#masterlist: boundaries

[oikasugayama]

oikasugayama's rules and boundaries

General:

This blog has a lot of explicit 18+ content. If you're not an adult, do not interact with my 18+ content or I will block you. MDNI is taken very seriously.

I answer anons daily, but I regularly delete posted messages. I get extremely overwhelmed when my inbox is flooded so do not spam/triple message.

What to know when requesting:

I reserve the right to ignore any request for any reason.

I do not have a posting schedule, so your request may sit around forever before I get to it.

All characters must be adults in the source material. I will not write about characters or reader inserts who are minors.

Please don't send me paragraphs of detail you want in a story. At that point I'd be a ghost writer for your content. You can still share your ideas with me, but don't expect me to write your fics for you! I encourage everyone to try writing!

My writing boundaries:

Topics I will not write about: angst including most hurt/comfort, weight/body image/specific body types, pregnancy/mpreg/parenthood/having children, omegaverse, animal-hybrids, incest, "reader is someone's sister" troupe.

Characters I'm likely to reject requests for: Fyodor, Sigma, Bram, Tetcho, Jouno, Junichiro, Mushitaro

Characters I don't want to write for: any Guild members besides Poe, Kajii, BSD spin-off characters (Another Story, light novels, etc.)

This list is subject to change and is non-negotiable.

For my writing in general:

Selling fanfic can get you sued! I will never ask for money or tips in any sort of way. Do not give anyone money for my fanfic in any way.

No one may re-post, translate, narrate, copy+paste, sell, etc. my work on any website or in-person for ANY reason.

You ARE allowed to download for personal use ONLY (i.e. reading offline, binding in a personal collection, etc.)

If you make an inspired work (similar fic, fan art, headcanons, etc.) PLEASE TAG ME I wanna see!!

If you plagiarize one of my fics I'll block you 🤷🏼‍♀️ it's not that deep but you also shouldn't have access to my work/ideas if you're gonna try to pass it off as your own.

Masterlist

[felixknow]

felixknow's requesting rules + boundaries <3

General:

I will never ask for money for my time or writing. Do not give anyone money on my behalf. Instead, please consider donating to any of these trusted charities which are helping civilians in Palestine, and/or do your daily click for free.

I'm an adult who writes about adults. I don't want to interact with minors, and I'd prefer minors aren't interacting with my content, ESPECIALLY if I post something NSFW or suggestive of NSFW. If I notice a minor has interacted with my content, I will block them.

I have complicated feelings about writing about real people. I want to make it clear that I've never met SKZ or anyone who knows them. Everything I write is purely fictional and for enjoyment. I will never try to paint anyone in a bad light, therefore I won't take requests that could be construed as me accusing them of something bad. More details below.

Do not repost my content anywhere for any purpose. If I want my content on another website, I will put it there myself. This includes translations and podfics. Please do not do anything that involves reworking my content without asking for my permission.

What to know when requesting:

I reserve the right to ignore requests for any reason. I will politely post a "no thank you" message if I reject your request, unless you prefer for me to silently delete the request.

I currently post original content once or twice a day. I pick whichever request is most inspiring at the time. Requests may sit around for quite some time before I get to them. It's okay by me if you send a follow-up ask to make sure I received your request!

I may not include every single aspect of your request. The more detailed you are, the more likely I am to accidentally forget something. For me, requests are like a collaboration. I'm blessed to have ideas shared with me, and I hope I can do them in a fulfilling way for the requester, even if I change some things.

Requests I like:

FAKE TEXTS!!!!!

I'll also consider drabbles, headcanons, theories, analyses, etc.

FRIENDS TO LOVERS I'll write it a million times I swear

Fluff (◕ ω ◕✿)

Any body size, any sexuality, any gender, any nationality reader

Texts with multiple people (example: bsf![skz] with bf![skz] and jealous![skz])

Silly troupes or fun gimmicks

Suggestive ಡ⁠ ͜⁠ ⁠ʖ⁠ ⁠ಡ including pics

Request boundaries:

Please be polite. If you demand that I write something for you, I will not do it. If you complain that I'm taking too long or you didn't like what I wrote, I will not react happily. You may even be blocked if you're rude/mean.

