#friendship ended

[bigshot-furbiestm]

[lospalatoredinuvole]

La maggior parte degli amici non sono veri amici. Sono presenti solo quando le cose vanno bene, quando le cose sono divertenti, quando è conveniente, quando ti sei realizzat*, quando è vantaggioso per loro. Ma spariscono quando queste cose vengono a mancare.

[eggsaladstain]

i couldn’t fit this into the s2 meme post but i also could not rest until i made this so here you go

[redpeanut]

New hyperfixation alert

[nickys-theater-blog]

his big bug eyes, weird smile, and soft hair captivate me

[pain-is-my-game]

Why do the people I care about keep abandoning me? But they didn't just leave you other people were affected too.

But why did they leave? What did I do wrong. It wasn't your fault. You can't control other people's actions.

Then why does hurt so much? I don't know why but I'm sorry.

[nikkiscarlet]

Friendship ended with Kraft. Now Jif is my peanut butter.

[widerneronsfw]

I HATE THEM I HATE THEM I HATE THEM

[ruthimages]

[contaminatedlamb]

every once in a while, I walk past the closed door of our silent friendship. And when I do, I leave a gift of remembrance, of the love I still carry for you.

When I no longer gasp at the sight of a spider, instead carefully putting it on a piece of paper and placing it outside; I think of you.

When our songs come on and the lyrics swell out of my lungs, I dance with the ghost of your memory.

Whenever I mince garlic, I imagine you beside me, our mess of food scraps combining into one.

Whenever I enter nature, I imagine you, bare footed and laughing, taking quick steps towards the nearest river, your hair glittering golden in the sunlight, your voice calling for me to follow you.

When I am silent with a book, when I wear the noise cancelling headphones that are identical to the ones you own, when I am nestled under the weighted blanket you gave me on our friendship anniversary, when I glance at your detailed art in my room, when I see dragons, when I see birds, when I enter graveyards, when I, when I, when I— does it matter?? I always think of you.

As the months pass by our closed door of silence, just know you will always be with me, my friend.

You became too intertwined in my heart to be anything but a part of it.

[lowpolyraccoon]

just found out my friend likes peanut butter with their doritos

needless to say, we aren't friends anymore

[dear-me-just-wait]

The worst part about a best friendship fading out is that I don’t know when to take our pictures off the wall and stop wearing our matching necklaces because I’ll leave the porch light on for you. You’re always welcome here.

[himynameismallow]

“Feelin' like I just lost a friend” - Taylor Swift

Hi everyone! My name is Mallow and even though I'm not the best at writing, I decided to write something like a blog. I hope you enjoy the entries.

There's been a lot going on in my life lately, but this is one of the things I'm focusing on the most. It's about the end of a few years of friendship. To bring the whole situation closer to you, I will tell you how this turn of events happened. I once befriended a girl, let's call her Julia. Everything was great, we went through a lot together, which made us close, and even though I had a few other friends, she always knew the most about me. But a few months ago, during the winter holidays, my friend went to a scout camp, where she met a BOYFRIEND. Don't get me wrong, I've always wanted the best for Julia, but knowing her, I suspected there might be something wrong with this boy. But I didn't say anything to her and I listened every day about how amazing and wonderful this guy is. When we returned to school after the holidays, it turned out that Julia’s wonderful lover attended our school. And already at that moment I noticed that our friendship can go through difficult times. Julia talked to this boy every break, leaving me alone. At that time, I got to know my 2 current friends better, who also noticed the change in Julia's behavior. After a week, my best friend stopped talking to me completely. And that's how we hunched for 2 months. We used to talk to each other every day, then Julia didn't even read my messages. She made new friends from her boyfriend's class. I asked Julie for a talk and explained to her that I did not feel comfortable in this situation, and thus our friendship ended.

It's been over a month since that conversation. I thought that after Julia's treatment, it would be easier to accept it all, but I was wrong. As much as I love my current friends, I don't feel that connection with them. I know I don't want to get back to being friends with Julia because she's changed a lot and so have I. I just feel like we're completely different than we used to be when our friendship blossomed and I miss that. We will never be the same again because people grow up, change and move on. So much has changed over the years, so many people have been with us and so many have left. I know Julia is happy now, in a happy relationship like she always wanted. And even though things haven't been good between us lately, I will always support her and wish her well. I wish I could move on and not think so much about her and the whole situation. I guess in life it is so that some people will always stay with us in some way and it is impossible to get rid of it. But also remember that after the storm comes the sun and you can't lose hope. Have you ever had a similar situation? Do you think I did the right thing?

XX Mallow! <3