#poly problems

[polyamorousmood]

The 3am search history of a polyam in denial

How to tell romantic from platonic love

Romantic vs platonic love differences between

Am I in love with my friend

Can you be in love with two people at once

Advice in love with friend

Advice in love with friend reddit

Advice in love with friend reddit already have a girlfriend

In love with two people how to choose

in love with two people what is wrong with me

how to stop falling in love

how to be content in a relationship

How to delete search history

[thepuppypaddedprincess]

Fuck. I might have to engage with dating apps. Im dangerously pathetic. I don't even know how to start.

[bunny--manders]

I don't like the way most men desire me but I like the directness with which they express their desires. I like the way most women desire me but I don't like the way I can't tell flirtatiousness apart from friendship so much of the time. And as for nonbinary people I simply don't have time for that many D&D games.

[johnny-neurontin]

I literally can not find any way to meet other poly ppl near me. It's crazy that there isn't an app or site or anything. It'd be cool to meet other ppl/couples/polycules to chill and have double dates with n shit. It's hard as fuck to relate to married mono ppl sometimes and I'm getting old. Everyone is mono, married, cis, and straight (it seems at least).

[polyglittery]

"Polyamorous people are ugly" the worst monogamous person you know posts.

"It's just... I don't find them attractive! And they're dating people?! The world has to know. Has to know that people I don't want to fuck exist and are dating each other and are happy. They're probably not happy though because polyamory is bad. It is very normal for me to be thinking this and posting this. Beauty is not a construct or subjective what are you talking about-"

[raspberryconverse]

So I'm at the grocery store with Beau #1 and I realize we're both wearing our wedding rings, so it looks like we're married to each other, but we're not 🤣

[william-solace-aaaaa]

@nico-di-angelo-aaaaa plz ignore this post, ily.

Help. How do I ask my bf if I'm allowed to date someone (I'm poly) without knowing if the person I like likes me back (I'm not confessing first) without making it awkward bc then I'm just waiting to see if my crush will ever ask me out (they probably wont.)

[430witxhery420]

lol guys hey guys,

How tf do I fix a mistake in a relationship? My mom’s dead my dads crazy and I have no one to ask. Poly relationship, I really fucked up with communicating with my metamour and while my gf should’ve been honest abt their boundaries I just… ughhhh I’m so new to all this and it’s my first adult relationship. I feel all fucked up about it.. how fix?

[poly-problems]

Poly Problem: You can never grok your lover's unique pillow scent because all their other partners share the same bed.

"Sorry, we've only got the house blend."

[frozenflameprince]

We've been together for 2 1/2 years, and you STILL ignore my boundaries about not touching me while I'm asleep. FUCKING STOP!!!!

[xgoblin-clownx]

Just feeling like I'm a sad bitch most the time lately, a deep pain sits at the bottom of my ribcage, a sickening ache of emotions.

[polyamorousmood]

accidentally stepped outside my curated tumblr bubble and was reminded some people fr think they're hot shit for ragging on us for loving too much. Bro get a HOBBY lmao you ain't a part of this conversation

[vanlegion]

Middle Spoon Problems, am I right?!

Heh, one of the YouTubers I follow (PolyamFam) sells a new shirt with this design over at his shop. First time I saw it, I began to cackle as I just pictured Matthew wearing this because Jay thought it was hilarious, and true! XD

Season 7 gave me so much joy.

Link to PolyamFam: https://polyamfam.com/

[paladinofmidnight]

Lawmakers in the US: we've banned polygam marriages because we worry about the underage girls getting married to old men!

Me, who just wants to marry my lovely bf and gf one day: idk man, I think getting rid of the laws that 38 states have allowing underage marriage would probably do a much better job at that.

[catharticcrying]

i gave my boyfriend a heart of hickeys. he already had a hickey from me on his chest and i connected it to more to make a ♡. i thought it was pretty i thought he would love it. it made him feel vulnerable and i comforted him immediately!

he went out with his boyfriend after but they barely ever fuck, so i didnt think he would see them. they ended up fucking and his bf saw them and complimented them and said he didnt know hickeys could be done like that, then he gave him hickeys on his back in a line. and on his shoulders.

it feels like he was copying me.

my bf and i have strict overlap rules, i like to feel special and i dont want to be talked abt the same way as other people. and seeing as his love for me and his bf are different, he should be able to articulate it that way. the same goes for me but im currently dating, but i dont have other relationships atm...

i have shown discomfort before when my bf's bf said "we love you" to my bf bc like...i love him, and he loves him. it is separate and different. not a group project. i have also loved him for years and theyve only been together less than a year...it feels like he doesnt know what hes talking abt bc he barely is familiar with our dynamic so it makes me uncomfortable...it just doesnt need to be said that way and he doesnt have to speak for me.

i saw the hickeys and said wow he destroyed u a little bit..

and my bf said "i looked at my body and thought y'all destroyed me"

and that is the part that just bothers me so much. the overlap is uncomfortable. he said he wouldnt let me feel like the relationships bleed into eachother but like...then why is your bf giving you hickeys just bc i gave you them?? and ur seeing it as "we" destroyed you??? how is that not overlap???? especially when it coincides with a streak of 3 days of us being super drawn to eachother and horny for eachother...

it makes no sense i feel gross and this is why i hate the word metamour bc i do not have a relationship with that guy or a pseudo-relationship thru having relationships w the same person...and our relationships w my bf are different! they dont need to be the same! so why does it feel like he wants to take my place or a place adjacent to me? i just dont like it. my bf and i have worked rlly hard to build what we have, and for so long! this guy just showed up in his life and it feels like he wants to be as big as me, but he needs to know he will never be like me to my bf. he will never be able to love him how i do, not because im better, but because it is ours and he is not a part of it. he could have waited to give him hickeys another time...

my bf says it sounds like this is a convo i have to have w his bf but like ??? why would i talk to YOUR bf about Y'ALL'S sex?

idk what to do here and i upset my bf by being upset...but i feel like he broke a barrier that used to exist between the two relationships and idk how to rebuild it bc ill always remember he said this...

[tempesttost]

why are almost all the fattest, hottest, coolest girls monogamous 😭