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wasyago · 9 months

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so, would you?

nothing important under the cut, you don't need to look haha

#inspired by the random youtube short i saw about how these types of questions are not really about logic but about emotion and reassurance #doesn't matter if the question doesn't make sense. you say 'yes' because you love them no matter what. not because its a worm or a bug or #or anything. its a way of saying 'i will love you when you've changed and when you're different. because it's still *you*.'#idk something about it just felt so gentle and genuine. like a pure display of affection through a silly question...#and of course fnc was the first thing i thought about because i got brainworms #jrwi fish and chips #jrwi riptide #jrwi chip #gillion tidestrider #my art #sketch #also im back from a vacation! and i feel so awful i got sick the first day home and im sitting here at 6am drawing fishes and chips #the dialog feels a little ooc but i cant figure out if it really is or if its because my head hurts and i cant think #tbh it doesn't really matter.......... but it matters to me augh #ALSO yes the under the cut bit is about episode 109. i dont know if its clear or not

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dyketubbo · 6 months

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sunny also makes me insane bc like. little kids pick up on how others act around them so easily. and under all that bravado shes such an insecure kid and they want to come off as confident and only caring about money but they care so so much about having connections and of course they do. bc shes just a kid. she wants to come off as a cool kid who puts money and riches first but ultimately shes a daddys girl who just wants to be cared about

#something something little kids dont understand that what helps them the most is positive reassurance #so all kids like sunny are able to process is that being praised feels good #and being avoided feels bad (unless theyre taught that being feared is a good thing)#and so tubbo treating her like a little princess of course she loves him more than anyone else in the world #but then it makes it sting even more when she runs into situations like phil talking up em more than her #and tallulah being hesitant to befriend her #sunny doesnt have all the knowledge to understand that tallulahs paranoid/traumatized and sunnys just coming off-#-a bit strong #all she knows is tallulah doesnt seem to like her and phil seems to like empanada more #so of course thats going to sting. of course. and i feel her so much abt it. poor girl #mask mews #qsmp #sunny qsmp #sunnysideup qsmp

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employee052 · 2 months

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Timekeeper sends his love <3

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#artswin #tsp timekeeper #tsp settings person #tsp #tspud #the stanley parable #the stanley parable ultra deluxe #stanley parable #made this bc ive had a shitty past few days #wont get into it but ive been in a terrible mental state since then #so i did this as a little doodle before ending up with the final. i wanted to draw some reassurance sdkjfh #sending all my love and support to yall who see this #ill be taking a bit of a break from posting on here for now. just so i dont overwhelm my mind #love you all <3

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winterinhimring · 20 days

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Harry Osborn and his little back rub of affection and/or concern:

That's it, that's the post.

#raimi trilogy #raimiverse #harry osborn #norman osborn #peter parker #spiderman #may parker #it's just a really cute little character trait #i love how it carries across multiple interactions with very different tones #with norman there's a good bit of 'please be okay i need the reassurance that i can touch you and you're not hurt'#with peter it's just 'hi friend!!!'#in both cases it's adorable #winter gifs things

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reinanova · 10 days

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question for the fanfic readers (and writers) who are out here working full time jobs:

how/when do you make time to read/write fanfics?

my tendency to read fanfics late at night will not be such a good idea when i’m out of school and working in the real world, when i can’t just say fuck it and show up with only a few hours of sleep.

#sincerely someone who will be working an internship where i’ll be starting at 7:30 every morning #which means i’ll be waking up around 6 every day #and therefore cannot stay up until midnight reading fanfics like i’ve been doing a lot #but i still need my silly little fanfics to get through the day #and i would like the reassurance that that is still possible even when working full time #and like realistically i know i can carve out time in my day to read fanfics but like nighttime is me time #and therefore fanfic time. which is a bad habit to have really #my sleep schedule is so fucked up #oh and also while taking care of household stuff like cleaning/cooking/laundry. forgot to mention that bit #i’m also worried that if i start reading a fanfic in the morning i just won’t get anything done that day bcuz i’ll want to just read said #fanfic…that has happened before. multiple times. so it’s a valid concern #fanfics #ao3 #archive of our own #fanfic #fanfiction #fandom #reinanova rambles

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superfluffychickens · 6 months

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She’s the sweetest old lady in the whole wide world

