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Something I really love about queerness is how somebody's sexuality merges and bleeds into their gender.
I think for some, it can be, in part, a reclamation of the idea of being punished for not truly being your gender or not being enough as-is. A lesbian who's punished for not being a "woman" by cishet society can reclaim themself by declaring they aren't a woman but a lesbian, lesbiangender, in short.
Queerness in any capacity is often (though not always and not across-the-board) punished as a failure in some way. You're a second-class man or woman, a second-class person, depending on many factors. Reclaiming that can be really relieving and cathartic
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From 'Dream of a woman' By Cacey Plett.
This sums up exactly how I feel about most transition timelines. As much as they reflect people's experiences, they are also a narrative. And the narratives that get shared the most tell a lot about what our values are. The timelines that get the most attention are the ones where people go from sad, loser, nothing boys into beautiful women.
But if you go to /r/transitiontimelines or a similar place, and sort by controversial or look at what has the least likes, its people who made timelines when they still don't 'pass' yet. Even if they're happy as can be, that's not what people are looking for.
I think it says a lot about what people expect from trans women, that they only want to see us be beautiful. In some cases, that they want to believe they can be beautiful. So there is no value in trans life if you're not beautiful.
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Woe upon those who question the love and wrath of devotion.
[Image ID: Illustration featuring two men dressed in Japanese clothing. The man on the left is slightly slouched, with his left arm clinging to the back of the man on the right. He has tan skin, short, choppy, black hair and beard, and round glasses that glint in a way that reflects light. He is dressed in a green kimono with its sleeves held up and deer hide chaps. in the bottom left corner a piece of the red war bow he's holding can be seen. The man on the right is standing with both arms at ease beside his body, his back slightly turned to the camera. He has pale skin, auburn-red hair tied up in a high ponytail and a thick beard. He's very thin and wearing a dark purplish kimono with the sleeves held up and black samurai pants. A pistol and a katana can be seen hanging by his belt. The left arm of this man, facing the viewer, is covered in bright red blood.]
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I'm gonna continue with the requests later, but I also felt the need to doodle my two PVs with a little bit of gender on the side
They're both still very much genderless, but because not every non-binary/agender person will have the same perception/feelings regarding their gender and won't have the same gender presentation, I decided to mess around with it a little
Hallow is genderfluidv(though after some consideration I realised agenderflux describes them more accurately, but oh well, these labels don't even exist in their story so who cares), they're non-binary but their alignment fluctuates between fem-leaning, masc-leaning, something in-between and neither. They're fine with any terms and pronouns but mostly go by they/them.
Luna is genderfae/transfem, their gender fluctuates between agender and fem-aligned non-binary. They mostly go by they/them and gender-neutral and feminine terms, they're fine with she/her and some neopronouns, but any masculine terms and pronouns are a big no-no for them. Currently, I'm considering making them an enby lesbian, but that might change in the future.
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The thing is "forced diversity" only became a real thing after people online got called out for only ever having like white ocs or just Never making women [ESPECIALLY TRANS WOMEN] and now sometimes I see a character lineup and its like Oh I can like actively see the diversity checklist you were crossing off in your head specifically to try and get tumblr woke points because you are being so fucking Weird about this. Like in an effort to be like LOOK LOOK AT HOW DIVERSE MY CAST IS I AM ADVERTISING THIS BY JUST TELLING YOU ABOUT HOW DIVERSE EVERYONE IS YOU DON'T NEED TO KNOW GENRE OR THEMES they make it so clear that making characters of color or women or disabled characters etc has to be a Conscious Choice instead of just. Something that comes naturally because that reflects our real world.
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Hello! Question: is Lee trans by any chance?
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It’s funny trying to describe my gender to other people. Usually I just go with trans masc nonbinary but that truly does not encompass it in full. I feel a stronger connection to masculinity and would physically like to have the traits associated with men (more hair, flat chest, etc. not that any of that makes you a man but it’s just how I want to present). But I also really enjoy engaging with femininity in certain ways. I want to present male so I can engage with femininity in the way I like. My goal is and always will be gender fuckery.I want to be a flowery whimsical gay boy. I want to look like an ageless gender-confused wizard. I want to have long flowing hair and wear skirts and dresses but also have a beard and body hair and a deep voice. I don’t think I ever intend to pass as a man, or if I do I want to play with fashion and presentation in a way that still centres queerness and rejecting binary gender roles. Something in me just always wants to shout from the rooftops “This is who I am, I will never be erased, I will always be here to show you that there is room to exist outside the boxes we’ve been put in.” Gender presentation as a form of rebellion, as a form of pride, as a beacon to other queer people that they are safe with me. So I guess the best label for me would be “fuck around and find out.”
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i really cant say shit about music tastes considering im regularly subjected to my own, but for the love of fuck if a blorbo is based in a music subculture, plsssssss take an afternoon to tour that subculture at least a little when making your blorbo playlists trust me i promise you theres good shit out there beyond what little from fringe genres that filters out into the top 40s from the last decade
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My past can’t escape me / my pussy precedes me / my my how the times change
Local alt twink puppy speaks and learns to frolic off leash again
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comptop transfem gale dekarios send post
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ftm brockhank yaoi got me to watch The Venture Bros.... very worth it. I fucking love the characters
the yaoi is in-character of them
and they even have a father-son thing going on
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dude i hate being a nb lesbian that's actually medically transitioning because i have NOOO idea how to refer to myself anymore
i was calling myself a "femme" before and I still relate to femmes but like...baby you're getting top surgery and you have facial hair im not sure this applies to u anymore. please
like im still VERY feminine with how I dress and everything but god this is such a confusing experience
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I’m watching this show & there’s an older transfem nonbinary character that’s dating a dad of a 13 y/o nonbinary kid, and I’m on the episode where the kid meets the partner for the first time. and the kid is on my nerves with the typical Kid Hates Dads New Partner shtick. And like I get it when kids have a hard time with parents dating. but because of my own experience with queerness and unaccepting family I’m Annoyed cause iTS GIVING PRIVILEGE!!! Like oh my god if I was in that position I’d be so fucking excited!!! This awesome older queer nonbinary person starting to come into the family, wanting to get close & bringing more older queer people around too!!! That’s so fucking cool!! like God I Wish That Were Me!!!!
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Reanimator mutual and now tomgreg mutual - truly blessed <3 loving the tomgreg art, you capture them really well
HIHIHIHIH WE JUST HAVE TASTE!!! <3
and thank you so much, they make me just as unwell as danbert :')
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