#infps are literally introverts

[violetsiren90]

Personal:

I, a grown woman in her early thirties, have just discovered after years of being classified as (and truly believing I am) an extrovert, am actually an introvert. My whole world was just tipped over but also now makes a hell of a lot more sense. What the fuck.

[avianyuh]

DK as a boyfriend

His personality is the sun baby from teletubbies

I'm just kidding, that was me letting an intrusive thought win...

No but seriously, Seokmin is a ball of sunshine

(ps. I'm gonna be using DK and his actual name Seokmin interchangeably)

When you met, believe it or not, he might be a little shy around you.

Mainly because he thinks you're cute and he becomes hyper aware of how loud he is and how his energy is always at 100%

Basically, he doesn't want to scare you off.

But when you guys get to know each other.

And when he gets comfortable...

Prepare for a lot of screaming.

Btw, remember that he's technically an introvert (INFP)

***(introvert doesn't equal shy. introvert just means you have a social battery and it drains faster. the only way to recharge is to spend some time alone or be around people you're comfortable with. so yeah, DK is loud and happy and goofy at times, but remember he's probably at his most comfortable around the other members because they're all his brothers. they all understand each other and know each other's limits.) okay, explanation over.

But also a lot of hysterical laughing.

DK is the boyfriend that rolls on the floor with you while you both laugh to the point you have tears in your eyes.

And it's all because he made some stupid joke or threw something and didn't catch it in enough time.

Or he stubbed his toe and hit a high note.

Like, anything with him is comedy gold.

He's your happy pill, your personal source of sunshine and positivity.

But I feel like he could always see right through you

And once you're a couple, it'd be his sole mission to make sure that he keeps you happy and energized.

And your mood really influences his mood.

If you're having a bad day, that in turn makes him sad and though he tries to cheer you up, if that doesn't work, he gets upset knowing you're down about something.

It's really sweet. Then you pull yourself out of your rut to try to get DK happy again, which doesn't take much effort.

Would kill at karaoke.

I feel bad for whoever goes against him unless you're Seungkwan or Mariah Carey...

Definitely would sing you to sleep.

Honestly, would just constantly be singing.

Around the house, in the shower, in the car, literally anywhere.

And you tease him for it and call him a show off, which he scoffs at but you always see that smile he tries to conceal by looking down trying to cover his mouth.

Type of bf to send you deep text messages on a random Tuesday night at 10:53 pm

I think Seokmin would know pretty early on if you were a good match for him or not.

Do you make him happy?

Is he crazy about you?

And if he answers yes, then he's made up his mind.

So you'd probably meet the members, his family and friends early on.

I see him wanting a private relationship.

Just wants to protect you and the best way to do that is by not outright publicizing it.

Low key romantic because he's protective, ya know?

*yes, I'm using the iconic robe photo, YOUR WELCOME*

Shmexy shtuff🥵:

Hmmm

First of all, I know he's not the type to be shirtless but I just KNOW that man has a nice ass body. Like, have you seen his arms????He works out so, bedroom action with this man will be great.

like... look at those arms😫👇

I don't see DK as the type to do anything crazy in the bedroom

Probably a vanilla kinda dude

I could see him as the type to play music and get really attentive

I said he would be the type to send long, deep text messages

So, I think he'd be really into pillow talk

Long story short, I don't think DK is for the freaks...

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{A/N: Uh...Heyyyyy. Wow, this is awkward. Soooooo, I've been gone for like two months. Really sorry about that guys. I had taken a short break from writing for awhile due to schoolwork. I know I say that a lot though. Yeah, headcanons don't make up for a lack of stories but this has been sitting in my drafts since January so I thought I'd finally finish it. The other thing is my writers block when it comes to fanfics. I had ideas but found it hard to find an idol to pick and envision for the story, idk if that makes sense. It's almost the end of my semester, I have finals coming up and I really miss writing on Tumblr. Side note; I've been listening to a lot of EXO and Got7 lately. It's been so much fun because I used to be a huge ahgase and exo-l back in middle and high school. Python is such a good song btw. I know someone had asked if I'd write for Got7 and idk, that might be on the horizon. Also, just remembered that I never finished writing Boring, so that'll be one of my summer projects. Okay, I promise to not disappear again. Love you and mwahhhh💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋}

[just-an-emily-existing]

To celebrate my birthday I gave myself an updated ref sheet!

Headcanons and more below!

🩷✨Emily✨🩷

Element: Suit of Cards

Birthday: May 13 2005

Age: 20

Zodiac: Taurus

Chinese Horoscope: Rooster

Spirit Animal: Hyrax

Height: 5'0

Sexuality: Bisexual and Polyromantic

Gender: Genderfluid

Pronouns: He/She

Personality Type: INFP

IQ: Idk I’d say like 87?

Nicknames: Emmy (Douglas)

Allergies: None

Disabilities: None

Right or Left Handed: Right

Quirks/Habits: Picks fingers often and brushes hair as a way to stim

Home Town: Not telling you 🫵😐

Nationality: American

Siblings: None

Who is the most important person in her life: Douglas

Person he looks up to the most: Douglas

Best Friend: Thomas, Rosie, Percy

Lover: Douglas

Rival: D10

If she could have a superpower it would be: Teleportation

Dream Job: Famous Artist

Biggest Fear: Being forgotten or ignored

Biggest Flaw: Has to be in control

Favorite Holiday: Halloween

Favorite Animal: Giraffe and Hyrax

Favorite Hobby: Drawing

Favorite Color: Pink

Favorite Food: Ramen

Favortie Drink: Gatorade

Least Favorite Food: Cabbage rolls

Favorite Season: Spring and Summer

Favorite Movie: TATMR

Favorite Book: Everlost by Neal Shusterman

Favorite Singer/Artist: Bear Ghost

Very skilled at: Cleaning

Least skilled at: Gaining motivation to do literally anything

Greatest Achievement: Graduating high school

Pet Peeves: Tapping feet

Introvert or Extrovert: Introvert

Organized or Messy: Both

Is she good at singing: Yes

Can he bake: Yes

Can she cook: yes

Does he play any sports: No

Instrument: Voice

Facts

Loves to sleep with the fan on.

