#selfconcept

[glowettee]

✦ the enigmatic pretty girl vaunt ✦

𝒽𝑜𝓌 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒 𝓊𝓃𝒻𝑜𝓇𝑔𝑒𝓉𝓉𝒶𝒷𝓁𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝓈𝒶𝓎𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒶 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝒹

୨୧ i am the girl who leaves people wondering. i don’t need to reveal everything. my silence is powerful. ୨୧ my beauty is like a secret. soft, understated, yet impossible to forget. ୨୧ i let them guess. not everyone deserves to know my thoughts, my plans, my life. ୨୧ when i speak, my words are deliberate, calm, and captivating. i am not rushed. ୨୧ i embrace mystery. I am unpredictable, multifaceted, never easy to define. ୨୧ i take my time to respond, to react, to decide. i am never rushed by others’ expectations. ୨୧ my presence feels like velvet. soft but captivating, lingering even after i’m gone. ୨୧ people feel my energy before they see me. calm, composed, magnetic.

☁️ 𝔢𝔫𝔦𝔤𝔪𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔤𝔦𝔯𝔩 𝔱𝔦𝔭𝔰:

✧ speak less, listen more. people reveal more when you’re quietly observant. ✧ keep your opinions to yourself sometimes, let them wonder what you’re thinking. ✧give subtle compliments, make them feel special without overdoing it. ✧ never over-explain yourself. mysterious girls don’t justify, they simply are. ✧ learn to give soft smiles and keep your gaze steady, like you know something they don’t. ✧ leave a signature scent. a subtle perfume that’s elegant and slightly sweet.

♡ 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡𝔶’𝔰 𝔭𝔢𝔯𝔰𝔬𝔫𝔞𝔩 𝔱𝔦𝔭𝔰:

keep a little notebook of your thoughts. never share everything with everyone.

practice quiet confidence. when you walk into a room, breathe in deeply, and take in the space like it’s yours.

always leave them wanting more. even if it’s in conversation, online, or just with your presence.

have one song that makes you feel beautiful, play it while getting ready.

they’ll remember you, not because you were the loudest, but because you left them wanting more.

[insolentgod]

⚠️Attention:⚠️ very long post. It talks a little about: state of lack, take your desire off the pedestal, time it takes for a manifestation, get distracted about your manifestation , self-concept, and Cassies

one more night high and having crazy epiphanies about manifestations. and another day using a translator to translate my text to post here, because I haven't claimed to be fluent in English yet 😛 So, as I always warn, if there are possible grammatical errors, it's for this reason.

I'm here to bring you an analogy I created while discussing with a friend haha. (Yes, this time there's nothing about lana del rey!)

you know those people who humiliate themselves for others? Who do everything for someone specific to love them, try to talk to them even if it's unhealthy, or beg them to stay in their lives. (yes, it's quite depressing and sad)

i haven't been like that much in life, usually when someone didn't care about me, i cared even less about them. but I won't lie, there have been situations where I may have humiliated myself a little, but it's human.

anyway, going straight to my analogy, let's imagine that you struggling to manifest something is a friend "Cassie," and the manifestation will be her ex-boyfriend, okay? (i swear it will make sense in the end)

what I write outside the parentheses is Cassie's situation, and what's inside the parentheses is possibly the situation you're going through on your manifestation journey.

okay, you have this friend Cassie who keeps saying that her ex-boyfriend doesn't care about her, doesn't respond to messages, and shows no signs, and she's going crazy and desperate about it (just like you when you see no progress in your manifestation). so she does EVERYTHING to get him back (just like you when you try multiple methods non-stop and feel needy). and as Cassie's friend, you think, "poor cassie, she doesn't deserve to suffer like this" (and she really doesn't deserve it, just as you don't deserve to suffer for your manifestations). there are also moments when she sends a message for you saying, "I'll forget him this time, I promise." but after two days, she's there messaging him again (just like you affirm on the first day all motivated and trying to convince yourself that this time your manifestation will come true, but after a few days, you see no progress and start panicking), and then she gets very sad because she thinks they will never get back together and she will never be happy with him again (just like you think you can't manifest anything, that the universe hates you, that you will never get what you want, that the loa doesn't work). But meanwhile, there are other people out there getting back with their exes and you admire them, wondering what it would be like if it were you... (just like when you look at other people's success stories and think "why can't I do it?") spoiler: You can do it too, honey. If everyone else can do it, so can you. Wake up.