I will not write taboo/illegal topics like incest, rape, assault, murder, pedophilia, zoophilia, etc. If it's a fucked up request, I am not the person to go to for it.

I will not write character death in any form.

I will not write about members' IRL family, as this is a boundary that should not be crossed. SKZ are public figures but their family members are not. I also am not fond of "reader is member's sibling" troupes, but could potentially make it work if I so feel inclined.

Heavy topics can be difficult to write about. I wouldn't want to seem like I'm making light of something serious, so I may reject requests that I feel are too serious for my delusional fanfictions, partly because I don't want to get into deep analyses about how 8 random men would react to serious topics. I feel like I have no place to put words in their mouths. <3

masterlist | send me a number 1-100

[dizzyjelly]

<Info> <Masterlists> <About Me>

🫧Hi lovelies<3 welcome to my page, read below for all my info🫧

{Masterlists}

Ellie Williams

Abigail Anderson

Dina Woodward

Request/Asks for writing+rules

If you'd like to be on the taglist for any of my fics just lmk in the comments<3

About Me

•twentee•

•aquarius•

•she/they•

•lesbian•

Boundaries: I appreciate any kind of positive comments or messages about my writing, but I don't really share lots of personal information bc I'm just not comfortable with that. If u wanna be friends we can totally message on here, but that's about as far as it will go.

My Interests

•Reading/writing•

•Poetry•

•Music: phoebe bridgers, TV girl, mitski, sexxy red, childish gambino, Lana del Rey, Alex G+more•

•Recently watched/currently watching: Hamilton, OITNB, Young Royals•

•Content Creators: Sinjin Drowning, Danny Gonzalez, Jake+Johnnie, Chad Chad•

[summersreality]

Boundaries & DNI + Masterlist

Boundaries & DNI

basic DNI criteria (bigots of any type or sort).

zionists and Israel supporters.

anyone who supports Russia and their government.

people who think slurs are just words that anyone can say.

terfs.

anyone of any age may interact but don’t dm if you’re under 14 or over 21.

people who shame those who haven’t shifted.

stray kids antis.

people who have murder DRs.

aggressive people.

people who use ai “art”.

LOA-antis & shifting antis

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Don’t ask me for help regarding your personal or a loved ones health. Don’t ask me for help with financial problems. If you send me asks regarding these subjects, they will be ignored.

I prefer to keep information of what I’m planning to manifest/where I’m planning to shift private until it has actually happened.

I do not like race changing. I understand that it’s not always due to fetishization but due to the aggression people who like race changing often show to one’s who don’t, please don’t try to argue with me about it. And people who say it’s “shifttok bs” will also be blocked.

I support aging down unless it’s because you as an adult in this reality has a crush on a minor, even if you’re a child in your DR doesn’t make you less of a pedo here.

Don’t send me asks like “how do I persist” “how do I assume” and basic things you could figure out with a Google search. Also I will ignore asks like “I’ve tried to persist but my 3D isn’t changing”

Masterlist

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[sserafics]

RULES! ──༺ ♰ ༻

home . masterlist . about me

i will write!

fluff, angst, platonic things, basically anything sfw, fem reader

i won’t write..

male reader (maybe in the future), character x character, pedo shit, incest, real people (the actors etc.) , smut

characters i’ll write for ^-^

twd: carl grimes, ron anderson, enid rhee, beth greene (maybe others, but these are the main ones!)

otl: dohwa baek, su-ae shim, go eunhyuk

henry danger: henry hart, charlotte page

i will also write for anime characters if i know them! (jjk, aot, sk8, haikyu, etc.)

other

if u make a request pls make it semi- detailed 😞 or like something for me to work with… the longer the better!!

& it might take me long to get them out because i’m VERY self conscious about my work and i reread it like a billion times 😓

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[tojiluv]

ᥫ᭡ GENERAL RULES

be polite when requesting

be patient as posts will be slow since i have my own life and am busy with school

no hateful, disrespectful, or offensive words when commenting on my works and requesting

be understanding if i deny a request that i’m not comfortable writing as i have my own boundaries

requests can be long or short, doesn’t matter. but include details if you want it a certain way (sfw/nsfw, angst/fluff, headcanon/oneshot/imagine, etc)

don’t spam like posts as it could shadowban me, reblogs & comments are okay!

don’t spam the same request constantly

do not plagiarize / steal / translate any of my works, stories, edits, & layouts. i do not give any permission.