Cannot go to sleep without washing her hands.

Had a makeship body pillow of sweaters that he pretends is Douglas.

Loves to paint her nails.

Is always tired.

Likes to clean.

Is a night owl.

It's either all of nothing when he commits to something.

Loves anything sweet, spicy or just flavourful in general.

Is always singing or repeating the same 5 seconds of her favorite song.

Will not hesitate to beat tf out of any unruly truck.

Has karaoke nights with her girlfriends.

Motto: “You’ll get it together eventually, even if your life is chaos right now.”

Theme Songs

American Baby - Dave Matthews

Idontwannabeyouanymore - Billie Eilish

[animehideout]

Your MBTI, Your Relationship With JJK Characters Part 2.

Read part 1

part 3

part 4

a/n: Currently working on the other requested mbti types, they'll be included in the coming parts ✨.

Thank you @goofbye @wakatsukikanae @zoldyi for requesting INFP, and @lostmymarblesstuff for requesting ISTP. I really really hope you like them though. 😭🫶🏻💖.

INFP:

Choso Kamo = Fiancé

Both of you find solace in each other's arms, you don't need to vocalize your love since your energy alone is capable of conveying the love, admiration and respect you have for each other. He appreciates the idea of becoming a family and building a home together filled with familial warmth. He's also a good listener whenever you vent. You accept each other for who you truly are without faking anything. You are both authentic and genuine. You show your love through acts of service, so he enjoys cooking your cravings for you.

Toji Fushiguro = Enemy

You have no respect for people who lack empathy or compassion, and Toji is one of them. He's vile, hostile and manipulative. He is the complete opposite of you. You have a strong sense of justice, fairness and sensitivity so Toji's actions trigger a strong negative reaction out of you. He is a threat to your values and peace, so you can't help but develop an enmity. He sees you weak for including your emotions so he always tries to change you into his liking or simply provoke you.

Toge Inumaki = Bestfriend

Most of your Hangouts are at home where you sit comfortably enjoying the peaceful quietness. You understand each other's emotions and troubles. He provides a safe space for you to express yourself, he takes your feelings into account and never judges you. He enjoys sitting comfortably while you talk about your dreams and thoughts. You inspire him a lot and he appreciates that you trust him enough to share personal things with him. He makes you feel that it's okay to be different as long as you are true to yourself.

Megumi Fushiguro = roommate.

You respect each other's personal space and that what made you good roommates, living under the same roof peacefully without any obstacles. At first you found difficulty to get into conversations or just hang out together at home; given that both of you are introverts. So you just limited yourself to small chats, but you grew to enjoy each other's presence and chill together. Both of you share similar standards for cleanliness so you divide tasks to keep your shared space tidy. Despite growing closer and more comfortable, the boundaries that both of you had set are still sacred. It is easy to live with Megumi.

ISTP

Toji Fushiguro= Husband.

The powerful duo, a thrill-seekers. Toji is the perfect match for you. You have mutual qualities such as using the power of mind, pursuing financial success and enjoying the spontaneous adventures. You have a healthy marriage life, following a pragmatic and rational approach. He is attracted to your determination and mindset, even after being married for too long he still looks at you with the same admiration and love he has for you since the first time he had laid eyes on you. Flirts a lot with you and drowns you in compliments. Your honeymoon was a thrilling and exciting experience literally risking your lives but you enjoyed every bit of it. You are attracted to his straightforwardness and cleverness also to his teasing and playful side. At some levels he doesn't take life too seriously but instead he faces it with humor and mockery. He is the perfect husband for you.

Yuta Okkotsu = Has a crush on you.

He would find himself uncontrollably attracted and drawn to you. The way you reasonably handle things, issues and conflicts impresses him. He also admires your independence and self-sufficiency, you are mentally strong and intelligent. And despite being introvert and reserved he would be surprised by how quick you can adapt to different situations and how you enjoy the thrill of new experiences and adventures. It leaves him blown away and intrigued by you and without hesitation he would develop a powerful crush.

Nanami Kento = Colleague.

You equally share a mutual respect for each other's skills. Both of you hate working overtime so most of the time you blend your competences to get done early with the work. You have a formal and professional kind of relationship which is task-oriented. Your emotions are put aside while working together. What matters is that you succeed in reaching your goals or solve problems. You are an effective team and can work in harmony.

Maki Zenin = Bestfriend.

You feel comfortable enough around Maki to enjoy engaging with various activities with her. Most of the time you train together. Maki has a strategic planning so she always comes up with interesting plans for both of you to enjoy, on the other hand you are a spontaneous person, so you make life more fun and full of surprises. You make each other even more stronger; both emotionally and physically. You keep each other stable and on track, focusing on your goals. Both of you are independent so you only provide emotional support, words of encouragement and comfort.

This piece of writing is just for fun, also it is imo, so it's not necessarily accurate 🫶🏻

[sleepinginmygrave]

A L L A B O U T J !!

hi hi lovely friends !! my names are jupiter or james, but nicknames are really appreciated !! ( jupi, jamie, j, etc . )

i'm a minor , they / him / hers pronouns , capricorn sun virgo moon aries rising , french / norwegian , infp im pretty sure , introverted , birthday's on january 5th !! , harp player for almost 9 years now , actually evan rosier , eclectic but sea focused witch , christian , slytherclaw , children of poseidon legacy of thanatos , nonhuman , i am very passionate about fruits , want to look cool so bad but im actually a huge loser

faves !!

