can't believe it's my younger sister giving me dating advice 🥲🥹
i kinda feel like i've "failed" as an older sister but also i'm the biggest introvert and homebody among us siblings so i didn't date a whole lot while she's dated a bit since college
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I’m so dense I can never tell if someone is flirting with me or we just have really good banter
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ok time for me to rant for a sec: i'm sorry if this offends anyone but i can't stand the jannik as aaron burr (hamilton musical mind you, not the real person) comparisons. don't get me wrong, wait for it has some great lyrics that fit with jannik nicely but as a whole the core of burr's character is like the antithesis of jannik. the reason jannik went from in and out up and coming top 10 player to world #1 grand slam champion is because of incremental improvements in his game that might not have looked like much match by match but are clear as day in retrospect. on the other hand, burr's inaction is a key negative trait of his and he only realizes that after he's fallen behind from his peers. and while you could perceive this "catching up later" as being jannik coded, jannik has been active since the beginning trying to catch up with and surpass his peers after a practically nonexistent junior career. burr is defined by being passive while jannik is anything but.
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One of the things they don’t tell you about being a late bloomer is that when you go through your first real breakup at 22, you have all the crazy emotions that come with it, but you also feel like an idiot because you should be more mature about it. Like yes I thought I was going to marry him and he has shattered my heart and has been kinda treating me like shit, yes I would still I get back together with him if he asked, yes I know I sound like an immature moron.
Like when you’re a stupid teenager, you’re not self-aware, so you can feel all your emotions and just focus on those, but my frontal lobe is more developed and now I can’t just like feel my feelings and process them because I know how irrational and stupid my thought process is but this is unfortunately an unskippable cutscene.
I don’t know if this makes sense, I’m just posting into the void cause I don’t really want people in my real life to know that I am emotionally 15 years old
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how are you doing luke!! I hope your garden is doing okay the weather is so rainy recently :(
hello!!! honestly I've been having a rough time in part because of the weather... T__T my garden's not suffering too badly yet luckily, I can see a bunch of peas from the window where I'm sitting! though I'm still nervous they'll get blight again if it rains all july like it did last year... I've noticed some brown leaves in my beans...
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I’ve been looking up Mutant Mayhem on TV Tropes just to see updates and I saw this:
He better not be 😭😭 Mikey has always been the youngest in the versions I watch so it would be weird if Donnie was the youngest.
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I got accepted into a university I really didn't think I could get into and I'm not even in disbelief but more like I'm water and the reality is oil and it's not going to sink in. Looking at apartments and trying to plan moving to another city when none of this feels real is really something ( ╯□╰ )
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because it's on my mind now. people who aren't aro almost always treat it as like some special kind of het identity. like that it doesn't actually impact relationships or people's lives beyond "not having crushes"
it completely neglects any potential effects social ostracization has, how hard it is to navigate a world so heavily focused on romantic relationships, how hard it is to even relate to people because do you know how many times i've heard people say shit like "most songs are (implied: romantic) love songs because everyone can relate to those" and other stuff along those lines?
the amount of times where i've been in a situation where people automatically judge me for my love life, only to back down when they realize i'm aromantic, which for the record isn't genuine acceptance. For anyone who isn't straight, tell me, how does it feel to be constantly perceived as straight and to be spoken to as if you are UNLESS you come out? It doesn't really feel great! Me telling someone that I've never dated before and the response being a pitied "oh we have got to get you out more often" (real thing that has been said to me) only for them to Maybe Possibly backtrack if I feel comfortable enough telling them I'm aro isn't really acceptance! Like, at all!
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I know his whole thing is Lonely Orphaned Chosen One but I think we need more Summer Birthday Complex!Harry. He’s not the spoiled baby of the family but he is the youngest in his year or very close to it.
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I’ll wear one of my Front Line Assembly t-shirts to the Front 242 show as an in-joke based on how I discovered 242
(I used to listen to FLA a lot when I was younger and then in 2013/14, when I got proper in to WaxTrax, i saw 242’s Headhunter on the recommended thing and I thought “Front 242, weren’t these the guys that did some of the Quake 3 Arena soundtrack?” and then it was all over from there)
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