#birth control and menopause symptoms

[momcave]

Perimenopause Panic: Ultimate Guide | Dr. Kelly Culwell | MomCave LIVE

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[daedrabela]

they're gonna take my uterus

[compassionatereminders]

TW; pregnancy mention, sex mention, doctors

To the ask that mentioned endometriosis, please see another doctor that is an endometriosis specialist, that doctor is lying to you and doesn't know a single thing about it or anatomy. It is every 1 in 10 women and statistically takes them an average of 7 years for a diagnosis. Some women can be stage 1 with immense pain whilst some are stage 4 with zero pain. Also pregnancy doesn't cure it as there is no cure for endo and you don't ever need to have a pregnancy to have endo. If a doctor says you "can't have it because you never been pregnant" or says you can "cure it with a pregnancy" RUN! Pregnancy doesn't cure it!!

It can occur young or in your older years. Painful sex, painful periods, cramping and bloating (like when you eat or during periods) that make you look like you're pregnant, painful bowel movements, are just a few symptoms of it. A diagnostic laparoscopy is what's used to diagnose it as it is hard to see endometriosis lesions on scans, however some people can be asymptomatic and have it for years and not know until they trying for a baby. Look up endometriosis support groups on FB or Nancy's Nook for more info. As for the burning sensations I'd also look into Interstitsl Cystitis, and adenomyosis for other symptoms! That DOES have a cure but it is a hysterectomy for that. Other treatments for endo besides a lap is some birth controls but every person and their body is different. Lupron and Otilissa put you in a chemically induced menopause and causes more problems than help I'd stay far away from that. You deserve to be treated well and be taken seriously by a medical professional, I'm so sorry you're going through this

Yeah I seriously can't believe that this "doctor" claimed you can't have endo if you haven't been pregnant when endo is a common cause of infertility. Like it's usually the other way around ignorant doctor asshat!!!

[genderkoolaid]

Hi! Do you know if there's a way to stop completely menstrual cycles without using T?

I'm agender and afab, but i dont think i have any interest in going through HRT and even though i wouldn't call it dysphoria, my periods bothers me a lot. I find really it annoying and bothersome- i mean, it's basically my body bleeding every month and making my mood sour and irritable. I definitely dont like it. Im also aroace and i dont have any intentions of having biological children, so my uterus feels like the most useless organ in my body.....

I dont know any method of stopping my periods completely without messing up with my body's hormones. Like, i think going through a hysterectomy would probably fuck my hormones, right? But also thinking about this now, i could take E to maintain the status quo or would be that not possible? Or legal????

Im asking you cuz your blog has been really helpful and since you're a genderqueer person, i thought you would have an answer for my question. I barely see any info about genderqueer/nonbinary/transneutral medical transition so im absolutely clueless about this.

Even if it is a negative answer, that would still help me a lot.

(Ps: i really like your blog and i just want to say thank you for your work. It helps me and many other trans people by a lot!)

Birth control is the first thing that comes to mind. Here's Planned Parenthood's page on birth control; if you select "help with periods" it will show you the different types of BC that can help & which ones can be used to stop menstruation (as well as pricing & a bunch of other info). Birth control does use hormones to stop periods, but not by raising testosterone; you may have some side effects (here's the page on side effects for the pill) but it shouldn't change anything about your body in the way going on T would.

As for hysterectomy: you can get a hysto without removing your ovaries, which will continue to produce estrogen naturally (here's a website that gives info on hysterectomies for trans people). However, if you did get your ovaries removed, it is not only legal to take E but very much encouraged! If you aren't on either T or E, the lack of hormones can mess up your body & cause early menopause symptoms, so its very very common for people who get their ovaries removed to go on E. Here's more info on oopherectomy vs. no oopherectomy.

[mewos-laptop]

Hey y'all, just a reminder that even ppl w/out an underlying condition can still have debilitating and disabling periods !!!!

My first period made my parents so worried due to the amount of blood and how much pain I was in that they got me tested for period-related disabilities and none came up !!! My mother told me that the level of blood that was coming out of me and the pain and fatigue I was displaying was similar to her MENOPAUSE SYMPTOMS 😁😁 (I was 13/14 years old when I got my period !!)

I had to get on period canceling birth control because I was in so much pain and bleeding so much that I was getting nauseous and going through multiple large/x large pads per day !!!

When I had my period I at times felt like if I walked around too much my organs were going to fall out bc of the pain !!!!!!

So yeah, to all the birth control bans going on in America right now, FUCK. YOU.

Getting off my birth control would make me house-ridden for the majority of the week again, and even if I DID decide to go out I would feel sick and need frequent breaks from walking due to the pain and discomfort. Getting rid of birth control means taking away resources from those w/ PCOS, Endometriosis, and similar disabilities, as well as those who simply have really shitty, painful, bloody, and nauseating periods.

I'm fucking pissed off for every single right of mine getting taken away right now, and I cannot fucking imagine how those objectively more oppressed than I am are feeling. The world is so fucking unfair and unjust right now, but I promise you that there are people who care, and people who are fighting to keep out basic fucking rights. We aren't going to give up or give in, and even if you personally can't fight, there are thousands of us willing to fight on your behalf.

[canichangemyblogname]

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Didn’t want to start an argument with someone and also they changed their reblog permissions (and I likely know why).

Anyway… this post is kind of a willful misrepresentation of the critique of this practice.