ᥫ᭡ REQUEST RULES

list of topics i will not write (list will update if needed): 

incest/stepcest, r!pe/non-con

piss/scat/feet kinks

necrophilia/pedophilia

kidnapping/g!ngbangs

mommy/ddlg kink

race play, vore gore/vomit

sexual dark content (yandere, omega verse, etc)

fisting/sounding, period s*x

physical and/or sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts

character x character, MxM nsfw, specific Y/N (no child/male reader; gn & fem is perfectly okay!)

nsfw for minor characters (18+ characters is okay!)

ᥫ᭡ FANDOM LIST

list of animes i write for (depending on the character):

jujutsu kaisen

one piece

haikyuu

inuyasha series

naruto series

demon slayer

tokyo revengers

kuroko’s basketball

death note...? (depends on character)

nsfw only for time-skip characters (18+) / sfw for any! if a character is 18+, depending on who, i may not write it due to my own preferences.

© 𝐭𝐨𝐣𝐢𝐥𝐮𝐯 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒

[nanamis-bigtie]

but you literally followed me, openly kinky nsfw writer, first...

[coffeexxlord]

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Hola! You can call me Fexx! I use any pronouns, He/It/ and any neo pronouns. I'm Aroace and Nonbinary :D.

I'm trying to get into writing and expressing my opinions more often, as well as just being more active in the community and fandoms I'm into.

Here's a list of the things I'm willing and unwilling to write for, and eventually ill be able to write one shots for people, so feel free to ask for a Fic! I have a hard time getting my brain to cooperate so it might take me forever.

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Spanish version at the bottom :D I'm still learning, so most of this is in Google translate.

Versión en español en la parte inferior :D Todavía estoy aprendiendo, así que la mayor parte de esto está en el traductor de Google.

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Fandoms I'm Into:

Very

QSMP

ORIGINS SMP

DSMP

SBI 3/3

ROTTMNT & 2012

Kind of

My Hero Academia

Voltron

Undertale

Sonic

Doctor Who

Supernatural

What I Will Write:

Character x reader, both Platonic and Romantic

Character x character,

What I Wont Write:

NSFW for any underage characters (I don't care if its fictional)

Incest, or Selfcest

Non-con, or Dubious-consent

Any characters or ships I really don't like

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¡Hola! ¡Puedes llamarme Fexx! Utilizo cualquier pronombre, Él/Ello/ y cualquier pronombre neo. Soy Aroace y no binaria :D.

Estoy tratando de escribir y expresar mis opiniones más a menudo, así como ser más activo en la comunidad y los fandoms que me gustan.

Aquí hay una lista de las cosas por las que estoy dispuesto y no estoy dispuesto a escribir, y eventualmente podré escribir one shots para la gente, ¡así que siéntete libre de pedir un Fic! Me cuesta mucho hacer que mi cerebro coopere, así que puede que me lleve una eternidad.

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Lo siento si mi español es malo. Todavía estoy aprendiendo, así que la mayor parte de esto es traducido por Google.

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Fandoms que me gustan:

Muy

QSMP

ORIGINS SMP

DSMP

SBI 3/3

ROTTMNT & 2012

Algo así

My Hero Academia

Voltron

Undertale

Sonic

Doctor Who

Supernatural

Lo que estoy dispuesto a escribir:

Personaje x lector, platónico y romántico

Carácter x carácter,

Lo que no voy a escribir:

NSFW para cualquier personaje menor de edad (no me importa si es ficticio)

Incesto, o Selfcest

Falta de consentimiento o consentimiento dudoso

Cualquier personaje o nave que no me guste mucho

[sphnyspinspin]

[About Blog]

- This is my Transformers fan blog! I usually just draw and write and that’s about it. Considering I have trouble getting new ideas in my noggin I decided to open REQUESTS and ASKS. But I’ll only be taking a few at time—you know the whole OPEN and CLOSED signs will be very prominent. This’ll go for both drawing and writing stuff.

There’s probably going to be more stuff to add on to this so make sure to see if I updated anything important on here like DNI or ASKS and REQUESTS.