music artists : tyler the creator ; ichiko aoba ; lamp ; tv girl ; the smiths ; radiohead ; current joys ; ethel cain ; doechii ; chet baker ; berlioz ; sade ; yussef dayes ; serani poji ; capsule ; perfume ; tommy february2 ; kendrick lamar ; anomalie ; the marias ; frank sinatra ; ella fitzgerald ; billie holiday ; laufey ; beabadoobee ; deftones ; slipknot ; limp bizkit ; faye webster ; clairo ; mazzy star ; lana del rey ; knock2 ; mac demarco ; alex g ; strawberry guy ; duster ; liana flores ; her's ; weezer ; gorillaz ; rammstein ; sum 41 ; weyes blood ; vendredi sur mer ; the beatles ; nirvana ; vashti bunyan ; steve lacy ; t.rex ; fleetwood mac ; chappell roan ; vacations ; yot club ; the plums ; david bowie ; siouxsie and the banshees ; strawberry switchblade ; the velvet underground ; slowdive ; cocteau twins ; the cranberries ; the smashing pumpkins ; cigarettes after sex ; beach house ; pinkpantheress ; crystal castles ; men i trust ; abba ; macabre plaza ; molchat doma

kpop artists & global groups (it needs a separate section now cuz theres too much sighh) : &team ; ateez ; p1harmony ; hearts2hearts ; boynextdoor ; zerobaseone ; aespa ; xdinary heroes ; xikers ; enhypen ; red velvet ; txt ; katseye ; loona ; illit ; say my name ; dreamcatcher ; girls generation ; kiiikiii ; le sserafim ; rescene ; ive ; dosii ; njz / new jeans ; fifty fifty ; yves ; chuu ; yena

composers : piotr ilich tchaikovski , maurice ravel , gabriel fauré , claude debussy , antonio vivaldi , sergeï rachmaninov , franz liszt , frédéric chopin , wolfgang amadeus mozart , camille saint-saëns , piero piccioni ; eric satie

they call me the i listen to everything boss

medias i enjoy? (so random im sorry) : interview with the vampire (show and currently reading the books) , riordanverse , dead boy detectives , spiderman into & across the spiderverse , uncharted (still don't have the last one sadly) , rayman legends , my little pony !! , warrior cats , journey , given , princess jellyfish , and there is so much more sorry ,, uhm i like reading classics (jane austen and brontë sisters mostly)

favs bds (bandes dessinés) !! : tintin , les tuniques bleus , astérix , blake et mortimer , lucky luke

my hobbies include : crocheting, knitting, drawing (my favorite medium is oil pastel so i'll probably be using that or mecanical pencil, i also like charocoal (i hate paint tho im so sorry)), baking (crêpes. every weeks. or cookies), playing the harp !!, reading, doing quizz on jetpunk (i love jetpunk), learning (i love learning) and so many more i can't think of rn. i like talking about myself and oversharing online but also im literally too shy to come up to ppl first so like please say hi

i am reallyyyy interested in art history and want to major in art history/archeology (and maybe double major with history) i'll probably be an archeologist some day . for the moment what i am especially interested in is the islamic word with its art, architecture and culture during the middle ages (i really like the middle ages)

i am . really passionate about animals . hjhhgh .. i especially enjoy bovines (any) , african wild dogs , horsesssss , sheeps , borzoïs , marine animals !! (especially sharks (WHALE SHARKS), jellyfishes and any fishes)

if i like something i will prbably reblog things about it ,,, i think everything is tagged so if you wanna check it out ,,

blinkies and userboxes!!

[arvandus]

Hello hello, I know you're not really talking about him recently but truthfully i feel like you understand Dabi's personality the most. So i wanted to ask what MBTI you think he relates to the most?

So, as per usual, the weekend was a bit busy with IRL stuff. But now I'm finally able to answer this!

First off, thank you SO MUCH, it really means a lot to me that you feel I understand him the most. That's very high praise because there are some truly amazing writers and meta-analyzers on here that also have amazing takes on Dabi and his personality.

Also, PLEASE talk to me about Dabi! I still love him so so much, I'll never get tired of answering asks about him, truly. I know I haven't written for him recently, but I don't love him any less.

Okay, back to your question...

So I've looked at this a few different ways... First, I went through and took the personality test as "Dabi"; i.e., I answered the questions the way that I think HE would answer them (this is different from how others may perceive him, btw). I used the test on www.16personalities.com, and the result that I ("Dabi") got was INTP, i.e., the Logician. I also looked at what was listed for him under the personality database website, which was ISFP, the Adventurer. Finally, I simply read up on what each of the categories were on Wikipedia, and thought about it. From what I understand and through my observations of him, I would label him as INFP, the Mediator.

Below the cut I'll show the personality test results, and discuss them by comparing them to the other results. Beware though, both anime and manga spoilers will be present because I use some specific examples to explain the results.

So, from the 16personalities test, here is what Dabi got:

Here's the rest of the descriptors for INTP-T:

I think for the most part this is accurate for him, at least for how he perceives himself. But I think there are going to be some key differences between how he sees himself and how we, as observers, see him.

Let's start...

Introversion:

We definitely can't deny that he's introverted, and that's clear across all three personality types that were assigned to him. He's never meshed well with others, especially on first meetings, thanks to his abrasive personality and very thick walls. This introvertedness may not seem as obvious when one thinks about how badly he wants the attention of his family, and his willingness to go public with his past, etc. But think of those moments... of him recording himself, of him dancing in front of Enji as he revealed himself... think of those things as a performance. Think introverted theater kid. And even then, it wasn't exactly for the purpose of the public's attention, but for his father's attention. His broadcast? Pre-recorded, not live. His face-off with his dad? He didn't give a shit that others were there and watching; his focus narrowed like a singularity; it was only him and his father in that moment.

Another helpful thing to keep in mind is that Introversion doesn't mean you don't want to be around others; it just means that you recharge best when you are by yourself. Dabi still definitely wants to be seen by his loved ones, but I think he is naturally an introverted person in that isolation is something he enjoys as a way to rest and rejuvenate himself. I see him finding most people exhausting to be around.

Intuitive:

This was the one of the portions that differed from his MBTI on the personality database, and I actually agree with the test result more. I see Sensing/Observation as "the scientist" and Intuition as "the philosopher," and I definitely feel that Dabi is more Philosopher than Scientist. Whereas Sensing/Observation is more literal, in the now, and taking things at face value, Intuition is not. That's not to say that Dabi doesn't observe; he absolutely does. But he does so through the lens of his ideals and how all of these individual pieces fit together into his belief system.