If I were Cassie's friend, I would tell her to STOP acting like that and start valuing herself and just distract herself. because let's be honest, men ALWAYS come back, right? 🤣 and many people may disagree with me on this and think that if she doesn't chase after the guy, he won't come either. but that's how it works for me, even before I started using the law. every time I started valuing myself and stopped begging for others' love, the person came to me. so let's agree with my thinking on this, okay?

and one more point that I think is worth mentioning is that if Cassie really doesn't want to do this alone, maybe a manifestation coach would be a good idea (if it were a real situation, I would suggest her to seek a therapist). There are nuances about "manifestation coaches," I honestly don't use them and I recommend working on your self-concept. but it's an option if you want, but please do thorough research and find a trustworthy one.

returning, what can you do to not be another Cassie? I'm telling you to stop doing whatever you're doing to try to achieve your desire? no. just get out of the state of neediness and desperation, like a Cassie. you don't need that, my love. you don't need to worry, "Is my manifestation coming?" You don't need to use a thousand methods because you don't think it's enough. whatever you believe will bring your desires, will indeed bring your desire. If you believe that jumping three times, building a castle, and kicking an elderly person will give you what you want, guess what? If you do all that, then you will get what you desire. and if you believe that affirming once in your life will get you a beachfront mansion, guess what? you will achieve that.

so, to not be a Cassie:

1 - trust what you're saying, please trust yourself. nnow that ONLY WHAT YOU THINK is the truth, and it will be. (my last long post talks about this exactly, I highly recommend it, okay).

2 - take your desire off the pedestal. your desire may be your biggest dream in life, I don't care. take it off the pedestal. the powerful person who can have anything they want is YOU, not your desire. tou are a thousand times greater than your desire. you don't chase after your desire, your desire chases after you. you know when manifestation coaches tell you to start manifesting just a blue butterfly or a candy? well, it's because for you, that's not difficult. It's something you find easy to manifest and know it's totally possible to have. but you can literally manifest a Porsche at the same speed as manifesting an ice cream, okay? take your desire off the pedestal; you are fully capable of having it.

3 - get out of the state of lack. In the law of assumption, some people talk a lot about states and some manifest just by being in the state of the wish fulfilled and ready, they succeed. but the state of lack is literally when you feel the lack, the absence of your desire. you don't feel like you have it or you don't feel worthy of it, so you probably fall into a spiral of despair with millions of thoughts like "what will I do if I don't achieve it?" "I don't see any progress" "time is passing and I don't have my results". Anyway,

- But what do I do to heal my state of lack?

just don't be in it 💐💐💐 yes, it's easy, okay. please believe that it's easy and it will be. I know it's very easy to affirm when you're motivated, especially after reading a success story. but motivation doesn't last forever and I don't think it's healthy for you to keep restoring your motivation by reading success stories all the time. there's nothing wrong with it, but you don't need success stories to heal. every time you feel like you're entering the state of lack, start trusting yourself. when it happens to me, I start affirming "none of this, I have my desires" "I don't care about what my 3D shows me" "I have what I want", I also imagine myself with my desire as if I really have it now. I'll admit, there are times when I start affirming this to avoid entering the state of lack and at first it feels like I'm feeling wrong, the feeling of hopelessness even. but regardless of how I feel, I keep visualizing and eventually start feeling strong and motivated again. in those moments, you have to be strong and disciplined with yourself, okay? you can do it.

4 - try not to care about time or the 3D reality. i know it's difficult, but please live in your imagination and believe that if you have it in your imagination, you have it now. about time, it depends, okay? Some people manifest in seconds because they believe they can, while others manifest in weeks because they think it takes weeks. if you're the second type of person, you can definitely manifest in seconds if you allow yourself to do so. self-concept affirmations help a lot in this aspect. Just don't worry about time in the 3D reality. If you know that in your mind you have your desire NOW, then you have it now. once you're fully living in your imagination, it will come in the 3D reality. I know it's difficult, but just trust yourself and your mind. I promise that if you live 100% in your mind, your desire can come very quickly.

5 - distract yourself! don't spend the whole day thinking about your desire. usually, the desire comes when you accept that you have it and continue living your life. I know it's complicated, especially when it's something you want, but distract yourself to avoid excessive and negative thoughts about your manifestations. and please get off tumblr for a while

6 - improve your self-concept, please. Just do that, and your manifestation journey will be much easier.

