#anti callout

[zabreus]

original thread

link to the book in question

[shebrakesforrainbows]

When an abuser wants to control you, they will find anything and everything to hold you accountable for. They will pull from prior negative experiences you've shared together, or something you said once years ago in anger. They will blatantly misconstrue something and try to accuse you of being outright malicious. Anything you've done even a little wrong is fair game when it comes to wanting to maintain control over your life. Most importantly, they will convince you their behavior is both acceptable and warranted because of your "transgressions". The end goal is to isolate you, to humiliate you, so that you have no choice but to rely on their support.

They want your life to revolve around them.

They want you to feel small, helpless, and afraid.

They want your friends to hate you because they want to be the only person in your life.

In some extreme cases this can even culminate in manipulating or gaslighting them into believing you've done something horrible to them and/or going public to harass you over imaginary experiences either under a pseudonym or to a crowd of people who will always agree with them.

Peer pressure is how abusers keep a lead on a lot of their victims in this day and age, especially with social media in the picture. Teach yourself the signs. Teach yourself to understand that you are capable and worthy of walking away from it.

[ceasarslegion]

I think everyone on tumblr especially should listen to the mob mentality episode of LA Not So Confidential. They do a really good job of breaking down why mob mentalities are both counterproductive to any point they try to make, and actively harm the victims they claim to be supporting. With a really good example of why online accusations of pedophilia and vigilante justice both lead to innocent peoples lives being ruined (often ending in suicide), and how these accusations and harassment campaigns actually make it impossible to conduct real investigations into allegations if any of them are legitimate.

Im really glad they had a whole episode dedicated to this. Ive often wondered why people make callout posts pedojacketing people instead of going to the authorities if they actually care so much about victims getting justice. Turns out that making that post at all makes it infinitely harder to conduct any kind of investigation because youve now jury tampered and youve stepped all over what could very well be evidence in a crime, so maybe go to the people who can actually do something about it instead of ragebaiting strangers online.

[dkmbookworm]

I’m getting really fucking sick of people who will do a call out post and just name drop someone’s blog into it, just to tack on a little “btw don’t harass” like that fucking does anything

Do not bs me, you know what you’re doing when you do that, and it’s to direct people towards someone to hate on. Be honest about it. Because there is no nuance or conversation to be had when you direct followers who already like you to somebody you just described as a bad person.

[kkolg]

Hey uhm small reminder guys

This guy is a proshipper and states it in their pinned post

so

yeah

don’t interact with them

They’re very active in the md and tadc community

[the-muppet-joker]

I am shaking with rage.

After my many unpleasant encounters with women these past few days (anon hate, mother being a pest) I updated my DNI to include women. I take my DNI very seriously and expect people offline to respect my boundaries as well. Naturally, the females in real life have been making this Incredibly. Fucking. Difficult. Fine, I will simply find more Males and Non Binaries to follow on tumblr and continue blogging in my female-free space to avoid their complaining and their feminism. I begin to scroll through the blogs of people I am following to see if the people they reblog from are not pesky women, so that I may follow those people as well.

When lo and behold, I see an intruiging post on one such blog about vultures (death and all things related to it captivate my twisted mind). I see it was reblogged from someone who, in their description, refers to themselves as a "Mr. Strange." I am delighted to find a male, and even more delighted to find someone with a strange and dark mind similar to my own. I scroll for a bit and. What's this? A screenshot with a youtube channel, the same name as this tumblr user.

The screenshot contains a Woman, but I assume this to be a guest on Mr. Strange's channel, at best. Certainly not a fellow host, and certainly not Mr. Strange himself.

I venture to the Youtube Channel. The female is on every thumbnail. My hands close into fists. Right before I fly into a rage, I remember a crucial piece of information: The Transgenders! This is clearly just a Transgender Male who dresses in a feminine manner. Why else would this person go by Mr. Strange? I smile to myself, relieved. I'm sorry, Mr. Strange for mistaking you for a female.

I was mistaken. After many confusing videos and video titles, I realize that Mr. Strange is not their name. It is a joke. A mockery of us men. I have been unknowinly watching. A woman. For hours. I am so enraged, and I am lucky that my boyfriends (K and J) are here to calm me down or I would go dark mode fucking permanently. Men, be warned: the woman's account is Strange Aeons. If you see a "Mr. Strange," remind yourself: A WOMAN.

