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प्रेम विवाह में तलाक की दर ज्याद क्यों ?

प्रेम अनंत काल से पवित्र माना जाता है, और प्रेम विवाह सुखी जीवन का मूलमंत्र, ऐसा नहीं है सुसंगत विवाह में प्रेम नहीं होता है, सुसंगत विवाह में मनुष्य के मन में एक इक्षा सदैव रहता है जो कि उसके मन में अनंत काल तक खटकती है, किंतु प्रेम विवाह में मनुष्य को अपने अनुसार पति/पत्नी  चुनने का मौका रहता है, जिसके साथ वो खुशी के संग अपने पूरे जीवन को व्यतीत कर सके!!

किंतु आज के दौर में जैसे-जैसे प्रेम विवाह का दर बढ़ रहा है उसी तेजी से तलाक का दर भी बढ़ रहा है, वैसे भारत में केरल शिक्षा दर में प्रथम स्थान पर है किंतु तलाक लेने के मामले में भी केरल ने ही  सर्वप्रथम स्थान पर कब्जा कर रखा है, जिसका मूल कारण भी शिक्षा है, जब बच्चे उच्चस्तरीय शिक्षा प्राप्त कर लेते हैं तो गार्जियन को लगता है अब बच्चे समझदार हो चुके हैं, क्योंकि उनके पास जीवनयापन के लिए एक परमानेंट नौकरी है, और उनके चुने हुये साथी के साथ विवाह करवा देते हैं, यूपी-बिहार में अभी भी प्रेम विवाह में काफी दिक्कतों का सामना करना पड़ता है प्रेमियों को, किंतु अब बच्चें कही भाग ना जाये या आत्महत्या ना कर ले उस विवशता में बच्चों के फैसले को स्वीकार कर लेते हैं गार्जियन, उनको लगता हैं बच्चे खुश रहेंगे तो हम खुश रहेंगे, पर गार्जियन को इस बात का तनिक भनक नहीं होता इस विवाह से पहले उनके बच्चों ने काफी शर्त पहले ही मनवा लिया है एक-दूसरे से!!

विवाह दो आत्माओं का मेल है ऐसा कहा जाता है किंतु ना तो ये त्रेता युग है ना ही कोई यहाँ पर शिव, फिर भी प्रेम अभी भी अपने मर्यादा और संस्कार के वजह से जीवित है, नहीं तो  87% प्रेम तो वासनाओं से घिरा है और जिसका आंखों देखा हाल आपको आपके आस-पास ही देखने को मिलेगा, और ना जाने इस चक्कर में लाखों लड़कियों और हजारों लड़कों ने अपने जीवन को मृत्यु में तब्दील कर लिया है इसका एक अहम विषय स्वत्रंत रहना भी है!!

अब आते हैं मुद्दे पर प्रेम में पड़े लड़के और लड़कियाँ इतना केयर एक दूसरे को करते हैं मानो प्रेम का मतलब सिर्फ ख़ुशियाँ ही हो,  लड़के हर बात पर हाँ भरने लगते हैं मतलब लड़की को पाने के लिए और अगर उसके संग भविष्य देख रहे हैं तो, नहीं बुझे मने विवाह करने लिए लड़की को इतना भाव देते हैं जिससे लड़की को भी लगता है सच में जीवन इसके संग बिताने के अलावा और कोई दूसरा लड़का हो ही नहीं सकता, उधर लड़की सब लड़को को इतना केयर, बातों में सहमति, घर-परिवार के संग रिश्ता, मतलब लगता है जैसे फ़िल्म सीरियल में होता है कुछ भी हो जाये पर परिवार के संग रहूंगी और कुछ इमोशनल लड़के उनके इन सब केयर को देख जुट जाते हैं परिवार को मनाने में, आग दोनों तरफ लग जाती है शादी की, फिर सैकडों योजन का कष्ट दोनों उठा कर मना ही लेते हैं अपने परिवार को, जहां नहीं मानते हैं परिवार वाले वहाँ हम जैसे लफंडर दोस्त है ना पेपर पर सिग्नेचर करने के लिए!!

विवाह तो जैसे-तैसे हो जाता है किंतु प्रेम का जूस तब निकलता है जब घर के छोटे-छोटे झगड़े, आपसी मन-मुटाव और सोशल मीडिया पर समय व्यतीत, मतलब जो काम पहले बढ़िया लग रहा था अब उसी काम के कारण दोनों के रिश्तों में दरार भी शुरू होने लगता है, किंतु इसका खामियाजा यहाँ भी परिवार ही भरता है, अगर लड़की/लड़का समझदार है तो वो समाज के बीच एक उदाहरण हो जाते हैं किंतु जहाँ लड़का अपना सब कुछ लड़की के प्रति समर्पित कर दे पर लड़की को सिर्फ अपने बच्चें और पति संग रहने का फैसला हो, या अपने मायके वालों को ज्यादा तबज्जो देना, ससुराल वालों के प्रति सिर्फ दिखावा, उसी का उल्टा लड़का करने लगे तब वहाँ से शुरू होती है दरारें और फिर लड़की के बार-बार कहने पर अगर लड़का उसके हिसाब से ना चले तो तानों से शुरू लड़ाई, गली-गलौज फिर थाना-पुलिस होते कोर्ट वाली आर्केस्ट्रा तक पहुँच जाती है, क्योंकि गलती लड़के का है, उसने पहले इतने सपने दिखा दिये जो लड़की को लगा अब उसके साथ गलत हो रहा है, और अपने दोस्त या परिवार के सहारे वो उसी व्यक्ति से दूर होना चाहती है जिसके संग उसने बुन रखे थे मृत्युकाल तक के सपने!!

गलतियाँ कभी एक तरफा नहीं होता है, यहाँ लड़कियाँ भी गलत होती है, शुरू में अपने व्यवहार और प्रेम से लड़को का दिल जीतती है, हर काम के लिए संग खड़ी रहती है, चाहे वो एकता हो या जोड़ना, मतलब ऐसा रूप दिखाती है मानों कोई देवी हो, अगर वो बाहर वालों के लिए इतना कर रही है तो घरवालों के संग कितना प्रेम करेंगी, और लड़कियाँ भी वो हर काम करती है जिससे लगता है समाज में हम एक उदाहरण बनेंगे किंतु कुछ समय उपरांत उसका उल्टा होता है जो एक-दूसरे के मनमुटाव का अहम कारण बनता है, वैसे प्रेम में पैसों का भी एक अहम किरदार है पर जो समझदार जोड़े होते हैं वो उसमें भी निर्वहन करते हैं वो कभी भी पैसों के वजह से तलाक को अहम कारण नहीं बनने देते हैं, इन्ही छोटी-छोटी बातों को दोनों विवाह उपरांत संभाल नहीं पाते हैं जो दो परिवारों को दुश्मन भी बनाती है और प्रेम के प्रति लोंगो को घृणित करती है, अगर हम थोड़ा समझदार हो जाये और परिस्थितियों को खुद समझे देखे कहाँ-कहाँ हम गलत जा रहे हैं, पहले हमने ऐसा क्या किया जो अब चूक हो रही है तो प्रेम विवाह में तलाक दर की संख्या को हम घटाने में काफी कामयाब रहेंगे और प्रेम का जो ओहदा है समाज में उसमें चार चांद भी लगायेंगे!!

ज्यादा लिखना मतलब बकलोली करने जैसा लगेगा, हमें हर रिश्ते में कुछ ना कुछ कमी मिलेगा इसलिए रिश्तों से भागने की वजह हमें उसी रिश्ते को अगर ठीक करने से खुशी मिले तो जरूर कोशिश करे,अरे सिंपल सी बात है भाई अगर बाहर लड़ाई-झगड़ा, मारा-पीट हो जाता है तो उनसे फिर से हम जुड़ जाते हैं, फिर अपने परिवार के लोंगो के संग चंद शब्द से आखिर दूरी क्यों? मिलबैठकर और बातें समझकर ही हम किसी भी रिश्ते को एक मजबूती से स्थापित कर सकते हैं , नहीं तो रिश्तों का शतरंज युगों से चला आ रहा है चाहे वो पांडव-कौरवों का हो या राम-कैकेय माते का, क्योंकि हर रिश्ते में कुछ ना कुछ खोना पड़ता है, पर अगर हम उसको जोड़कर रखने में सक्षम है तो फिर उसके बाद कि खुशी आपको शायद एक ऐसा एहसास जरूर करवा देगी जो  जोड़ना ही प्रेम का पहला और आखिरी पड़ाव है!!

" अकेले रहने में कोई गुनाह नहीं है

किंतु हम कभी अकेले रह नहीं पाते हैं

रोटी भी अकेले नहीं फूलती है

उसको भी आग-चूल्हे और हथेली की जरूरत है"

   Vipin Jha

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Sweet Nothings (2)

Carlos Sainz x pageant queen!reader

Summary: All that they ever wanted was sweet nothings but everything changed like midnight rain.