Usually, when the pregnancy test practice is brought up, it’s by women who literally cannot be or get pregnant. They’re not complaining about some “woe is me. I have to pee on a stick. it’s so inconvenient.” They’re trying to point out how doctors generalize based on sex instead of looking at a patient’s available medical records to see that they can’t get pregnant.

The women who bring this up are making a similar argument to the “what anatomy do you have checklist” post. The checklist lists sexual anatomy that someone might need care for or that the doctors will need to consider in the patient’s care.

I also see women complain about this when they come in for something unrelated to pregnancy and the doctors write it off as likely pregnancy (similar to how they will write off any and every symptom as pms). My mother’s best friend went in for raging migraines and nausea. Despite being post menopausal, they told her she might be pregnant. They asked her to pee on a stick. She has an aneurysm. 

When my mother’s gallbladder exploded, the doctor wanted her to first take a pregnancy test to make sure she wasn’t in labor (huh??). Labor and a gallbladder bursting have two VERY different sets of symptoms. My mother was upset by this because 1.) she doesn’t have a uterus, 2.) she is post menopausal, 3.) pregnancy and labor do not exhibit the same symptoms as a gallbladder rupturing (she’s been in labor; this was not it), 4.) she knew something was WRONG. But they would NOT proceed until she had taken a test. It caused critical delays in her care.

The pee on a stick practice is often a part of medical misogyny and medical transphobia. Just because a practice might be a precaution, especially given that many women do not know they’re pregnant in the earliest stages of pregnancy, doesn’t mean it doesn’t also reinforce biases.

When women critique this practice, it’s not because they feel disgruntled or put-out that they have to take regular pregnancy tests while on meds that cause birth defects. It’s because a doctor saw an F next to their name and assumed, and this caused delays in their care or resulted in a lack of care for what truly ailed them.

I have a transfemme friend with an F next to her name. She cannot get pregnant. She does not have a uterus. Doctors ask her to take tests just to “make sure” all the time. This is medical transphobia.

My cousin is transmasc. He has an M next to his name. He has a uterus and can get pregnant. Last year, he was prescribed Accutane, but he was not prescribed the two forms of birth control that he needs to be on. Luckily, he is always vigilant about his medical care and looked into the drug. He called the doctor back to tell them, “I should be on birth control with this drug.” This is medical transphobia. (I’m pretty sure you also have to take regular pregnancy tests while on those meds.)

“There’s medical misogyny and transphobia that ACTUALLY kills people” really downplays the way this practice delays or denies care to people who cannot get pregnant, but who doctors “expect” can, and actively harms people who can get pregnant, but who doctors “expect” cannot.

Also HATE HATE HATE this whole “it’s drilled into our heads not to just believe patients.” You don’t think that might be a problem? Or a source of a lot of problems? There’s a difference between making sure you run the appropriate tests to cover your bases so you can ensure you give someone the proper care that considers all factors and “don’t believe people.”

[old-school-butch]

weird question but since you're menopausal, could you maybe explain what changes? because i cant find any normal info anywhere. most of it is centered around "oh you can get hot flashes" but i recently heard from someone you can get forgetfulness? or become really impatient? idk i'm trying to build out a career and i need to know if i need to make sure i can get access to like bioidentical birth control hormones for a few years or something.

I’m not sure if my experience is typical because I started menopause immediately after starting tamoxifen - which is an estrogen blocker, as part of my treatment for breast cancer. I’ve also never had trouble with my menstrual cycle, so although I don’t have to deal with the physical aspects of menstruation, it’s not like that’s a huge relief for me either.

5 years later I still have hot flashes, however I think those are improved if you can maintain a healthy BMI. I also went through weight gain as my sense of hunger was somewhat messed up - whether that was medication or menopause, it’s hard to say why. The most irritating symptom has been brain fog, because apparently estrogen fuels your memory.

I have adapted to all of these things, as one must. I dress in layers and have become adept at throwing the covers off me without waking up. I weigh myself every morning and am slowly working back to a normal weight. I write down everything, set alerts in my calendar and double check things - externalizing information helps me keep track of it.

Aging and menopause pose challenges that the rest of life has been preparing you for. Adapt and grow, don’t be afraid or take on problems you don’t need to. modern medicine is powerful, for both better and for worse. Tamoxifen is the single biggest reason breast cancer went from being a leading cause of death for women to being a relatively survivable cancer. But I tried to manage the hot flashes by taking Effexor, which trashed my sex drive. The ‘genital anesthesia’ of the SSRI was not worth it, so I’ve decided to put up with the hot flashes. There are many tools to deal with whatever comes up for you, but just because you can use doesn’t mean you should.

Accepting change and doing nothing to stop it is often the best course of (in)action, even though it’s often looks like a tricky, unpleasant path taking you out of your way - it brings you to some great viewpoints once you get there.

[deathbydarkelves]

re: periods and elves, since trolls have mating cycles (according to that one female troll joke, so dunno how canon it really is lol), maybe elves do too?

Maybe I'm paranoid, but as I was writing I realized this could break containment in a very unfortunate way so I’m just saying here at the start:

THIS POST IS ABOUT DEATHBYPIXELZ’S WORLD OF WARCRAFT AU. IT IS MEANT TO BE A NEUTRAL DISCUSSION OF BIOLOGY IN FANTASY. IT IS NOT INTENDED TO BE ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE.