[utmv-callouts]

* masterpost . [ submissions: closed ]

account for calling out proshippers, neutrals, creeps and weirdos, etc. in the utmv fandom. in other terms, yes, this is a block list and nothing more. not a harassment campaign so don’t think of it as such.

disclaimer: we do NOT tolerate/condone any kind of harassment towards/against these people. if you don't like what you see, please block and move on. we will not give you any attention and will instead block you. (asks will always have anonymous turned off for our safety. if you want to send a submission or ask a question, do it without anon on. do not complain about this either.)

owners: K [🩸🔪] + (other owner is not going to be using this blog anymore)

inspired by undertale_callouts on instagram

[mywitchcultblr]

[art-that-fucks-you-up-tournament]

SET ONE - ROUND THREE - MATCH TWO

"Bath Curtain" (1992 - Hugh Steers) / "Can’t Help Myself" (2016 - Sun Yuan & Peng Yu)

BATH CURTAIN: I don’t have any coherent way to describe Bath Curtain just that I want to swim in the colors and I can feel the. the It. I can’t put it into words but if I think about it too hard I’ll start crying. there’s poetry in the way they’re sitting. There’s poetry in the way it takes me ten minutes to track down every time because Google just shows me Amazon listings and mommy blogs. I can’t do this. (courfeyracs-swordcane)

CAN'T HELP MYSELF: oigjg my god im not nlrmal about it not at all. ever sinc ei learned about it around 2017 its just been buried there. idk something about its repetitive endless motion and the noises it makes and the stains the blood leaves on the floor. the way its been gradually slowing as if getting tired. the way it will Never see end. it has many different interpretations and i agree with every one . idk. idk. insane insane insane (firebuug)

("Bath Curtain" is an oil on gesso-ed paper painting done by Hugh Steers, a gay American painter, during the time of the AIDS crisis in the US. The piece, 162.56 x 182.24 cm (64 x 72 in), is currently owned by Yale University Art Gallery in Connecticut.

"Can't Help Myself" is a Kuka industrial robot made of stainless steel and rubber mopping up cellulose ether in coloured water made by two Chinese artists, Sun Yuan & Peng Yu. This installation was displayed in Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum, New York but was removed from display.)

[shebrakesforrainbows]

Callout culture is genuinely vile. Like holy fuck, this shit ruins people's lives when they're clearly in need of constructive intervention and you're PROUD of that? You're PROUD of driving people to the brink? Fuck off.

[momentsofamberclarity]

this might come as a surprise to some people ... but the question is not are you "pro-ship", "ship neutral", or "anti-ship" ...

the real question is do you support artistic freedom or do you reject it in favor of compliance to the standards of mob mentality?

[rinnyluver69]

Another callout,,

Reminder that this person, @/littlecutewriter is a proshipper who ships Rinny x Nappy and calls it “toxic yuri.”

They’re currently stalking me at the moment because I called them out and are now making horrific accusations against me. Mind you this person is an open proshipper and is 14 years old drawing Nappy porn, who mind you is a child. I made two callouts on them on Twitter;

1st callout: https://x.com/rinnyluver96/status/1815630064374923579?s=46

callout I made today due to them making accusations against me (calling me a p3do all because I called them and another minor out for drawing actual cp) : https://x.com/rinnyluver96/status/1823015849235505454?s=46

Reminder if you’re a proshipper, DO NOT INTERACT.

[sannin-three]

I've seen a few people say that if you leave out the stuff we learn about him as the story goes on, Hiruzen speech during his death scene, about family and such, can still be rather touching.

To that I say: what about Naruto???

Even if you want to ignore the stuff that comes later: everything involving Danzo, the Uchihas, Orochimaru, and the promise that he made to Naruto's parents - even if NONE of that happened - he would still be the asshole who let everybody in the village treat Naruto like shit and left him to live in a shitty apartment by himself from the time he was a small child.

"We are family" WHERE IS NARUTO IN THAT FAMILY

[proshipmizook]

guys i saw one of those useless instagram callout posts and one of the things listed was “blocked people who didn’t deserve it”

is

is this why antis jump to harassing people instead of just blocking and moving on. do they genuinely believe blocking people is problematic

[satyrradio]

Haha, what? I did/said something horribly racist? Erm.. you know I'm literally queer right? I'm literally trans? And gay? And polyamourous? Yeah, sorry, looks like *you're* actually the bad guy here. Maybe should've thought about that before calling out my horrific racism ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[apotheoseity]

>_> <_< yknow guys i dont think it should be a radical opinion that you can dislike people without trying to ruin their personal lives