia, London and employer of many people and suppliers. Although still young at twenty-five years old, she possessed a maturity, insight and perception beyond her years for which she was widely respected. She was much loved for her vision, compassion and genuine interest in the welfare of others. She was well educated and open minded. Well mannered. She was gentle and feminine and consequently powerful. Very powerful. Very powerful indeed.

And as we have already noted, Felicity’s sexual orientation was lesbian and she was also respected for the discreet manner in which she conducted her proclivities.

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The Causes of Premature Ejaculation

It has been estimated that 20% of males between the ages of 18 and 59 are regularly affectec by premature ejaculation. There are many possible causes of premature visit site here ejaculation, and the good news is that the situation is probably treatable. Knowing the cause can help determine the cure.

If you are someone who has just experienced premature ejaculation for the first time in your life, you might want to skip this article. Often in his life, a man will temporariily fall prey to one or another of the many possible causes of the problem.. In other words, premature ejaculation, even in a healthy male, is not that unusual or uncommon.

If you are regularly experiencing this affliction, and some have experiencied it for years, knowing the causes of premature ejaculation may be the first step to putting and end to premature ejaculation.

It helps to know that you are not alone! It has been estimated that 20% of males between the ages of 18 and 59 are regularly afflicted with the problem.

So, what causes premature ejaculation in otherwise apparently healthy males in the prime of their sexual lives? Do they have some strange virus or incurable disease, or are they just nuts?

Research does show that the root causes of premature ejaculation are usually psychological, but that does not mean you are nuts, nor that only a shrink can cure you. In fact, a lot IS known about the subject and there are plenty of techniques and advice available for a little practical self-help.

Basically, premature ejaculation is usually the result of an emotional or mental hangup. For example, men with erectile dysfunction, which is also often treatable either through medications such as Viagra or Cialis, or through improvements in physical or emotional condition, may have concerns about sexual performance.

Slightly complicating any discussion of the causes of premature ejaculation is the fact that "premature" is a hazy concept, and any orgasm or ejaculation can be termed "premature" if it occurs before the two parties (usually two, but one never knows these days) want it to. There is no concrete medical standard for a time limit that distinguishes a "premature" ejaculation from...well, a mature one, I guess!

However, premature usually means that both parties are disappointed with the result. Of course, this can be complicated by the fact that women take longer to achieve full sexual arousal and the female orgasm can often occur long after even a non-premature ejaculating male has given up and fired his only shot. It is easy in this situation for a man to take what may be a relatively small problem and make it bigger (poor choice of words). This is an example of one way in which a certain amount of easily treatable difficulty can begin to loom large in the mind of the man, thereby encouraging the condition to get worse.

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Super Tadarise

Super Tadarise is a new medication for treating erectile dysfunction (ED) in males. It contains two active ingredients, Tadalafil and Dapoxetine, a clinically established active component that helps men get and maintain erections during sexual activity.

Super Tadarise is a high-dose version of other forms ofTadarise, and it contains two active ingredients as the main ingredient. It depends on the patient’s age and the person using it.

Super Tadarise increases blood flow to the penis, allowing men to attain and maintain erections. This means that guys who suffer from ED can now engage in sex with greater confidence and enjoyment.

Dapoxetine, a main ingredient in Super Tadarise, is a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) that delays ejaculation by boosting serotonin activity in the brain. This improves ejaculation control and prolongs sexual activity, resulting in a more gratifying sexual encounter for both partners.

Super Tadarise has several additional advantages that you might not expect. It can, for example, assist men who suffer from premature ejaculation. Super Tadarise can help men last longer in bed and have more enjoyable sex by improving blood flow to the penis.

Super Tadarise is likewise quite simple to use. Take one tablet with water 30 minutes before sexual activity, and you’re set. Super Tadarise, unlike other ED drugs, does not require you to plan ahead of time or wait for it to take effect. 

Why Must You Consider It?

Super Tadarise is a very successful drug for healing erectile dysfunction (ED) in men. If you have ED, you may have trouble achieving or keeping an erection, which can create stress, worry, and even relationship problems.

