Jacques Brel - Regarde bien petit
J'arrive (1968)
Lyrics & Translation:
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Sur la plaine là-bas à hauteur des roseaux, entre ciel et moulin
Y a un homme qui vient que je ne connais pas
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Est-ce un lointain voisin
Un voyageur perdu
Un revenant de guerre
Un montreur de dentelles
Est-ce un abbé, porteur
De ces fausses nouvelles
Qui aident à vieillir
Est-ce mon frère qui vient
Me dire qu'il est temps d'un peu moins nous haïr
Ou n'est-ce que le vent
Qui gonfle un peu le sable
Et forme des mirages
Pour nous passer le temps
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Sur la plaine là-bas, à hauteur des roseaux, entre ciel et moulin
Y a un homme qui vient que je ne connais pas
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Ce n'est pas un voisin
Son cheval est trop fier
Pour être de ce coin
Pour revenir de guerre
Ce n'est pas un abbé
Son cheval est trop pauvre
Pour être paroissien
Ce n'est pas un marchand, son cheval est trop clair
Son habit est trop blanc
Et aucun voyageur
N'a plus passé le pont
Depuis la mort du père
Ni ne sait nos prénoms
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Sur la plaine là-bas à hauteur des roseaux, entre ciel et moulin
Y a un homme qui vient que je ne connais pas
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Non ce n'est pas mon frère
Son cheval aurait bu
Non ce n'est pas mon frère
Il ne l'oserait plus
Il n'est plus rien ici
Qui puisse le servir
Non ce n'est pas mon frère
Mon frère a pu mourir
Cette ombre de midi
Aurait plus de tourments
S'il s'agissait de lui
Allons, c'est bien le vent
Qui gonfle un peu le sable
Pour nous passer le temps
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Sur la plaine là-bas à hauteur des roseaux entre ciel et moulin
Y a un homme qui part que nous ne saurons pas
Regarde bien, petit, regarde bien
Il faut sécher tes larmes
Y a un homme qui part que nous ne saurons pas
Tu peux ranger les armes
Translation:
Take a good look, child, take a good look
On the plain over there at the height of the reeds, between sky and mill
There's a man coming that I don't know
Take a good look, child, take a good look
Is it a distant neighbor
A lost traveler
A ghost of war
A lace showman
Is it an abbot, bearer
Of this fake news
which help to age
Is it my brother coming
Tell me it's time to hate us a little less
Or is it just the wind
Which swells the sand a little
And form mirages
To pass the time
Take a good look, child, take a good look
On the plain over there, at the height of the reeds, between sky and mill
There's a man coming that I don't know
Take a good look, child, take a good look
He's not a neighbor
His horse is too proud
To be from this corner
To come back from war
He is not an abbot
His horse is too poor
To be a parishioner
He's not a merchant, his horse is too light
His dress is too white
And no traveler
Didn't cross the bridge again
Since the death of the father
Neither knows our first names
Take a good look, child, take a good look
On the plain over there at the height of the reeds, between sky and mill
There's a man coming that I don't know
Take a good look, child, take a good look
No he's not my brother
His horse would have drunk
No he's not my brother
He wouldn't dare
There is nothing here
who can serve him
No he's not my brother
My brother could die
This midday shadow
Would have more torments
If it was him
Come on, it's the wind
Which swells the sand a little
To pass the time
Take a good look, child, take a good look
On the plain over there at the height of the reeds between sky and mill
There's a man leaving that we won't know
Take a good look, child, take a good look
You have to dry your tears
There's a man leaving that we won't know
You can put away the weapons
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so one of the things that's so horrifying about birth control is that you have to, like, navigate this incredibly personal choice about your body and yet also face the epitome of misogyny. like, someone in the comments will say it wasn't that bad for me, and you'll be utterly silenced. like, everyone treats birth control like something that's super dirty. like, you have no fucking information or control over this thing because certain powerful people find it icky.
first it was the oral contraceptives. you went on those young, mostly for reasons unrelated to birth control - even your dermatologist suggested them to control your acne. the list of side effects was longer than your arm, and you just stared at it, horrified.