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[DNI]

- Homophobic -

- Transphobic -

- TERFs -

- Sexist -

- Racist -

- NSFW -

- Proshipper -

- Ableist -

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[ASKS]

1) Can Accept

- Pretty much anything that doesn’t make me uncomfortable. And I can be slow when it comes to checking my inbox so if you like what I do here, you might have to be a little patient. I like it when people just come by to say hi or compliment my work, so don’t be afraid to do so. You don’t need to feel obligated to spare my feelings too, I can take criticism when I need it.

2) Won’t Accept

- AGAIN! NOTHING CREEPY! Don’t ask me about personal stuff please, I’ll update small bits on how I’m doing, don’t be pushy. And don’t send me random links without context or at least a small description, it gives off creepy vibes.

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[Fandoms]

- Transformers: Rescue Bots : Good God, this show was like the very first layer of my TF hyper fixation—not my biggest fixation just my first.

- Transformers: Rescue Bots Academy : THIS SHOW is my biggest fixation it’s so cute and wholesome and clever and fun it is such a good show I love the characters so much.

- Transformers: Cyberverse : PLEASE—this show is AWESOME, I praise it for the characters, the story, the character designs, the animation, the EVERYTHING(this is where I personally think Soundrod first originated).

- Transformers: Robots In Disguise 2015 : Hear me out, this show is actually kinda funny in a non-ironic way I promise, and the designs aren’t half bad.

- Transformers: More Than Meets The Eye : I have read zero TF MTMTE and I never plan to because I would actually die from dehydration after crying so long; but the fandom makes me laugh and I like the art.

- Transformers: Lost Light : Again I have read zero Lost Light comics and I don’t plan on it; because I feel like I know enough just from the memes.

- Transformers: Animated : This show SHOULD be more popular, and it’s the main reason I have my artstyle today (and please don’t bully me but when I found out my fave characters dies I stopped watching….. like immediately………. I didn’t finish season one).

- Transformers: Earthspark : This show, oh my god, I have a love-dread relationship with it; it has so much care-free positivity, an adorable group of characters, nice designs with world-building being amazing so far, but I know for a fact it will destroy me sooner or later. P.S. it already has

- Transformers: Botbots : This. This…. Where do I begin; oh right, literally the TF fandom parody—like I know for a fact that 85% of the characters’ personalities are inspired by random TF tumblr posts, you can’t deny that.

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[Side-Blogs]

1) @transformers-bold-bright-brisk

- My blog for my TF fan Continuity project. Right now it’s mostly drafts and concept art and writings,

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[Communication]

1) Follower Interactions

- I will do my best to answer ASKS because I am terrible at checking my inbox. Also, I’m going to try and reply to comments, but if I stop doing that—it’s not because I don’t like you guys, it’s cause I’m lazy and I usually don’t have anything interesting to reply back with. And please read my DNI, ASKS, and REQUESTS boxes before interacting, thanks. Also ask stuff will be tagged as either #sphny asks (𖦹////𖦹)•*°⊹ or #sphny answers (𖦹0 𖦹)•*°⊹

2) Mutual Interactions

- Hey! If you followed me and I followed you back and somehow we were able to become regular chit chat buddies from either in the tags, reblog games, DMing, and etc. then you probably know me enough to understand my thought process when I talk to people. And if you’re a new mutual and actually want to interact with each other more than same goes for you—read my DNI, ASKS, and REQUESTS boxes. I respect your boundaries, you respect mine���win win. I would honestly be very excited to talk to me people on this platform, I just get a little bit shy/anxious sometimes

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[Posting]

1) Art

- When I post my art I’ll usually tag it under #sphny arts (𖦹w𖦹)•*°⊹. And right now I’ve been posting A LOT of RBA fanart. But if I feel really motivated to draw requests I’ll do my best to draw TF characters from other continuities in my style too.

