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transmangains · 1 year
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I swear every time I pass in public it surprises me and I have to hold back my excitement so I don’t look like a weirdo lmao. I was just in the drive thru and they called me sir twice. I used to get a lot of “sir… oh I’m sorry ma’am” but haven’t gotten called ma’am in a minute (except by my coworkers)
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donnieisaprettyboy · 3 months
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can we stop pretending like it’s so super easy for trans men to pass. “oh just put on a baggy shirt and cut your hair-“ it literally doesn’t work like that and I refuse to believe you actually think it’s that easy
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xochimillilili · 2 months
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Need more of you kinky fucks to talk about how fucking good it is to be mutually subby with someone. The desperate whiny humping, the drooling and moaning into each other's mouths as we dumbly make out, the biting and scratching and needy groping, and making a pretty mess of cum on each other
Really just euphoric to cuddle and hump away, two dumb horny pets moaning and whining please at each other, both being such good fucking pets as we cum at the same time, whining and whispering I love you and falling asleep in each other's arms, all spent and fucked out in each other's cum
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that-bisexual · 2 months
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so I have a collection of tips as an afab genderfluid person. These tips will work for not only genderfluid people but afab transmascs and transnuetrals. Im closeted so there will be many closeted tips
If you cant get a binder you can bind by taking the pads out of two sports bras. Put one sports bra on normally and the other one on backwards. If you don’t take the pads out it won’t work! Even though this isn’t a real binder make sure to take breaks every 8 hours.
Button up shirts will help with passing as a guy. Especially if you unbutton it a little. (they also just make you look queer)
sitting with legs crossed and knees together look work feminine while taking up space and keeping your legs wide will look masculine
if you want to look androgynous adding feminine and masculine elements to your outfits will help
BAGGY SHIRTS
Getting platform shoes or boots will help with height dysphoria
i like to put the top layers of my hair in a messy bun when trying to be masc. make sure the bun isn’t at the top of your head but at the middle
if trying to pass as a guy don't dwell too much on your appearance in public. (like don't fix your hair as much, try and make shirts lay perfect, etc.) trust me it helps
cut your nails shorter
If you workout look up a workout for trans or nonbinary people. It will really help
If you are out of the closet and someone misgenders you don’t get all defensive. If you’re trying to pass as cis then play it cool and make a joke about it. If you are nonbinary or genderqueer in some way confidently state your gender. Confidence will help
experiment with your gender representation and see what works for you
dont be afraid to be proud of who you are like I said confidence is key! Hope this helps!! <3
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uncanny-tranny · 7 months
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I think respecting trans people comes with a territory of like... just because many people will pass as cis doesn't mean that it's a great idea to use their passing as a way of legitimizing how absurd transphobia is
Transphobia isn't absurd because I "look like a [cis] man," it's because transphobia is fucking ridiculous. It would be ridiculous whether or not I passed or whether I look like a "conventional man." I use myself as an example, but ultimately, passing or appearing normative should never play into whether or not transphobia is bad.
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martymctboy · 4 months
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jude-us · 11 months
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In the spirit talking about struggles of POC trans issues that are ignored the in the greater trans community we really need to have a discussion about how dangerous passing as a man can be for some trans men.
I’m mixed but I have darker skin and in an Afro. I’m often read as a light skinned black person especially by law enforcement. When I first came out as possibly trans to my dad one of his first worries was the way I would be treated if I passed.
The idea that passing as a man is nothing but safe for trans mascs isn’t true and is an incredibly white centered view of gender and privilege.
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thank you to the guy who very helpfully pointed out that me hugging my boyfriend was “so gay” without your astute observation i fear that i, a homosexual, would never have come to that conclusion
you have left my identity and faith in humanity in shambles but thank you for the gender euphoria
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My passing advice/tips, now that I've been out as trans for nearly 4 years:
Signal that you plan on passing.
Look over your shoulder to check your blind spots.
Never drive off the paved or main-traveled part of the road to pass.
Never pass on the left if the driver ahead is signaling a left turn.
When turning left, do not assume that an oncoming vehicle with its right turn signal on is turning before it reaches you.
Hope these tips could be helpful! I've learned a lot in the past few years and wanted to share :)
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andiv3r · 7 months
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Not to be that guy, but... hey he/they trans guys, I just wanna ask. Do you use "they" because it feels right... because it clicks as part of your identity... or because it doesn't hurt as much as she/her, so it must be okay.
And don't just evaluate this for they/them. Evaluate it for he/him as well. "I'm a guy so I have to use he/him" no the fuck you do not. Plenty of guys use they/them. Plenty of guys use she/her. Plenty use it/its/ve/vir/ce/cir and are still men. If he/him doesn't fit, you don't fucking have to use he/him and it doesn't make you any less of a man. You know that... right?