it made you so mentally ill, but you just heard that this was adulthood. that, yes, there are of course side effects, what did you expect. one day you looked up yasmin makes me depressed because surely this was far too intense, and you discovered that over 12,000 lawsuits had been successfully filed against the brand. it remains commonly prescribed on the open market. you switched brands a few times before oral contraceptives stopped being in any way effective. your doctor just, like, shrugged and said you could try a different brand again.
and the thing is that you're a feminist. you know from your own experience that birth control can be lifesaving, and that even when used for birth control - it is necessary healthcare. you have seen it save so many people from such bad situations, yourself included. it is critical that any person has access to birth control, and you would never suggest that we just get rid of all of it.
you were a little skeeved out by the implant (heard too many bad stories about it) and figured - okay, iud. it was some of the worst pain you've ever fucking experienced, and you did it with a small number of tylenol in your system (3), like you were getting your bikini line waxed instead of something practically sewn into your body.
and what's wild is that because sometimes it isn't a painful insertion process, it is vanishingly rare to find a doctor that will actually numb the area. while your doctor was talking to you about which brand to choose, you were thinking about the other ways you've been injured in your life. you thought about how you had a suspicious mole frozen off - something so small and easy - and how they'd numbed a huge area. you thought about when you broke your wrist and didn't actually notice, because you'd thought it was a sprain.
your understanding of pain is that how the human body responds to injury doesn't always relate to the actual pain tolerance of the person - it's more about how lucky that person is physically. maybe they broke it in a perfect way. maybe they happened to get hurt in a place without a lot of nerve endings. some people can handle a broken femur but crumble under a sore tooth. there's no true way to predict how "much" something actually hurts.
in no other situation would it be appropriate for doctors to ignore pain. just because someone can break their wrist and not feel it doesn't mean no one should receive pain meds for a broken wrist. it just means that particular person was lucky about it. it should not define treatment.
in the comments of videos about IUDs, literally thousands of people report agony. blinding, nauseating, soul-crushing agony. they say things like i had 2 kids and this was the worst thing i ever experienced or i literally have a tattoo on my ribs and it felt like a tickle. this thing almost killed me or would rather run into traffic than ever feel that again.
so it's either true that every single person who reports severe pain is exaggerating. or it's true that it's far more likely you will experience pain, rather than "just a pinch." and yet - there's nothing fucking been done about it. it kind of feels like a shrug is layered on top of everything - since technically it's elective, isn't it kind of your fault for agreeing to select it? stop being fearmongering. stop being defensive.
you fucking needed yours. you are almost weirdly protective of it. yours was so important for your physical and mental health. it helped you off hormonal birth control and even started helping some of your symptoms. it still fucking hurt for no fucking reason.
once while recovering from surgery, they offered you like 15 days of vicodin. you only took 2 of them. you've been offered oxy for tonsillitis. you turned down opioids while recovering from your wisdom tooth extraction. everything else has the option. you fucking drove yourself home after it, shocked and quietly weeping, feeling like something very bad had just happened. the nurse that held your hand during the experience looked down at you, tears in her eyes, and said - i know. this is cruelty in action.
and it's fucked up because the conversation is never just "hey, so the way we are doing this is fucking barbaric and doctors should be required to offer serious pain meds" - it's usually something around the lines of "well, it didn't kill you, did it?"
you just found out that removing that little bitch will hurt just as bad. a little pinch like how oral contraceptives have "some" serious symptoms. like your life and pain are expendable or not really important. like maybe we are all hysterical about it?
hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus, which is great!
you stand here at a crossroads. like - this thing is so important. did they really have to make it so fucking dangerous. and why is it that if you make a complaint, you're told - i didn't even want you to have this in the first place. we're told be careful what you wish for. we're told that it's our fault for wanting something so illict; we could simply choose not to need medication. that maybe if we don't like the scraps, we should get ready to starve.
we have been saying for so long - "i'm not asking you to remove the option, i'm asking you to reconsider the risk." this entire time we hear: well, this is what you wanted, isn't it?
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