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#just late bloomer things
goldennika · 10 days
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can't believe it's my younger sister giving me dating advice 🥲🥹
i kinda feel like i've "failed" as an older sister but also i'm the biggest introvert and homebody among us siblings so i didn't date a whole lot while she's dated a bit since college
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anniehaniii · 1 year
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I’m so dense I can never tell if someone is flirting with me or we just have really good banter
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originalartblog · 1 year
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does this count as angst or
companion piece for this Storm Bringer AU here
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hinata-boke · 1 year
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comparing these panels im shocked at how much tinier first year bokuto looks
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rodlaveraryna · 3 months
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ok time for me to rant for a sec: i'm sorry if this offends anyone but i can't stand the jannik as aaron burr (hamilton musical mind you, not the real person) comparisons. don't get me wrong, wait for it has some great lyrics that fit with jannik nicely but as a whole the core of burr's character is like the antithesis of jannik. the reason jannik went from in and out up and coming top 10 player to world #1 grand slam champion is because of incremental improvements in his game that might not have looked like much match by match but are clear as day in retrospect. on the other hand, burr's inaction is a key negative trait of his and he only realizes that after he's fallen behind from his peers. and while you could perceive this "catching up later" as being jannik coded, jannik has been active since the beginning trying to catch up with and surpass his peers after a practically nonexistent junior career. burr is defined by being passive while jannik is anything but.
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puppyeared · 9 months
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HOW can you be bad at being a furry???????
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IDK BUT I AM
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sadbisexualmusic · 3 months
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One of the things they don’t tell you about being a late bloomer is that when you go through your first real breakup at 22, you have all the crazy emotions that come with it, but you also feel like an idiot because you should be more mature about it. Like yes I thought I was going to marry him and he has shattered my heart and has been kinda treating me like shit, yes I would still I get back together with him if he asked, yes I know I sound like an immature moron.
Like when you’re a stupid teenager, you’re not self-aware, so you can feel all your emotions and just focus on those, but my frontal lobe is more developed and now I can’t just like feel my feelings and process them because I know how irrational and stupid my thought process is but this is unfortunately an unskippable cutscene.
I don’t know if this makes sense, I’m just posting into the void cause I don’t really want people in my real life to know that I am emotionally 15 years old
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yugimoto · 3 months
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how are you doing luke!! I hope your garden is doing okay the weather is so rainy recently :(
hello!!! honestly I've been having a rough time in part because of the weather... T__T my garden's not suffering too badly yet luckily, I can see a bunch of peas from the window where I'm sitting! though I'm still nervous they'll get blight again if it rains all july like it did last year... I've noticed some brown leaves in my beans...
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sciderman · 11 months
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i relate to peter parker because i’ve had six crushes this year alone
damn son save some for the rest of us!!
#sci speaks#i think i've only ever had one crush in my life. wilding. i wish i fell in love easier. it feels wonderful.#oh the people with hyperactive hearts...#i wish i had felt this way at some point when i was younger. it kind of felt like my heart wasn't fully developed yet.#holds my heart in my hands. why were you such a late bloomer. why didn't you feel more things earlier on.#i'm kind of sad that i didn't have teenage crushes or anything. i feel like i missed out.#is it because nobody around me was appealing. or is it because i was too busy on my own planet.#i think i wasn't really close with a lot of people when i was younger. i kind of never came out of my shell.#so nobody got close enough to me for me to like them.#not that it's necessarily how it works. but it takes a lot for me to get there with somebody i think.#i think a lot of the relationships i've been in i'm still To This Day not even sure if i actually liked them back in that way.#squeezes my heart in my hand. why are you so fussy.#i wish i had more experiences under my belt. i really do. but also i don't want to be in situations that are uncomfortable either.#and i don't want to just be there for the sake of it.#lies on the floor and stares at the ceiling. i don't know what i want.#is love the answer?#i don't know. sometimes i want it more than anything. but it's such a ball-ache to get. sometimes you think you're better off without it.#i wish i knew what i wanted. i think i just want to be brave enough to find out.#why do i ramble so much in my tags. it's like tumblr is my therapist or something.#i'm feeling weird about myself lately. just kind of a little tired. i don't feel bad. but kind of perpetually low-energy.#like i never have the time to do things that make me happy. and when i do get the time i don't have the energy.#is this what it's like to live in this world. i need like. a year's break from work. i think.#i need like a year-long vacation. i need a gap year. i need a year to live life.#i wonder if it's financially viable. i think i'd eat through everything i have if i did that. but.#you can get money back. you can't get your time back.