2) Writing

- What I write consists of drabbles, headcannons, one shots, short-reviews, and other opinions I have that I like to share with the world. And I’ll give an itty bitty irl update just to notify I’m still alive. And they’re going to be tagged under #sphny speaks (𖦹<𖦹)•*°⊹ #sphny alternates universe (𖦹ㅁ𖦹)•*°⊹ #sphny originates character (𖦹▿𖦹)•*°⊹

3) Reblogging

- Oh boy. I reblog a very random assortment of posts. I reblog from mutes, followers, and strangers all the time. I’ll partake in reblog games I tag under #reblog shenanigans which would always be a new uquiz or for picrew challenges it would be #picrew shenanigans. When I reblog art or literally anything I COMPLIMENT THEM IN TAGS! And in the actual text part if I’m super eccentric about it too. And they’ll be tagged under #sphny reblogs (𖦹Q𖦹)•*°⊹

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[Social Media]

- TikTok : sphnyspinspin2006 (There’s literally only three posts to my name)

- Instagram : sphnyspinspin (Barely Active)

- DeviantArt : sphnyspun (I never use this)

- Discord : sphnyspinspin (I’m VERY shy)

- AO3 : sphnyspinspin (I write very little on here)

[captainjamster]

My Boundaries + Writing Limits

🐰Boundaries🐰

If you're under 18, you don't exist to me on this blog, and you are not welcome here. Doesn't mean we can't be friends, but that this is an area we cannot connect over or socialise in. If you want to be friends, please message/follow me on @jamssim where I post mostly SFW random shit, not my goddamn COD porn blog.

Otherwise, I love making mutuals and friends - please send me DMs, posts, and asks! Side note, I struggle with demand compliance, fatigue and forgetfulness, so I'm not the best responder. Don't think there's a reason I'm not answering - it's not you, it's me, and I'll get back to you eventually 💕

🐰Writing Limits🐰

-> Bestiality

i am a monster fucker, but my border is when they lose anthropomorphism. animals/monsters must be fully sentient and able to consent for me to write them

-> NSFW age-regression, ddlg or ageplay (SFW is fine)

age regression is not a kink, it is an (often involuntary) coping mechanism. i find it inappropriate to sexualise or take advantage of individuals with regression, and i do not think individuals in this state are able to give consent to NSFW activities in regression or before they regress.

the recreation of childish motifs within ddlg and ageplay makes me feel uneasy depicting them within a NSFW scenario. while engagement in NSFW activities between ddlg/ageplay couples is at their own discretion, i don't feel comfortable portraying it.

-> Pedophilia

I am open to writing about two minors together when appropriate (etc your first time with one of 141 as a teen), but I will not write about a legal minor and adult within NSFW situations.

-> Race-play

Please don't even ask.

-> Spit-focused kink(s)

Unexpected one, I know, but I struggle a lot with spit. While I accept it as a lubrication tool or a process of sex, I will not explicitly focus on spit-based kinks or fics.

-> Vore

Cannibalism is fine with me, but I personally find no appeal in the "eating/swallowing whole" aspect vore brings to the table.

-> Scat or vomit

Piss is entirely acceptable, but I have no interest in writing scat - the most I'll do is write about bathroom troubles for my IBS and other digestive struggle babes <3

dividers by saradika-graphics <3

[fraserbraw]

hello <3

hey there! my name’s fraser :3

i mostly write fanfic, or just blab about my little ideas/headcannons for cod men. i take requests!! if you want to see me write one of your silly little ideas, let me know! i’ll write them as fast as i can.

i’m currently in college, so timing may be a little off, but why would i do my psychology research when i can write about how babygirl these grown military men are?

‼️ BOUNDARIES ‼️

- MDNI on specific posts. i’m fine with minors reading headcannons and fluff, but none of the smut.

- dont be super weird or creepy. i’m a friendly guy, and i’m down to making friends, but nothing that would make someone’s skin crawl or sounds like it would be on an ep of forensic files

- for requests, don’t be afraid to ask! if i think it’s a wee bit far outside of my comfort zone, i won’t write it, but you never know till you ask :)

MASTERLIST

headcannons

141 x reader (a day in the life, them kissing reader a whole bunch)

smut (MDNI)

price x f!reader drabble

price x m!reader drabble

soap x f!reader (home again, to his love.)

fluff

gaz x m!reader (aftermath, gaz is high on pain meds)

angst

price x gn!reader (oh captain, my captain.)

ask anon answers

könig x m!reader (kuschelwanse)

könig x m!reader (jealous!könig)

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other than all that, i hope you have a nice time on my page! feel free to comment, dm, ask, all of those things.