Sweet Nothings: 1, 2, 3. 4

A/N: i indulged a lot with catriona so expect a lot of her faces. i like to build up things hehe.let me know your thoughts

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YNjpeg thank you for the opportunity for the roundtable to discuss different issues faced by our society [link]

User4 the way she speaks says a lot about her character

User6 I dont need to see any other queen, Y/N is my Miss Universe 2024.

User7 i never knew Y/N is this knowledgeable

User9 right?? i mean before we all knew her as just Carlos' partner User10 is it bad for me to say that i think Carlos and Y/N break up is a good thing? User9 true bestie.

LewisHamilton Wonderful insights, thank you for using your voice!

YNjpeg honored to be appreciated by you Lew! LewisHamilton 👑☝️ User12 real recognize real!

User55 anyone notice that carlos is still liking?

User90 omg i just noticed that! User77 my divorced parents

F1News posted an article.

Carlos Sainz sits down talking about championships, end of contracts, and relationships.

The hottest topic in the paddock at the moment has been Carlos Sainz. He is the driver that has been to watch out for as he becomes the El Matador that crushes Red Bull's streak of victory. The soon to be ex-Ferrari driver thanks the team for building a good car and creating new strategy that allowed them to best Red Bull several times already.

It was no surprise that him and teammate, Charles Leclerc has been chasing Max down for the championship. When asked about how does he deal with the pressure, he mentioned that he kept himself grounded by a note tucked inside of his helmet. He said that the content of the notes cannot be discussed (as well as the writer of the note) but he is very grateful for it for keeping him in touch with reality. The Spaniard is currently sitting at the second place with only 2 points difference from the current champion.

"It has not yet been decided" this is what Carlos has to say regarding where he would sign next. Carlos assures everyone that there are offers but he is still weighing which will be a better option. His focus at the moment was not on the signing because as he states "if I'm a good driver then the offers will just keep coming." He wishes to focus on doing his best with his current team and reiterates that he has no ill feelings with the team.

Another hot topic that Carlos was asked about is regarding his love life. There were rumors about his split with long-time girlfriend and now running for Miss Universe, Y/N L/N. Carlos explained how he is very proud of Y/N and that he wishes all the best for her. He refused to answer questions detailing more about her since he explains that "focus on Y/N as a beauty queen and not because of her relationship. She deserves more than just being someone's girlfriend."

CarlosY/N4ever

CarlosY/N4ever me realizing that Miss Universe 2024 and the Las Vegas Grand Prix is happening together???!!!

User5 wdym together???

CarlosY/N4ever It will both happen in the 24th,the gp will go first at 2pm while the Miss Universe will start at 6pm. User5 OHMYGOD????

User7 So are we going to watch miss universe or f1???

User8 Im gonna watch both User9 rip to us with a different timezone

User10 i love how we can use Y/N's reactions for this

User11 girlie is a walking meme User13 walking meme but still elegant

User19 SO WILL THE GRID BE WATCHING????

User22 what is barbenheimer when we have this going on!!!

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Well my gowns and my costumes have been carefully selected. Everything has a meaning. It is an homage for my country and of course to the best parts of myself. [Can we have any more insights about your evening gown] All I can say is that I want to make Filipinos proud and the color has a very personal meaning.

User10 Im excited to see her final look!

User12 agreeeee,her attention to details is everything!

User7 Our filipina queen! PERIODT!

User13 the color has a very personal meaning + that smile.. anyone wanted to bet with me that its ferrari red???

User15 I might cry if its really red User18 and its carlos' last year to ferrari as well User90 I just want to have a good time on this app

User55 Go fight for the crown!!!! Bring home the crown!!!

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[What can you say about your relationship with Carlos, everyone is curious about what happened] This is the only time, I'll talk about this. If you are looking for drama, there is no drama between the two of us. Carlos and I met when we were still young people and we grew up together. We matured as individuals..Its not a bad thing. I am extremely happy and proud of where he is right now. Were both chasing our dreams. What we are, what have been. Its all good. That's all that I have to say.

User5 This basically confirms it.

User6 we are really children of divorce

User7 CARLOS GET HER BACK, ITS NOT TOO LATE

User8 YEAH SHE IS NOT YET MISS UNIVERSE User9 BRO DON'T LET HER GO CarlosSainz55

User11 Its the miss universe curse. If the girl really wants the crown then they will undergo heartbreak

User14 why do we have to sacrifice someone?? User15 so miss universe is just like ferrari strategy? here we sacrifice a boyfriend, in ferrari we sacrifice leclerc User17 that comment got me gagged.

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YNjpeg I am ready to represent!!! Flying to Vegas!!!

Charles_Leclerc goodluck Miss Philippines!!

YNjpeg thank you charlieee

LandoNorris can't wait to see you take the crown

YNjpeg lando you believe in me too much LandoNorris I SAID take the crown!!! YNjpeg ON IT!

User5 im so happy that she is still being supported by the grid

User67 bring home the crown Y/N!

User8 Mark my words, she will come back with the crown!

User9 safe flight!!!

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CarlosSainz55 You always hated flying. You told me that there is a certain discomfort and uncertainty when you are a thousand feet from the ground. Right now, you are flying. I know it has a certain discomfort and uncertainty of what's to come but I believe you can find some joy in it.

You will always be the most beautiful in the universe.

User7 OMG????

User6 CARLOS I WAS UNFAMILIAR WITH YOUR GAME

User8 bro really went to tell the whole world that he will be here no matter what

User15 were always talking about how Y/N is Carlos' biggest fan but Carlos is also Y/N's biggest fan

User17 ITS TOO ERALY TO CRY

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THE FABULIST'S FIELD GUIDE TO FABLE.

Somehow I've managed to post almost one hundred thousand words on this blog in the form of writing pieces. Which is absolutely insane to me because I don't think I've managed to write one hundred thousand words of creative writing towards any single project in the rest of life up until this Tumblr blog. And maybe this type of celebration is a little premature but I have things planned and I will hit 100k. It's also the three year anniversary of this blog, and I want to celebrate that too.

This is a little recap of where we've been, where we are, and maybe where we're going. And by we, I mean me and the guys in my head. This is also a sort of guide to their writing pieces and the reading order because I did not write in chronological order.

WHERE WE'VE BEEN

There are four major, earth-shattering, life-changing events that happened to various Fable members that had repercussions to various people over various years. If you're interested in all the writing as a whole, I have a Google doc in posting order here and chronological order here, which splits up a lot of the pieces.

[ OO1 ] MINGEUN'S NATIONALITY SCANDAL

In order to debut, Mingeun made a deal with Taein, the company's CEO, to lie about his upbringing, and therefore his nationality. He was born in South Korea, but immigrated to Canada with his family when he was two. When it came to being a Fable member, Andrew already had the diaspora member position on lock. And the main vocal position, which led to Mingeun being cut from the debut lineup after Haksu joined at the last minute.

Jaeseop fought for Mingeun's inclusion and won, leading to Taein brokering the deal with Mingeun. Everything went swimmingly for the first two years, where Mingeun pretended he didn't understand a word of English, and never uttered a word about Canada. He uttered very few words in this time period and was always out of the spotlight.

In the summer of 2020, having hit their stride with their previous album a few months earlier, the lid on the entire operation was blown via Dispatch articles. Given that Fable was on the rise, both in Korea and internationally, it didn't take long for friends and classmates from his childhood to corroborate the news. Mingeun's hiatus was immediate, and it would be over a year before he returned to the group. In the months that followed, he gained a reputation for being a liar, and in turn, tainted Fable as "the group with the liar" for some time.

RELEVANT POSTS: One of the news articles that broke the news. Pre-redemption arc perception. A drabble. "Not Enough." "Live Wire."

[ OO2 ] HAKSU'S BLACKMAIL

Haksu was the last member to join Fable. In the most succinct way possible, he spent the last two months of 2017 stalking and harassing Taein until he was accepted as a trainee. This is because he very much believes in fate and he had a dream about him. In the least weird and creepy way possible. It's only what he did because of it that becomes weird and creepy. Armed with his knowledge and physical evidence of Taein's adultery, he used it as a bargaining chip to get his foot in the door.

At the end of 2017, the debut lineup was otherwise set and they would have debuted earlier, if not for Haksu's sudden inclusion. Jaeseop and Mingeun tried so hard to get him out of there, but he was surprisingly stubborn and resilient and optimistic. He's also the best singer in the group, which is why Mingeun was demoted to main dancer and then nearly kicked out.

After debuting, Haksu continued to use Taein's crimes against him to secure himself the position of center, along with every opportunity that came Fable's way for the first few years of their careers. This continued on until 2021, when Taein and his wife began divorce proceedings. Having lost his best bargaining chip, he had to start learning how to share the spotlight. The majority of Fable fans continue to consider him the undisputed center.

RELEVANT POSTS: "Great Things" part one and two. One part of "Form is Emptiness."

[ OO3 ] EUNSU'S DEPARTURE

Eunsu was Fable's main rapper for three years, until he left the group in August 2021. The official reason for his departure was given simply as "personal reasons." The real reason he left was the death of his older brother, Yonggeum, which left him as his parents' only child. His father runs the only Buddhist temple in the small town he grew up in, a position that was passed down through his family for generations. It was expected that Yonggeum would inherit their father's position. That gave Eunsu the freedom to do things like become a kpop idol. After his brother's death, he was compelled by a sense of duty to return home and learn his father's role.