I think that's it for today. I talked a lot as always 😛😛

I usually don't respond to people asking for help here on my blog (mainly because I don't receive any requests) but if you're having problems, you can send me a message, and I'll respond ❤‍🩹 I just want to help someone like loa bloggers helped me when I needed it. good night everyone, and stay hydrated.

[estellaa9966]

You are going to enter in the void tonight 🤭🤭

[mstudi0s]

🪴 - 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲. 𝗦𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗗𝗼𝘄𝗻 & 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘅 : 𝐦𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐣𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐠𝐞 : 𝐚 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝 👇🏻🌿

It can feel so overwhelming trying to figure things out when young and fresh adults. People 10+ years older than you who've had more time and experience to figure it out and settle into the world are trying to tell young kids freshly 18 to be where they are. 🪴

As if they themselves did not spend 18 + 10+ to finally figure it out somewhat There shouldn't be this high pressure on young adults to see who can settle into the adult world, the youngest and most efficient. Allow young adults to take their time and figure it out. 🪴

Show them grace and patience instead of arrogance and ignorance There is no race to see who can become a real adult as soon as they turn 18. It's a marathon, not a sprint. 🪴

To the young adults reading this. You are allowed to make mistakes and take your time figuring it out. You under no one's clock or scoreboard. It's safe for you to navigate the adult world until you find what best suits and works for you. 🪴

People older than you are supposed to guide, not dictate you, and try to mold you into what they want you to be. You keep doing you. Allow your intuition instead to guide your way cause it will never steer you wrong 🪴

[selfloveandconcept]

[ladycatastrophe7]

How I stopped people pleasing (and how you can, too)

[lovebvni]

hey🥺 my name is Ele, I'm 17 and go by she/her.

lately I've been trying to manifest beauty and more better self concept so I can manifest anything. Can you please help with your intuition and tell me how its going? 💞

hiii ele! i think you’re manifesting some great things!!! :D

also u can manifest anything even w/o a good self concept. like mine is crap i’m not gonna lie 💀💀

i heard 0?? i’m not getting much advice so we’re gonna start with shufflemancy.

well i tried to but the song skipped like 3 times.

wym freestyle by doja cat came on

all eyes on me by oreo

bad guy by billie eilish

i think this may be because your energy is scattered and you’re trying to do too much. all these songs have different meanings, and i wish i could decipher more.

i’ll try one more song

oh! well this isn’t helpful either ?? 💀💀💀

maybe you need to love yourself more and find yourself. what do you like doing? meditate on it, and find yourself.

what defines you? your voice? your vision? or do you let someone else put you in a box and mold yourself to their vision?

be yourself, authentically, and don’t let anyone else change that. before you can change your body, you need to change your mind.

love u ele!! i hope this helps, and leave a review!!

also i heard n(something) method and research??

[aena-blue]

Manifestation - Check Your Beliefs - When Putting Yourself On The Pedestal Backfires!?

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today we will be talking about what I believe is to be a very important topic, and that is: to check your beliefs! You have to remember that everyone is you pushed out (EIYPO), and that everyone will reflect your beliefs. What’s great about this is that you can recognise the beliefs you have by how other people is showing up and treating you.

The reason I wanted to make this post is because I recently ran across an ‘issue’ where after I changed my self-concept (my beliefs about myself) it ended up having an unintended ‘negative’ effect on my Specific Person (SP) and I thought writing this post might help give a different perspective on this topic.

So like many of you I am currently manifesting an SP. Listening to a lot of different coaches on YouTube and reading content online, I adopted the idea of taking my SP of the so called ‘pedestal’ and placing myself on top of there. Now I am not saying this is a bad thing in itself, but it did cause something to happen that I did not account for.

So like many of you, my SP has shown up in my 3D experience in a, lets just say, less desirable way. So when I did my self-concept work, and I started seeing myself as this amazing beautiful person, worthy and deserving of all that I desire, I put myself higher and higher on that pedestal, but consequentially, I put my SP far far down below me.

Based on my previous experience with my SP, I started seeing him as someone who wasn’t worthy and deserving of me, how could he be, he had treated me badly and I was now seeing myself as this amazing person worthy of all the best. Problem is of course, that this assumption was based on how he was showing up in the past, not how I wanted him to show up now.

Have you been in this situation? Are you currently in it? By holding these thoughts, I was also holding my SP in the old version of himself. But also, he now started to reflect these beliefs to me.

In a drunken moment of honesty, my SP told me he didn’t deserve me, that I was too good for him, and he admitted to treating me poorly in the past. (And this happened a second time just a few weeks ago). On one hand, I was happy that he was recognising me as the person I believed myself to be now, but on the other, I was saddened by his confession. Of course I realise that I created that, through my own assumptions. 

