New favorite oc unlocked. Sienna
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We all experience some trauma that debilitates us. That makes us want to lean into the darkness and set the world on fire. Trauma can really have its way with you. Leaving you bitter and empty. Ready to serve up the next person you meet to the flames still burning. Burning the next one and the next one till it becomes all consuming. Not realizing you’re now just like them. The person that once tore into you. Left you engulfed in the flames of your own burning building. It’s still burning. YOU’RE STILL BURNING. And now you light up every single MF that comes near you because of what that one person did to you.
Congratulations.
You’ve just become another one of them.
Another raging unhealed human who can’t push passed their emotions. Another hurt and broken person on a mission to hurt and break another person.
Did you get it?
Did you get yourself back after hurting that person?
Did it make you feel less broken once you broke someone more?
Tell me did it console you so deep to know that you tore someone deeper than you were torn?
Did it comfort your broken heart to know there goes another fucked up broken one into this world?
No…
No…
No…
No…
No…
That’s what I thought.
Try healing first…
Sincerely yours,
B.
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I will not attack someone’s character if I’m upset with them, even if I have reasons or feelings about what has happened.
I can step away and decide how to share how I feel or if I need to remove myself from the situation.
I can repair any damage I’ve caused and collaborate.
I also have the autonomy to leave.
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Every time I see that G--gle phone photoshop commercial my heart is filled with infinite sadness, like, yeah it's cool you can have a good family photo, it's cool you can do that, but god, there is something to be said for the honesty of a family photo where you're blinking, or crying, or have ugly wrinkles.
What is too unsightly for you? Would you swipe-click-replace out the image of my cousin crying on our Florida trip family reunion photo? Would you remove the plastic snake I have clenched in my grip, which I still have to this day? Would you scoff at the wrinkles around our eyes and the strands of hair on our faces as we squint into the wind, the day before the massive storm? Would I remember it if I didn't have these reminders, if the picture was perfect and clean, all children in a row with perfect gleaming white tombstone tooth smiles? No tears. No plastic snake.
Everyone is beautiful and no one looks genuine.
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Hurt People, Hurt People: the Cycle Perpetuates
Hurt People Really Do Hurt People. Please Like, Follow, and Share my Blog.
***TRIGGER WARNING!*** This blog post contains references to physical domestic violence. Please proceed reading with extreme caution!
I never really blamed my former mother-in-law…in fact, I sympathized with her, mostly…she went through years of abuse from my former father-in-law, which my ex-husband saw enough of to become an abuser. She would always tell me, “I left when XXXXX was five years…
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my co worker only let me go on break 20 MINUTES BEFORE CLOSING WHATTHEFUCK
bonne apetit
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January 14th examining relationship hurts
It’s January 14th, 2024; This original song examines the hurts one experienced during her marriage. It happens to more of us than we’d care to admit, much less look back on and examine. She’s finding not everything was bad, but asks, “Why did the hurt tear us apart”?
A love lost song
Here’s the fourteenth new music post for 2024 as I aim to consistently offer our original songs to the public.…
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You ever do that classic artist thing where you listen to a song or two a fewww too many times and violently hallucinate a new character? Haha…yeah…
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six packs are soo scary and unnatural to me. Put that beast AWAY
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