Anyway…

The /flirt line, for those who were unaware/don’t remember:

I actually ended up having a whole conversation with some friends of mine about this topic, and did more research into menstruation and estrus in general (despite being AFAB I just never really cared to learn more). As a result I’ve landed on what I find to be a satisfactory hc answer, which is that elves menstruate every three months or so. Three is a somewhat arbitrary number, but my reasoning is as follows:

Elves have the same amount of control over their environment as irl humans, so resources are always plentiful, so there is no ecological pressure to have a yearly cycle (i.e. one which encourages birth during spring). They can afford a more frequent one.

However, being so long-lived, there is also no pressure to be, ah… capable quite as OFTEN as humans. Humans are only fertile a couple days a month, and elves in every setting I’m aware of are famously terrible at making more elves, so them only being fertile for a quarter of the time humans are creates an easy reason why.

It’s a good middle ground between “frequent enough to be relatable” and “just way too frequent for someone who's immortal”.

Three is a nice, easy-to-remember number.

In regards to the troll /flirt… My friends (who are heavily involved in the troll side of the fandom) informed me that line has long been used as justification for kinky at best, racist at worst fan works 💀 I’m not accusing anon of anything, just saying this thing has history I was previously unaware of.

And, yeah, I don’t really treat the /flirts as canon. Like, at all. There’s just too many that break the fourth wall or are otherwise non-diegetic that I can’t in good faith give much weight to any of them. To me, that line is a symptom of the very overt racism trolls have sadly been treated with since their inception.

(Note: I’m not damning fan works that use that line as inspiration on principle. I understand that’s a kink many people have, and I say do whatever works for you, as long as you, y’know, are aware of the racism that’s kinda just baked into this specific case. Kink responsibly lol)

Also worth stating that estrus/“heat” is just a term for “advertised fertility”, at least as far as I can tell. So, like, female moths releasing pheromones to attract males, or changes in behavior. But, I dunno, to me that seems like a really fuzzy term. Even humans sometimes have increased libido during that time, or changes in vaginal discharge. Does that count as “advertisement”? It’s a slight behavioral/physical change! And it's not like humans are somehow separate from all other animals; we're just animals too. So even if I treated that /flirt line as canon, the terminology used could just mean… "horny". And that’s how I’ll choose to interpret it, because sapient/humanlike races having expressly non-humanlike biological things like "a 'heat' so extreme it's equivalent to an altered state of mind" is just… an ick of mine, if I’m being honest. It certainly can be done well, like Jay Eaton’s Avian aliens, but it just doesn’t feel right for any of the races in WoW. In my opinion.

(Note 2: While I am a zoology student, I am in no way versed in these things like a farmer or dog breeder would be, so take my “what does ‘heat’ even mean” argument with a grain of salt. My point is humans also have hormone cycles which can affect libido and bodily secretions.)

Lastly, menopause: maybe this is just something that's really variable for them. I write elves as aging similarly to humans until their bodies are in a similar state to a thirty- or forty-year old human (at least on the surface), at which point aging dramatically slows. Menopause of course occurs in an average human's forties or fifties, so elves would stop physically aging for the most part right before that. Maybe some stop menstruating right at that point, maybe some go into their hundreds or thousands before that happens, maybe some bleed every three months for their whole lives. Or maybe the cycles get longer and longer and eventually stop /shrug. For an immortal race, a concrete age or age range for it just feels... wrong to me? So something fucked and unpredictable is my compromise. That also throws in another possible obstacle to making more elves, which fits thematically.

But as a TL;DR, I’ve settled on a three month cycle for them. Considering irl menstruating primates are on a 28-45 day range, I’d assume trolls are as well, and perhaps the first elves too. But as time went on and evolution occurred, helped and/or hindered by the Well of Eternity, that lengthened to three months (give or take), with the actual fertile period remaining the same. Keeps it frequent enough to feel relatable, but still feels appropriate for a group of races that lives so long and, in my AU, even sleeps every 36-48 hours instead of every 12(-ish). Menopause happens if and when it wants lol.

[mermazeablaze]

So I went to my gyno visit today at the Indian Clinic. I have been having issues hemorrhaging during my periods, off & on since 2013 (23yrs old, now 33). I already have children & my tubes are tied. I want a hysterectomy. My gyno is refusing.

Some Backstory:

A male gyno specialist (2013) refused hysterectomy & kept saying, "Tubals can be reversed. You might want more children. Hysterectomies are permanent."

I have three children & due to a hereditary disorder anesthesia increases my chances of seizures. I almost DIED during my last child's birth, C-section including tubal **AND** sedated.

When I told him I was firm on not having anymore biological children because of that. He kept pushing for 'uterine/endometrial ablation'. Which is where they burn off your uterine lining to pause your periods or can do it enough where you don't have another period. I told him no & sought a second opinion.

My second opinion was a female gyno who tested my hormone levels, ultrasounds, MRI &EKGs even to rule out pregnancy &/or hormone imbalance. Everything came back fine. Yet I was still hemorrhaging.

Female gyno insinuated I was either exaggerating or lying about the bleeding. So I saved a day's worth of saturated feminine products & brought them to her. She was grossed out, but realized I was telling the truth.

Female gyno placed me on Seasonique. A birth control pill which gives you four periods a year, to see if it would help regulate the bleeding. It did for almost a year, by then 2014. But it started giving me intense depression & irrational thoughts.

Female gyno told me to stop taking it & wait a month before trying something else.

