Trans "allies" when they see a trans femboy/not passing boy:
awww, so soft and cute! your a little uwu boy huhhh?
Trans "allies" when they see a trans man/passing boy:
ew.
(or)
*blatantly sexualizes either of them for no reason, without their consent*
(some trans boys like being an "uwu"/"soft"/"cute" boy but not all of us- esspecially ones that arent passing yet- it can even hurt. feels like your infantilizing us in a way yk.)
"when the trans guy gets mad that i misgender him but he has double ds" so ?? he didn't choose what size his chest is gonna be and he either doesn't want top surgery or can't afford/get top surgery, just apologize and correctly gender him. /srs
I think it would be helpful if people realized gender affirming care isn't just for trans people. It's for whoever wants it. Plus nearly all gender affirming care was made for cis people before it was used for trans people.
Puberty blockers was literally made to help kids who started their puberty too soon. It was made to be safe and reversible.
Hrt was made for cis people originally. Cis women can use both estrogen and testosterone to help with menopause. I don't know if cis men use estrogen like cis women would, but they can use testosterone to help once they get to a certain age.
Cis women have been getting breast reductions and breast augmentation for years. Cis men get hair transplants. I mean fuck, cis men get top surgery to deal with gynecomastia. The same top surgery I'll be getting hopefully in the future.
So if cis people pretty much do the same thing as trans people do when it comes to gender affirming care, why is it bad when trans people do it?
yknow, the fact that princess diana’s death got international media attention and practically everyone still speculates about the mysterious circumstances of her death but no one talks about how marsha p johnson was found dead in a river and her death was ruled a suicide despite her friends and family stating she’d never been suicidal doesnt site right with me.
and yes, i am aware of the documentary. that was made by another trans woman (her name is victoria cruz). because cis people don’t care. so we have to care about each other.
edit: this post is getting a lot of traction and i feel the need to ad this bc i wholeheartedly agree tbh
Dear terfs, if every trans person is your enemy in your fight to save every person who believes they’re trans, who are you fighting and who are you fighting for?
Since it’s going around again for some reason, this is your monthly reminder that the way transmascs and trans men identify affects nobody but them. No, relating to experiences of misogyny does not make them less of a man. No, a trans guy identifying as lesbian does not destroy the term for everyone else. You know what does destroy queer communities though? Excluding people because “that’s weird”, or “that doesn’t make sense”. It’s an exhausted take pulled directly from the vocabulary of TERFs and transphobes around the world.
And PLEASE don’t just take my word on this. I’m a trans girl, and as much as our experiences overlap a lot, my perspective on this is nowhere near as important as the trans dudes in your life and in your community.
Also they should be allowed to kill people at least once I think
me: *makes a tiktok about how men can get pregnant and how abortion laws affect these men also*
the comments: "SAY TRANS MEN" "PRO LIFE PEOPLE DONT SEE TRANS MEN AS MEN" "YOU NEED TO PUT TRANS MEN INSTEAD OF MEN, SAYING JUST MEN CAN GET PREGNANT AND CAN GET ABORTIONS ALLOWS CIS MEN TO HAVE AN OPINION ON PREGNANCY AND ABORTION"
like oh my god you fucking people are insufferable.
IDGAF WHAT PRO LIFERS THINK AND I DONT NEED TO SAY "TRANS MEN," TRANS MEN ARE MEN.