Also before this post starts an argument I am not pissing on he/they pronoun users I am simply reminding all you transmascs that there is no obligation binding you to those specific pronouns... a post I needed to see myself.
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chroniccoolness · 1 month
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I have a poll I want to do to lead into a discussion of how passing is viewed in a lot of circumstances but first gotta get my data to confirm my theories yknow
added the clarification in the title cause like, if you're comfortable as a nonpassing trans person and choose to present in a way that makes you happy and also Does Not "Pass" as Cis, that still counts as "not passing" in this poll.
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uncanny-tranny · 1 year
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Quick tip: If a trans passing guide is focused on thinness, whiteness, or getting rid of anything about yourself that is "too clockable" (regardless of if that thing about yourself makes you happy), maybe it isn't worth fretting about, since it is clearly coming from a homogenized idea of what passing looks like
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cottonballpuppy · 7 months
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I wanna hang out with my dom and his friends and get passed around like a piece of meat, just a hole for them to use and take turns with, maybe choking on one of their cocks while the other gets to breed my boycunt :3
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the-gladiolus · 1 year
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Tips For Passing as Male I Accidentally Stumbled Upon While Minding My Own Genderfluid Business:
(Btw everyone deserves to be gendered correctly no matter how they act, these are just some tips that you may try if you would like.)
1. Keep your posture open. Feet shoulder width apart and pointing out, shoulders back, chest forward, energy all directed outward. Even though you may think openness makes your chest or stature more obvious, the energy/confidence is what people notice first, not the content.
2. That said, you don’t have to hold yourself like a peacock the whole time. I’ve learned that people go off the assumption they make when first meeting you, and then don’t really look again - so if the first thing they see is a cis guy, you can relax after that, they rarely double check.
3. When it seems appropriate, offer a handshake when meeting people, especially other guys, and hold a little tighter than is strictly natural. I know it sounds stupid, but it goes far; I’ve been offered more handshakes by guys these past 2 years of somewhat masc presentation than I have all 16 previous years combined. Guys just be shakin hands w/ each other
4. Again, when it makes sense, consider “dapping up” a guy if you know each other, traditionally when you part ways. To do this, proffer your dominant hand in a loose C shape like you’re holding an invisible cup, and when they clasp theirs with yours, lift the hands a few inches in the air and then lower them and release on the way down (sometimes accompanied by opposite hand on the tricep/shoulder, I.e. bro hug. Istg the things men do 💀)
5. If you have the space and it won’t annoy anyone, manspread a bit when you sit
6. Keep your head lifted when you’re out in public - makes your jaw look broader and suggests confidence, I.e. keeping posture open
7. If you want your voice to sound lower, try humming a low note while you’re alone to see how that feels in your throat and know where that timbre comes from in your chest. It’s easier to regulate your voice on command when you experiment, find the strings to pull in yourself to bring out the low sound.
8. Consider peppering in an “as much as the next guy” in conversation. Subtle phrase, but stakes your claim clearly
9. Exude some extra anti-shyness around guys. Make a point to nod to them in greeting and make eye contact like it’s the most natural thing in the world. Little gestures of brazenness go a long way to say “we’re the same”
10. When speaking to a group of guys, try matching their vocal patterns and tone: if they say “like” and “dude” a lot for example, pepper those in too. This works in all situations actually, it will make you seem agreeable and similar to anyone, but it especially works well when you’re trying to blend in with a crowd
11. Clothes with flannel and wool are really good for disguising characteristics you might want to hide
12. Try darkening these areas (outlined in blue) of your face with eyeshadow a bit darker than your skin tone. Eyeshadow blends with skin texture better than things like foundation and it’s hard to smudge, so it’s usually unnoticeable while it adds depth and sharpness to these areas.
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mindbrokengirl · 18 days
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that cis bi dude does actually see you as a man, but he knows how to fuck you because of the women he's fucked before. you really think he's using his blowjob skills when he's sucking on your tdick? he learned how to eat pussy from his ex-girlfriend. that's why you're cumming so much with him.
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I was eating pizza with a bunch of my brother’s friends (who are 7) because pizza, and one of them blurts out “Your haircut makes you look like a boy.” AND THE EUPHORIA HITS ME. The other chimes in (there are like 5 of them, but I’m sitting with two) “And your voice sounds like a boy as well!” AND NOW I AM ACTIVELY ABOUT TO ESPLODE ALL OVER THE DOMINOS. And then the two start talking to each other about me in the strange little way that only 7 year old children can and one of them referred to me as “he”.
THIS IS WHY CHILDREN ARE THE MOST GENDER AFFIRMING BEINGS THEY ARE YET TO DEVELOP FULLY GENDERED VIEWS AND A SOCIALLY APPROPRIATE FILTER.
AHHDISSJJAISIDJSHVSGSYSHUSUSH VAHSHIS
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