During that time my right arm not my left would tingle off & on. I would get woozy & nauseous. Cold sweats & feel clammy. One night all of those symptoms descended upon me except with the addition of my heart racing. Not hurting just racing. & my body was screaming something wasn't right. It's one of the few times I can consciously say I knew I could be dying. It was scary.

I went to the ER & after testing I was having a cardiac event from a blood clot forcing itself through my heart. My white blood cell count was almost FOUR TIMES the amount a person usually has during a heart attack.

I was in the hospital for a little over a week, angiogram & making sure another blood clot didn't develop. They believe the Seasonique was the cause.

Since then I've just been suffering with the sporadic hemorrhaging since then. Which is now including debilitating & excruciating pain.

Which is why I went to the gyno today, different from the previous two. Only to be told that she wasn't going to give me an updated hormone screening, ultrasound, MRI, etc. She offered me ablation or birth control.

I told her I don't see the point in ablation. It has so many horrendous possible side effects, including hemorrhaging! Plus, she would want to do the type of ablation where it rids you of a period. But a hysterectomy does the same fucking thing.

& I'm not taking birth control. Not gonna to risk either exacerbating my depression or another heart attack.

She was trying to say: But you'll need hormones after a hysterectomy!

Me: & birth control isn't hormones?!

& that I want a second opinion on the hysterectomy. I am 33, my mind has been made up since I was 23, I have kids, I have a tubal & I'm basically praying for menopause the past five years. So I don't have to keep dealing with this bullshit.

She put in a referral for the second opinion & didn't bother to talk to me about pain management. She was too busy feeling butthurt that I know what I want & need & she couldn't give me a good enough reason why aside from, "Because!"

Sidenote: When I get my hysterectomy & I will. I want a shirt made that says:

"Ask me why I'm no longer hysterical, I'm just hilarious now."

[sandhyamedicity]

Understanding Heart Disease: What is Heart Disease

What is Heart Disease?

Heart disease, also known as cardiovascular disease (CVD), encompasses a range of conditions affecting the heart and blood vessels. It is the leading cause of death worldwide, causing significant morbidity and mortality. The term "heart disease" is often used interchangeably with "cardiovascular disease," although technically, cardiovascular disease includes all diseases of the heart and blood vessels, while heart disease specifically refers to conditions affecting the heart itself.

Types of Heart Disease

Coronary Artery Disease (CAD): CAD is the most common type of heart disease and occurs when the coronary arteries, which supply blood to the heart muscle, become narrowed or blocked due to plaque buildup (atherosclerosis). This can lead to chest pain (angina), heart attacks, and other complications.

Heart Failure: Heart failure, or congestive heart failure, happens when the heart muscle is unable to pump blood efficiently, leading to a buildup of fluid in the lungs and other tissues. Causes include CAD, hypertension, and cardiomyopathy.

Arrhythmias: These are disorders of the heart's rhythm, which can be too fast (tachycardia), too slow (bradycardia), or irregular. Common arrhythmias include atrial fibrillation and ventricular fibrillation, which can significantly impact heart function.

Heart Valve Disease: Heart valve disease involves damage to one or more of the heart's valves, affecting blood flow within the heart. Conditions include stenosis (narrowing of the valve), regurgitation (leakage of the valve), and prolapse (improper closure of the valve).

Congenital Heart Defects: These are heart abnormalities present at birth, ranging from simple defects like a hole in the heart's walls (septal defects) to more complex malformations. They can affect how blood flows through the heart and to the rest of the body.

Cardiomyopathy: Cardiomyopathy refers to diseases of the heart muscle. The heart muscle becomes enlarged, thickened, or rigid, which can lead to heart failure or arrhythmias. Types include dilated, hypertrophic, and restrictive cardiomyopathy.

Pericarditis: Pericarditis is inflammation of the pericardium, the thin sac surrounding the heart. It can cause chest pain and fluid buildup around the heart, affecting its function.

Causes and Risk Factors

Heart disease is influenced by a combination of genetic, environmental, and lifestyle factors. Major risk factors include:

High Blood Pressure (Hypertension): Hypertension forces the heart to work harder to pump blood, leading to the thickening of the heart muscle and potential heart failure.

High Cholesterol: Elevated levels of cholesterol, particularly low-density lipoprotein (LDL), contribute to the formation of plaque in the arteries, leading to atherosclerosis.

Smoking: Smoking damages the lining of blood vessels, increases blood pressure, reduces oxygen to the heart, and raises the risk of heart disease.

Diabetes: Diabetes significantly increases the risk of heart disease. High blood sugar levels can damage blood vessels and the nerves that control the heart.

Obesity: Excess body weight strains the heart, raises blood pressure, and increases the likelihood of diabetes and cholesterol problems.

Physical Inactivity: A sedentary lifestyle contributes to obesity, hypertension, and other heart disease risk factors.

Unhealthy Diet: Diets high in saturated fats, trans fats, cholesterol, sodium, and sugar can lead to heart disease by raising cholesterol levels, blood pressure, and weight.

Family History: A family history of heart disease increases one's risk, suggesting a genetic predisposition.

Age and Gender: Risk increases with age, and men are generally at higher risk earlier in life than women, although women's risk increases and can surpass men's post-menopause.

