#painful.

[melodiclune]

No <3 And look! The gangs all here!!

Chen WHYYYY do you pick the WORST ones to show me. ON THE BIRTHDAY CAKE??? WHATTTT. AND ANGY TOBIO AND SMUG KUROO IN THE BACK--

Ugh. What a painful sight so early in the morning.

[greelin]

your sleep paralysis demon looks gnc af

[outlying-hyppocrate]

love living on the top floor of my apartment with no elevator.

[cosmoseinfeld]

do you ever think about how punk will forever have this mental illness hair on wwe promo graphics

[saltedsolenoid]

I understand shins fear of not wanting to get into a kotatsu because he's afraid he'll just never get out. I have a heated sheet on my bed and. OH SWEET MARY, it's so warm and like the only thing that relieves my silly surface level joint pain just..mmmmmmmmmmmm I will never get out of bed again

[spectrology]

guy at work who took over my project after i moved onto diff stuff has done 0 to improve or expand on my work in the past months despite all my continuance documentation and now he gets to run a demo of what is essentially Only my work and he is not explaining it well at all

[zillyeh]

wow i cant believe theyd play gore at the gym (woman on hgtv painting over the most beautiful built in wood piece ive ever seen in white)

[mauxanhduong]

can we talk about the mortifying ordeal of reading over something you wrote at 1am last night

[straightlightyagami]

would it be a bad idea to make a joke about pissing on thatcher’s grave or about “the witch is dead” to a british person who said they love the royal family… (yes i know the answer is yes)

[princesable]

getting a commission is great because you get money but its also awful because you have to finish an image

[warlordfelwinter]

"i've heard you talk about your people like they're wonderful"

"that's how i choose to remember them"

[nondivisable]

I need to say something and I need y'all to be calm

if it isn't actively bad or harmful, no representation should be called "too simple" or "too surface level"

I have a whole argument for this about the barbie movie but today I wanna talk about a show called "the babysitters club" on Netflix

(obligatory disclaimer that I watched only two episodes of this show so if it's super problematic I'm sorry) (yes. I know it's based on a book, this is about the show)

this is a silly 8+ show that my 9 year old sister is watching and it manages to tackle so many complex topics in such an easy way. basic premise is these 13 year old girls have a babysitting agency.

in one episode, a girl babysits this transfem kid. the approach is super simple, with the kid saying stuff like "oh no, those are my old boy clothes, these are my girl clothes". they have to go to the doctor and everyone is calling the kid by her dead name and using he/him and this 13 year old snaps at like a group of doctors and they all listen to her. it's pure fantasy and any person versed in trans theory would point out a bunch of mistakes.

but after watching this episode, my little sister started switching to my name instead of my dead name and intercalating he/him pronouns when talking about me.

one of the 13 years old is a diabetic and sometimes her whole personality is taken over by that. but she has this episode where she pushes herself to her limit and passes out and talks about being in a coma for a while because of not recognizing the limits of her disability.

and this allowed my 9 year old sister to understand me better when I say "I really want to play with you but right now my body physically can't do that" (I'm disabled). she has even asked me why I'm pushing myself, why I'm not using my crutches when I complain about pain.

my mom is 50 years old and watching this show with my sister. she said the episode about the diabetic girl helped her understand me and my disability better. she grew up disabled as well, but she was taught to shut up and power through.

yes, silly simple representation can annoy you if you've read thousands of pages about queer liberation or disability radical thought, but sometimes things are not for you.

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[wishful-seeker]

I would like to see more people talk about how jobs treat disabled employees.

I used to prep, wash dishes, and cook at mellow mushroom. I had chronic pain that wasn't NEARLY as bad as it is today, but it was still very debilitating. I told my employer "i cannot stand more than 4 to 6 hours. I CANNOT do shifts longer than this due to my illness." And even though i made my boundaries VERY clear, everyday i worked it was 8 hours at the least and 10 or 12 at the most. I would go up to my manager and say "look i really need to leave, my shift is over, my chronic pain is killing me." And he'd say "we really need to here, you HAVE to push through." And so i did, and after one, ONE month of that job my crps got incredibly worse to the point where i could no longer walk my dog around the block which was .5 miles. I quit, and that was FOUR years ago, and ever since that day I HAVE BEEN BEDRIDDEN AND HAVE TO USE A WHEELCHAIR. It is my biggest regret in life.

My best friend who has seen my whole journey has recently developed undiagnosed chronic pain, and she is in the EXACT same scenario i was 4 years ago. Busting her ass at a pizza place with extreme pain that hurts her so much she tells me "im in so much pain i don't even feel like a person." She doesn't feel LUCID. And her manager and coworkers are saying the same thing "if you don't help us you will let us down, we'll be in the shit."

That job thats hurting you isn't fucking worth it. I promise you no money is worth losing all your physical abilities and never getting them back. Your coworkers and boss do not give a shit about you, so don't you dare suffer for them. They will never understand your struggle and they will never try. They truly think being understaffed is worse than whatever pain you experience. They would rather you permanently damage yourself than inconvenience them. FUCK THEM. DON'T FUCKING DO IT!

[just-spacetrash]

the 'what if you played it a little risky' post literally Changed my life but i cant fujkign find it in my blog because its. a tiktok screenshot

[fibro-memes]