Despite his departure, he continues to interact with the rest of the group to the point where it's like he never even left. He writes songs for them, features on some of them, appears on a bunch of their livestreams, and is still Mingeun's best friend.

RELEVANT POSTS: "Form is Emptiness" part one and part two.

[ OO4 ] 'THE PROBLEM WITH FABLE'

Ever since their debut, one of Fable's greatest assets and their biggest weakness has been their concept. After building their careers as a modern take on mostly Joseon-era culture, they're boxed into the same square. They hardly ever do anything different, and when they do, it pisses off half their fanbase. These problems and some more were the subject of a viral video essay by Lightspeed member Tyler, but before he joined a survival show and became an idol. You either die a hero or live long enough to become a villain. But I digress that has little to do with Fable.

Responses to this were split, with Mingeun and Jaeseop weighing in with their own opinions. They are a bit too decently established and also a boy group for this to really affect their reputations. It just sits in the back of Jaeseop's mind and bothers him every now and then.

RELEVANT POSTS: "the problem with fable" itself. Mingeun and Jaeseop's reactions.

There are a few smaller plotlines that focus more on individual members.

[ OO1 ] BYEONGHWI (AND GICHEOL)

Byeonghwi is the only character whose storyline is mostly romance-focused. I wanted at least one of them to have a smaller stakes plotline that wasn't lying about their entire identity or blackmailing their CEO. So I spun a wheel and it landed on him. Which works out well, because his idol origin story was always somehow passing an audition he went to with a friend.

Anyway, his plot is very linear and straightforward. He had a friend. He debuted first. He confessed and it went terribly. He no longer has a friend.

RELEVANT POSTS: "First Love." "Sea Change." "No Return."

[ OO2 ] ANDREW

Quick side note Andrew is the greatest thing that happened to Fable. He was not in the early drafts. It was just Mingeun against the world. A lot of things are better for them and also for me because he's in the picture.

As far as plotlines go, he's the diametric opposite of Mingeun. His story is also a lot more vibe-based. It's very much about his identity, and trying to find a place for himself, both as a Korean American returning to the so-called homeland, and as an artist in the kpop industry. I don't really know how to TL;DR this I think the TL;DR is his pieces.

RELEVANT POSTS: "Not Enough." "Double A-Side." "Piano Concerto in A♭ Minor" part one, part two, part three. A drabble.

WHERE WE ARE

After all of that happened, I am trying to pick up the threads and extend them years into the future. The easiest way to do this is probably by member.

KIYOUNG recently returned from his mandatory military service. Other than that he's big chilling. Not to be confused with bing chilling. He's adjusting to civilian life again. RELEVANT POSTS: "Piano Concerto in A♭ Minor part one"

ANDREW is being recruited by Taein's somewhat shady business partner and not-quite-chaebol-heir Jinguk, for reasons he still doesn't really know. He has been Fable's temporary leader for the past nine months, and will continue to be so for another year or so, while Jaeseop is enlisted. RELEVANT POSTS: The drabble again. And also his piece which is linked in three parts right above so I'm not doing that again.

JAESEOP enlisted in December. He will be there for some time. Before he went, he tried to prepare Andrew as his substitute. He considered it putting his affairs in order, like he was going to die. RELEVANT POSTS: The saddest announcement ever o7.

INTAK is technically the first Fable member to go solo, in a move absolutely no one could have predicted. He released a mixtape in August. He went to Japan with Byeonghwi and Mingeun and returned with an entire extra suitcase of anime merch. RELEVANT POSTS: The album. A news article.

HAKSU briefly went home in May and missed Fable's last tour date. He did not know that his parents set up a date for him. He also did not know that the date was with one of his sasaengs. It's bad for him right now. RELEVANT POSTS: Tour absence. "exploring haksu's sasaeng problem." "One-Way Mirror."

EUNSU might as well be in Fable with his appearance on Intak's album. He also hosted Mingeun back in November after he got into a fight with some of the other members for reasons I can no longer remember because it's been almost a year and I didn't write it down. RELEVANT POSTS: "Interlude: Birthright."

MINGEUN was given an ultimatum early in the year by Taein. It took him a while to get around to it, but he broke up with his girlfriend of almost four years in July. He's also been on house arrest for majority of the year. RELEVANT POSTS: "Live Wire." "Interlude: Chances." "A Night Out On Earth." An epilogue.

BYEONGHWI is doing things I have yet to post anything about. He's in a situationship with a fan. Nothing like Haksu's situation. There are no relevant posts because this is in my head. It's been going on since Fable's album in the spring of this year.

WHERE WE'RE GOING

Poll time! What kind of ending will Fable have? (This is just an interest check I'm going to do whatever I want.)

The good ending is something along the lines of their disbandment when their contracts expire. The bad ending is they succumb to what might be the only scandal that could kill them. After they made it through Mingeun's rough patch I really believe they could survive anything else, EXO/cockroaches of kpop-style.

Other than that, I don't have many more plot points fleshed out yet. I will go wherever they take me 🫶.

[aromanticannibal]

Present Mic headcanons! he lives in my head :D (edited as of Nov. 2023)

He's powerfully homosexual he loves men SO much.

He's demiromantic! He's only ever been in love with Oboro and Shouta

He's so fucking tall. And he wears platforms. And his hair is. It's his hair

So many freckles. He has red head skin, pale with so many freckles

Part American on his mother's side, his parents are divorced and the mom lives in the US

Heterochromia Mic my beloved. One green eye one red eye, they're so damn bright too. He makes heterochromia jokes with Shouto.

Fashion wise, he's a very strange mix between a punk, an English teacher (as in, language teacher, not literature teacher) and this one guy who's shirtless and wearing rainbow makeup and glitter at Pride.

He's so blind without his glasses, it's terrible. He's also deaf because of his quirk

For these reasons, he uses his platform as a popular hero and radio personality to talk about disabled people and stuff. He also talks about queerphobia issues and quirk discrimination, though he tends to focus more on blatant differences like Shouji or Tokoyami type of quirk.

When the main kids are in third year, they start being surprise guests on his show and talk about other issues with him (and just fun stuff as well). The first one to participate is of course, hero nerd Midoriya.

Hizashi and Shouta have what the experts call a weird ass relationship. For the longest time, they just lived together without really dating but being completely aware they were in love with each other. One day Shouta told Hizashi it would be easier if they were married for like tax purposes and stuff. So everyone thought they were getting married platonically but they organized a wedding and stuff. Midnight was the maid of honor and Shouta's cat was the best man (his name is Bastard). A couple of heroes they're friends with and trust were invited (Tensei, Yagi - though Shouta was reluctant - 13...) as well as some vigilantes Shouta's friends with, and after a lot of begging, 1-A students (they had to sign a contract that said they couldn't tell anyone about the wedding or take pictures). It was cheesy as possible, completely normal wedding, but after it happened, Shouta and Hizashi never acknowledged it again. Kaminari is wondering if he hallucinated them kissing and slow-dancing together. They also kept the same last name. The only thing that changed is that they're more affectionate in private, and that they call each other their husband.

An Hizashi themed clickbait article would probably be "PRESENT MIC'S HUSBAND'S IDENTITY REVEALED????"

Hizashi sometimes says he has a husband in passing and everyone clinged onto this fact and is desperately trying to find out who the husband is. Midoriya is incredibly happy to know he has hero knowledge only a few select people are aware of.

Going back to Hizashi specific stuff, the man has some powerful ADHD (Shouta is autistic, they're the ADHD autism couple) but he very strangely knows how to deal with it. He knows how he functions so he does really weird stuff sometimes or does things in an allegedly inefficient way because it'll ultimately will make him do more stuff

He also has the new hobby every month disease, except he actually learns a lot and his hobbies kind of rotate, so he's very good at very random stuff. For exemple : embroidery (but he can't sew for shit), a shit ton of instruments (but not the drums), he knows a lot about cats (this fixation was started by Shouta's own special interest in cats), he knows how color theory works (somehow), he's very good at cutting or dying hair, etc.

In high school he had to make an essay about quirk laws but he was uninspired so he desperately tried for a week to make himself fixate on quirk laws, finally writing his essay five hours before the deadline. The consequence of this was an hyperfixation on quirk and hero laws a month later, which plagued him for an entire month more. He therefore knows a lot about laws.

He had an emo phase in middle school. I know it, Horikoshi told me

Hizashi becomes incredibly irritable when it's raining or storming, similar to how Shouta becomes quiet and distant in that weather.

He has a lot of piercings but only where people can't see. Where that ends up being is your choice, I have my own ideas :)

He actually has anger issues, similar to Bakugou, but is way better at handling them. This, in addition to them both being deaf/partially deaf, should have made them somewhat close, but Hizashi actually really dislikes Bakugou.

