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#and embracing your queerness
allweknowisnow · 2 years
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Guys, something happened. I officially came out to someone for the first time ever today.
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ingravinoveritas · 1 month
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David, Michael, and the joy of being together...
| GO 1 press tour, 2019 vs. TV BAFTAs red carpet, 2024.
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heartslobbf · 10 months
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hater alert! far too many people say that juri’s character arc ‘isn’t about her being sad about being gay, it’s about being sad about unrequited love that happens to be gay’ and. well. that is not true and by saying that you are completely flattening the brilliance of juri’s character arc which literally culminates in her being able to accept her own lesbianism despite her unrequited love, despite all her shame and self-loathing, despite this pursuit by Some Fucking Guy to try and ‘save’ her from these feelings. like if you think juri’s entire character is just ‘sad about shiori’ how do you appreciate even a modicum of the emotion packed into that final juri duel. it is both about shiori and, even broader, her lesbian identity and what that means to her intrinsically as a person, removed from romantic relationships and just purely as like. you know. Who She Is. the idea that even when juri’s locket is cut from her neck she is still a lesbian that’s still who she is and she cant change that and, crucially, she doesn’t want to even as she is agonised by these feelings. that’s why she forfeits the duel!!!! she’s clocking out she’s quitting she’s saying no!!!!!! this is me and ive got to be ok with that this is me and i can accept that this girl might not love me and i can keep living despite that. like. god im so normal arisugawa juri im so sorry that no one understands you and your intrinsically unapologetically lesbian storyline like i do
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everyone shut up!! I'm thinking about how Hannibal wants to outdo and put up his middle finger at the Catholic Christian god because he feels that God is playing a cruel and unfair game with his life, and giving him horrible trials he didn't deserve,
and I'm thinking about how he's gay,
and I'm thinking about how I felt when I was 11 and realized I was queer for the first time in the deep south bible belt where I was raised Christian and went to church twice a week.
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merrysithmas · 5 months
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paul "if john was gay i wouldve known he wouldve hit on me!" mccartney
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john "im not GAY but i constantly hit on paul. it doesnt appear to be coming across. that must mean he's straight too" lennon
/youre bad at it and he's bad at it and that's gay love in the oppressive 1960s straight hegemony baby!
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eremin0109 · 8 months
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While we're talking about Shah Rukh, tell me why the FUCK hasn't anyone fully capitalized on that man's exponential queer energy like he's hasn't been putting his entire pussy into making bedroom eyes at his male co-stars since at least 2003 (*sides eyes kal ho na ho*)
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funtheysaid · 1 month
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Can’t spell one without the other my guy
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sparring-spirals · 1 year
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no this is fine actually this is so fine. you're so tired. you're so tired. you're given images of a beautiful world, visions of a better future, of things peaceful and idyllic and everything you could have, if you're just willing to- stop. step away. be normal again. if. if. if. (the devil is in the details. the devil is in the details of the moon and- whatever. the devil is in the if). you're tired and you've been fighting with what feels like yourself and the world for so long. theres a beautiful vision, theres beautiful promises, theres a promise of peace, of a sure answer. it sounds so appealing. you're so tired.
(your friends are tired too, you know. he looks at you and his arm is tattoed red and heavy, with grief and with the way he fights so hard to protect you all. He has every reason to regret, everything to hate. He has something on his skin that has such different meanings, now.
He says: no, it didnt taint it, not really. its still them. its still him, and will.
its okay that its different than what he thought. everything about his life is different.
it can mean whatever, the red and the white and the moons. people have been making meaning and crying and weeping under them for ages.
its not tainted. its still his.
she looks at you and says. shes worried about you. that she understands the appeal. she understands considering. but theres more unknown unknowns.
she tells you. you have the choice. thats your superpower, more than the other ones you have. you can make whatever choice you make, and ill support you, you understand? you can have peace without making this trade. you can have peace on your own terms, a quiet life. you can have it. you have that choice. you have it. its yours.)
you are so tired. if you could just be normal- if thats what you want. if it could give you what you want. if.
"Our weirdness makes us right."
"the better halves make a better whole. you have to love all of it."
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my value is not based in my sexuality or ability to provide romantic relationships
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uncanny-tranny · 7 months
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Its past midnight, but late transsexual thursday joy:
I love being confusing. People don't understand me and that's ok. I love being chaotic and disruptive. I'm tired of playing the people pleaser. I'm free from protecting feelings and expectations of people who only love one version of me.
There's freedom in the chaos of gender queerness. And I am basking in that freedom
It's not too late for me, but exactly. I stopped caring when I actually started liking myself, much less loving where I am now (still a process!)
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handsomelyerin · 2 years
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we deserved jacob anderson and sam reid doing photoshoots like this for iwtv press.
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artcinemas · 4 months
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right wing propoganda is crazy in india it is downright like india is turning into israel 2.0 and these people are proud of it.
