#i hate being such a dates person

[bixels]

tarpit site.

[lunarharp]

played dragon age 2...just simple scribbles

[whatudowhennooneseesyou]

I saw a tiktok of a woman mentioning how she's asked out men in the past and being rejected everytime and it angered me so hard because I've been there too.

I've asked out six men in a span of three years and all of them rejected me- the worst one being 'I don't find you sexually attractive at all'

Which eww but then guys always say they love it when the girl makes the first move- well which is then??

This attractiveness/courting game is just so fkn hard b/c no matter what way I take it- it ends up a total failure.

I've been doing this while 'I give up- I'm just going to let them come to me' and it's been 5 years and nothing-

I haven't had a crush, I haven't had a kiss, I haven't been on a date- nothing!

Ahh it's just so frustrating, this shit is hard omg

[brinnanza]

most gays and reasonable people: you can't judge people for immutable aspects of their being like their sexuality or race or county of origin; bisexuals are not a monolith they don't all like iced coffee

some of those same bitches without a shred of awareness: except for your birthday which can determine your entire personality my girlfriend the moon told me so

[cararata]

i love metamy but imagine not being able to bag your crush that You so desperately chased for so long so you end up dating his literal robot copy and EVERYONE KNOWING

[martyrbat]

thinking about how the riddler's screen name is wizard101... do you think he payed for a membership.

[will-pilled]

How to get a boyfriend as a trans masc no borax no glue

[betasuppe]

It didn't take much for me to be absolutely stupid in love with you♡~

[arkiwii]

very sad still see the saria/silence divorce headcanon still going around

have you ever tried to consider that they never dated before lone trail because it would be unrealistic with the timeline and the events and also because it would be overshadowing the actual truth of why they couldn't get along

[emilys-mich]

Something about Emily being called rude and harsh for the way she handled Eldon basically harassing her, before being guilt tripped for hurting his feelings and then pressured into going on a date with him.

Something about Emily trying to gain Amanda’s trust by pretending to turn against the team, having to to portray herself as incredibly cruel and selfish, and struggling to cope with how easily everyone believed it.

Something about Emily saying goodbye to Michelle, tears streaming down her face, admitting to thinking she’s not kind or compassionate enough on her own, and scared that she won’t be able to be a mentor and a role model without Michelle to guide her.

Something about being a good person at your core, but nobody ever acknowledges it so you don’t even know that you are.

Something about this character who, despite the countless number of times she’s felt it break, genuinely believes she might not have a heart.

[princsstwilightsparkl]

saying "if aroace people can date, then can lesbians date men?" is absolutely aphobic narrative btw!

[kakusu-shipping]

Wait I almost completely forgot I had a dream the other night that I got an Anon Hate message that claimed to be Koro-Sensei saying he would never love me due to the Proshipping thing and I just remember replying with a 20 bullet point list of How to Spot a Fake Koro-Sensei, as reviewed by Koro-Sensei.

Was a little sad to wake up and find the ask wasn't real.

[possamble]

AHA thank u i was mostly just. frantically pulling the "no hetero" card bc farcille is super super always endgame for me and the "marcille has two hands" thing is absolutely not for me and my personal characterization of marcille

i like. can't find it anymore for some reason but there was a farcille fic set just after the shuro confrontation where laios reaches over to hold marcille's hand and ask her if she likes him or if she's just tolerating him too and it was so. the vulnerability. the puppyness.

that safety and security he must feel in knowing that she wears her heart on her sleeve and he will always know when she's unhappy with him because she will absolutely let it be known. the way that falin's first revival was the turning point for the way he felt about her because, for the first time in his life, protecting falin wasn't something he had to shoulder alone. there was finally someone else who cared about her as much as he did (in his eyes, resenting his parents for failing to protect her) and would stop at nothing to save her. the way it must have been proof for him that, not only was falin not alone anymore, he wasn't alone anymore.

idk why i like rather than dislike the fact that his only framework for parsing how he feels about "the first girl other than his sister that he's ever cared this much about" is a comphet romantic lens. like he would have the autism moment of fully assuming that he's in love with her for a while and just like. not? doing anything about it? because he doesn't feel the urge to, nor is he sad that he knows marcille would mostly likely never "feel the same way" about him?

like. he "figures out" that he's "in love with marcille" with all the passion of printing out a label and sticking it onto a favourite scrapbook for organizational purposes. he's equally happy to be her husband or brother-in-law so long as it means she stays close and is part of his family.

i know logically i should hate it but it's sooo crunchy to me. my comphet besties ever. designated plus one and dance partner to all fancy and formal occasions. having actual real chemistry but the "romantic" part of it is some weird shapeshifter smokescreen. augh

[pmatga]

so here's my latest pmatga idea

bitter exes: old man edition™

[stormysapphic]

PLEASE tell me to go get my blood test today (this is in preparation for top surgery also) i've been putting it off for literal MONTHS now bc i always come up with an excuse why now isn't a good time to do it.... meanwhile they could technically try and schedule me for surgery TOMORROW and notice i still haven't done my blood test and give my spot to someone else

[doueverwonder]

mmmm face fam fic where Al and Matt are both Francis' kids bc it always seems to be the other way and i wanna know how this would go