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It’s wild how so many people are fundamentally incapable of recognizing queer characters unless they explicitly say the words, “I’m gay” on screen
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#like season 1 and 2? sure maybe you can overlook Will’s queercoding and believe it’s just a result of the bully’s homophobia#season 3 is a huge stretch but it’s hypothetically possible to believe will is just a late-bloomer or asexual#but how on earth do you watch season 4 and still genuinely have no idea will is gay?#and this is not a rare occurrence#it’s astonishing how many people you have to literally explain the van scene to cause Will’s sexuality never crossed their mind#you didn’t see him staring longingly at his best friend the entire season?#some people’s minds are so aggressively heteronormative that they assumed will had a crush on el#and even after noah has explained that will is gay 50 million times#people still are confused and think it came out of nowhere or they quickly forget#somewhere there’s a fan who doesn’t keep up with stranger things news and doesn’t really use social media#a fan who is the exact opposite of chronically online#who hasn’t heard about NOAH coming out let alone Will’s sexuality#who will walk into season 5 and be utterly flabbergasted when Will comes out as gay (let alone when Byler happens)#and they’ll say that Will being gay is a huge plot twist they never saw coming#and they’ll be 100% sincere#and that’s truly baffling to me#do people think shows just randomly include melodramatic rain fights where ‘it’s not my fault you don’t like girls’ is said for no reason?#do people think the show went out of its way to show wills rejecting the attractive girl in his class cause they were in a silly goofy mood?#I genuinely wanna know what goes on through people’s heads when they have no gaydar or media literacy#even today there are people who still think romantic stobin should happen and think that Robin isn’t really a lesbian#will byers#byler
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I’ve been looking up Mutant Mayhem on TV Tropes just to see updates and I saw this:
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He better not be 😭😭 Mikey has always been the youngest in the versions I watch so it would be weird if Donnie was the youngest.
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laiskanpulskea · 3 months
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I got accepted into a university I really didn't think I could get into and I'm not even in disbelief but more like I'm water and the reality is oil and it's not going to sink in. Looking at apartments and trying to plan moving to another city when none of this feels real is really something ( ╯□╰ )
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stillinthatweirdfaze · 5 months
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For anyone else who’s lingering sense of self guilt started here you can buy these things in bulk for like 7$ now
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aromacaque · 1 year
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because it's on my mind now. people who aren't aro almost always treat it as like some special kind of het identity. like that it doesn't actually impact relationships or people's lives beyond "not having crushes"
it completely neglects any potential effects social ostracization has, how hard it is to navigate a world so heavily focused on romantic relationships, how hard it is to even relate to people because do you know how many times i've heard people say shit like "most songs are (implied: romantic) love songs because everyone can relate to those" and other stuff along those lines?
the amount of times where i've been in a situation where people automatically judge me for my love life, only to back down when they realize i'm aromantic, which for the record isn't genuine acceptance. For anyone who isn't straight, tell me, how does it feel to be constantly perceived as straight and to be spoken to as if you are UNLESS you come out? It doesn't really feel great! Me telling someone that I've never dated before and the response being a pitied "oh we have got to get you out more often" (real thing that has been said to me) only for them to Maybe Possibly backtrack if I feel comfortable enough telling them I'm aro isn't really acceptance! Like, at all!
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allalrightagain · 9 months
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I know his whole thing is Lonely Orphaned Chosen One but I think we need more Summer Birthday Complex!Harry. He’s not the spoiled baby of the family but he is the youngest in his year or very close to it.
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I’ll wear one of my Front Line Assembly t-shirts to the Front 242 show as an in-joke based on how I discovered 242
(I used to listen to FLA a lot when I was younger and then in 2013/14, when I got proper in to WaxTrax, i saw 242’s Headhunter on the recommended thing and I thought “Front 242, weren’t these the guys that did some of the Quake 3 Arena soundtrack?” and then it was all over from there)
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