Symptoms

Symptoms of heart disease vary by condition but may include:

Chest pain or discomfort (angina)

Shortness of breath

Pain, numbness, or coldness in the legs or arms

Fatigue

Lightheadedness or dizziness

Palpitations (irregular heartbeats)

Swelling in the legs, ankles, and feet

Diagnosis and Treatment

Diagnosing heart disease often involves a combination of medical history review, physical examination, and diagnostic tests such as:

Electrocardiogram (ECG or EKG)

Echocardiogram

Stress tests

Blood tests

Cardiac catheterization

CT or MRI scans

Treatment strategies vary based on the specific type of heart disease and its severity and may include:

Lifestyle Modifications: Healthy diet, regular exercise, smoking cessation, and weight management are crucial for preventing and managing heart disease.

Medications: Medications can control risk factors such as hypertension, high cholesterol, and diabetes, or treat specific heart conditions like arrhythmias and heart failure.

Procedures and Surgeries: Angioplasty, stent placement, bypass surgery, valve repair or replacement, and implantable devices like pacemakers or defibrillators may be necessary for severe cases.

Prevention

Preventing heart disease involves managing risk factors through:

Maintaining a healthy diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats

Regular physical activity

Avoiding tobacco use

Controlling blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar levels

Regular health screenings

Stress management techniques

Understanding and addressing heart disease through lifestyle changes, medical management, and preventive measures is crucial in reducing its impact and improving overall heart health.

[thescrumblingmidwife]

Are there cons to having your tubes tied? In what places/states would that be easiest as a young unmarried unchildhaving afab person?

Hi Anon!

This is one where I have to speak somewhat generally, because midwives do not perform tubal ligations. I know the procedure can be performed a couple of different ways, and that some of the methods have a longer recovery time than others.

Here are the cons that I can speak to:

Surgical risks - infection, reaction to anesthesia, hemorrhage (uncontrolled bleeding), perforation/trauma to other organs, fever, etc. These risks are not likely, but are possibilities that comes with any surgical procedure.

Surgical recovery - abdominal and/or shoulder pain, bloating, some bleeding at incision site or vaginally, vaginal discharge, risk of incision site infection, nausea/vomiting. Will need to take a few days off of work/school to recover.

Cost may be high or insurance coverage may be limited

Wait times or finding a provider to do it, especially if you are young

Permanent, if you ever change your mind

Regret is a possibility (around 12% report regret... goes down after age 30).

Believe it or not, it's still only 99% effective - there are hormonal birth control methods that are more effective! The failure rate is higher in people under age 30.

If a pregnancy does occur, it is more likely to be ectopic (somewhere other than in the uterus, usually in the tube), which is a medical emergency.

It does not prevent against STIs

Post-tubal ligation syndrome is a not-well-understood outcome in which some people have reported menopause-like symptoms, such as hot flashes, night sweats, a dry vagina, mood swings, trouble sleeping, a lower sex drive, and irregular periods; or heavy, painful periods. It's more likely in people under age 30.

That's a long list, and I don't want you to think I'm telling you that getting tubes tied is bad. It's great for most of the people who do it! But I believe in true informed consent, which means understanding all the possible outcomes.

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This next part is assuming Anon is in the USA. Unfortunately, I cannot offer advice to anyone anywhere else in the world beyond suggesting you talk to your OBGYN.

As far as where to go, Anon, I'd start with your insurance plan if you have one. They should be able to provide you with a list of providers who are in-network who perform the procedure. From there it may be a matter of calling until you find someone who will see a patient your age. If your insurance covers it, and you could find a provider to do it, it could even potentially be free.

If you don't have insurance, I would start with PlannedParenthood:

If neither of those produces anything, there is a list compiled by an OBGYN from Rochester, NY, Dr. Fran Haydanek. Please read the caveats at the top of the document carefully so you understand what this list is and isn't.

OK, Anon. Hope this helps!

[f1uckinghell]

After jasper is born there being one more baby, the most random pairing, Lando and Pierre. Lando thinking that he’s old enough to go off of birth control after he starts experiencing some menopause symptoms. Surprise he's still fertile and gets pregnant with Pierre’s baby. Lando thinking his scent is changing and his pregnancy symptoms are because of menopause. Him going to the doctor to confirm that it is menopause and the doctor congratulates him on his pregnancy.

Somehow I love this???? Adding this to the oops all pups!AU

Lando is absolutely shook when he finds out he's pregnant, he did NOT expect that, and Pierre as the father of all people?! I can see him having a bit of a tantrum about it tbh 👀 and knowing the whole backstory with Luna etc. Pierre is like "...hey if you don't want to actually have this one, it's okay yes?" but then Lando gets protective like "FUCK no, I AM going to have your baby!"

[renlyslittlerose]

Time to get a little bit personal on my blog because I haven’t any other place to talk about my recent health issues~ Putting it under a cut because there are discussions of reproductive issues, surgery, and periods which I know can be triggering for some!

 Went in for some exploratory surgery at the start of October to positively diagnose endometriosis that I knew I had and was being treated for the past seven years. When I first went to my gyno back in 2016 about the pain and issues I was experiencing she diagnosed me with endometriosis right off the bat - she didn’t even feel a need to do a diagnostic laparoscopy because my symptoms matched almost perfectly. She put me on hormonal medication (not birth control) and I actually saw a major reduction in symptoms. Not everything was gone, but the worst of it was so I was content.

Flashforward to early 2022 and I went to visit my family doctor to discuss some health issues I was having - some of which were tied up with my ovaries and uterus. I was telling him that I was still experiencing some issues, that my medication sometimes feels like I’m damaging my body further (bone density being the biggest), and that I didn’t know what to do next. He suggested a hysterectomy. 