He has favorites, and unlike Shouta, he very much says who his favorites are. (Uraraka, Kaminari, Shinsou, Jirou and Kouda. He also likes Todoroki but not as much as the other faves) He definitely gets merch of them once it's available (and creates Shinsou merch for him and Shouta, like how he made Eraserhead merch)

Because this is still my blog here's a point about Shimsou, my son the light of my world : Hizashi takes a liking to the kid immediately because of how much he looks like Shouta. He also likes his sarcasm and smartass attitude, he thinks it's adorable (which Shinsou evidently hates). While Shouta won't adopt Shinsou, they're still like father and son to each other, and Shinsou jokes by calling Hizashi his step-dad.

He's very protective of his friends and very good at noticing when something is bothering them.

HE CAN UNHINGE HIS JAW. His fans find it very hot (it's me, I'm his fans)

Everytime he tries to dress up nicely, he fails miserably (case on point : this). He's infamous for it.

He doesn't especially like small children, except for ONE small child and it's Eri. She's the light of his life he loves her so much.

After Shouta adopts her and Hizashi gets custody of her as well by default, he immediately starts researching how to be a good step-dad. Eri will for some reason start calling him her uncle, despite him being married to her dad, but Hizashi is fine with it, he loves just being a part of the little girl's life.

He's a KING at Just Dance and karaoke nights.

My hand is, for some mysterious reason, itchy. So this is the end of the post :D

Feel free to tell me about ur own headcanons whenever /gen

[sygneth]

my absolutely random headcanons that are not tied to anything they just popped in my head unprompted (and i'm not even sorry half of them is about Jean)

(if you read EOE it may be useful knowledge? or not lol)

Judit's husband is a writer, he's semi-successful in his job, probably currently writes articles for some paper or something like that, and works on a novel in his free time.

Harry inherited the apartment he is living in when he was a young adult, so he was, fortunately, wrecking only his own property (but it also implies it's probably still the same apartment since Dora times, oof.)

Jean cannot walk the stairs. Running. is the only option. Hoppin' two steps at a time. Free workout time, yeah?

Piss and Fuck witnessed Harry's kamikaze jump over the canal and I refuse to believe they didn't have that on the back of their minds while checking out Kim's MC on the plaza.

Harry would totally eat pizza with pineapple and say it's the best kind and Kim would totally want to divorce him over it.

Jean totally learned how to play piano when he was young, he probably forgot most of it since though. He probably sings well too.

Jean hates spring & summer seasons due to allergies, he's totally allergic to pollen, not sure if anything else but probably yeah.

Kim is one of those people whose feet get absolutely massacred by each new pair of shoes he tries to wear, so he tends to wear one pair for literal years not to have to struggle with a new one.

Play a late '00s pop dancing song (like Kesha or Lady Gaga) to slightly drunk Jean and see what happens (everybody has guilty pleasures, right)

Before becoming a cop Jean tried to study... something. Or more than one something, but nothing slapped (fuck yeah depression), so he decided to go RCM because eh.

Kim's hair has a magical ability (or maybe he's just not cheap on his hair products...) to stay neatly combed regardless of the circumstances. He could get into a most violent fistfight and still play in a hair product commercial afterward.

Jude has an older brother.

When Plaisance and Annette move out from Martinaise, Annette will switch schools to the same where Mikael is going. I need them to be friends who will nerd about books and games and computers.

[whentheynameyoujoy]

OK, fuck it, I have thoughts.

So I like Axiom’s End. Its theme may hit as subtly as a sledgehammer but it’s saved by the characters and the way it’s delivered. The whole point is about not truly being able to comprehend the mysterious Other, about communication and knowledge not being a panacea to bigotry and supremacism, about how studying the Other can often lead to the reinforcement of said bigotry as you confirm your prejudices and refuse to abandon your point of view where you’re the default, the morally superior and the Other at best a flawed imitation, at worst a contemptible aberration. And you arrive at this and the usual “wait, this is actually about our world, isn’t it” via the protagonists and their own personal failure to truly comprehend one another, even though at the same time they’re aware of their respective cultures’ atrocities. Again, unsubtle but it works.

And then Truth of the Divine comes and it just doesn’t. The theme is utterly divorced from the characters’ inner journeys. It’s literally a “wise accomplished guy sees further than the protagonist and informs her of the theme which they then spend the rest of the book trying to effect”. The idea that “if you deny rights to aliens, you create a legal framework which then allows humanity to keep indulging its centuries-long human rights abuses” isn’t even less on the nose than what the previous book presented but because it comes to the story as a monologue and the response is “oh I never thought about it that way, guess that’s what we’re doing now” it reads like a Medium article preaching to the choir.

And I absolutely am going to blame this on Kaveh or rather the way he’s designed. For the theme to be a result of a learning process, you really need someone like Timothy Snyder not realizing until his 50s that the U.S. healthcare system is a bit shit, because he’d never been affected by its shittiness before. You need a person of privilege. You obviously can’t do “I discovered racism exists” via an Iranian refugee who got his big break by exposing CIA torture sites in the Middle East.

But OK, fine, I guess that the world doesn’t need another white savior “I learned something today” narrative (let’s ignore it could have been Miranda having a leopards ate my face moment). But to really drive the final nail in the coffin, Kaveh isn’t even particularly complex as a character. He’s endlessly understanding and empathetic and soooo self-aware, absolutely would never use Cora to his advantage, no siree, he genuinely loves her and wants to take care of her and never abuses his worldliness and is a great fuck and exactly what she needs at this stage in her life and he never has doubts about anything and his demons are long behind him and only serve as a means for Cora to learn there is a light at the end of the tunnel and his connection to Nils doesn’t amount to much in terms of character flaws and he believes the idea of daddy issues is stupid and he opens doors to a better future for Cora and stands up for her and is loaded but his wealth doesn’t affect his worldview whatsoever and his dick is uuuuge and throbbing and oh my fucking god I get it he’s perfect I could not give less of a shit about him why is this Gary Stu taking up so much space.

And this, kids, is how momma found herself yearning for the tertiary CIA agent who most likely has a past of torturing people. Simply because he seems to have something, anything else going on behind what’s readily apparent.

[pauls1967moustache]

Ok so I’m new here ( Beatles fandom ) and I’m just trying to learn as much as I can but once I think I feel like I’m getting a grip on things, I’m made very well aware that i don’t even know half of the lore with these boys. so would you be able to tell me where i can go to just deep dive learn about everything? The good, the bad , the ugly , the dark , ect

Idk if I’m the best person to ask bc my general approach to lore is just to learn through osmosis and have read exactly 0 (zero) Beatles books, but I’ll tell you how I went about it.

When I joined the fandom the main thing I did is just go through blogs I liked, (not even to learn stuff I just wanted to Look At more Stuff) which would inevitably have quotes and easily digestible shitposts about stuff which can give you a pretty good idea of lore even if it’s not the most accurate source. @amoralto is a wealth of sourced information which I often return to when I need to find something for a fic. @muzaktomyears also reads beatles books I have no interest in ever reading for myself and posts great quotes so that I won’t have to.

Also, you can always ask people! We’re all in this fandom bc we like talking about this stuff. Some of us may be more knowledgeable than others, but I’m sure if you pop into most people’s ask boxes and say like “I’m new here. What’s the deal with the divorce meeting?” they will be happy to either tell you themselves or point you in the direction of someone else who can.

The Beatles Bible is a good resource too. I use it a lot for the timeline feature (which isn’t perfect but is decent enough) but there’s also articles about basically everything (with quotes!) so it serves the same function as like a fandom wiki to me.

Lastly, I may be biased bc I’m a writer, but I always find the easiest way to learn lore for any fandom is simply by reading a bunch of fic lol. Maybe not the most historically accurate way, but if you go in knowing that there are artistic liberties everywhere you can start to pick up on common threads and events (fic was how I learned about the jp paris trip and the existence of Stuart sutcliffe, among other things).

Also, I will say, if you’re someone who likes going off and doing research, off you pop! Have fun! But if, like me when I joined the fandom, you’re simply trying get your bearings a bit, know that no one is expecting you to be a perfect Beatles historian. You are allowed to participate in the fandom even if you don’t know every little thing. And as I’ve said, you will pick it up as you go along!