Super Tadarise can help ease these symptoms by enhancing penile blood flow, allowing you to obtain and sustain an erection. Super Tadarise has some advantages over other ED drugs. For starters, it is available in generic form, which can be less expensive than brand-name equivalents.

Second, Super Tadarise has a longer half-life than other ED drugs, allowing it to remain in your system for more than 36 hours. This gives you a wider opportunity to engage in sexual activity without having to arrange it beforehand. Super Tadarise is a prescription medication that may only be obtained through a licensed healthcare professional.

This guarantees that you are receiving safe and effective therapy for your disease and that a medical practitioner is closely monitoring any potential dangers or side effects.

Some Interesting Insights About it

Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and also a disease of erectile dysfunction (ED) are conditions that are treated with tadalafil. It is marketed under various brand names, including Cialis. Super Tadarise should be taken orally, with or without food, as directed by a healthcare professional.

It is important to stay within the recommended dose, as this may increase the risk of side effects. You can buy all the Tadalafil pills at our drugstore like Forzest 20mg, Tadacip 20mg, Tadact 10mg, Tadaga 40mg, and Tadaga Oral Jelly.

Tadalafil:

Tadalafil is a medication that is frequently used to treat erectile dysfunction (ED) as well as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). It is derived from a class of drugs known as phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE5) inhibitors. Tadalafil works by relaxing blood vessel muscles, increasing blood flow to the penis, and helping achieve and maintain an erection. 

Dapoxetine:

Dapoxetine is a drug used to treat men’s premature ejaculation. It is a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) that increases serotonin levels in the brain. The neurotransmitter serotonin governs mood, hunger, and sexual function. Dapoxetine is used orally and should be used only when necessary, 1 to 3 hours usually before sexual activity. With a half-life of about 1.5 hours, it is swiftly absorbed and removed from the body.

How does it work?

Super Tadarise’s key ingredients are tadalafil and Dapoxetine, which works by blocking the action of the PDE5 is a phosphodiesterase type 5 enzyme. PDE5 is essential for cyclic guanosine monophosphate (cGMP) breakdown.

A natural substance that relaxes the smooth muscles of the penis during sexual excitement, while Dapoxetine, a main ingredient in Super Tadarise, is a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) that delays ejaculation by boosting serotonin activity in the brain.

This improves ejaculation control and prolongs sexual activity, resulting in a more gratifying sexual encounter for both partners. It should be noted that Super Tadarise does not act without sexual stimulation and is not an aphrodisiac. It just improves blood flow to the penis.

However, it may not be appropriate for everyone, especially those who have certain medical issues or are on certain medications. Before using Super Tadarise, you should contact your doctor to ensure it is safe.

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Highly Recommended Sexologists in Tirunelveli

   Sexology deals with several sexual health concerns and in Tirunelveli there is Dr. Murugan who is a specialist in the field and who is also very friendly. It is critical to comprehend the fundamental nature of sexology-related conditions, as well as the approaches used to identify as well as address them so that sexual health can be preserved.

 Sexology diseases include: erection dysfunction, early ejaculation or premature ejaculation, low sexual desire, and infertility, and sexually transmissible diseases.

       The condition referred to as Erectile Dysfunction is characterized by the inability to achieve an erection or sustain the erection and might be as a result of either health complications such as diabetes, stress, among others.

     This is another condition that involves the discharge of semen from the penis in a rather short space of time due to both physiological and psychological factors.

 Diminished sexual desire can be caused by hormonal abnormalities, long-term diseases, depression and other ailments.

      The following are some of the characteristics of the target topics; Infertility is a condition where couples are unable to conceive, it may be caused by several conditions of many medical or lifestyle behaviours whereas the STIs are the infections that are transmitted by sexual contact, leaving a health danger untreated.

    The mentioned diseases are fully diagnosed and treated by Dr. Murugan. He treats patients with drugs, use of physical methods, diet changes, and surgery where it is needed.

     For example, Erectile Dysfunction has medication or implant treatments while Premature Ejaculation has counselling or behaviour modification. Low sexual desire may be helped by hormone therapy, and fertility treatments can assist those with fertility problems.

   Thus, it is decided to select the Shifa Hospital in Tirunelveli as the case study organization as its medical services and technology are highly developed.