Wikipedia describes Intuitive as "imagining the possibilities of how things could be; notice the big picture, see how everything connects; enjoy ideas and concepts for their own sake, and likes to describe things in a figurative, poetic way." While I don't necessarily see him as figurative or poetic, I do think he's a bit of an idealist. He's someone who looks at the bigger picture, who's able to extrapolate a lot of information through observation, more so than what's immediately in front of him. He's a bit of a creative genius in that way, and it's shown by how quickly he was able to develop his quirk through watching his father's battles, and later with his brother, with practically zero practice. Additionally, he's a dreamer, always wanting more for himself, even when he was young, which was why his inability to meet his father's standards was such a huge blow to him. He could see the big picture of heroism and what it meant to society, his family, and to his father (and by proxy to himself) and to not be able to see himself as a part of that picture was incredibly damaging for him. Now, this intuition isn't necessarily something he's utilized for positive gains, at least not positive for others; his focus is very selfish/self-centered in this regard. But he's still able to idealize, imagine, and extrapolate. I also think he'd enjoy deep conversations about morals and hypotheticals, and enjoy playing devil's advocate quite often. He never takes things at face-value, always looking at what's underneath.

Thinking:

This was an interesting one, and the one that I think I wouldn't exactly agree with as an observer of his character. BUT, I think Dabi would believe that he's more thinking than feeling. We know that he's incredibly ruled by his emotions in his decision-making; and I think he embraces those emotions a bit more openly once his big reveal finally happens and he's able to fully pursue his conflict with his father (and by proxy his brother). But, I think Dabi fancies himself as someone who thinks 'logically,' who is smart and isn't swayed by the hearts of others. We see this in how he keeps others at arm's length; at how he keeps a level head during the summer training camp arc, etc. But, at the same time, later on, we see more of his vulnerable side. His strangely kind gesture and words towards Toga was spurred by his care for her. His reaction to Twice's death heavily impacted how he battled Hawks. And of course, we see how emotional he really is with regards to his family.

Now granted, he would most definitely put a 'logical' decision that will get him the result he wants over someone else's feelings, in most cases. When it gets down to it, his feelings will take priority over others' feelings, 9 times out of 10. But that doesn't mean he's a Thinking type; that just means he's selfish, and that if anyone's feelings are going to be listened to, it'll be his own. This doesn't surprise me considering his history of being emotionally neglected, let alone all of the other things that happened to him. Typically, a Feeling type would have a strong sense of altruism for others because they can easier empathize with them... and I think a part of him does empathize with his league comrades, which was why he behaved the way he did with Twice and Toga. But I think overall for Dabi, his Feeling is turned more inward, as he's empathizing with himself. It's a form of self-preservation, a way for him to protect his damaged ego. It clouds his judgment in the sense that he thinks he's not emotional because he's not easily moved by others; and yet, he's very emotionally moved by himself and his own pain.

Perceiving/Prospecting:

This, along with introversion, was consistent across the board of all three methods I used to analyze Dabi. The definition alone from the test describes Dabi to a T; good at improvising and adapting; flexible noncomformist, valuing novelty over stability. Need I say more? Also, Wikipedia describes it as: prefer to leave your options open; see rules and deadlines as flexible; like to improvise; spontaneous...

By contrast, Judging is much more rigid/structured, which doesn't really fit Dabi at all. Judging is all about planning, organizing, staying on task and meeting deadlines... I think Dabi is far too ADHD for that (Shh, I'm not projecting, I swear!).

Just think of it this way: if Dabi had the perfect upbringing and never became a villain, what kind of job would you picture him having? Would he have a desk job, pushing papers and sitting through meetings, doing the 8-5 grind? Or would he have something a little more spontaneous, more flexible, something that would mentally (and likely physically) engage him?

I rest my case.

So, I'd say that there are two answers to your question. If you're really looking at what would Dabi identify himself as, I would say the test would be the most accurate: INTP. (he'd also really like the title of the Logician; it would totally stroke his ego!).

BUT, if you're looking for more what his "true" personality would be, I would say INFP.

Now, the irony of this is that I'm an INFP. Actually, I used to be an INFJ, and that's what I thought I was while writing most of this up. I retook the test earlier today because I was curious if my results had changed at all over the past few years, and apparently they did, and it just so happens to align with what I was assigning Dabi. This could either mean that me assigning INFP to Dabi is due to implicit bias, as I see a lot of myself in him and vice versa, and it's possible that the two have gotten muddled a bit. Alternatively, it could also mean that I'm able to write him so clearly because I understand his character and his personality in a very, well... personal way.

Anyway, I hope that helps! Let me know what you think and which MBTI type you think fits him best! 💕

[corvivale]

cecil being listed as an ESFJ on that one personality website is a travesty to me. extrovert? WHERE???

he’s literally so bad at talking to people give me an example of one non-awkward/tense/frustrating conversation he’s had with anyone other than the people he’s close with

people will be like “oh but his job is literally talking to people” erm actually ☝️🤓 his job is talking to a microphone. by himself.

as an autistic person with bad social skills who hates talking to people I used to be in competitive speech and debate. and I went Far in it too.

introverts can be good at public speaking!!!

anyway cecil is an INFP to me. am I projecting? Maybe. do I care? Absolutely Not.

he’s creative, artistic, caring, idealistic at times, and deeply feeling!! LET ME HAVE MY FUN I PROMISE I HAVE A POINT HERE.

[magicisalive]

.𖥔 ݁ ˖╭ ┆INTRO ╰⊹ ࣪

‘ i feel it so deeply in my bones. ‘

‧₊˚ ┊my name is val! ᰔ

‧₊˚ ┊she/her, hyper-fem, lesbian

‧₊˚ ┊6teen and a little mentally deranged

‧₊˚ ┊i have autism, adhd, etc

‧₊˚ ┊introvert / infp

‧₊˚ ┊a little weird n obsessive over lottie…

‧₊˚ ┊likes: lottie matthews, yellowjackets, lottienat, american horror story, lottie matthews, scream 5/6, solyamusic, kate bush, ethel cain, lottie matthews, sweeney todd, lana del rey, cinematography, girlblogging, overwatch 2, lottie matthews, stranger things, lottie matthews, fear street, the legend of korra, twilight, did i mention lottie matthews?