[thelioncourts]

Hi I don't mean to sound too stalker-like, but I saw on Twitter where you replied to someone and said that you didn't think personally that Loustat's divorce era was going to last too long in the show. You said you think maybe the end of season 3 they'll be back together. Can I ask why?

hi! that's not stalker-y at all lol you're totally fine! but I do hope a mini-essay is okay because I have a lot of Thoughts(TM) on this.

general disclaimer, as per usual: this is purely speculation. I know a lot of people on here think they know the exacts of what's going on with filming right and and throughout s2, exacts that may negate what I'm saying, and that's fine, you do you, but also since you're not telling me what it is you know, I am only running with what I know so. this is my speculation based on novels, the show, general television knowledge, and stuff my guy RJ has been saying.

okay so I'm trying to figure out how best to start this. let me just give a bullet list of what it is I'm thinking and then I'll elaborate:

Overall length of the IwtV TV show

Future Anne Rice stuff on AMC

Audience

RJ

Condensed storylines

S1 Finale - specifically 'love of my life' and Daniel's 'Well, isn't that neat and tidy?' commentary

Louis' future

Louis/Armand + Lestat/Nicki in the next two seasons

Exploration of Loustat in future seasons

Akasha storyline

so let's start with the "Overall Length of the IwtV TV Show." outside of The Walking Dead series and its multitude of spin-offs, most shows on the AMC network, even super successful ones, have only run between 5-7 seasons. Mad Men, Breaking Bad, and Better Call Saul are really well-regarded AMC shows that all only ran for 5-7 seasons. and while it could continue like TWD, it seems fairly unlikely. my personal guess is that IwtV is going to fun for 6-7 seasons, leaning toward 6 if I'm being honest. But like??? Who know??? I could be super off-base, but from the way television is going nowadays, I think a 6 seasons show is something we would be lucky to get. I think this article here really helps explain why this is a good thing, overall, and also why it's happening more often on television.

this brings me to future Anne Rice stuff; so AMC bought 18 of Anne's books. Obviously we have MW going on which is...........a thing..........but! we also have the Night Island series happening! I fully believe they may do several TVC-related spinoffs. Like, depending on Devil's Minion stuff, we could possibly get some kind of Devil's Minion show. We could easily get an Armand mini-series that would also work with Marius and Bianca and Pandora's stories too. Stuff with the Court when we get to the Court, etc. are all things I think we could see. With this in mind it's important to keep in mind that they are making the Immortal Universe. I think we're going to see a lot more beyond IwtV and I think this impacts the storytelling.

alright so now let's get into the audience; the audience is watching for Loustat. yes, they are watching for many things. yes, everyone knows they are watching for many things. but people are watching for Loustat. s1 is a Loustat love story, love tragedy. within minutes of the pilot, they are meeting, they are flirting, they are courting, and by the end they are utterly married and in love. we witness their early marriage, we witness their first marital problem, we witness them have a child to fix their marriage, we witness them separate, we witness them get back together, and we witness, in the finale, this love story close a chapter in a beautiful and heart-wrenching way in which lestat knows louis is going to at least stand aside while an attempt is made on his life, in which louis is destroyed by the "death" of his love, where they get so lost in one another in every single way that matters. the audience is watching for loustat. to a degree, you can't wait too long to give them that or people will get antsy and impatient.

now, in a much more succinct paragraph, Rolin Jones, and a multitude of writers for the show, have described this as a gothic romance. they have specified in a dozen articles and interviews "this is a love story." Rolin Jones repeatedly hones in on the fact that the chemistry read between Sam and Jacob going as well as it did was fundamentally important to the long run of the show. to not use that chemistry would be a waste and RJ has made that very clear, imo.

the show is also condensing storylines, as they should and as they need to. we're obviously not getting all 13 TVC books in their entirety, or in their order. during the first bts video we really had, RJ said that the first trilogy, tva, and prince lestat were where they were primarily pulling stuff, with a couple of other additions that he didn't name, but I very much believe were at least memnoch and merrick and some of the court aspects of the last two books. all of that being said, i think we're obviously seeing iwtv right now, but parts of merrick, parts of qotd, teeny parts of tva, and I think next season is iwtv, qotd, tva, merrick, tvl, and a teeny tiny bit more of prince lestat. basically, since they're mixing the stories together, it's like?? I mean, Loustat reunite in TVL. qotd is complicated but they float off romantically intot he sky together. comaaaaa in memnoch-merrick, saving louis' life in merrick and it's a super sexy blood sharing scene, then......married prince and consort??? like idk, if we're condensing the story then when loustat reunite, they, in general, stay together.

now let's talk about what we know with the show thus far, beginning with the s1 finale. obviously the s1 finale is important, duh, but like??? god, there are three huge aspects that I think we're going to revisit fairly quickly in s2 and that impact the future seasons. the first is the 'love of my life' line with armand. like there's so much there, but namely when it comes to thinking of louis and armand's relationship (which will undoubtedly be coming to some kind of definite end in s2) and what that means for loustat and what that means for armandaniel. like obviously louis is going to be confronted, no doubt by daniel, about 'love of your life??? really??' not to mention the 'you're still with the guy that killed your daughter?????' and the inevitable explanation of louis' even more bizarre weirdness in how he's acting in dubai, the mental destruction he's been faced with, the true numbness and everything he's forced himself into, since claudia died. and then, of course, there's 'well isn't that neat and tidy?' comment daniel makes re: lestat's "death" and calling louis out for saving him out of his love for him. like louis is going to have deal with that, daniel isn't going to let it go when he gets over floating armand. it's !! going to be everything, things that will conclude or lead us into the s3 stuff. it all comes back to loustat. all of it.

louis' future is the next thing to discuss!! obviously I'm not trying to start anything by being like 'louis' story revolves around lestat' but to some degree it does and also they revolved around each other so heavily. like lestat's whole storyline in s1 is he comes to new orleans, falls fatally in love with louis, and it changes everything. s2 is very much about all of that, even if lestat won't be in paris for a large part of it. s3 is going to be lestat telling his life to louis, one way or another. that's why he wrote tvl, to tell louis all of the stuff he couldn't and wouldn't tell him before, to explain what he's gone through, what his vampirism truly was like, etc. like louis is going to be part of tvl. RJ has said they're looking to make it not a book, obviously, so I think louis is going to be an active person to lestat's story, I think lestat will be telling him directly. loustat. and it's part of why i think s3, possibly early/mid s4 will be the loustat get back together. because lestat telling his story, everything that will follow, is just. it's them? they have to be together.

the inclusion of louis/armand in s2 and the inclusion of lestat/nicki in s3 serve storytelling purposes, sure, but they also serve to show us as an audience why loustat don't work with other people. and, going back to 'the audience is watching for loustat thing,' if we have to see them be with other people for two seasons, we're going to need that to be worth it. them getting back together in s3, possibly early s4, would accomplish that.

exploring loustat in future seasons!! so if lestat shows up in dubai/2022 at least by the end of s2 as would make sense (to probably save louis from an attempted suicide attempt), we're going to see them reunite. s3 being about lestat's life and them talking for the first time in forever will inevitably lead to some kind of getting back together, sometime soon. s4 will, imo, start really getting into the nitty-gritty of qotd (something i'll talk about in the last paragraph), and then i think they're going to take the qotd storyline and end it with this 'well. the queen of the vampires is dead. we need to blahblahblah' and I think we're looking at a super early prince lestat and court creation, lestat becoming the royalty of the vampire world and the court's creation coming about to prevent whatever thing louis is talking about in dubai (the vampires he hears around the world and stuff) and the akasha stuff. so i think by s5-ish we're in full prince lestat mode and that is where loustat are, essentially, modernly married in the books. I also just. like s1 very much established they can't see the other with another person, very much established that they need each other and love each other in a way they'll never love or need another. like it's all right there, it's all something we'll see continue.

lastly!! I think the akasha storyline is going to be imperative here. I think we're going to get hints of the akasha stuff all throughout the next two seasons, getting more and more heavy the further we get into s3, obviously and especially with lestat's waking of akasha in tvl. i think loustat are going to get together right at the end of s3, leaving us with them together during s4, only for lestat to get snatched in the middle of the night from his and louis' bed, just as he was snatched from his and nicki's bed by magnus, by akasha sometime either in the s3 finale too or early s4-ish. then loustat are together, romantically, but not on screen, meaning it's not like straight up loustat stuff for entirety of those seasons as they'll be separated. it will make losing lestat to akasha all the more horrific (he and louis had just found each other again, we will have seen him getting taken by magnus in the previous season(s), etc.) and makes the impact of loustat....abundant.

this is super long and rambly and I'm fairly tired so god knows if it all makes sense but !!! this is why I think we'll get a fairly soon loustat reunion and why I think it will be <3 everything. like, even when they're together, they're going to have a lot going on and a lot to work through so it's never going to get boring and it's going to make their romance all the more lovely to witness.

[wedesignyouny]

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Comprehending Contested Divorce in New York When a couple can’t agree on one or more important issues — like child support, alimony, asset partition, or custody — a contentious divorce results. A disputed divorce frequently contains issues and necessitates judicial action to resolve them, in contrast to an uncontested divorce, when the spouses agree on all elements. The Function of a Lawyer for Contested Divorce: Without legal assistance, navigating a disputed divorce may be difficult and dangerous. You must retain the services of an experienced contentious divorce attorney to safeguard your interests and rights. Here’s how Beckerman & Granados PLLC’s staff can help you:

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Vigorous Advocacy: In the event that your case goes to trial, our disputed divorce attorneys will tenaciously represent you, skillfully laying out your case and offering convincing legal justifications. We’ll fight for the best possible outcome for you and your family while upholding your legal rights.

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When dealing with a contentious divorce, it’s imperative to act quickly. You can take advantage of our experience and begin the process of defending your rights by getting in contact with our knowledgeable divorce attorneys. To arrange a consultation, call Beckerman & Granados PLLC at (718) 374–5642 or visit our website at https://bgdivorcelawyersny.com/. Let our knowledgeable legal team help you navigate a contentious divorce so that you can move forward with your life.

