I hate that I don't have energy for consistent close friendships :( or even rly distant friendships. Ever since I entered my perpetual autism burnout, every interaction is just too much mental energy than I can spare.
Overthinking what the other person really means, overthinking my reply, wondering if it'll come across how I intend, worrying it didn't make sense, worrying it was weird, rejection sensitive dysphoria when their reply is slightly different than I hoped.
I just!!!! I am lonely and tired
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Ya'll wanna know what's satisfying? Making a person who's been repeadatly going after your best friend realize that you're the thing they should be scared of.
You barked and yapped and whined about things I had no control over, oh but the second I bear my teeth it was over. I wasn't even malicious, a mere warning and you cowered away as if I ripped your damn throat out.
You haven't even heard me growl properly, I think it would send you into a damn coma if you did. I've let you treat me like your personal little toy for so long, did your dirty work for you for so long.
'Mom'? My ass. All I ever did for you was your dirty work, communicate for you it was pathetic, on your part.
Pathetic is really the only word I have to describe you. Can't handle having fault on something. It's always someone else's fault eh? Piss on my leg then blame me for it?
Like geez you openly discriminate against a whole group of people because you were told you're overstepping boundaries, boo hoo hunny.
I know you'll see this, you can't help but to watch me. At what point will you finally become self conscious about everything you do?
either way, Gabe says hi~
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i have artblock
the 1st drawings r recent(when i get artblock i just try 2 study anatomy idk)
transcript;
bernard; ok, so, listeners ask; jay, how is ur hair not damnaged? what deal did u have 2 make?
bernard; yeah whats ur secret?
jay; would u believe asian magic?
bernard(@ the same time); i mean how can we b sure-
jay; ber-
bernard; wait-
jay; ber!
bernard; wait! yk what i meant!
(thers a jump here bc i was 2 lazy 2 draw)
jay; im coming out again; ive been exposed. my hair is actually from my deal w/batman whos actually the devil
bernard; shup up shut up shut up omg
jay; 50 video special ill b cursing ber. get ready!
baernard; i h8 q n as
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I'm here to write but need to get something out of my system first (it's nothing bad dw) but there is one (1) muse who I have written longer than Vi and she's so similar to Neve Gallus it's not even funny. I'm scared people will think I'm just copying Neve right when I'm missing my girl so hard 😭💀
I might write her on discord tho 👉👈 her muse is too low and distant rn for a blog, I just miss that girl
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got soooo many things happening in the coming few weeks and it's p much all things I've been looking forward to but because it's so much in such a short time it's making me feel kind of unsettled and sad
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I cannot properly emotionally regulate myself without medication and it sucks so much more when people in your life are active assholes who like riling you up bc it's funny to them.
my sis in law called me and my brother was with her and he decided to give me shit FOR 20 MINUTES bc of me going to my friends house (19, currently unemployed, uninsured and living with mom) and not my friend coming over here. At first, it was fine, annoying, sure, but fine, BUT THEN HE KEPT GOING.
AND THE ROTTEN CHERRY ON TOP OF THE SHITTY CAKE was my sis in law asking if my friend was "just a friend," AND OFC HE IS BC I AM GAY. GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY. I LIKE WOMEN. I AM A GIRL KISSER. I'm not out to them because I don't feel safe or comfortable coming out to them bc they're republican conservative christians (Catholic) but men and women CAN BE FRIENDS.
So, when medicated, I can emotionally regulate myself A LOT EASIER! And I'm unmedicated bc I don't have health insurance, and I can't get health insurance BC I LITERALLY CANNOT AFFORD IT. MY MOM CANNOT AFFORD IT AND MY BROTHER BELIEVES I DONT NEED IT BUT I NEED MY MEDICATION. I've been off of meds for TWO DAYS and I've already spiraled into emotional instability and I don't have access to free Healthcare right now SO I CANNOT GET MY MEDS BC I HAVE NO MORE FUCKING REFILLS!
I am losing my shit rn. I cannot keep doing this shit (life) unmedicated. I cannot emotionally regulate myself, which in turn causes me to regulate by hurting myself and breaking things in my house bc I refuse to take it out on someone BUT IT DOESNT HELP THAT MY MOM IS KIND OF AN ABUSIVE POS AND SHE KNOWS IM UNMEDICATED.
GRRRHAHSHSHSJKRISJSHAHSBSHGRAHRAHARAHARAHRAHEHDJKSIAJANAKAKAKAAKKSHTKSIRUURUUDJSHYBDJJSJ4NTK
I'm fine, though.
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desperately feeling like i need to do something to make sure i’m not wasting my life! i want to travel somewhere and have plans i follow through on and momentum! anyway opening instagram was a bad choice
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Lil ranty here I apologize, but my Dr's office is useless
How tf does a doctors office LOSE results from a Holter monitor test??? Like you mfs think I just F O R G O T being hooked up to wires n tape n shit for 3 gd days??? Hello??? I fr need a new doctor... this office also lost multuple referrals to diff specialists
Which BTW when I got into see the ppl eventually conformed I have a GIGANTIC mass on my uterus that's trying to glue itself to my spine AND the other one was an audiologist who confirmed I had minor hearing loss... not a call back about either. No fucks given...
Best part?? I asked to be switched to a diff doctor cus there's one seeing 3 outta 4 of my immediate fam that lives here (One just doesn't live as close to this clinic as the rest of us) and they claim they don't swap patients between Dr's... yet I've seen 3 other doctors at appointments that were SUPPOSE to be "my" Dr and only saw my ACTUAL doctor when I had a breakdown and told their upper management about all the bullshit and issues and misreading of results I'd experienced (skipping the 8x8x9cm mass and reading where i had a 2cm cyst)... so they got in trouble and are revving up the damage control rn cus I probably COULD fucking sue for medical neglect at this point... OH and the referral that they supposedly made that the specialist, said specalist claims they had absolutely no record of. Not that I like, missed it, or it got denied. It NEVER HAPPENED lmfao.
Also this is all a bigger issue rn with my uterus trying to glue my organs together cus I found out I'm pregnant... and was apparently suppose to have my first appointment with the OB like 7-8 weeks... I'm 8 weeks 3 days rn and they don't have an opening for almost 2 weeks... cus one of the mfs are going on a short vacation... yall pray for me cus I'm either gonna have to go full Karen or imma fr have to resist burning the place down at this rate...
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