I made a uQuiz to figure out how you would fall if you were an angel. My credentials are that I am gay and my mom was a pastor.
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"I say I'm done with religion but still find myself praying when I cry" religion + queerness
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Anne sexton
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Anne carson
you guys seem to prefer my happy ww but I'm depressed so you'll simply have to cope my bad
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growing up being taught and believing:
A) that god loves you more than anything, unconditionally, and
B) that you are a dirty sinner who is unworthy of his love,
creates a nasty cycle of “sin”and “forgiveness,” where we internalize our own unworthiness until we become worthless to even ourselves, which catholicism praises as humility.
sometimes this self-hatred is so ingrained into brainwashed catholics’ minds that they begin to view acts of self-love as acts of selfishness.
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shoutout to everyone forced to go to church, church events and/or interacting with people you don't want to.
you are not "failing to stand up for yourself" if you can't say no. I know how terrible it is to balance the harm of going to church, etc, and the backlash if you don't.
you are not a failure if you are an adult living with a toxic family. Not at 18, not at 19, nor 20, 25, 30, 35, 40, 45, 50 + !!
you are not a failure if you are an adult living on your own but can't go non-contact yet
you are not a failure if you are a minor and are not as "brave" as you wished to be, or believe you won't be able to move out at 18
you are not a failure if you moved out and had to go back. No matter the reason!
whatever your situation is
you are not a failure
don't victim-blame yourself
❤
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