In summary: Disputed divorces pose particular difficulties that must be effectively navigated with the help of knowledgeable legal counsel. We at Beckerman & Granados PLLC have the skills and understanding to defend your rights and interests in contentious divorce matters in New York. Throughout the process, our committed group of divorce attorneys is available to offer you supportive legal guidance and strong advocacy. Please contact us right now to arrange a consultation and begin the process of settling your contentious divorce dispute.

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The old Lchat wnba boards are a complete hot mess, but going back to 2016/17, there’s just a TON about BG. And most of it is pretty bad. Did her ex really go do IVF without BG’s knowledge? Or were those kids conceived the old fashioned way with a man. Sounds super messy. And did BG really cheat repeatedly on sweet Cherelle?

Listen... it's a lot.

What you need to understand about BG is she was the original basketball social media content creator personality. Her high school dunking video was the first viral amateur basketball video to reach 1 million views. This was back in like 2008 when 1 million views was a big deal. She became a superstar as a teenager.

And then she went to Baylor and her life just got weirder and weirder under the Mulkey dictatorship. But Baylor wasn't all bad because she won a national championship and met the love of her life.

But Cherelle had her own ambitions. She had things to do. She couldn't fly around the world with BG. They broke up during BG's rookie year but they stayed friends. BG brought some other random girl to China that first year she played overseas. And then she cheated on that girl with a straight all-star center named Glory Johnson.

Why? I don't know. But BG was drafted to the Mercury where all her teammates were ideal veteran lesbian basketball couples. Dewanna and Dupree. Diana and Penny. Ballers with ballers, buying homes together, hosting dinner parties, raising dogs. Very cool and mature lesbian aunties. Basically the exact opposite of BG's young wild self. But I think BG admired them. So she wanted to settle down and marry another basketball player. Immediately.

Glory's agent was connected to the reality TV/TMZ world. So Glory had an interest in social media personalities and rockstars and celebrities. And BG was all of those things. So halfway through BG's second pro year, she proposed to Glory Johnson.

Now why is all this crazy shit happening? Well, BG had weird enablers and fake friends hanging around her back then mooching off her stardom. And the social media rockstar thing had really spiraled out of control.

BG was insecure about her relationship with Glory because, well, Glory is straight. And Glory had a boyfriend. But BG was genuinely obsessed with Glory and afraid she would leave her. So when Glory asked BG to donate her eggs, BG said yes. There was nothing secret about the IVF appointment. BG was there at the appointment getting her eggs removed and placed in Glory's uterus. BG later said she didn't want kids at all and felt pressured into it.

Not long after the IVF appointment, BG and Glory got married. And a few weeks after that, BG came to her senses and tried to have the marriage annulled.

It all started with flirting at 2014 all-star. Then the proposal, the big TMZ fight, the reality TV appearances, the IVF appointment, the marriage, the annulment attempt. That all happened in the span of about 9 months. And then in 2015 the divorce court cases started. So yes, BG pays child support because she is technically the biological mother of Glory's giant twin daughters.

After this whole mess, Diana brought BG to Ekaterinburg. That's when they kind of shut down the whole BG social media rockstar era. They talk a little bit about it in this article.

BG had another random girlfriend in 2017. And then she got tired of that and married her best friend and college sweetheart Cherelle in 2018. And then BG and Cherelle really did become cool and mature lesbian aunties.

When BG was 24 years old, she made some mind-numbingly stupid decisions and turned her entire life upside down. In some ways, people were taking advantage of her stardom and youth and naivety. But oh well. She helped TMZ pay their bills in 2015.

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The Life of The Prophet Muhammad:   The Treaty of Hudaybiyah and Calling the Great States of the World to Islam  

Umm Kulthum Takes Refuge in the Prophet

It was not long after the Treaty of Hudaybiyah that Umm Kulthum, the daughter of Uqba b. Abi Muayt, who was one of the fiercest enemies of the Prophet in Makkah, had embraced Islam and came to Madinah. She took refuge in the Messenger of God and said to him, “O Messenger of God! I escaped from them for the sake of my religion. Protect me; do not return me to the polytheists. If you return me to the unbelievers, they will torture me and try to make me exit my religion.”

The verse that was sent down upon this incident told the Prophet how to act: “O ye who believe! when there come to you believing women refugees, examine (and test) them: God knows best as to their Faith: if ye ascertain that they are Believers, then send them not back to the Unbelievers. They are not lawful (wives) for the Unbelievers, nor are the (Unbelievers) lawful (husbands) for them. But pay the Unbelievers what they have spent (on their dower). And there will be no blame on you if ye marry them on payment of their dower to them. But hold not to the guardianship of unbelieving women: ask for what ye have spent on their dowers and let the (Unbelievers) ask for what they have spent (on the dowers of women who come over to you). Such is the command of God: He judges (with justice) between you: and God is Full of Knowledge and Wisdom.”

This verse explained that the article in the Peace Treaty of Hudaybiyah regarding the Muslims migrating to and taking refuge in Madinah was about men not women.

Thereupon, the Prophet returned the Muslim men who came to Madinah by running away from Madinah but he did not return the Muslim women. As a matter of fact, when Walid b. Uqba and Umara b. Uqba, the brothers of Umm Kulthum came to Madinah and demanded the return of Umm Kulthum, he said to them, “God annulled the decree of that article regarding women.” Therefore, he did not surrender Umm Kulthum to them.

After this verse was sent down, the women who migrated from Makkah to Madinah were virtually tested. They swore as follows: “By God, we came here just because of our love and loyalty to God and His Messenger not because of finding husbands and goods or because of our hatred to anybody.” In that case, they were allowed to stay in Madinah and were not returned. The mahrs of those who swore like that were returned to their husbands.

Hazrat Umar Divorces Two of His Wives

In the verse that was sent down, the believers were ordered to divorce their unbelieving wives: “They are not lawful (wives) for the unbelievers.” Thereupon, Hazrat Umar divorced two of his wives who were polytheists and lived in Makkah.

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Dua For Love

Assalam Alaikum ,

My dear brother and sister. If you’re reading this article, it means you’re looking for a wazifa or dua to help you with your love life. Maybe you’ve lost the love of your life and you’re looking for a way to get them back. Either way, you’ve come to the right place. Losing the love of your life is one of the most painful experiences a person can have. But don’t worry, we’re here to help. Our wazifas and duas have been tested thousands of times and have helped people from all walks of life get their loved ones back. So don’t hesitate to give them a try. 

Things become more difficult when an outside person is involved in the situation. If you are walking around with a broken heart, this is not how you should live your life. No one wants to go through life without love, so we have a Powerful Islamic Wazifa for EX Love Back that can eliminate that third person and solve your problem. Islam is one of the largest religions in the world and we created this website to help our Muslim brothers and sisters get knowledge about their religion and how to use Wazifa’s and Dua’s to get anything they want in their life.

Some important points to be kept in mind while performing the dua -

To make your dua more effective, keep the following points in mind:

– Keep yourself clean and the place where you perform this dua – While doing this dua, keep your face in the direction of Qibla Sharif – Start this dua after any Namaz for best results – Imagine your love with good intentions; your only motive should be marriage

Our wazifa is specially meant to help to get your desired wishes and dreams to come true. We believe that to get something you did not need anything except the acceptance of Almighty Allah (SWT)

Wazifa for Love Back Step by Step:

Start by reciting Durood e Ibrahimi 7 Martaba.

Recite Surah Yaseen [36:57] Eleven Times Given below.

On a white piece of paper, please write down the name of your lover that you want to bring back and put it in front of you.

Now in the memory of Allah Tallah, recite “subḥaan-allaahi wa biḥamdihi wa subḥaan-allaahil-‛aẓeem“ 101 times.

Take that piece of paper and put it underneath your pillow. Sleep with it for three days.

Surah Yaseen [36:57]- “Lahum feehaa faakiha tunw-wa lahum maa yadda’oon”

English Translation– “Every moment will be a joy for them. They will have whatever they ask.”

Islamic Wazifa is a method that you will practice for at least 7 days to get your love back. No matter the reason, this Wazifa should work like magic if you perform it with desire and conviction. Your lover will come back into your life within 21 days. If you want immediate results, then please contact Molana Rashid Ali.

Why is Wazifa For Love Back is So effective ?

Wazifa for love back is one of the most sought after Islamic prayer these days. This prayer is powerful, effective and works like a magic. Millions of people try this prayer with hopes of getting back their ex-lover but don’t know why this prayer is so effective and how they can increase their chances of getting back the love of their life. In this blog, I will shed light on the reasons behind this effective Islamic prayer and how you can use it to work like a charm.

In our day-to-day life we need to face lots of problems and disappointments. In the modern world, love is considered to be one of the most important things. If you are facing the problem of breakups or divorce then you can use wazifa for love back. If you want to know more details about wazifa for love back then you can read the content.

If you are looking for a solution for your love problems then you came to the right place. Many of us are searching for the solution for their love problems. Every person who is in love wants to have a long and happy love relationship. Wazifa for love back is the solution for your love problems. I hope today’s post is helpful for you.