<3

[tobias-rodgers]

Master list? I think?

I don't rlly have specific rules for this, just please dont try to interact in a NSFW way// do not try to change any plotline! (E.x. if Toby ever has a love interest do NOT come up in here and be like *Toby sees me and falls in love* , or do not tell the characters things that they are not to know. In this au, when Toby got picked up by slender man, his memory was wiped to function as a better worker. Please do not try to tell him his trauma over again.)

If an ask changes plot lines that I already have set that I like/or if an ask is just weird or creepy, I will delete it! This is a rpish thing, feel free to rp with it. If your rp!ask doesn't get responded to, I probably deleted it as I will delete any ask I simply have no plan on answering//ones that make me uncomfortable.

Magic!anons/asks are welcome and encouraged, they're funny :3.

I cannot stress enough that I do not have the same beliefs as some of the characters that will be included in this! Any beliefs that are homophobic or transphobic, or anything bad, are not my beliefs. To be honest I don't know if I'll add anything like that yet even.

Also! I really appreciate feedback and interaction, if there's anything I can do to improve the quality of this blog feel free to DM me. Also feel free to message me if there are any questions about this blog and/or au.

(To sum the au up: Toby is basically just silly, doesn't remember anything, and lives in the old-style early fandom slender mansion because I think it's fun :p. Chaos ensues)

[love-bitesx]

: ̗̀➛ rules

requests are open | here | dni |

i write for:

↳ hobie brown (!!!)

can write for: ↳ the other atsv teens (platonic, sfw only) ↳ miguel o'hara ↳ peter b. parker ↳ & other characters upon request!

rules:

any triggering, sensitive topics in requests/asks: please have a tw!! even not just for me, but if i end up writing it, for others who will read it! - i'm more than happy to receive any heavy subject (death, grief, break-up, mental health problems, etc.) requests but please accept that i may choose not to write it for personal reasons.

nsfw is iffy, but literally only bc im bad at writing it LMAOO – nsfw requests are always welcome for 18+ characters!

i believe hobie to be 19-20! i've seen discourse abt it, so i just want to reiterate that he's an adult in every single one of my fics!

spam is so okay!!! and welcome!!! i adore seeing all the little comments & tags, ilyasm

NO HATE/HATEFUL LANGUAGE! this is a big no! criticism is so okay! but absolutely no abuse of others, regardless of your intentions. hate, discrimination, etc. is NOT allowed on this blog and will be deleted/blocked!

if i'm unclear on any rules or you have any questions about boundaries, please don't hesitate to dm/send an ask! always here to clear things up!

[darkacademicvibes]

Welcome To The DarkAcademicVibes Library!

You'll find what ever you're looking for below!

Request Rules

About me

Fics

Blurbs

Head cannons

N/A

Ships

N/A

Fancasts And Face claims

The expectations of this blog.

[vorefluff]

Pinned Post & Masterlist

Hi! Here’s a quick list of rules/boundaries, and then my stories!

Well, I’ll make links/structure for any active stories. Abandoned stories can be found in my archive. There’s a lot of scattered stories with no particular order and I don’t feel like wrangling them all right now. Maybe in the future. 

Beware, I uhhhhh don’t remembered what’s in them. I’ve got amnesia and that was like, 4 years ago. 

Boundaries: 

-I don’t mind if more kink-oriented blogs interact with my stuff, but please don’t explicitly add that interpretation in reblogs/comments! It’s not intended in that manner, and that is nota type of interaction I personally enjoy.

-Feel free to send requests about scenarios, questions, ideas, and things that that I can fill in with my own characters! I just like any excuse to draw my own guys.

Stories Masterlist:

Active: 

-Breathe Life, Outrunning Our Doom (start: 2023) [Tagged: Breathe Life]

Abandoned: 

-World Of Heros (end: 2019) [Tagged: World Of Heros] -Batish!AU (end: 2019) [Tagged: Batish!AU]

[obsidianmama]

As a parent whose child is my whole world, I do NOT support so-called "parents' rights." I support CHILDREN'S rights. Children deserve physical, emotional and psychological safety, they deserve respect, they deserve privacy and they deserve autonomy. If you can't parent without giving your child these things, you need to learn how.