#digitaldiaries

[archivedsmile]

[ohpassenger]

someone really liked gale in the animation team i feel like

[vamp1regirl]

[caesarandthecity]

The Date Game: Olympic Sport or Minefield?

Dating, darling, is it an art or a game? And if it's a game, shouldn't it be an Olympic sport? Just picture it: all the guys I've dated, competing for the gold medal in... well, we'll get to that. But first, let's talk about the rules (or lack thereof).

Every game has rules, right? They make things more fun, more challenging, and help you understand the goal. But dating, my sweet summer children, has ZERO rules. It's like being dropped in the middle of the ocean with a blindfold and a paddleboard.

I have yet to receive a rulebook for the GAME, the game of love. (Is that even what we're playing?)

I don't know about you, but I don't think people go on dates to find love. In my experience, it's more about finding someone who isn't a total nutjob, a psycho, or a cheater (that last one is harder to spot than a fake Rolex).

Gay dating, in particular, is two guys trying to out-impress each other with the same, tired lies. During the date, everyone's Mr. Perfect: zero baggage, amazing exes, no drug problems, mental health? Aced it! Workaholic, but with a heart of gold. It all sounds too good to be true... and honey, it usually is.

Social media is partly to blame. We're all curating our "perfect" lives online, and some people are taking that facade offline. I've met guys who are living their Instagram fantasy IRL, and let me tell you, it's exhausting.

But that's not even the worst part. The thing that really gets me is that dating feels like a never-ending job interview. Think about it:

I apply for the job: Based on my carefully curated profile pics and witty bio.

I'm randomly selected for an interview: If my pics are cute enough and my bio doesn't sound like a serial killer's manifesto.

I go to the interview: AKA the date, where I put on my best performance and hope they don't notice I'm wearing Spanx.

Now, here's where it gets different: If I don't get the job, I'm still open to a little "consolation prize" (if you catch my drift). In the real world, you don't sleep with your HR manager after a failed interview. But in the dating game? Anything goes.

So yes, I downloaded Tinder, took some flattering selfies, and crafted a bio that would make Shakespeare jealous. And you know what? It's been... interesting. Expect a full report in my next post, including tales of awkward Grindr encounters, unexpected hookups, and maybe even a happy ending (or two).

Ps. We're in 2024—can we normalize sex on the first date (or soon after)? Why is this still taboo? Sex is important in any relationship, romantic or otherwise, and it's weird that we don't talk about it more openly. Let's be real, we need to talk about sex, learn about it, and teach it without shame or judgment. This starts with looking inward and seeing our lives (and desires) with fresh eyes. Sex isn't dirty or ugly; it's a natural form of energy and connection. I want to know if the person I'm dating matches my energy in all ways, including sexually. 

Stay tuned, my loves! And remember, always swipe right for yourself first.

Cheers,

Caesar

[warsvessel]

── ⠀⠀⠀digital diary

⠀⠀thoughts⠀⠀entry OO1⠀⠀9/20/24

i don’t get why people think everyone is weird. i mean i think i’m “weird” but i don’t even know what weird rlly is. like when i do something and everyone looks at me, is that weird??? finding people who understand me is so hard. maybe its because of the way i am. i don’t even care now because i think i’m starting to like myself now that i’m in high school.

everything i’ve done before was bad, everyone makes mistakes. some mistakes aren’t forgivable to other people but i should learn to not hold grudges and be more positive. sometimes things cant be fixed and i need to think on the brighter side of things. lifes good.

[pignation]

el jaleo

[skidzobrainia]

8/2/24 digital diary!

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-- I'm doing pretty well today! I kinda spent the first couple hours lamenting I couldn't get past the child-guard to my own vitamins... but after I got past it with asking someone to help me the TRUE STRENGTH OF FRIENDSHIP I got to starting my day. As of writing this I havent done my usual daily drawing session, but I have started work on a COOL LITTLE ROBLOX STUDIO HOUSE BUILD (pictured)

I would have more, but I kinda got distracted and started really formatting my tumblr for a few hours, like my pinned post and links and allat. I've been on this website a very long time with previous blogs, yet only now I've finally started formatting. I think I'll work a little more on my roblox thang and really get to doodling a little later.

-- I plan to begin a rewatch of the fuzzy felt moomin series, which I havent watched in full in maybe, 5 years or so? how time flies... either that, or I continue my lego movie binge. and I dont just mean the warner ones. I mean every single lego movie thats been made that catches my interest. watched Lego batman: DC heroes unite with my mother last night and I REALLY enjoyed it!

thats all for this post. might do another one l8r today if I have such an inkling too... but these diaries are kinda my own thing you know? so I do it when I feeeeellllll like it :)

thanks for reading!

[angelic-teary]

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[kundalinitemplates]

I will show you that manifesting really is THAT easy. [new worksheets available on my etsy]

* what does it include? *

✧ in depth guide

✧ create your desired self concept and work on it - 3 templates

✧ drop the old story and detach from it - 2 templates

✧ create your new story (clarify your desired outcome)

✧ visualisation practice

✧ scripting - 2 templates

✧ affirming and presisting - 3 templates

✧ very specific LOA journal prompts - 2 templates

✧ daily log-in

✧ notepad

✧ Nerville Goddard's teachings + motivation & quotes - 3 templates

[fjoiar]

[archivedsmile]

— Francis Forever by Mitski

[ohpassenger]

actually in fiction the consuming of a relationship, the carnal act, doesn't always happen between two characters who unequivocally interact with one another. contrary to popular belief, two or more characters can have sex in more complex & intricate ways than stripping the other of clothes and just having sex. of course the best example of this we see in fight club 1999

[vamp1regirl]

[warsvessel]

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𝓘 post here for fun only, 99% of the time i won't use this app always but i will whenever i have the need to talk about something.

𝓚eep in mind that i'm a minor please don't be too harsh on the little thoughts in my head.

𝓞ther wise I hope you like my tiny digital diary I made for fun ^_^!

[zeit-ver-schwendung]

digital diary

there's something exciting happening everyday this august and thats not how augusts used to be but i'm so here for it

[duck-omlette]

My Digital Diary Starts with an Intro

My name is Gabriella, I'm 19, Female, Queer, and a student. I'm using this Tumblr as a digital diary that I won't openly share with IRL friends/acquaintances unless they happen to find me. My blog is open for anyone to see, but it's mostly a place for me to be my most open self without judgment.

New to Tumblr, as it has never been my platform of choice, but I'm open to making like-minded friends along the way so don't b shy 2 reach out <3.