#itsnotyouitsme

[edswoggle]

#ItsNotYouItsMe https://www.instagram.com/p/ChmJbnbuYQd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thewordszone]

proza gorzki ma smak

W pewnych momentach życia sama nie wiedziałam czy to ja się mylę, czy pozostali próbują mnie przekonać do pewnych schematów, które według nich maja sens, albo sami sobie wmawiają, ze im więcej wysiłku włożą w przekazywanie ich kolejnym pokoleniom, tym bardziej realna będzie ich wyimaginowana rzeczywistość. Łatwo jest się zgubić w tym wszystkim. Z jednej strony mówią Ci, ze masz być szczęśliwa, z drugiej wszędzie widzisz zakompleksionych ludzi, którzy za grosz szczęścia w swoim życiu nie maja. Za grosz nie kupią tez szacunku, najczęściej tego do samych siebie. Zaczynasz się zastanawiać, gruba chuda, brzydka ładna, zamężna singielka, która ma łatwiej, która lepiej sobie radzi, kredyt czy za gotówkę. Pewne rachunki nigdy nie zostaną spłacone a długi same sobie nalicza odsetki. 

Po wielu latach nieudanych prób wpasowania się w schemat dom, dziecko, rodzina, okazjonalnie volvo w leasingu Incognito, postanowiłam rzucić grochem o ścianę tak, żeby przebił się na druga stronę i po cichutku postanowiłam rozpłynąć się w powietrzu. W pewnym wieku przestaje nam już zależeć czy lubią, czy nie. Ten wiek nadszedł jednak dużo szybciej niż się spodziewałam. Mogłabym równie dobrze usadowić się wygodnie w bujanym fotelu z butelka whiskey w ręce, udawać ze umiem dziergać i ze mi smakuje. Choc prawda jest taka, ze po którymś łyku, smak faktycznie nie jest już tak odstręczający. Ciekawym zjawiskiem jest, ze alkohole wchodzą lepiej, ludzie natomiast, stają się coraz bardziej zgorzkniali. 

[gilbertkingelisa]

Crossroads #GilbertKingElisaPhotography #BodyLanguage #StreetPhotography #PeopleWatching #ButILoveHer #WhatDoYouWantToDo #WhatIDidForLove #NewYorkCity #ButILoveHim #IHaveAHeadAche #ItsNotYouItsMe #Relationships #MTA #Brooklyn #MyPlus1 (at New York City, N.Y.) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgOAdWzuhg_/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[snowflake-dreams]

I feel like all I have left at this point is my 3d and mental illnesses.

My career is going downhill, I was demoted due to a lot of drama from an old gm, and my hours are getting cut back now. After being with the company and busting my ass for my spot for 5 years.

My love broke up with me officially (we were already broken up but it was the "yeah I really don't think we're ever getting back together itsnotyouitsme")

The guy I've been trying to move on with is turning out to not be all that great for me personally (lot of vaguely sexist things, and plays into the 'bring gross and missing off my gf is cute' thing, also made a pregnancy joke and he knows I had a miscarriage that's still very traumatizing to me)

I never get to see my friends or family because my car doesn't handle well in snow and we've had winter storms for weeks now and my friends and family all live an hour away minimum.

All I can find comfort in is my own head because it might really suck in here but it's a type of pain I know. It's a type of pain I can feel comfort in. At least some things never change.

[empressempathidi]

✨️🗣📣 📣 📣 ✨️ Calling all innate and/or conditioned givers & #healers! Boundaries are vital! I was reminded of this yesterday when one phone call wiped me out & I immediately fell asleep afterwards. It's not on them, but on us to put ourselves first on the list of people we give our energy to. #itsnotyouitsme #eachoneteachone . Quick #SelfAwareness Vids via @psych2go_official: . 12 Early Signs a #Relationship Won't Last: https://youtu.be/jCZdN_PL0f4 . 6 #Signs of an #Emotional Manipulator: https://youtu.be/6LjBJKtpfCw . 6 Signs You're Manipulative Without Realizing It: https://youtu.be/vuG2g8qV1FY . #energy #boundaries #aura #healing #spirit #spiritualawakening #quantumphysics #healingwork #reiki #helping #guides #crystals #healingjourney . . . Reposted from @rasekhi_arts_temple Grand rising Family! As Healers it is important that we maintain our boundaries. #rasekhihealing #healersofinstagram #healing2022 #healing101 #rasekhi_arts_temple https://www.instagram.com/p/CcJj6Cdu4kY/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thegirlnextdoor477]

Sometimes I'm so irritable and drained that I just need to be alone but sometimes it backfires

IG@this_is_our_reality_quotes Fb@ Things Left Unsaid

[impermanent-art]

Pasteup by Miss Me on Melrose.

