#fox gives advice

[caught-the-lovebug]

how do u get over someone? i told my friend i liked him and he decided he didnt wanna be friends anymore. he said we could be friends again when im over my feelings for him and i feel like i already am so i tried messaging him a few times and he just ignored me. its really weird because i met him on a dating app so i feel like he should have expected this but whatever theres nothing i can do now. i just really miss him and im not sure how to get over it

I'm so sorry telling your friend has meant you're being ignored despite accepting that he doesn't want to date you.

Unfortunately, there's only so much you can do to convince him you respect his boundaries and are only interested in being his friend. My advice there would be to do your best to give him time and space but every so often send him a message that you usually would. Like a meme or something funny. It might not work, but it's what I would try.

As for getting over him, I usually just wait for the feelings to dissipate. But, it's helpful to stop the fantasies in their tracks. If you picture yourselves on a date or things similar, try to stop and tell yourself "That wouldn't happen, he doesn't want that.". There is nothing wrong with indulging in fantasy, but it will help fuel your feelings so avoiding it in turn can help you get over feelings.

Maybe make a list of things you don't think would make him a good partner. (Ignoring you instead of communicating can be one). Maybe visualise putting those feelings in a box and leaving it behind any time they come up.

Some other things you could do are much grander and symbolic. If you're an artist or a writer, you can indulge those fantasies by drawing/writing yourselves as a couple but burning the paper, or simply throwing it out/deleting it. Make a symbol of your relationship or feelings and destroy or simply let go of (like giving to a friend or leaving at a park) it.

Getting over feelings can be hard, take care of yourself and remember that nothing you've done is wrong. Mourn if you need. Having feelings for someone who doesn't like you back, even after you know, isn't a bad thing. You're allowed to feel this way and not do anything about it. But, if you want to get over him, that's also very valid.

Oh, and my number one tip, find a new crush. You'll find older feelings fade much quicker when you have someone new to think about in their place.

[revenantghost]

Oh my god oh my god oh my god

There's a Vash and Wolfwood dog papercraft

[buddiebuckley-diaz]

“I get taking things slow, but tomorrow isn’t promised to anyone. So if you love her, tell her.”

God damn it Eddie take your own fucking advice. You love him, tell him.

[thestarwarslesbian]

Bail: Obi. I can't BELIEVE Breha suggested asking you of all people for help with this, but I need your help. Obi-wan, confused and offended: What the kriff for? Bail: Well, me and Breha… Like Fox and we don't know how else to hint it to him.

Obi-wan, internally: *This is my chance. But I can't outright tell Bail that Fox also likes them, because he asked me specifically not to tell anyone, especially Bail and Breha.* Obi-wan, internally: *so just act dumb*

Obi-wan: Who's Fox? Obi-wan: internally screaming: *NOT THAT DUMB*

[majiedoodles]

I doodle whatever comes to mind and a wonderful week ago this did:

And from there this happened:

(Morgana: *mocking merlin* Arthur, I'm gay af for you, my king. Also Morgana: *mocking arthur* No way, me too!)

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I think you guys know where I'm going with this.

Now finally I FAVORITE part! This masterpiece:

(Morgana: *makes puppets kiss* mwah mwah *kissy noises* Arthur: MORGANA!! *knows it's true but wished Morgana didn't do this in the middle of the hall* Merlin: *too red and embarrassed to speak*)

Would you believe me if I told you the first I thing I drew from this scene was NOT the intense make-out between two puppets?

Yeah. I figured you wouldn't believe me.

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WHELP ANYWAY LOOK AT ARTHUR'S FACE! HE SO ANGY! AND MERLIN- poor Merlin. he's gone tomato. Uh oh.

OKAY THAT'S ALL OF MY CRACKHEAD ART RELATING TO THIS TOPIC BYE BYE NOW

[stagefoureddiediaz]

My kingdom for Chim and Buck talking about their experiences of being in a coma tonight

[chipper-smol]

food allergies are bullshit what do you mean i cant eat apples, plums, peaches, nectarines, and carrots, some of the most peak food sources when im having a bad adhd day bc they take forever to go bad and all you have to do to prepare them is to pick them up and on top of that they taste good AND ON TOP OF THAT THEYRE FULL OF GOOD VITAMINS N SHIT

utter bullshit

):c

[marklikely]

i hope this isn't like out of line for me to say but sometimes i get offended (<- very mildly not like actually offended) at the white tumblr user stereotypes like surely nobody could actually be that cringe we arent that bad and then i see people being exactly that cringe if not more so. so like okay.

[moonbeam-fox]

"I give terrible advice please always takes it's worth as a grain of salt" —guy constantly asked for their advice

[caught-the-lovebug]

I love my boyfriend. He’s the best thing that has ever happened to me. He’s also my first boyfriend

My question is: is it normal to feel peace with him? I don’t feel nervous around him. My heart doesn’t beat that fast either. But I love him. I get good news, I text him. I’m sad, I text him. I wanna kisss him and hug him all the time. I don’t think of other guys at all. I’m just scared bc I don’t wanna play with his feelings.

Ps: I’m demisexual and we where friends for a while before dating

I'm sorry the world has made you feel like being at peace with someone you love isn't normal.

In fact, that feeling is a very stable form of love. Not more important than the nervous or passionate forms of love. And not less important either. (I'm also not saying those loves can't be stable or that they can't become stable, just that the at peace love tends to be stable).

Feeling at peace and at home with someone you love is completely normal. And especially if you've known them for a while. Partners aren't meant to just be people that make your heart race and your face blush. That's only part of the experience and not everyone even experiences that. And that's okay!

The most important aspects of dating someone in my head is being able to feel comfortable around them and tell them important things. That at peace feeling is perfect for those aspects to exist.

You said multiple times that you love him and provided many examples of how that love looks to you. That's all you need to know you aren't stringing him along. Love isn't about doing things the common way, it's about doing things your way.

And in saying that, feeling at peace is pretty common. People who get heart racing kind of love tend to experience it also.

Hope this helps!

[avatarwindboy]

Is Sokka the Avatar????

[sourstiless]

flash warning !!!

evan buckley and his quest to find perpetual happiness through advice given to him by dying old men :)))

song: sign of the time – harry styles

[mazzystar24]

Ahhh buck establishing boundaries I feel so proud 🤧👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[caswlw]

buck getting handed the baby just like the pilot 🥺 it’s like they’re giving us his full cycle before they nearly kill him

[devilcroc]

thoughts before the spamton thing ends...

I think it’s interesting/sad how this is him getting everything he ever hypothetically wanted, tons of money and affection from lightners, but he’s still a puppet. We’re choosing his fate and literally buying him to cut him open and throw him around. He wants freedom, but...

[papabearbobbynash]

After Bobby’s advice to Buck about finding what makes him at ease, and now Lev’s death I do wonder if being almost hit by a car in “Animal Instincts” might be Buck’s nearly death experience that will be trigger for him to finally realize what makes him feel at “ease”.