‧₊˚ ┊dislikes: shauna shipman haters (not a safe space for you). that’s literally it.

‧₊˚ ┊ships that i adore: lottienat, jackieshauna mistynat, lottielee, jackienat, butcherqueen (lottieshauna).

‧₊˚ ┊dni: 18+ men, lottie matthews antis, basic dni criteria.

‧₊˚ ┊i’ll be posting mostly yellowjackets! and please feel free to interact! i’m very friendly!!!

‧₊˚ ┊i do have an oc! you can check her out here.

[poppiuum]

For my first art post: My ocs! TThese are sorta old art (2 years ago) when I was fresh from college and wanted to finally make my own art that was not my thesis film. I liked the idea of characters who do burlesque dance and syndicate underground stuff, so I made these characters.

The Dancers

-Bonnie- Description: She is the most mature out of the bunch; is very motherly; and is bit of a neat-freak Personality: ISTJ - she is who the other girls rely on for advice Likes: Organizers, practicing her routines, and Thomas Dislikes: Messy rooms, Vicktor's teasing, unruly customers (she will hurt them) Horoscope: Virgo

-Catherine- Description: She is the playful one; she will not hesitate to drag either Bonnie or Thomas out for shopping; can be a little controversial (unintentionally) Personality: ENFP - she is who brings everyone together (literally) Likes: Keychain charms, cute themed cafes, and plushies Dislikes: Unruly customers, seeing any of her friends get hurt, and bugs Horoscope: Leo

-Thomas- Description: He is Catherine's older brother; is the oldest; tries too hard to be relatable Personality: ISFJ - he does his best to be a good leader to the dancers Likes: Bonnie, shopping with his sister and Bonnie, and vintage novels Dislikes: Anyone who poses a nuisance to the dance group, germs, and mold Horoscope: Capricorn

-Vicktor- Description: He is Bonnie's younger brother; is Catherine's lover; and is the type who finds order in chaos Personality: ENTP - he often finds himself arguing with Bonnie Likes: Catherine, going to cafes with Catherine, and collectibles Dislikes: Anyone who hurts Catherine; the smell and taste of truffle; summer heat Horoscope: Aries

The Syndicate

-Juvi- Description: Daughter of a syndicate boss; always looks too serious (but she's not); is skilled in defensive combat Personality: INFP - she is introverted and would do her best to avoid socializing Likes: the Panthera genus, accessories, artistic expression Dislikes: Being belittled, her height, and disorganization Horoscope: Virgo

-Kirai- Description: Bodyguard of Juvi; he has been serving Juvi since she and him were kids; is more skilled in manipulation tactics than offensive Personality: INTJ - he is very articulate except when he's with Juvi Likes: Juvi, metal accessories, and speakeasy bars Dislikes: Feeling inferior (unless he can't help it), loud noises, and close contact (except with Juvi) Horoscope: Scorpio

-Suyue- Description: Bodyguard of Juvi; he is a new recruit to the syndicate; he is the most skilled in offensive combat Personality: INFJ - he has a stony silent personality except when he is with Juvi Likes: Juvi, hearty meals, and Kirai Dislikes: Crowds, useless information, and anything that poses a threat to Juvi Horoscope: Pisces

[atarahderek]

Today on: INFP or ADHD?

Perspective taking

I get weekly bonus traits from Genomelink, and this week's trait is as follows:

I find this to be accurate to me. I can see things from others' viewpoints, but that's a skill I had to learn. It does not come naturally to me. So I have to consciously remind myself to slow down and listen, and try to understand where the other person is coming from.

Believe it or not, that is an Fi thing (ftr, I call it "eff-aye," not "fie" or "fee").

Or possibly a neurodivergent thing.

Let me explain...

Fi is kind of self-centered.

Introverted Feeling (Fi) is an analytical function, but what it analyzes are emotions and emotional experiences. Especially in the user. It is the idealism function and has its own idea of how the world should be. It is the moral core function. It is the function that makes the user adhere firmly and stubbornly to their own identity. It does not like compromise, especially on what it perceives to be a moral issue. The Fi-dom in particular has their worldview set in stone by a certain age and they'll be darned if they so much as entertain someone else's. This is why we're kind of easy to offend. Pick on us directly and we'll take it because we value harmony and being able to control our own emotions (we save them for when we want to write you as a character in our stories and then brutally kill that character off). But attack some person, ideal or issue near and dear to our hearts and we'll fly off the handle. And often it does not matter whether that attack is coming from pain or how calm and respectful your argument is. All we see is the attack itself and we lash out. We have to learn not to do this.

Contrast Ti, which is analytical on all fronts and will take an interest in other perspectives purely because they exist. Or Fe, which hears out the other side because it literally cannot do anything else. As the empath function, it feels what the other person is feeling the moment the user is in close proximity to the other person. And it seeks to know more about the source of that feeling so that it can manipulate it to its advantage (Fe can be devious). So for Fe/Ti users, perspective taking comes as naturally as breathing.

So the fact that perspective taking is not an inborn skill for me is definitely the result of my dominant Fi. Unless it's actually the result of ADHD. Because...

ADHD has rejection and anger management issues.

People with ADHD tend to have short tempers compared to neurotypicals. This is because the ADHD brain can be overwhelmed with too much information due to limited working memory (the RAM of the brain) and a deficit in the hormone dopamine which is required to motivate the brain to get to work processing information. This causes the individual to lash out in an attempt to get the flow of information to slow down, organize itself or cease altogether. People with ADHD also internalize all kinds of negative messages about themselves, and that can cause outbursts of anger. When you're angry and overwhelmed with information that you physically cannot process properly, you tend not to listen to people around you. Even if you could focus on what they're saying, you're not going to really hear them when your working memory is overloaded.

ADHD also causes rejection sensitivity. This can create problems in an argument. A person with ADHD can do just fine in a civilized debate. But if the debate becomes a heated argument, ADHD starts to get in the way. The opponent starts to take offense and go on the attack, and that's a clear case of rejection of the other person's viewpoint. This can cause the person with ADHD to either respond in kind and escalate the conflict, or shut down altogether and walk away. Neither response allows the person to hear their opponent's perspective. And it can permanently damage the relationship, as the person with ADHD will often try to avoid the person who rejected their viewpoint so as to avoid a similar conflict.