#don’t mind the sore on her poor little nosie #the medicine she would need to treat it would damage her already-failing kidneys #but it doesn’t seem to bother her from what I can tell #I think she’s going deaf too since she’s been so loud lately #I also think she’s just a bit senile and needs to be reassured more often #Flora

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gaylittlewizardcat · 10 months

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I think the reason “Ride the Cyclone and Cats are kind of the same musical” bothers me so much is because that argument almost always uses the “the Jellicle Ball is a competition and everyone who sings a song wants to be the Choice” interpretation of Cats which, while I 100% accept it as one of many valid interpretations, is a reading of the show I dislike with a passion

#cats the musical #it makes me feel Bad Religion Feelings #usually thinking about the Everlasting Cat and the Jellicles as a religious group makes me happy #but this interpretation of what the Jellicle Choice *is* and *means* just makes me uncomfortable #I kind of think it has a hint of suicidal ideation #like ‘I’m willing to throw away the rest of my life for a new life that I will then also be throwing away just to be The Choice’#it’s like they want to be the choice simply *to be the choice*#they don’t need any motivation they just want to be picked as The Best Cat #no matter what they might lose in the process #but that is also based on *my* interpretation that most cats don’t keep any memories #gay little ramblings #the man over there #this warrants that tag cause I basically only see people outside the fandom make this comparison #the Jellicle Choice in my mind is a guarantee that you’ll be reborn *specifically* as a Jellicle - but all cats are reborn 9 times #they just might not be a member of the Jellicle Clowder in their next life #it’s a reassurance that there will be people who are there for you on the other side #that why I only see Griz and Gus as ‘competing’ (though I really don’t see it as a competition at all)#Grizabella doesn’t have anyone now and Gus might not have anyone much longer #for everyone else it feels like they want to be the choice Just Because #and that feels a bit cult-y #‘we want the religious reward because we’re supposed to want it’#and as much as I love the ‘the Jellicles are a death cult’ jokes (I don’t)#I really feels like it has uncomfortable implications for the Jellicle as a family #as a community

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spaceratprodigy · 26 days

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sorry for how slow and sparse I've been getting around to everyone. I'm doing my best but genuinely rn I desperately need to take care of myself instead of always putting others first.

#I've been. not okay mentally or emotionally for a few weeks now.#and I'm eternally grateful for the. like. 2 people that know that and have been so kind and patient with me.#and I feel bad for not giving as much as I want to be to /everyone/ right now and how much I feel like I'm falling behind.#but I don't have the energy or the will rn and I need to be shaken and forced to rest.#I'm so depressed and stressed out and anxious over every little thing rn.#my sense of self-worth is fucking shot and I'm trying so hard to be brave and remind myself people really do care about me.#that I'm not nuisance that I'm not causing problems and ruining everything that it's not better for everyone if I just wasn't in the picture #idk this isn't like. I want to be swarmed with reassurances right now.#it's more of just. I'm sorry. I know my mood is fluctuating and I'm very slow lately.#I promise I'm not ignoring anyone.#I'm just in a not great spot and it's taking a bad toll on me especially when I know how I am trying to appease others.#while giving up my own well-being giving up my own heart.#I just need to rest and take it easy for a bit. I promise everything is fine.#rambling #maybe delete later

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bueris · 5 days

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do u think my art teacher would be nice to me if I had a pathetic little panic attack in front of her or perhaps just start uncontrollably sobbing on the art room floor I'm shameless enough to do both

#i need more than vague direction at the moment #AND ALSO MAYBE A LITTLE BIT OF ENCOURAGEMENT.#none of my teachers have given me like any vague positive regard and not in a “theyre insulting me” way they just ignore me #like they just dont talk to me #usually appreciated but christ i would love some reassurance that im doing something right for once #today is my longest day ive just sacrificed a study period for the sake of not having another cry sesh in school #thats gonna have to wait until i get home in hmmm 4 hours.#i hate you 8 hour school day #genuinely hope the person who decided p6 was a thing kills themself #bue waffling

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caregivingchrysalises · 3 months

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awe hi baby, what’s wrong sweetheart? i know i know so many big feelings,, it’s alright love baba’s got you~ you’re allowed to be as small as you need to be precious, i’ll take care of you no matter how big or small you are! feel your feelings fully sweetheart, you’re safe here dewdrop. i’ve got you, baba’s here for you angel.