     Shifa Hospital, therefore, makes sure that patients who come with their sexual health problems are treated by the best team, which includes Dr. Murugan.

 To sum up, Shifa Hospital experts led by Dr. Murugan can offer you appropriate treatment if you have any sexual health problems. This provision of instalment as well as affecting care for all patients under its charge makes the hospital appropriate for the management of sexology conditions in Tirunelveli.

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All About Edging: The Ways Prolonging Pleasure Makes For Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Spoiler alert: It's the determining factor for all earth-shattering orgasms. 

Ashley Cobb

Oct. 28, 2022 05:00PM EST

Have you ever tried to stop yourself from having an orgasm…on purpose? I have and let me be the first to tell you how amazing of an experience it is. Edging is the practice of bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm without going all the way. Tension builds, pushing your mental and physical body to its edge—literally— delaying full gratification. I was introduced to edging by a past lover, who got a kick out of increasing my arousal without letting me orgasm. The buildup would literally make me feel like I was going to burst. 

Think of edging like a rollercoaster. The orgasm is the adrenaline release you feel at the end of the big drop. As you slowly take the rollercoaster up toward the top of the hill, edging would be what happens when the rollercoaster climbs up for the big drop only for it to be a twist and turn instead. The buildup of anticipation is the difference between an amazing rollercoaster and a not-so-great one. The same holds true with edging, it's the determining factor for all earth-shattering orgasms. 

What Exactly Is Edging?

The practice of edging has grown popular in the sexual health world as a form of “better orgasms,” however edging has been around for more than a half-century. In a 1956 paper published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, James H. Semans introduced the “stop-start method” to help people last longer before reaching orgasm. He suggests stopping sexual stimulation before orgasms, waiting about 30 seconds, and then stimulating yourself again, repeating until you’re ready to orgasm. On a more holistic level, edging can make you more aware of your own sexual responses both solo and with a partner, bringing mindfulness–a powerful tool–into the bedroom.

Having an orgasm for some women is easier said than done, but incorporating edging could make it less difficult to achieve. According to a 2014 study, women who masturbate are more likely to achieve orgasm during sex. 1 out of 96 women in that study reported it was easier to achieve orgasm during masturbation than partnered sex. As I say often, you have to get to know your body in order to know what arouses you. The best way to figure out what works for you is by trying out the edging technique during masturbation. 

Masturbation provides the opportunity to get to know your own body better and what really sets it off when it comes to pleasure. Not only does it help increase the chances of having an orgasm, but including edging into solo play also helps to intensify them. OMGYes, a website focused on bringing attention to the female orgasm, reports that 66% of women who edge have longer, more intense orgasms.

The Benefits of Edging and Orgasm Control

Edging is also helpful for those who may prefer or need more time to get aroused. For example, people who experience premature ejaculation may find edging beneficial because it can increase the duration of sex before orgasm. A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that men last an average of 5.4 minutes before finishing during penetrative sex. In comparison, a2019 study found that it takes women an average of 13 minutes and 25 seconds to have a real orgasm—almost three times as long. 

Edging can help partners get in sync. Increasing the duration of sexual activity can also change the dynamics by shifting the focus. When someone senses they are about to orgasm, they can change the intensity by slowing down, changing position, or stopping altogether.

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How to Practice Edging Alone

There are several ways to practice edging and you can go about it however you'd like. If you want to explore edging by yourself, I suggest using your hands or a toy. It’s important to keep in mind to move slowly, paying close attention to your body’s signals. When you feel like you’re close to orgasm, that’s your cue to slow down or stop completely. 

The next step is to cool down and rest to a point where your orgasm won't take over. Try breathing deeply or running your hands over your skin. Let your body simply enjoy a different form of touch. Think about what brought you close to orgasm, and note how your body feels. When you’re ready, you can start again and go through as many cycles as you like. 

Love vibrators? Experiment with different speeds and pay attention to how your body reacts. 