Undiagnosed neurodivergent people can sometimes be clued into their condition by their inability to consistently practice perception taking. Even if it's a skill they've worked hard to learn, the fact that they still fail at it sometimes can indicate that there's something going on upstairs that's a little more beyond their control than they realize. There may be an underlying cause to your inability to see through another's eyes, and it's not because of some personality flaw.

What do you think? INFP or ADHD?

For my part, I think both my dominant Fi and my ADHD are contributing factors in having to learn and actively practice perspective taking rather than coming by it naturally. I have learned how to do it, and yet I still struggle sometimes to do it when I'm blinded by anger. It's a trap anyone can fall into, but it's definitely something I think the Fi user with ADHD is the most prone to.

[zoniteillusion-pyritedreams]

🗯️✨ MIA ANNOUNCEMENT (aka why I’m vanishing for the next 4 weeks) ✨🗯️

Okay y’all… so here's the deal.

I thought I was going to be hosting a certain family member for two weeks max.

Now apparently it's a full month.

A full. Four. Fucking. Weeks.

No warning. No communication. Just, “Oh btw I’m staying longer :)”

I want to scream.

So here’s your official update:

I’m going MIA for the next month, and I will not be able to get to tarot readings right now. I had about 10 asks sitting in my inbox when I reopened them and I genuinely thought I’d be free to do them this week. But now? Ha. HA.

🚨 Communication PSA:

If you're an adult, communicate.

If you're a teen, PLEASE start learning how to communicate.

Don't trap people into obligations they didn’t agree to. It’s giving emotionally manipulative. It’s giving, “you’re the family black sheep so we feel entitled to your time.”

🎐 Why I'm losing it:

My poor baby (my CAT) had to be put in a pet hotel for an entire month because said guest is allergic. I haven’t even had to do long-distance with a human boyfriend, but now I’m doing it with my literal child??

I work from home and don’t know this person well. I’m not leaving them in my home alone while I go work. So my options are either suffer silently or dissociate aggressively.

And yes, this is 100% happening because I’m the introvert/black sheep INFP in a family full of loud extroverts who don’t understand boundaries unless they’re being trampled. Aunt Kay (my fellow introvert) gets it. The rest of them? Absolutely not.

🎭 Plot twist:

The only time they even invite me to family events is for funerals or milestone guilt-trap barbecues, like this upcoming “memorial gathering” for a cousin I literally didn’t know like that. They only invited me so there’d be a reason for the guest to stay at my place.

I have become a glorified Airbnb.

With spiritual decor they think is demonic.

🎱 BONUS BULLSH*T:

This guest is mega religious—like Christian-evangelical-core.

I had to explain why there’s a Buddha statue, crystal ball, and crystal altar in my living room like I was being interrogated by the Pope.

I’m pretty sure if I even touched a tarot card in front of them they'd try to baptize me in the sink.

So yeah. Tarot readings are officially OFF the table while they’re here. I physically cannot do it without an attempted exorcism.

🪄 BUT here’s what I can do:

I’ll still try to post occasional updates and vibe-checks here and in the Dreamweavers community. I’m also planning on doing some manifestation challenge drops and sharing techniques that coaches like to slap a $300 price tag on (even though it’s literally stuff you can do for free with a little guidance and delulu juice).

Also lowkey—I’m using this time to manifest my own shit in peace:

My future dream apartment

A career upgrade

Possibly… some suspiciously karmic idol connections I’ll tell you about after the universe drops the tea 😉

If my guest decides to leave the house at any point (which I am PRAYING for), I might sneak in a reading or two then. Otherwise, sit tight with me until July, okay?

💔 Thanks for understanding

💅🏽 Stay soft and unbothered

💋 Until then,

- Laniy

( also the only reason why I am doing this and letting this happen is because they are as much a victim in the situation as I am. They were told accommodations were made for them and that the person they were staying with was well aware of all of this. I was not and there's literally no one else for them to say with and I would feel really bad because this is technically one of the older family members this is someone who turns like 58 this year so I don't want to sit there and kick a 50 something year old out who mind you they paid to bring up here because this family member that pass was really close with them. And it could have been worse my Aunt Kay somehow got conned into having to have my cousin his wife who just had a baby via C session 2 weeks ago they're 2 week old baby and they're 1 year old having to stay with her for the next 3 weeks. I swear to God this is why I always say that family is by choice not blood because it was up to the people I was blood related to they would probably just only use me as a glorified Airbnb 99.99% of the time.)

[lady-of-endless]

thank you also for the trade!! i’m so excited for it!! <3

okay so my name is anayeli but i also go by sora, im 16 and im hispanic! my pronouns are she/her, but my gender is unlabeled. my sign is aquarius and my personality type is INFP.

i’d like to be perceived as a stand user also, and i love animals sm (even if im allergic to them) iggy is one of my favs. im honestly pretty introverted and i usually only talk to people if they talk to me first, i like to stay indoors a lot but once im outside it’s hard to get me back inside. im honestly just like a big nerd and i have many childish interests and im really bad at hiding it. i tend to get burnt out a lot if im consistently socializing and i sleep a lot because of it LOL, but usually that’s enough to recharge my battery. i’m definitely a night owl and i love staying up until the sun rises, mornings are not for me i dread them the most. even still my makeup and hair is always done and i like to dress in like a y2k mcbling-ish style. i have a huge fear of driving for some reason im a designated passenger princess LOL. i don’t really play any sports but i do occasionally hit the gym. i’m honestly kind of a negative person i usually only speak badly of myself rather than highly. i listen to all kinds of weird music, ill literally listen to anything besides like normal mainstream, i cant function without it. i’m a big fan of video games even though i don’t get the chance to play them often. i’m honestly more book smart than street smart, im really slow and honestly kinda like dumb LOL. making decisions and pressure is not my thing. my love language is gift giving and physical touch, im not very good with words and get flustered easily 😭 but i also have a very sensitive temper when it comes to defending the people i love, and i also have enough self respect to defend myself, whether it be verbally or physically

tysm for reading!! i really hope it wasn’t too much 😭💞

Author's Note: My God, this was a hard one. Why? Because you seem such a nice and complex person. Again, I'm sorry for not being able to make up my mind and choosing two charters. Hope you'll enjoy this, thank you again for this trade! GIFs are not mine, I'm thanking the creators for them.