[malaika-salaam]

Everything that @tatianazamir wrote!!! EVERY 👏🏽 THING 👏🏽 #itsnotyouitsme #mentalhealth #anxiety #fomo #jomo #ambivert ・・・ this is a hard one for me but often true. i’m so grateful to have built a vast community filled with people i love and want to support, but i can’t do it all and that’s okay. and the more i honor my design the easier it’s becoming to recognize and celebrate what i need at the risk of hurting feelings and feeling fomo. though lately i’ve been feeling way more jomo 🤣🤷🏽‍♀️ i’m an empath. i feel deeply. sometimes it takes a lot of energy to be in large crowds even when i’m enjoying myself. i’m also an ambivert. i love to be with people but i also require a lot of alone time to decompress and work on things that require time and bring me joy. also silence and solitude are supportive friends of mine so i trust and embrace them. i’m learning to honor this delicate, sensitive, juxtaposing, nuanced being that is me, and i hope you give yourself permission to do the same. i love you all. even if i can’t make it to your event or have to schedule a lunch date 3 months out 🤦🏽‍♀️ #sorrynotsorry #doyouandilldome #selfcare #knowthyself #authenticityisgolden ✨✨✨ https://www.instagram.com/purplehairandconverse/p/BwYJetnF9_w/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1x379uif6tbh3

[envyembers]

I am missing you more than words can describe. I'm still waiting for you to come home...

[death-by-sexiness]

#this #itsnotyouitsme #bpdproblems #anxietymemes #isolating https://www.instagram.com/p/BqdOj3oH1qf/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=4lbkktrwir82

[re6el6uti6n]

☞🌟😥IT'S NOT YOU,IT'S ME (THE BLURRED LINES OF CLEAR CATASTROPHES)😩🌟☜ Pt.2 Humpday humdrum morning Boredom. 👹Ventsesh😈 💿'GRANITE' 💿 🎸🎙🎤♫♬♪ 🤘😲👊😬✊ #song #original #songwriter #vocals #acoustic #singer #singing #singen #guitar #lied #canción #humpday #itsnotyouitsme #mittwoch #langweilig #boredom #blurredlines #catastrophe #morgen #morning #singersongwriter #vavashla #australia #granite #folk #rock #blues #indiemusic (at Brisbane, Queensland, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpSqf4jgtU3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=v9n0yiwwaabj

[polokidz18-delacruztattoojkt]

Standing and Down, 🌤️ @myself @diyprojects_ #lovemyself #itsnotyouitsme #beyourself #today #tomorrow #forever #itsmylife #allah #blessme #togetherforever (di Alam Raya) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWvCYNmvec-/?utm_medium=tumblr

[purpletriceratops]

Hello, all! I thought I'd let you all know that I will be taking a social media hiatus (deleting apps for Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and Tumblr) for at least two weeks. If you need me I will be keeping Facebook Messenger. Meanwhile, enjoy these pictures of mostly clouds. #itsnotyouitsme #deuces ✌🏼❤ Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5‭-‬6 #prayaboutit #discernment https://www.instagram.com/p/BoSO12clXn1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=wfz0yjcmvius

[melneedsakidney]

Didn't sleep at all last night. Spent most of my time alternating between meditation and prayer over something very personal and close to my heart. I asked God what was mine to do, I invited the Universe to give me a sign...just then, my lil' chonk Agapé came over and laid his head on my lap and started purring louder than I'd ever heard him purr before. He looked me in the eyes as if to say, "it's going to be okay." In reality he may have just wanted a treat but I couldn't ignore the next sign I received in the form of an image I was tagged in on social media which is what I'm sharing here. Sometimes in life, we have to make difficult decisions not only for our own highest and best, but for the best of everyone around us as well. I would appreciate all the good vibes, prayers, and positive juju y'all could spare as I move through this transition in my life because this will not be easy for me, but it will be graceful, freeing, and truly the most healthy thing I can do for myself. I'm grateful for everything I've experienced and words cannot express how much I've learned, grew, and changed for the better over the past few years so that's the silver lining that I'm holding on to. #OnwardAndUpward #MovingOn #ItsNotYouItsMe #SelfPreservation #ThanksForTheMemories #SignsSignsEverywhereSigns #TheStrawThatBrokeMelsBack https://www.instagram.com/p/CTpNJpJLWLM/?utm_medium=tumblr

[afbennerphoto]

We all have a hungry heart, and one of the things we hunger for is happiness. So as much as I possibly could, I stayed where I was happy - Mary Oliver * * * * * #quoteoftheday #maryoliver #bewhereyouarehappy #itsnotyouitsme #recluseinthemaking #idontlivebyyourstandards #mylifemyrules #iamwhoiam #dontlikeitfuckoff #mysliceofhappy #howdoesmygardengrow #myownbackyard #tuesdayphoto https://www.instagram.com/p/CSaXcHCJ-SX/?utm_medium=tumblr

[ciarameghan]

#letsjustbefriends #cuffingseasonisover #idontmaketherules #friendzone #itsnotyouitsme #nah #itsyou 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷🏻‍♀️ https://www.instagram.com/p/CMQdGuNgON_/?igshid=1gb042eig28xw