“Wazifa for love back ” is an age old Islamic practice which provides a solution to problems like love, marriage, job-loss etc. Though the Islamic culture and thinking of people is getting modernized, but still majority of people believe in this. As far as Islamic practices are concerned, “Wazifa for love back ” is very effective in solving love problems, provided the belief is strong.

Wazifa To Get My Love Back -

Note: It’s important to Perform this Wazifa after you have Performed the Isha Night Prayer.

1. You will need to recite ‘Valar Umar Zeen Kaleef’ at least 300 times. 2. After that, you will need to say the name of your lover. 3. Repeat this Wazifa for getting love back at least twice a day. 4. Continue this for seven days. 5. At last, Recite Durood Sharif Eleven times.

5 TIME NAMAZ

1 – Fajr (ڈان کی) Morning Prayer

2 – Zuhar (Duhr) (ظہر ) Noon Prayer

3 – Asar ( آنے کا ) Afternoon Prayer

4 – Maghrib ( مغرب ) Evening Prayer

5 – Isha ( میں ) Night Prayer

Important note -

Note –

If this dua or wazifa is not working, it means that someone has put a black magic spell or is doing Kala ilem on your relationship. If you have this problem, contact our Molana Rashid Ali by clicking on the Consult with us button below. Girls should not do this dua or wazifa during their periods. Do this dua or wazifa with a pure heart and pure intention, and have faith in Allah Tala.

Why Dua Is Not Heard by ALLAH ?

There are so many reasons why dua is not heard by Allah , But we need to solve it. We should try to solve it by following the steps which i have mentioned in this blog. Dua can only be heard by Allah when we are healthy and strong. We should try to follow the simple steps which are mentioned below.

There are a few reasons as to why your dua, or supplication, may not be getting answered.

The first reason could be that your dua is weak – this means that you’re not asking for it correctly, with the right level of emotion and faith. In order to make a proper dua, you should have strong Iman.

The second reason could be that you’re not pure. This refers to if you’re doing anything haram – If you’re participating in any activities that are forbidden in Islam, then your dua will not be accepted by Allah.

The third reason is that you’re not sending a greeting towards Prophet PBUH. Your dua will not be heard by Allah until you send peace to His messenger.

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If you’re having any difficulties understanding or performing the Surah, feel free to contact us anytime. We’re available 24/7 to help you with any problems you may have. Our Islamic scholars and specialists are always here to help, and they can provide you with the best possible solutions. You can directly contact them on WhatsApp and ask for help. They’ll be more than happy to provide you with the best solution they can.

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How to Get the Best Agreement on a Divorce

Divorce is not just the legal dissolution of a marriage; it is also a process in which various rights, responsibilities, and assets are divided between the parties. Obtaining a fair and favorable agreement in a divorce requires a clear understanding of the relevant legal framework, a strategic approach to negotiation, and the guidance of competent legal counsel. The ultimate goal is to reach an agreement that satisfies both parties' financial and emotional needs while adhering to the law. In this article, we will examine key strategies for achieving the best divorce agreement, review important aspects of divorce law, and offer practical advice for protecting your rights during this challenging process.

Understanding Divorce Law: The Legal Framework

Divorce law varies by jurisdiction, and understanding the relevant statutes and precedents is crucial to navigating the process. In the United States, divorce is primarily governed by state law, meaning that the specific rules and procedures differ depending on the state in which the divorce is filed.

No-Fault vs. Fault-Based Divorce

One of the first considerations in divorce is whether the parties will proceed on a no-fault or fault-based ground.

No-fault divorce allows spouses to divorce without assigning blame for the breakdown of the marriage. In most states, no-fault divorce is available when the parties have irreconcilable differences or have been separated for a certain period.

Fault-based divorce occurs when one spouse alleges that the other’s misconduct, such as adultery, abandonment, or cruelty, led to the dissolution of the marriage. Fault-based divorces can sometimes impact the division of assets or spousal support, but they often require more extensive legal proceedings and evidence.

In many cases, opting for a no-fault divorce can lead to a smoother negotiation process, as it eliminates the need for contentious accusations and proof of wrongdoing. However, each party should consult with a divorce attorney to determine which route is most beneficial under their specific circumstances.

Equitable Distribution vs. Community Property

In the United States, the division of property during a divorce follows one of two main principles: equitable distribution or community property.

Community Property: In states such as California and Texas, all marital property is considered community property and is typically divided 50/50 between the spouses. Marital property includes all assets and income acquired during the marriage, while separate property—such as assets owned prior to the marriage or received as gifts or inheritance—remains with the original owner.

Equitable Distribution: Most states, including Virginia and New York, follow equitable distribution principles, meaning that property is divided in a way that the court deems fair but not necessarily equal. In these cases, factors such as the length of the marriage, the earning capacity of each spouse, contributions to the household, and the needs of minor children are considered.

Understanding whether your state follows community property or equitable distribution principles is critical to forming realistic expectations about property division during divorce negotiations.

Key Strategies for Achieving a Favorable Divorce Agreement

Securing the best possible divorce agreement involves a combination of preparation, negotiation skills, and legal knowledge. Below are several essential strategies for ensuring that your interests are protected during the divorce process.

1. Retain Competent Legal Representation

One of the most important steps in securing a favorable divorce agreement is to retain a divorce attorney with experience and knowledge of the law. A skilled attorney can help you understand your rights, assess your options, and negotiate effectively on your behalf. Your attorney will also handle the legal complexities of the divorce process, including drafting settlement agreements and representing you in court if necessary.

2. Prioritize Your Interests and Set Clear Goals

Divorce negotiations are often emotional, but it’s crucial to remain focused on the practical aspects of the agreement. Before entering negotiations, take the time to prioritize your interests. These could include:

Financial security: This includes a fair division of marital property, securing spousal support if necessary, and protecting your assets.

Child custody and support: For parents, ensuring a favorable child custody arrangement and adequate financial support for the children is often the highest priority.

Housing and living arrangements: Decide whether it is important to keep the family home or whether a new living arrangement is preferable.

Once you have clear goals in mind, you can work with your attorney to develop a strategy that addresses those priorities.

3. Gather and Organize Financial Information

Financial transparency is critical in divorce negotiations. Both parties are required to disclose their income, assets, debts, and other financial information during the discovery phase of the divorce. Being fully prepared with all relevant financial documents will not only ensure compliance with legal requirements but also position you to negotiate from a place of strength.

Key financial documents to gather include:

Bank statements

Tax returns

Retirement account statements

Mortgage and loan documents

Credit card statements

Any documentation related to separate property claims

Failing to disclose assets or providing incomplete financial information can result in legal penalties and may undermine your case.

4. Consider Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR)

Litigation can be costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining. Many divorcing couples find that Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods, such as mediation or collaborative divorce, offer a more amicable and efficient route to a final agreement.

Mediation: In mediation, a neutral third party helps the spouses negotiate a settlement. The mediator does not make decisions but facilitates productive discussion and compromise.

Collaborative Divorce: In this process, both spouses and their attorneys agree to work together to reach a settlement outside of court. If the parties cannot agree, they must hire new attorneys for any subsequent litigation.

These ADR methods allow the parties to maintain control over the terms of the divorce and often lead to more satisfactory outcomes than court-imposed decisions.

5. Keep Emotions in Check

Divorce is an emotionally charged process, but allowing emotions to dictate decision-making can result in unfavorable outcomes. It is essential to approach the divorce negotiation process with a level head and a focus on the long-term consequences of the decisions being made.

For example, it may be tempting to fight for certain assets out of spite, but doing so could lead to increased legal fees and prolong the divorce. By focusing on practical outcomes, such as financial stability and the well-being of any children, you can make decisions that benefit your future.

6. Be Willing to Compromise

While it is important to stand firm on key issues, achieving the best divorce agreement often requires a willingness to compromise. Divorce is a give-and-take process, and both parties must be willing to make concessions in order to reach a final agreement. Working with your attorney to identify areas where you can be flexible can help expedite the negotiation process and lead to a more favorable overall outcome.

Legal Acts and Principles Governing Divorce Agreements

Several legal principles and acts govern divorce proceedings in the U.S., ensuring that the rights of both parties are protected. Key among these are:

1. The Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act (UMDA)

The Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act (UMDA) is a model statute that was developed to promote uniformity in divorce laws across states. While not all states have adopted the UMDA, it provides a framework for issues like property division, child custody, and spousal support. The act emphasizes no-fault divorce and equitable distribution of assets, guiding states to consider the needs of both parties in crafting fair divorce agreements.

2. The Best Interests of the Child Standard

When it comes to child custody, the best interests of the child standard governs how courts determine custody arrangements. Courts consider factors such as the child’s emotional and physical needs, the child’s relationship with each parent, and each parent’s ability to provide a stable environment. Understanding this legal standard is essential for parents seeking custody, as it underscores the importance of focusing on the child’s well-being during negotiations.

Conclusion

Divorce is a complex legal process, but with the right preparation and legal representation, it is possible to secure a fair and favorable agreement. By prioritizing your interests, gathering the necessary financial information, considering alternative dispute resolution methods, and staying focused on practical outcomes, you can achieve the best possible resolution to your divorce. Legal statutes such as the Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act and the best interests of the child standard further provide a framework for ensuring that divorce agreements are equitable and just. Working closely with an experienced divorce attorney will help ensure that your rights are protected and that the final agreement is in your best interest.