#'caste system is a western concept' KILL YOURSELF#'leftists are americannabes' girl what even is THAT? YOU ARE THE ONE SUPPORTING A US FUNDED GENOCIDE#'hinduism society is so perfect they had british change it' cue adivasi dalit women silence#girl idk what hinduism society even is i thought it was a religion whose term was coined by the british#and y'all call yourself proud hindus while 'embracing' decolonisation like israel embraces itself as a part of eurovision#despite it being the most 'progressive' democracy in middle east 🤓#which btw is in asia#?.#anyways hindutva bridgade brainwashing is just awful#india is gonna be in more danger because of these fucking hacks#i'm scared as a hindu queer woman#i have been attacked by these so called protectors of sanatan dharma#physically#i nearly was hospitalised last year due to a saffron mob in a queer friendly bar during pride month#for ahistorical shit they'll spew their pinkwshing by radfems like hindulivesmatter will end#shameful spineless fucktards using kashmiri pandit genocide to fuel hatred against minorities and alienate them#for a hindu rashtra#i hope you bastards choke on your hatred and fucking perish#like the way y'all cheered on the death of tens thousands of palestinian people#i hope your propoganda and hatred gets to you and bites you in your own ass. hard#just end yourself u genocidal monster of a zionist#israel will be dismantled#and so will savarkar's ideals#from the river to the sea palestine will be free#and we will witness it happen godspeed
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x-v4mp3y3lin3r-x · 1 year
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if you're deconstructing your ideas of binary gender and binary sex— you also have to deconstruct your ideas of binary sexuality and romantic attraction, too, fyi
#'are you saying homosexuals don't really exist??!?!!?!' no. please use your brain.#im saying it literally doesn't matter if a lesbian dates someone who YOU perceive as a man.#because the people in that relationship know more than you.#and human experience does not exist in a binary.#you have to accept that sometimes other people will experience life differently than you do#this also goes for gays and bis and pans and aces and aros.#the only people who get to define their experiences are them.#so no I don't really care if a gay man says his true love is a woman and he means it.#i still consider him gay. because he knows himself and his partner better than i know how to perceive them both#and how someone else identifies is none of my business.#that woman may be only part woman. or only perceived as a woman. or only sometimes a woman. or always both woman and man.#there's so many ways to be human. you have to learn to take other queers at face value and not question them#when you question if someone is 'REALLY gay' or 'REALLY trans' or 'REALLY bi'; you're thinking with the mindset of an oppressor#you do not need to gatekeep queerness. queerness is not a limited resource. queer people are not your enemies.#learn to empathize and embrace experiences unlike yours. be a better ally to the people in your own community instead of immediately -#- searching for ways to cast them out. be better. stop thinking like our oppressors. queer people do not need to rationalize ourselves for -#- anyone. they don't owe you an explanation. you cannot take their 'gay card' away.
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hecatesbroom · 26 days
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"I've become much more comfortable with my sexuality because of Blanche" um. EXCUSE ME DOROTHY??
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bmpmp3 · 2 months
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dysgraphic artiƨts risɘ UP!!!!!
#raise your pencils!!!! and erasers. to fix the backwards letters 😔#sorry still thinking about my weirdness with my art professors. yknow a lot of em have been really pushing us as#students to make our personal identities a major part of like our 'brand' as artists#which. well from an art history major perspective thats a very contentious and nuanced topic. i love a lot of artists who live this way#and i think its great seeing my peers who focus on identity thrive. but also as an fine arts major (double major fool LOL)#i keep getting pushed by teachers into like. specific '____ artist' identities???#specificaly woman artist. which is a little bizarre because im a bit fat and a bit gnc so im generally like. ungendered? in day-to-day life#(which doesnt actually matter to me directly that much honestly LOL people tend to view me as like. buddy? buddy or pal.)#(not man. not woman. not anything human. sometimes i remind people of a beloved dog. which. hkdsahjk thats its own can of worms)#(a can of worms that also doesnt matter much to me directly because im a wannabe furry who chose to be the dog when playing house as a kid)#(LOL so um. well. theres that) but yeah i dunno i dont really consider myself a woman artist. its been. shockingly (and sometimes luckily?)#irrelevant to most of my life and experiences and art (although dont get me wrong misogyny is very real and very present) so i dont#have a whole lot to say about it from an art perspective. you could also call me all kinds of things. a queer artist. a mixed race artist#again technically correct. some aspects more visible in my work than others. but also very technical. i focus on race a lot in in my#art historical work but i dunno how much my drawings have to say. except that i keep making too many mixed ocs LOL#i dunno i just think my professors gotta focus that energy away from tokenizing me and over to supporting like actual#capital W Woman artists capital Q Queer artists capital A Artists of Colour who are doing far more interesting things than I#far more thought out and engaged in these topics directly. i just kind of stumble into my art blindly and confused <3#sorry that was a long tangent WHAT IM SAYING Is despite all that: i do consider myself a capital D Dysgraphic artist#i think its an unmovable constant of my art and the way i draw and the way my hands move. the untrained eye doesnt seem to be as aware#of it directly. but those who are familiar can probably see it. the dysgraphia LOL if not just from whenever i write a letter or number#half of them are busted and frantically fixed HDKJSDJDS but its in all my art. if u can see it <3 ive been trying to embrace it#dygraphic artists raise your pencils indeed!! and throw away the eraser!!! make the legibility of your words everyone elses problem!!!#what does that say? what is that sketch? none of my business! none of your business!! its the business of my hand and the pencil alone#motor skill and spatial issues take the wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel
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library-fae · 4 months
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me: yeah i don't really experience romantic attraction
*my boyfriend exists*
me: i have now experienced romantic attraction
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