 So I went to my gyno who, while supportive, wanted me to be armed with as much knowledge as possible and suggested a diagnostic lap for the first time - just to see what was actually going on. So I went in for surgery (with lots of fun things happening along the way - like discovering that when I faint from seeing blood I actually have a minor fit that looks like a seizure l o l), got pictures of my insides, and was told to come back to my gyno in 6 weeks to discuss ‘my future’.

Six weeks later and: I’ve been officially diagnosed with endo and I’ve been given all manner of options. Remove my ovaries and tubes but keep my uterus, remove everything and enter early menopause, continue with what I’m doing until I enter natural menopause, continue what I’m going until I’m 40 and then have a complete hysterectomy and enter early menopause, go to see an endo specialist and have them remove what endo tissue they can. 

 And of course, all of these options carry huge amounts of risk. Entering early menopause, even with hormonal therapy, greatly increased a person’s risk of dementia, heart disease, and bone density issues (the latter which I already struggle with). As well, scar tissue has fused my uterus to my bowels, making the risk of surgery high due - if they puncture the bowel I could be on an ostomy bag. But if I do nothing I’m still abusing my body with another type of hormonal medication that’s got its own negative feedback loop. Not to mention the medication doesn’t work forever. It’s supposed to, but it doesn’t. And I cannot and will not have my periods again. It’s just not possible.

 So I decided to be put on the long waitlist to see the specialist, and hear what he suggests. In the meantime I’m going to spend the next year researching and running my brain in circles trying to decide my future, which is a lot harder than I thought it would be. I thought I’d go in, choose the complete hysterectomy and it’d be an easy one and done type thing. But it isn’t and I hate that it isn’t. I don’t want kids, I’m ace as fuck so I’ve never wanted sex so those aren’t issues for me. But it’s the potential to screw my body up even more that scares me. Like if I make the wrong call I’ll fuck myself over for the rest of my life.

 God I hate this disease. I hate that I have to have it. I hate that it’s cost me so much of my life, and that there is no quick, easy, painless fix. I hate that I had to even undergo invasive surgery to know what was really going on. It’s so stupid and useless and frustrating and I fucking hate it. 

 Anyways. I just needed to talk about it in detail. If you read this and identify with it, I’m sorry you’re going through pain as well. And a reminder: painful periods are not normal. Periods where you can’t leave your bed and you’re vomiting and shitting your guts out aren’t normal. Periods where you’re so bloated you think you’re going to break through the walls of your stomach is not normal. If you can, seek help. Demand answers. Advocate for yourself. 

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What are Sign and Risk Factor of Cervical Cancer ? Which Hospital Cerivcal Cancer Specialist in Delhi?

Cervical cancer is a significant health concern affecting women worldwide. While advancements in medical science have improved our understanding of the disease and its prevention, it remains crucial for women to be aware of the signs and risk factors associated with cervical cancer. Early detection can greatly increase the chances of successful treatment. In this article, we will explore the signs and risk factors of cervical cancer.

Signs of Cervical Cancer

Abnormal Vaginal Bleeding: One of the most common signs of cervical cancer is abnormal vaginal bleeding. This can manifest as bleeding between menstrual periods, after intercourse, or after menopause. Any unexplained vaginal bleeding should be promptly reported to a healthcare provider.

Pelvic Pain: Persistent, unexplained pelvic pain or discomfort can be a sign of cervical cancer. This pain may occur during intercourse or at other times and should not be ignored.

Pain During Intercourse: Pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse, known as dyspareunia, can also be indicative of cervical cancer. It may occur due to the growth of tumors in the cervix.

Unusual Vaginal Discharge: An unusual vaginal discharge that is watery, bloody, or has a foul odor may be a sign of cervical cancer. It is essential to differentiate between normal vaginal discharge and unusual changes.

Painful Urination: Cervical cancer Treatment in Delhi can sometimes cause urinary symptoms, including painful urination. However, this is less common than other symptoms and can also be caused by various other conditions.

Fatigue and Weight Loss: As with many cancers, cervical cancer can cause general symptoms like fatigue and unexplained weight loss. These symptoms are often seen in advanced stages of the disease.

Risk Factors of Cervical Cancer

Human Papillomavirus (HPV) Infection: HPV is the leading risk factor for cervical cancer. It is a common sexually transmitted infection that can lead to changes in cervical cells, potentially progressing to cancer over time. Vaccination against HPV is available and recommended for young individuals to reduce this risk.

Smoking: Smoking is a significant risk factor for cervical cancer. Women who smoke are more likely to develop the disease and have a higher chance of it progressing to an advanced stage.

Weak Immune System: A weakened immune system, often due to conditions like HIV/AIDS or immunosuppressive medications, can increase the risk of cervical cancer. A robust immune system helps the body fight off HPV infections.

Early Age of Sexual Activity: Engaging in sexual activity at an early age, particularly before the age of 18, increases the risk of exposure to HPV and, consequently, cervical cancer.

Multiple Sexual Partners: Having multiple sexual partners can increase the risk of HPV infection, which is a primary cause of cervical cancer. Cervical Cancer Doctor in Delhi

Family History: Women with a family history of cervical cancer may have a higher risk due to possible genetic factors or shared environmental exposures.

Oral Contraceptive Use: Long-term use of oral contraceptives (birth control pills) may slightly increase the risk of cervical cancer. However, this risk decreases after stopping their use.