I match you with...

Muhammad Avdol

- He is also more of a mediator in general and this will make you two get along well right from the start. Plus, as much as he tries to act as the voice of reason for the group he too has a sensitive temper sometimes.

- He is drawn to you because of your uniqueness and realness. He admires how in tune you are with your feelings. He understands when you need to take a step back and recharge your social batteries.

- I feel like you two would work surprisingly well. Despite him looking rather serious, he too likes to have a good laugh and engage in childish antics when he's in a good mood.

- Iggy admits that he only finds you and him the most pleasant to hang out with in the group, so when he notices the spark between you and Avdol, he's pleased.

- If Avdol finds you asleep, don't worry, NO ONE will get to disturb or wake you up because he'll make sure of that. Both he and Magician's Red who becomes very protective of you.

- As a professional fortune-teller, of course he'll ask the cards about how your dynamic will change in the future once he realizes that he's falling for you. Joseph catches him while doing that and it's game over for him. Poor Avdol won't be able to look at you affectionately from afar without Joseph winking at him and teasing him about his crush.

- Avdol doesn't mind the fact that decision-making is not your thing but the fact that you speak badly of yourself saddens him. He wishes to understand the reason why but won't be too demanding as he doesn't want you to feel pressured.

- He would find your style very unique and he'll be curious about that weird music you mentioned. He's curious and open-minded, of course, he wants to know more. Side by side, you two would make an interesting contrast. He'll even gift you one of his bracelets!

- He doesn't mind that you prefer not to drive. You'll be his passenger princess. He'll always keep your seat warm with Magician's Red ability.

And because I couldn't decide...

I also match you with...

Kakyoin Noriaki

- If you and Avdol would work because of the contrast, you and Kakyoin would work because of some similarities you two have.

- He notices you because of how you defend the ones you care about and also yourself, despite having an introverted nature. It's something he admires.

- He's also introverted so it will take a lot for you too to warm up to each other. But once you do, everything gets so much fun.

- He too recharges his social batteries by sleeping so this will earn some playful teasing from the other crusaders about you two. Joseph, wanting to be the mature one, but failing, will make you two share a room when they make stops on the journey. Why? Because you both sleep a lot, no other reason, nope. Not because Joseph secretly wants to be a matchmaker, nooo.

- It hurts him to hear you speak badly of yourself when in his eyes, you're more than worthy of praise. He takes this matter into his hands and showers you with encouragement, compliments, and so on.

- Hierophant Green is very curious of you, don't be scared if you notice him staring at you or floating over your shoulder when Kakyoin lets him out.

- Aesthetically wise, he's such a big fan of Y2K style. Your outfits will make him feel butterflies in his stomach. Eventually, he wants to match your style somehow.

- The only drawback is that you'll have to fight for the title of passenger princess because he doesn't really like driving.

- You're enjoying video games and also being a night owl? You two will definitely spend so many nights playing video games together

And a random choice: N'Doul - he would meet you during that fight in the desert and he thinks you're different from the aggressiveness of the other crusaders. You spark his interest.

[lumiambrose]

Blue lock matchup for @thecurrator

i ship you with…

Isagi Yoichi

ok so i was very torn between isagi and bachira but ultimately i went for isagi.

so starting off strong, infp x infj is a very compatible pairing. despite both being introverts, you two complement each other perfectly.

i definitely see a yapper x listener trope between you guys. isagi is absolutely whipped for you and could sit down an entire day just listening to your current fixations or recent daydreams

he’ll give his opinion here and there but he just loves seeing the sparkle in your eye when you’re endlessly rambling.

of course once you run out of shit to yap about he’ll definitely share some of his interests and fixations too.

isagi definitely introduces you to the other bllk strikers and his friends in general. overlooking the rbf, i can imagine you getting along well with people, at least in making a good first impression.

isagi instantly catches on the moment your social battery is drained and will whisk you away for a peaceful evening together binging whatever anime has caught your interests.

again. isagi is very attentive and his intuition is on par with your ability to read people so i can definitely see you two connecting very well.

you two know what the other wants and can pull through for them. which leads to a surprisingly healthy relationship (who thought those existed)

through this isagi has learnt to not take your moody phases personally. he’ll give you space and let you gradually get comfortable again.

isagi is the absolute best with words of affirmation. this guy knows what to say and when to say it. literal music to your ears. if you two live together, you’ll be waking up to hearing how much he loves you every morning.

also personal hc that you make him bento boxes or some form of cutesy lunch for when he has long trainings. he thinks it’s too precious to eat :’)

(he will eat it eventually don’t worry)

also isagi cooks for you. or you two cook together. i already am convinced isagi is a good cook so he will cook literally ANYTHING. he knows you’re a picky eater. he doesn't care. he loves to cook for you.

you two share an interest for analyzing people and it’s definitely become a fun date idea for you two.

a cute lil picnic in the middle of spring at your favorite park. you two are sitting on the cutesy pastel blanket eating the snacks you prepared. talking about literally anything that comes to mind and making your own hcs about the different people you observe around you.

at home you two sometimes analyze his matches or his rivals' matches. your ability to read people and interest in dissecting behaviors + his game awareness is a deadly combo. he definitely thinks you're the real reason his team wins all their games.

all in all you two are a very strong and healthy couple. you two complement each other's strengths and push each other to be the greatest versions of themselves.

honestly i need myself someone as sweet as isagi (red is my favorite color)

protect him please

and you have a cat together (she prefers you :p)

[got-ticket-to-ride]

Possible MBTI of The Beatles

John

most people want to say that john lennon was an INFP, but that is incorrect. INFPs are generally friendly and slightly outgoing people. john lennon wasn’t friendly in the slightest, his only close friends shared the same sadistic and twisted ways of socializing.

john lennon was an INTJ. INTJs face problems but stand still- they persist in making their point. this is incredibly suitable for john, as no matter what anyone told him, he did what he could as john lennon.

he was such a cynical bastard. when he was arrogant, paul was leniant, when he was grumpy, paul was optimistic. they disagreed on several stances, but when it came to music, they formed the superego relationship.

the superego relationship is having someone standing by you, shoulder to shoulder, watching your mistakes and vice versa. they might have been siamese twins to some people, but they were oil and water.

when john said he wanted to leave the beatles and eventually did the next year, he wrote songs about paul. this is a very INTJ thing to do, as he knew where to stab paul in the places that would hurt the most. he directly addressed him in the songs he sung about him.

in conclusion, john lennon was a cynical, sly little bastard, just as an INTJ would be.

