#and he is a dick to my mum

[senshibignaturalz]

Coming to terms with childhood trauma is fucking insane because yeah I knew this fucjed me up but now that I'm thinking about it why the fuck did my uncle STAY FRIENDS with my dad after seeing me start crying after he called just to yell at me??? Bro what the fuck how could you be friends with someone who does that to a 7 year old??? Insane, and then having the audacity to, now that I'm an adult, be like "oh yeah I never liked him" man u used to hang out with him of your own free will???

[paverics]

a gay guy approached my mum on a night out last night and said he “knows” that she is transsexual because he’s a gay man and he “can tell”

but here’s the thing — my mum had cancer. twice. she lost all of her hair. it’s never grown back. she wears a wig. it’s something she’s incredibly self conscious about. and it made her cry

my mum had 2 surgeries to remove all of her female reproductive organs, and she still suffers from the aftermath of those surgeries. i spent 2 years thinking she was going to die. i saw her in hospital for weeks, unable to walk and barely eating. i see her now struggling with the consequences of those surgeries. her lack of hair is the least important or interesting thing about her. i’m just so thankful she’s still here, regardless of how she looks (which is still beautiful btw, and i wish she saw it)

so i just want to encourage people to keep thoughts to themselves because i cannot stress enough how wildly inappropriate it is to approach a cancer survivor and question their womanhood when that womanhood almost killed them. mind your business

[captainjackscoat]

When I came out as bi to my dad he said "I have a straight son, a love-hating daughter, and a lesbian daughter. I managed a full set!"

(we're not gonna tell him my brother is probably queer too)

can't wait to tell him I'm gender non-conforming so he can realise he has a son, a daughter and a child. He got the full set there too

[royalberryriku]

My dad, jokingly: "I'm badman"

Me: "haha sure" (not thinking he's anything like batman)

My dad: *left/ separated from my mum when I was a teen, started a GTA gang that helps bullied kids, ended up emotionally adopting like 8 kids and helped them through bullying, suicide, abuse, etc.*

Me: *was hurt by an abuser and had to deal with said abuser being forgiven by family around me*

Me: *gets into Batman lore*

Me: ...

"Wait a second..."

[autisticlancemcclain]

i personally call my mother every name you can think of. mommy, mom, mama, mummy, mother, mum. i think it’s fun and diverse

i call my mother all the names when i am intentionally trying to irritate her

[hella1975]

‘you’re all i got, cousin’ crying over richie of all people. can this day get any worse

[areyouwho-ithinkyouare]

me internally when i’m trying to respect and recognise that my dad has unaddressed autism that impacts the way he handles social interractions while also trying to not just excuse the shitty insensitive behaviour that has absolutely contributed to my mental health issues

[formari]

my favourite robin is jason, because he dies. i know its a strange reason to like him but somehow it makes him cooler and more attractive. again i apologize for being so straight

[radioactiveshitstorm]

engages in the completely normal behaviour of dumping some horrendous deep personal backstory lore in the tags of a simple meme post

as a treat :)

[fingertipsmp3]

I wish the phrase “waste of space” wasn’t so overused because it’s honestly the perfect insult. The implications behind it. ‘We could’ve put a cushion on that chair instead of him’

[benevolentvampire]

if my dad reaches out to me tomorrow then i'll talk to him but. im not gonna do it first

[shoeshineyboy]

actually jokes that OFMD is a banned topic in my house when my dad is home considering that we have pictures of Ed and Stede on the fridge

[texas-bbq-pringles]

i have something funny to say, but i have to keep it priv so the wrong side of tumblr doesn't find my blog and i don't tell on myself to my sister :((((

[sunsetsover]

imagine my face last night when i (extensive history of suicidal ideation) (has chronically felt lonely and unloved for my whole life) (daughter of an alcoholic) (biggest fear for most of my life was ending up an alcoholic) (has actually witnessed someone drink themselves to death) (also actively drunk at the time) sat down to watch episode four of only friends only for the episode to open with ray trying to kill himself because he felt so unloved and lonely and was petrified of ending up like his mum, who later in the episode was revealed to have drunk herself to death. just imagine my face.

[forensicbec]

Joey Richter from Starkid wants to start beef with me this year but it's hard because he's so damn nice

[deeisace]

I fully can't get over how Allen was registered as Brian's father - in 1948! That's incredible!

I mean, I know he was re-registered as a man, as male, such the newspaper article said, but I didn't think that in 1948 that would mean -- I mean, that's still a fight people are actively uhh fighting today, never mind 75 years ago

But I spose - he's a man, he's got the paperwork if needed and he's wearing trousers, and he's her husband, so why would some hospital doctor or district nurse question it at all

Or, it's like how my dad is registered as "informant" instead of "father", because the forms can be filled in whenever I guess, so long as you name the child within a certain time (my stepdad got letters about his son, asking why haven't you named your kid yet we'll take legal action or whatever) - my dad did it that way because he was already thinking about not paying child support, but I suppose it could easily be done the other way round, especially in 1948