Socioeconomic Factors: Limited access to healthcare and regular screenings can also increase the risk, as cervical cancer may not be detected in its early stages.

Sunrise hospital has the Cervical Cancer Specialist in Delhi.

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Why Women’s Wellness: Understanding High Cholesterol and Heart Disease in Women

At Access Health Care Physicians, LLC, we prioritize women's wellness and recognize the unique health challenges they may face. In this article, we delve into the critical topic of high cholesterol and heart disease in women, shedding light on the importance of understanding these conditions to promote better heart health.

Introduction:

Heart disease is a leading cause of mortality among women worldwide. While it has long been associated with men, women also face significant risks related to heart health, particularly concerning high cholesterol levels. Understanding the connection between high cholesterol and heart disease is vital for empowering women to make informed decisions about their health.

The Impact of High Cholesterol on Heart Health:

Cholesterol is a waxy, fat-like substance that our bodies need to build healthy cells. However, when cholesterol levels become elevated, it can lead to the accumulation of fatty deposits in the arteries, restricting blood flow to the heart. This condition, known as atherosclerosis, significantly increases the risk of heart disease and related complications.

Unique Risk Factors for Women:

Women may experience specific risk factors for high cholesterol and heart disease that differ from those of men. Some of these risk factors include:

Hormonal Changes: Hormonal fluctuations throughout a woman's life, such as during pregnancy, menopause, and the use of hormonal birth control, can impact cholesterol levels and heart health.

Smoking: Smoking is a prominent risk factor for heart disease in women. Female smokers face a higher risk of heart attacks and other cardiovascular issues.

Diabetes: Women with diabetes are at an increased risk of developing heart disease compared to men with diabetes.

Sedentary Lifestyle: Physical inactivity can lead to weight gain and unfavorable changes in cholesterol levels, contributing to heart disease risk.

Stress and Depression: Chronic stress and depression have been linked to higher cholesterol levels and an increased risk of heart disease in women.

Recognizing Symptoms in Women:

Women may experience different heart attack symptoms than men. While chest pain is a common symptom for both genders, women may also present with other signs, including:

Pain or discomfort in the neck, jaw, or upper back

Shortness of breath

Nausea or vomiting

Lightheadedness or fainting

Pain or discomfort in one or both arms

It is essential for women to be aware of these symptoms and seek immediate medical attention if they experience any of them.

Preventive Measures for Women's Heart Health:

Preventing heart disease begins with proactive lifestyle choices and regular health checkups. Here are some preventive measures that women can take to improve heart health:

Healthy Diet: Adopt a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Limit the intake of saturated and trans fats, as they can contribute to elevated cholesterol levels.

Regular Exercise: Engage in regular physical activity, such as walking, jogging, swimming, or cycling, for at least 150 minutes per week.

Manage Stress: Practice stress-reduction techniques, such as meditation, yoga, or deep breathing exercises, to promote emotional well-being.

Quit Smoking: If you smoke, seek support to quit smoking and improve your heart health significantly.

Regular Checkups: Schedule regular visits with healthcare providers for preventive screenings and cholesterol level assessments.

Conclusion:

Promoting women's wellness involves understanding the specific risks and challenges they may face concerning heart health. High cholesterol is a significant contributor to heart disease in women, but with early detection and lifestyle modifications, it can be effectively managed and even prevented.

At Access Health Care Physicians, LLC, we are committed to providing comprehensive care to women, empowering them to take charge of their health. Our team of healthcare providers offers personalized guidance and support to enhance heart health and overall well-being.

Educate yourself about heart disease and high cholesterol, make informed choices, and take proactive steps towards a healthier heart and a happier life.

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Pelvic Floor Exercises for Bladder Control

What are the Pelvic Floor Muscles and Their Importance for Both Men and Women?

The pelvic floor muscles are a vital group of ligaments found in both men and women, supporting the pelvic region. In women, these muscles, nerves, and ligaments provide essential support for the bladder, rectum, and reproductive organs. Meanwhile, in men, the pelvic floor muscles play a crucial role in protecting the bladder, rectum, and other organs within the pelvic region. It is important to note that pelvic floor weakness can occur in both men and women and is equally prevalent in both genders.

Signs of Pelvic Floor Muscle Weakness in Women

Indications of pelvic floor muscle weakness in women may encompass various symptoms such as:

Increased frequency of urination: Women with weakened pelvic floor muscles may experience a more frequent urge to urinate, even when the bladder is not full.

Painful urination unrelated to urinary tract infections: Discomfort or pain during urination can be a sign of pelvic floor muscle weakness.

Painful intercourse: Weakened pelvic floor muscles may contribute to discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse, known as dyspareunia.

Bowel difficulties: Pelvic floor muscle weakness can affect bowel movements, leading to difficulties such as constipation or incomplete bowel emptying.

Pelvic muscle spasms: Spasms or involuntary contractions in the pelvic area may occur as a result of weakened pelvic floor muscles.

Lower back pain: Weakness in the pelvic floor muscles can contribute to lower back pain, as the muscles play a role in stabilizing the pelvic region.

It is important to note that these symptoms can vary in severity and may also be indicative of other underlying conditions. If you experience any of these symptoms, it is advisable to consult with a healthcare professional for a proper evaluation and guidance on appropriate treatment options.

What Contributes to Pelvic Floor Weakness in Women?

Pelvic floor weakness in women can occur due to a variety of factors. These include:

Childbirth: The process of giving birth, especially through vaginal delivery, can put significant strain on the pelvic floor muscles, potentially causing weakness or damage.