#i may be cringe but i am free #good heavens the caregiving names went a little wonk in this one #it’s one of those big feelings kind of days #when it’s all a bit too much #the chrysalis is here for you #now that’s what i mean when i say reassurance #agere reassurance #send me asks so i can stop waffling in the tags #new caregiver title just dropped #agere caregiver #agere comfort #sfw caregiver #age regression caregiver #sfw agere #send me asks please #comfort

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simplyghosting · 3 months

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Every day I wake up and agonize over not knowing Spanish

#ghost posts #I’m not saying I do intense practice so that’s on me #i just do a little bit every day #but one of my neighbors gaslights my mom #and I can’t call her out on it bc I can’t understand it all the time or speak it to call her out #so I only hear about it when my mom talks to me and I reassure her that she’s being lied to #it’s a complicated relationship so she’s not sure what to do #at the very least prayer for that

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lightbluesleeper · 8 months

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ready for halloween who wanna omnisciently narrate me 😈😈

#the stanley parable #tspud #reassurance bucket #stanley parable cosplay #the bucket is a little bit massive but we move #just means it can fit over my head for photos ig lol

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bratniadusza · 2 years

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got into the magnus archives bc of lovely people and stayed bc it's so damn good

so i decided to spam you with few doodles before I'll finish something better I'm working on

lets say I'm slowly coming back with something worth looking at

#the magnus archives #tma #jonathan sims #martin blackwood #love the two of them #martin is my absolute favourite since first mention of his name #and then hearing his voice just reassured me that he's my number one #but there are so many amazing characters like holy heck #i'm just beginning the 4th seasons so no spoilers plz #aw i missed posting my scribbles #hope u guys missed me too just a little bit #I'll try to stay more consistent with posting at least till the end of summer break

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dreamlogic · 7 months

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quietly getting more & more annoyed at my housemate & her bf as the evening goes on. thought they were at his house this weekend but they showed up unexpectedly to have loud sex here, left for a little bit, came back in the middle of a fight, and are now watching tv really loudly in between continuing to totally-not-fight-everything's-FINE.

#ctxt #shit chat #they're both rly nice people who genuinely love each other a lot & have been together like 7 years #but in the time i've known them they just keep playing out the same maladaptive patterns together and it's painful to watch #one of them will be irritable for some reason and snap at the other; other responds by airing a deep-seated grievance they've been sittin on #and instead of just. having a conflict about it to its conclusion to resolve the issue they just both fall over themselves apologizing #and spend several hours being really touchy & reactive to little things but overwhelmingly gentle/reassuring/affectionate #person A: *snaps* im sorry baby i didn't mean it i'm just stressed i love you so much can i do anything for you?#person B: no no my love you're fine i'm not mad i understand can i do anything for YOU you're so special i care about you so much #*make out in the kitchen about it a bit. swap roles rinse & repeat*#like i know turning towards a loved one after conflict instead of giving them the cold shoulder is a sign of emotional maturity #and is generally a healthy communication habit #but like. you gotta actually HAVE the conflict first instead of glossing over it the minute difficult emotions come up???#and when they get in these loops i really think they should just. agree on a mutual time out to do their own thing for a day #calm down sort themselves out and then come back together to mend things #instead of just reflexively drawing closer together immediately to try and smother discontent #which just results in them still being upset and now tripping over each other bumping elbows exacerbating things #while being obnoxiously saccharine to cover it up #i mean. 7 yrs is nothing to sneeze at but imo this is. not a sustainable way of relating & building a life together #and it sucks to watch it play out. reminds me of my parents who were blissfully incompatible in a similar way for like 30 years #before it finally blew up spectacularly with a lot of collateral damage earlier this year.

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snapbackslide · 8 months

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WHAT HAPPENED OMG how was it!!

it was a really good date, we spent 4 hours (!!!!) together just like, walking downtown and we got drinks which he paid for mine, said it was his bday gift for me 🥲 and talked a lot about everything, hockey especially, families, education/career, news, memes, travel, music...

i think he picked up on my hints, when we were walking i kept bumping lightly into him on purpose, and i'd tuck my hair behind my ear and lick my lips lmao. and i let him have a sip of my drink. cause i wanted him to kiss me, and he did, but i got so nervous and messed it up and pulled away 😭 (i buried my face in his chest and held him and i think he chuckled.. he could tell.. then he kissed the top of my head and i died 🪦 i texted him after saying sorry for the bad kiss LOL and he said 'don't apologize i thought the goodbye was very cute' .. omg)

it's just i never liked kissing but i wanted it with him, and he was good his lips were soft gosh, the second it was over i wanted it back.. this is crazy i miss him already 😭