Paul

i know most people say paul mcCartney was your loving extrovert, but introverts aim to please their loved ones in a small, collective group.

paul mccartney is an ISFJ! the most extroverted introvert. he enjoys the simple pleasures of life, the country side, and even being the center of attention, which is a little bit of an extrovert thing to do. but then again, he enjoys being alone with family.

the reason i chose ISFJ was because hes so extroverted, but so introverted at the same time. because he is so literal, and aims to make his point through the simplest of words.

while paul’s lyrics sound like this, “Back in school again, Maxwell plays the fool again, Teacher gets annoyed…”

john’s sounds like this “Images of broken light which dance before me like a million eyes…”

they’ve always been opposites, which made the sound so good.

Ringo

Ringo is a downright ENFJ. he’s kind, supportive, and is the upbringer in the group.

ringo is probably the most relaxed person in the world. while john was thinking his head away and paul was writing songs like a bullet train and george was trying not to scream and run out, ringo silently kept the peace. he let the others know that everything will be okay in the end.

his thoughts weren’t filled with money, or romance, or enlightenment. it was simply in the now. not a care in the world, he flew free by himself, admiring the world around him as time went by.

George

george harrison may have been a bit sardonic at times, and a little harsh, but he always had the heart for a good book, meditation and keen romance. such is the ISTP

when george was younger, he was already quite independent. he hitch hiked with paul and learned how to play guitar all on his own.

when he got older, he had more of an intense personality. a thing for fast cars and money, a peculiar fashion sense. and the untrustworthyness of marriage slowly became a trait as the years went by.

To read the article in all it's glory go to: https://aminoapps.com/c/the_beatles/page/blog/the-beatles-myers-briggs-types

My 10 cents: I don't agree with everything said in the article (like the bit where "Paul is normal" Paul is definitely not normal) but nonetheless it is an overall interesting observation. Would love to hear your thoughts about them? I really thought Paul to be an ENFP. John ultimately INTJ for me. What a cynic. Which MBTI are you? Do you have similarities with the Beatles?

[justsomeoneintoomanyfandoms]

HI IM BACK AGAIN

I am truly like a little rat that you fed once and now it is NOT going to go away, I'm so sorry in advance.

If your Match ups are still open, might I request one for myself? 👀

Fandom: Tokyo debunker

Pronouns: any

Zodiac: Scorpio

Sexuality: irl I'm a lesbian but FICTIONAL men are 👉👈 yknow what I mean?

MBTI: INFP-T

Appearance: I have short, auburn hair that I usually keep in a half-up-half-down hair do or put up in a hair clip if I'm feeling fancy. I'm really bloody short (160cm) and I have freckles basically everywhere on me. I've got a couple tattoos (I just got one today actually!) And a bunch of scars. Some have cool stories (almost lost a finger breaking up a dog fight) and others just have dumb ones (burned my wrist on a panini press because my reflexes are utter dog shit)

Personality: I am either the most bubbly, outgoing, friendly, info-dumping son of a bitch or the calmest, laziest, reserved, most introverted person you'll ever meet. There is literally no in between.

Likes: rain, long drives, dancing/singing go loud music, sharing my very long list of fun facts, sho 👉👈

Dislikes: spicy food, awkward scenes in movies, being in crowded rooms, Romeo >:(

Hobbies: I'm a huge art nerd and if I'm watching something I'm drawing something at the same time. I also do semi-professional(?) voice acting in my spare time and I love to sing but usually not in front of people unless I'm drunk enough to make an ass of myself 👉😎👉

That's it! Sorry for writing so much but I love the way you write and I truly am starved for crumbs so I have 100% latched onto you <3

Hi! It's an honour and a great compliment to have you latch onto me! Thank you for your request! I hope you like your matchup!

Okay, I know Sho’s your favourite character but I do genuinely think you would be a great couple!

He likes your outgoing and bubbly, yet also laid back attitude. It’s a nice change from the constant intensity that Leo gives out. Sho has to admit, he much prefers your presence.

Sho loves going on long rides on Bonnie with you. He’ll set up your helmet so you two can blast the same music as well.

You two are definitely going to bond over your dislike of spicy food. He’s so glad there’s someone in his life that appreciates food without it needing to be drenched in spice.

I think he would enjoy having you in the kitchen with him while he’s cooking. Whether you’re sitting in companionable silence or info-dumping about your latest interest, he’s happy in your presence.

[oatmilkriver]

Hiii!! Could I have a cinnamon roll with either bridgerton or marauders? <3

Im 22! She/her. More of a goth/alternative, dark hair and I’m 5,11. Love older music especially Kate bush, Fiona apple basically sad women singing lol. I’m an infp, Leo. I would probably be described by my friends as more introverted, soft spoken but when I talk about my interests I cannot shut up. I love romance novels and movies so deffo a hopeless romantic.

Anyways hope you have a lush day my love!

i ship you with- regulus black

reggie definitely listens to sad girl music all the time.

he's also such a great listener and would be so patient for you to get comfortable with him to talk. i can literally imagine him with his head in his hand just quietly listening while you talk about your interests with a little smile on.

this man is also such a hopeless romantic so he matches that energy. i feel like he loves to write love letters and would just put them in little places for you to find throughout your day!