Menopause and Aging: Hormonal changes during menopause and the natural aging process can contribute to a decline in muscle tone and strength, including the pelvic floor muscles.

Weight-related Factors: Being overweight or obese can exert excessive pressure on the pelvic floor muscles, potentially leading to weakness over time.

Heavy Lifting: Engaging in frequent and excessive heavy lifting activities, such as weightlifting at the gym, can strain the pelvic floor muscles, contributing to weakness.

Pelvic Region Injury: Trauma or injury to the pelvic area, such as from accidents or surgeries, can weaken the pelvic floor muscles.

Bowel Issues: Chronic constipation or straining during bowel movements can place undue stress on the pelvic floor muscles, potentially resulting in weakness.

Nerve Damage: Certain conditions or injuries that affect the nerves controlling the pelvic floor muscles can lead to weakness or dysfunction.

Genetic Factors: While not as common, some women may have an inherent predisposition to pelvic floor weakness due to genetic factors.

It is important to note that individual experiences may vary, and multiple factors can contribute to pelvic floor weakness. Consulting with a healthcare professional can help determine the specific causes and provide appropriate management strategies.

Benefits of Pelvic Floor Exercises for Women

Having a weakened pelvic floor can lead to inconvenience and discomfort, and if left unaddressed, it may contribute to various health issues, including bowel incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse. However, there are several benefits to strengthening your pelvic floor through exercises. These exercises are relatively simple and can be incorporated into your daily routine, even while engaging in other activities such as driving or watching television.

Here are some exercises that can help strengthen your pelvic floor:

Kegel Exercises: Kegels involve contracting and releasing the muscles around the vagina and anus, similar to the action of stopping urination mid-stream or holding in gas. By regularly performing kegel exercises, you can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. Start by contracting the muscles for a few seconds, then releasing for a few seconds, and repeat. Gradually increase the number of repetitions. Remember that kegel exercises should never cause extreme discomfort or pain, and if they do, it's important to consult your healthcare professional.

Healthy Diet and Exercise: Maintaining a healthy diet and weight is crucial for pelvic floor strength. Extra weight can increase pressure on the pelvic floor muscles. Additionally, regular exercise, including activities that engage the abdominal muscles, can contribute to a stronger pelvic floor. However, it's important to be cautious when lifting heavy weights, as this can potentially strain the pelvic floor.

Yoga: Yoga not only stretches and strengthens the entire body but also targets the pelvic floor muscles. Specific yoga poses, such as child's pose, can be beneficial for pelvic floor strength. Numerous studies have demonstrated that practicing yoga can improve pelvic floor weakness and reduce the symptoms of bowel incontinence.

By incorporating pelvic floor exercises into your routine, you can experience several benefits, including improved muscle strength, better bladder and bowel control, reduced risk of pelvic organ prolapse, and enhanced overall pelvic health. Remember to consult with your healthcare professional for guidance on the appropriate exercises and techniques tailored to your specific needs.

How long does it take to strengthen the pelvic floor with exercise?

Regularly practicing Kegel exercises can lead to a reduction in pelvic floor weakness within a few weeks. However, the timeframe for noticeable results may vary depending on the severity of the weakness. In some cases, it may take a few months of consistent exercise to observe significant improvements. It's important to remember that it's never too early or too late to incorporate Kegels and other pelvic floor exercises into your daily routine. By making them a regular part of your exercise regimen, you can proactively strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and promote better pelvic health.

Can pelvic floor exercises cure incontinence?

Pelvic floor weakness can be effectively treated through exercise, eliminating the need for surgical intervention in many cases. The majority of exercises targeting the pelvic floor can be performed conveniently at home. However, some individuals may benefit from seeking the guidance of a physical therapist to complement their at-home exercises. Physical therapists can offer specialized treatments such as biofeedback, which has proven successful in strengthening and retraining pelvic muscles for over 75% of individuals.

By actively engaging in targeted exercises and potentially incorporating biofeedback techniques, individuals with pelvic floor weakness can experience significant improvements in muscle strength and function. These non-surgical approaches empower individuals to take control of their pelvic health and overcome the challenges associated with weakened pelvic floor muscles. It is advisable to consult with a healthcare professional or physical therapist to receive personalized guidance and recommendations tailored to your specific needs.

Leak proof underwear

When dealing with pelvic floor weakness, one of the most significant concerns is keeping your underwear dry throughout the day. While panty liners may provide a temporary solution, they often require frequent changes and can become uncomfortable or shift with movement. Additionally, the limited options for leak-proof panty liners can be frustrating.

Leakproof underwear, on the other hand, offers all-day protection without the need for constant changes or worries about leaks. They are designed to be comfortable and discreet under clothing, providing a seamless experience.

The benefits of leakproof underwear include:

Protection from urine leakage caused by coughing, sneezing, or laughing, commonly associated with pelvic floor weakness.

Odor-fighting properties that help you feel fresh and dry throughout the day.

Lightweight construction, allowing for comfortable wear during extended periods.

Prevention of breakthrough and leakage onto other clothing, ensuring peace of mind and avoiding embarrassing situations.

Breathable materials that promote airflow and ventilation, maintaining a comfortable and hygienic environment.

With leakproof underwear, you can confidently go about your day without the worry of leaks or discomfort. Embrace the convenience and reliability of leakproof underwear as a practical and reliable solution for managing pelvic floor weakness.