#it was so hard for me not to dive right in i think maybe that's why i panicked #i'm just so passionate and i was holding back all night and he was so chill and calm... kinda drove me insane 😭#i was having a hard time taking initiative.. like the bumping into him thing was me FIGHTING the urge to hold his arm #he didn’t seem like a super touchy guy idk if it was bc we had just met or that’s how he is but that was a little disappointing tbh #and a WASTE bc gosh he’s so comfy to hug. i had to physically force myself to pull away. i'm not joking #bc in our hugs i could feel him letting go & i didn’t wanna make him uncomfortable #but ugh our height difference & age gap are both literally -perfect-#he got a really cute laugh (and a deeper voice than i thought 😩)#oh yeah and he just ever so casually mentioned he was an argentina fan and i went full fangirl mode?????#oh. and he said he's a mama's boy... (& he likes the oilers.. & his fav movie is interstellar... *quiet voice* “tyson?” LMAOihaveatype)#yea and he said to let him know when i got home and when i forgot (bc i always do) he texted me 🥹#he mentioned having been in a LDR before and how he didn't mind it... seems like only one of us was good at picking up hints 💀#he asked if i'd ever been in one and i didn't realize until later like. oh. HEY maybe i should've said i wouldn't mind it either 🤦‍♀️#ngl there were moments that were a bit awkward tho bc we were both quiet.. but he was so so sweet #like when i said i should go home he was completely understanding and would often ask if i was cold #just a very Gentle man like.. i felt so safe and comfortable 🥹#and i really loved looking up at him and into his eyes it was the best lil moments...#like when i said i hope this wasn't too boring for you and he immediately reassured me and said he's having a great time #and asked if i was having a good time too and our voices got softer and that eye contact was just.. ugh ✨#he really talks like a hockey player tho lmaooo 😭#so yeah i've been up for HOURS replaying all this in my mind i barely slept... i really just wanna see him again asap #answered #brunch anecdotes w the girlies

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sysig · 3 months

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DAAAAAAAAAAAAX <3 <3 (Patreon)

#Doodles #SCII #Helix #DAX #ZEX #Hello I have been inconsolable ever since ZEX mentioned that he wished DAX were there so he wouldn't be the only VUX #It is a hideously addictive thought - DAX being there to support his Admiral - he certainly could use it!#Talana got pulled in from Zelnick's girlfriend's ''real'' counterpart - why not Dexter!! Hghgh #It sets my brain on fire (terribly affectionate)#I love DAX sm ;; I love ZEX sm! I love their dynamic sm ;;;;#He would've been such a comfort hhh my head is full of all these horrifically self-indulgent scenes of They ♥#Firstly of them meeting up with each other!! ZEX is very tactile haha <3 He needs the physical reassurance so bad haha ;u;#Not quite like twining arms but DAX won't recoil at least <3 Hugs good!#Can you tell that second one was a spacefiller lol #ZEX very well acquainted with crying now haha - at least it's for something positive! For once :')#Ugh imagining their little differences in approach is so fjdkslafdf - same stimuli different outcomes! I love them hgh #I like to imagine DAX just observing the showers with a distant annoyance-interest like ''What the heck is that'' lol #Very dissimilar from ZEX's Intense interest but not actually picking up any skills from the experience lol #But really it's just my secret desire for DAX to learn how to wash hair so he can corral his Admiral into taking care of his body haha #Two VUX would have a very different kind of scaffolding of learning how to get along! They'd both benefit from whatever one finds out!#Might keep ZEX just a teensy bit more on track of finding things out to report back and help DAX out hehe <3 Maybe possibly lol #Still wouldn't stop him from hitting on DAX hehehehe ♪ What's this? Someone he likes and trusts in a human form? Hmm :)#Hhhh they ;; Recreating the scene of Max coming onto Dex and then Dexter turning it around on him - not that they'd know #I'm fine this is fine I'm not crying or anything ;;;; Parallels are my favourites I can't stand this <3 <3 #There's just so much to think about! And it's all so much to me!! ♥

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