#Thrupple

[a-todd-illustration]

Poor little songbirds, locked out of the opera house! Thank goodness Erik noticed them and brought them in from the cold. Now he's got to cuddle them close to make sure they warm up!!

[bittershade]

Hey HEY HEY

I just had a dream it felt so real I actually thought it was a real episode I was so hyped and excited.

I dreamed that Rhaenyra and Mysaria got MARRIED!!!

Rhaenyra and Mysaria came up with a convincing argument to why them getting married would help her imagine and they told her council and everyone agreed, I can't remember why but it made sense she really came up with a good reason.

I was like " OMG how is Daemon going to react! How is Allicent going to react! How is her son going to react"

It was such a good episode I was so excited for the next episode because Daemon would be coming back home to find out that his wife got married even though she's already married..TO HIM!!

How would that work ?

Is Mysaria his wife too? Would he have two wives ?

Is this a thrupple ?

[jev-urisk]

Writing thrupples with a 'hinge', from someone who falls asleep in the middle every night.

A hinge thrupple is where two people are dating the same person, but not one another. So, not a triangle.

I don't know any thrupples with a childish Jacob-Edward rivalry over the 3rd person (annoying, overplayed)

I don't know any always lovey-dovey thrupples where the two suitors don't do anything outside constantly showering their 3rd with affection (honestly a bit creepy to me)

I'm bi/pan and nonbinary/fluid. My partners are a big burly cis dude and a tall snarky androgynous lesbian, they're not at all attracted to one another. Sexuality/gender plays a big part in dynamics and what I'm called (one calls me Wife and the other calls me Boyfriend).

Many poly peeps set out with intention to have multiple partners, my situation happened accidentally with some help from my autism. Basically I fell in love with two people like the movies but instead of drama I had an honest conversation and they both agreed to try it out. 🤷

I call both my partners 'babe' which in hindsight maybe I should've used 'hun' for one of them, but it's also so cute when I say babe and have two people turn to me. ❤️ They do have some unique, less appropriate pet names tho.

So so so much communication is needed to make sure you're on the same page as your partners. Google calendar helps, as do chore charts. I have 2 date nights a week, one for each partner. Holiday plans are discussed months ahead of time.

Relationships develop at different speeds! One partner may be ready for a milestone a month in, a different partner may be ready for the same milestone in 4 years.

So many perks! Splitting bills, splitting chores, coordinating when emergencies happen, and VOTING! With 3, the discourse for deciding anything from what to eat to what color to paint a room is SO much quicker.

I think the biggest difficulty was getting over my fear that I was doing something wrong, that I was selfishly drawing 2 people into something that would end in heartbreak. I was also afraid my partners wouldn't get along. 😵‍💫

Minor difficulties include deciding who to take for events that are +1 only, remembering who we've come out to, and getting crushed in the middle of the night when both partners roll towards the center of the bed where I sleep. 🪦

I can only be legally married to 1 partner where I live, but my other partner hates the idea of doing joint taxes so 😂 when we have a wedding one day, we're going to get legal permissions to, say, visit me in the hospital when I'm dying and call it good.

Yes, I can have another wedding and it will be just as beautiful and symbolic as the one that included legal paperwork.

Only two people can be on a marriage certificate, but three people can be on a mortgage! We've jointly owned a house for almost a year and a half and it's been so much work but so nice to have our privacy.

My partners get jealous of one another, that's normal. They know to communicate that feeling with me so I can give them some 1 on 1 time or special attention.

If me and one of my partners are struggling in our relationship, I DONT vent to my other partner and just give a basic 'I'm working through something with X right now'. I know too many polycules that have become a drama mosh-pit. 😓

My partners can be friends, or lovers, or simple acquaintances but THEY decide that and I don't push them to do anything except communicate when needed. My partners are introverts and it's taken years for them to build up their platonic relationship lol

Yes, I do occasionally get double-teamed in sexy ways (less than you'd think). 90% of the double-teaming I get is both of them calling me short or agreeing that I'm cute when I'm angy about trivial things, though. 😾

My partners now consider each other metamores, friends, and team-mates. My lesbian partner calls my male partner their 'husband in-law' sometimes, particularly when they want something from him.

Sometimes my partners bicker and I think it's cute bc it means they've become very comfortable with each other. If they have an actual issue I just encourage them to talk about it/I don't try to fix it for them.

We generally live a comfy, laid-back life and do all the mundane things you'd expect of mid-twenties to early-thirties folk- raising two dogs, fixing the sink, caving and ordering taco bell, forgetting to make that appointment, griping about the economy, bringing home plants, watching birds fight over the bird feeder, and sleeping in on the weekends. We just do it with 3. ☘️

Extra note: Polygamy is a term used in religious and male-centric plural partner situations. We use polyamory, polyfidelity, harem (jokingly), and thrupple to describe ourselves. Maybe some use polygamy and like it, but where we live (Utah) the term is generally reserved for fundentalist mormons.

There's probably a lot more to say, so maybe this is just a part 1. Feel free to ask me questions or comment with your own hinge experience (or tell me about your thrupple ocs)!

[kabishkat19]

Does it ever drive you crazy…

Just how fast the night…

Changes🖤

[hazel-van-lowe]

Thrupple Romance Story Prompts:

This is just screenshots of the code I made, I hope you like these ideas! (sorry for all the typo's)

[mariananicoleli]

It’s not a secret that I’m a simp for RanRyoAka as a thrupple, but now I decided to present you my thrupple AU headcanon. 

It happens when they’re all 23 years old, Akane takes the lead on the Tendo Dojo business and the boys start to work with her as martial art teachers.

There’re a lot of layers for this AU and I pretend to post more silly sketches and maybe finished pieces about it. Hope you all like it <3

[incorrect-our-flag-means-death]

Archie: How do you tell someone that you wanna have sex with them in a polite way?

Oluwande: Excuse me, would you give me the honours of indulging in sexual activities with you?

Jim: What the fuck is wrong with you two?

[blue-velvet-valentina]

Hear me out:

Chaotic good Durge Character Spoiling Acended Astarion and Gortash as a thrupple, but making Orin and the old man's life hell.

[theyanderespecialist]

Supportive Partners: Yanderes Ozzie/Fizz X GN Depressed Listener (TW Sel...

[dorothysfix-blog]

The AU spinoff we all crave.

[aller-geez]

Does anyone have any art requests they’re dying to see? 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

Or does anyone possibly wanna do a super simple art trade?

In 13 years, I’ve received a whopping total of three art pieces of my perfect boy that weren’t drawn by me.. 🥺

[marcymaccamish]

Hmm... Lesbian thrupple where two of us are cute trans girls and the one cis girl is a shredded warrior goddess. That is all.

[crows-and-cookies]

My dad kept insisting that a person we know (who is poly) is in a truffle…took me 2 days of him saying this to realize it’s probably thrupple and he just heard it through his wrong ear

[humormehorny]

I want a Mario lemon where Mario, peach and bowser are a thrupple and bowser and peach did the equivalent of “we’ll be waiting in the shower” and then leave to go fuck in a castle half filled with lava, but Mario has to go and get to them but essentially had to take like the long way around

[wildflowerbeauty19]

[mariananicoleli]

Rankane week! (actually this one is RanRyoAka)

DAY 7 - Jealousy

and FINALLY my rankane week is finished! I know this isn't exactaly rankane but welp, I had this lil comic in mind and I could not resist

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