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Navigating the Complexities of Family Law: Insights from Long Island Experts

Understanding the Role of Long Island Family Lawyers: Navigating Divorce, Custody, Adoption, and More

Family law encompasses a wide range of legal matters, from divorce and child custody to adoption and domestic violence. For those residing in Long Island, Long Island family lawyers offer specialized guidance through these complex issues. This article will provide an in-depth look at the role of family attorney Long Island professionals and what you need to know about what is a family law lawyer.

Understanding Family Law and Its Scope

Family law is a legal field that addresses matters related to familial relationships. Whether it’s resolving disputes over child custody or managing the financial aspects of a divorce, this branch of law is crucial for ensuring fair outcomes for all parties involved. Family attorney Long Island professionals are well-versed in handling these delicate situations, offering their expertise to navigate the often emotional and legal complexities involved.

The Role of Long Island Family Lawyers

Long Island family lawyers play a vital role in assisting clients with various family-related legal issues. They provide valuable support in cases such as divorce, where they help to negotiate settlements and represent clients in court. These professionals also handle child custody battles, ensuring that the best interests of the children are prioritized. Their deep understanding of family law and local legal practices makes them indispensable in achieving favorable outcomes for their clients.

What to Expect from a Family Attorney Long Island

When engaging a family attorney Long Island, clients can expect a comprehensive approach to their legal issues. These attorneys offer personalized legal strategies tailored to the unique circumstances of each case. They are adept at addressing various aspects of family law, including asset division, spousal support, and child welfare. The expertise of a family attorney Long Island ensures that clients receive informed advice and effective representation throughout the legal process.

Key Questions: What Is a Family Law Lawyer?

For those unfamiliar with what is a family law lawyer, it is essential to understand their role in the legal system. A family law lawyer specializes in handling cases related to family matters. This includes but is not limited to, divorce proceedings, child custody disputes, and legal separation. Their primary goal is to provide legal solutions that resolve disputes while considering the well-being of all family members involved. Whether it’s negotiating settlements or representing clients in court, these lawyers are equipped with the knowledge and skills necessary to handle complex family law issues.

Choosing the Right Legal Representation

Selecting the appropriate Long Island family lawyers is crucial for achieving a successful resolution to family disputes. It is important to choose a lawyer who is experienced in family law and understands the specific needs of your case. A well-qualified family attorney Long Island will offer guidance throughout the legal process, ensuring that your rights are protected and that you achieve the best possible outcome.

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Divorce Lawyers in the UAE: A Comprehensive Guide

Divorce, despite being an unfortunate event, is a reality that many couples in the UAE may face. Given the legal and social challenges posed by divorce, the role of a divorce lawyer becomes paramount. In this article, we will discuss the role of divorce lawyers in the UAE, the legal procedures involved, the factors to consider when choosing a lawyer, and provide some essential tips.

Who is a Divorce Lawyer?

A divorce lawyer is a legal specialist who provides legal advice and representation to individuals in divorce cases. Divorce lawyers possess extensive knowledge of family laws and legal procedures related to divorce, and they can assist their clients in understanding their legal rights and obligations, negotiating fair settlements, and representing them in court if necessary.

The Role of Divorce Lawyers in the UAE

Providing Legal Advice: Divorce lawyers provide comprehensive legal advice on all aspects of divorce, including custody rights, alimony, and property division.

Drafting Legal Documents: Divorce lawyers draft all the necessary legal documents for divorce proceedings, such as divorce petitions and divorce agreements.

Negotiating with the Other Party: Divorce lawyers negotiate with the other party's lawyer to reach an amicable settlement on various divorce issues.

Court Representation: In the absence of an amicable settlement, divorce lawyers represent their clients in court to defend their rights.

Providing Emotional Support: Divorce lawyers provide emotional support to their clients during this challenging time, helping them understand the legal procedures and their impact on their lives.

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Legal Procedures for Divorce in the UAE

The divorce procedures in the UAE vary depending on the applicable laws for each case, whether Islamic Sharia law or civil law. Generally, divorce procedures involve the following steps:

Filing a Divorce Petition: A divorce petition is filed with the competent court.

Exchange of Legal Documents: Legal documents are exchanged between the parties.

Hearing Sessions: Hearing sessions are held to determine the facts and disputed issues.

Issuing the Judgment: The court issues its final judgment in the case.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Divorce Lawyer

Experience: Choose a lawyer with extensive experience in divorce cases.

Specialization: Preferably, choose a lawyer specializing in family law.

Reputation: Look for a lawyer with a good reputation.

Cost: Compare the fees of different lawyers.

Communication: There should be good communication between you and the lawyer.

Important Tips When Dealing with a Divorce Lawyer

Documents: Gather all important documents such as the marriage contract and birth certificates.

Questions: Do not hesitate to ask your lawyer any questions.

Patience: Divorce proceedings may take a long time.

Trust: Trust your lawyer's decisions.

Conclusion Divorce is a difficult experience, but with the right legal assistance, this phase can be overcome with minimal losses. A divorce lawyer is an important partner in this journey, as they provide the necessary legal and emotional support. When choosing a divorce lawyer, conduct thorough research and ensure you select the right lawyer who will best serve your interests.

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Document Lawyer Chennai

Navigating the legal aspects of a divorce can be daunting, especially when it comes to handling the numerous documents required for the process. Engaging a specialized document lawyer in Chennai can significantly ease this burden and ensure that your case progresses smoothly. This article highlights the critical role of a document lawyer in divorce cases and why their expertise is invaluable.

The Role of a Document Lawyer in Divorce Proceedings A document lawyer specializes in the preparation, review, and management of legal documents. When dealing with divorce, their role is pivotal for several reasons:

Accurate Document Preparation: Divorce cases involve a range of documents, including divorce petitions, financial statements, affidavits, and settlement agreements. A document lawyer ensures that each document is accurately prepared, reflecting your specific circumstances and legal requirements.

Compliance with Legal Standards: Divorce laws and procedures vary, and local regulations must be adhered to. A document lawyer in Chennai is well-versed in local legal standards, ensuring that all documents comply with the court's requirements and reducing the risk of delays or rejections.

Detail-Oriented Drafting and Review: The intricacies of legal language and documentation can be overwhelming. A skilled document lawyer drafts and reviews all paperwork meticulously, ensuring clarity and precision, and safeguarding your interests throughout the process.

Efficient Filing and Management: Managing the filing and submission of documents can be complex. A document lawyer handles these tasks efficiently, ensuring that all paperwork is filed correctly and in a timely manner, which is crucial for the smooth progression of your case.

Adaptation to Changes: As circumstances change, modifications to legal documents may be necessary. A document lawyer can swiftly adapt to these changes, ensuring that any updates are legally sound and accurately recorded.

Benefits of Hiring a Document Lawyer for Divorce Choosing the right document lawyer for your divorce offers several key benefits

Expertise in Family Law: Document lawyers specializing in family law possess the expertise needed to handle divorce-related documentation effectively. Their knowledge ensures that all legal requirements are met and your case is managed efficiently.

Personalized Service: A dedicated document lawyer provides personalized attention, tailoring their services to fit your specific needs and circumstances. This individualized approach helps in achieving the best outcomes for your case.

Time and Cost Efficiency: By handling the documentation process expertly, a document lawyer helps save time and reduce costs associated with errors or delays. Their efficiency ensures that the legal process moves forward smoothly.

Peace of Mind: Knowing that an experienced professional is managing your legal documents provides peace of mind, allowing you to focus on other aspects of your life during a challenging time.

Choosing the Right Document Lawyer in Chennai To find the best document lawyer for your divorce, consider the following:

Specialization in Family Law: Ensure the lawyer specializes in family law and has a proven track record in handling divorce cases. Their specialized knowledge is essential for effective document management.

Reputation and Reviews: Look for a lawyer with a strong reputation and positive client reviews. A lawyer with a successful track record is more likely to provide high-quality services.

Clear Communication: Choose a lawyer who communicates clearly and promptly. Effective communication is vital for keeping you informed and involved throughout the legal process.

Transparent Fees: Ensure the lawyer offers a transparent fee structure. Understanding the costs upfront helps you manage your budget and avoid unexpected expenses.

Why Your Best Choice we specialize in providing expert document legal services for divorce cases in Chennai. Our team is dedicated to delivering precise, efficient, and personalized legal support to help you navigate your divorce with confidence.

Expert Legal Services: Our experienced document lawyers are well-versed in family law and adept at handling all aspects of divorce documentation.

Client-Centered Approach: We offer personalized services tailored to your unique needs, ensuring that your legal documents are handled with the utmost care and accuracy.

Efficient Processes: Our streamlined processes ensure that all documentation is prepared, reviewed, and filed efficiently, minimizing delays and ensuring compliance with legal standards.

Comprehensive Support: We provide ongoing support and guidance throughout your divorce process, helping you make informed decisions and achieve favorable outcomes.

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