How to Edge With Your Partner

Edging with a partner can involve hands, mouths, and toys. Talk about how to signal when one of you needs a break. It can be a word or a gesture, whatever works best. Experiment with changing positions or intensity when one of you gets close to orgasm. Switch from penetrative sex to touch, or from oral stimulation to using a toy. You can repeat this cycle as many times as you’d like. The more cycles you go through, the more blood will flow into your pelvic area. This helps build excitement and can lead to more powerful orgasms.

Another edging technique is tantric sex. Tantric is all about going slow, being intentional, and tapping into the energy between your partner's body to enhance the experience of sex. To try tantric edging, inhale slowly as you're about to orgasm. While inhaling, try to visualize slowly pulling the orgasmic energy from your vagina or penis upward toward your head. Then go back to providing that direct stimulation, repeating this process again and again. In tantra, this is believed to help you experience a full-body orgasm.

Whether you want to try edging alone or with a partner, remember getting to know your body is always a good thing. Plus, edging leads to more intense orgasms, and who doesn’t want more intense orgasms? 

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The Power Of Duratia 30: Enhancing Sexual Pleasure And Self-Esteem

In a world where sexual satisfaction and self-esteem are paramount to overall well-being, Duratia 30 emerges as a game-changer. This medication, known for its ability to enhance sexual pleasure and boost self-esteem, offers a holistic approach to intimate relationships and personal confidence. Let's delve into the transformative power of Duratia 30 and how it can revolutionize your intimate life.

Understanding Duratia 30

Duratia 30 is a medication primarily used to treat premature ejaculation (PE) in men. It contains dapoxetine, a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) that works by increasing serotonin levels in the brain. This neurotransmitter plays a crucial role in regulating mood, emotions, and, importantly, ejaculation.

Enhancing Sexual Pleasure

One of the key benefits of Duratia 30 is its ability to prolong sexual activity and delay ejaculation. For individuals experiencing PE, this can lead to a significant improvement in sexual satisfaction and intimacy. By extending the duration of intercourse, Dapoxetine Duratia 30 allows couples to explore and enjoy each other more fully, leading to a deeper connection and enhanced pleasure.

Moreover, the confidence that comes with knowing you can satisfy your partner can positively impact self-esteem and overall well-being. When sexual performance improves, it often translates into a more positive self-image and increased confidence in other areas of life.

Boosting Self-Esteem

The connection between sexual confidence, self-esteem, and mental well-being cannot be overstated. Many individuals struggle with feelings of inadequacy or anxiety related to their sexual performance. This can have a profound impact on self-esteem, leading to a cycle of negative thoughts and emotions.

Duratia 30 offers a solution by addressing the physical aspect of performance anxiety. By helping individuals maintain control over ejaculation, it reduces feelings of pressure and fear of failure during sexual activity. This, in turn, can lead to a more relaxed and enjoyable experience, fostering a positive association with intimacy and boosting self-esteem.

Real-Life Experiences

Countless individuals have experienced the transformative effects of Duratia 30 firsthand. Take John, for example, who had been struggling with PE for years, causing strain in his relationship. After consulting with his healthcare provider and starting Duratia 30, John noticed a significant improvement in his ability to control ejaculation. This not only enhanced his sexual satisfaction but also strengthened his confidence and renewed the intimacy in his relationship.

Tips for Optimal Results

To make the most of Duratia 30, it's essential to use it as directed by your healthcare provider. Start with the recommended dosage and adjust as needed based on your response. Additionally, consider lifestyle factors that can complement the effects of Duratia 30, such as regular exercise, a healthy diet, and open communication with your partner about your sexual health.

Safety and Considerations

While Duratia 30mg is generally safe and effective, it's essential to be aware of potential side effects and precautions. Common side effects may include nausea, headache, dizziness, and dry mouth. It's crucial to discuss any concerns with your healthcare provider and disclose any existing medical conditions or medications you're taking.

Conclusion

In conclusion, Duratia 30 offers a path to enhanced sexual pleasure and self-esteem for individuals struggling with premature ejaculation. By addressing both the physical and psychological aspects of sexual performance, it empowers individuals to enjoy fulfilling intimate relationships and embrace their confidence. If you're looking to revitalize your intimate life and boost your self-esteem, Duratia 30 may be the solution you've been seeking. Consult with your healthcare provider today to learn more about how Duratia 30 can benefit you.