It made me realise that I had not gone about changing the story in the right way, sure, I had changed my part positively, but unfortunately, I changed his part in a very negative way. He now told me I should leave him, stop wasting my time on him. He told me he would never be able to let me go, so he wanted me to walk away, to do what he could not do. It was heartbreaking.

I spent some time thinking, and meditating on what had transpired after it happened for a second time. This was after he came back after dumping me for someone else about a month ago (you can read all about that in my latest post!).

I will admit, there was a part of me that wanted him to worship me, to see me as someone above him, does that sound horrible? But I realise, I had only created another issue, and that I was keeping my SP in a story where he felt inadequate, and scared.

My original intent was of course for SP to change, to grow, to evolve, to become the version of him that is worthy of the new version of me. But in order to do that, I need to see him as that version now. For it is already done. I can no longer acknowledge the old story, the unworthy version of him based on his previous actions, (because those were of course also my creation).

I still listen to my affirmations I have created that incorporate my self-concept and the relationship I desire to experience, but I have added one new thing and that is “SP is worthy and deserving of my love”, and when I say it in my mind, I feel it, and I send him so much love.

I’ll admit, I was scared to change him to a better version of himself, because I was scared that the better version of him, would easily be able to find someone else whereas the ‘current’ (old) version of him has been struggling romantically for many years. But that is my fear and my insecurities talking. So I’m working on that. So I guess my point is, check your beliefs, check your fears, identify where the root cause, blockages and resistance lie, and then work on it.

I use a mix of affirmations, meditation and mindfulness practices to shift states, transform beliefs, and find peace and acceptance within myself. And I will accept that the best version of my SP still only loves, adores and only has eyes for me. 

I hope this post was helpful to you in some way and I wish you all the best on your manifestation journey!

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Much love and light to you all and to the universe 💛💜

~ Lady Blue 💙

[jiniisstuff]

Look at the stars

Look how they shine for you

And all the things that you do

-Yellow, Coldplay

[manifestisnow]

Don't create problems create solutions.

[glowettee]

✦ the pretty girl vaunt ✦

୨୧ i am the girl. i walk with poise, dripping in elegance and effortless beauty. my aura is radiant, intoxicating, and unforgettable. ୨୧ everyone wants to be me, and everyone wants to know me. my presence is an enigma. mysterious, captivating, and impossible to ignore. ୨୧ my words are like velvet, soft but powerful, always leaving a mark. people listen when i speak because i carry a natural authority wrapped in allure. ୨୧ i am unforgettable. my essence lingers, like a subtle but intoxicating perfume. my energy is unmatched, and my confidence is undeniable. ୨୧ compliments and admiration come naturally to me. i am constantly admired, adored, and respected. people can’t help but notice my glow. ୨୧ i live my life as if i’m the main character. always in the spotlight, always thriving. every day is a scene from the most iconic movie.

[insolentgod]

If you need motivation on your loa journey or are experiencing difficulties, this post is for you. warning: i still don't speak english fluently, so if I have grammatical errors it's for that reason.

hi guys, maybe I'm high! i was watching the trend on TikTok of Lana Del Rey's song "Margaret" (yes, maybe I cried watching some videos, but that's not the point!!!) and the song has nothing to do with manifestation lol. 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼

listening to a viral part of the song made me really want to come here and maybe motivate someone who needs it, so if this reached you, it's because you need it.

the part goes like this: "Because when you know, you know. When you're old, you're old."

and all I can think of is the law of assumption when I hear that. because WHEN YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW! your 3D only reflects when you KNOW THAT YOU HAVE IT. when I say I'm pretty, I'm pretty. when I say I'm rich, I'm rich. THE END, just THE END. there's no "but..." "I don't see..." "it doesn't seem like it's going to happen" baby, that really doesn't matter. just KNOW, know that you have it!!!! and WHEN YOU KNOW, you know. and when you know, you have it. it's simple, stop complicating things, it has to happen. and guess what? it will become reality because YOU SAID IT WILL, because you said it's THE TRUTH.

just leave the 3D alone, my life LITERALLY turned around when I left that damn 3D alone and believed in what >I< was saying. and I'm still a bit skeptical about some topics but I chose to give myself this opportunity to trust myself for the first time with my manifestations and take advantage of this chance to have my dream life, and I will never regret it. because when I TRUSTED MYSELF and said "I have this shit and I don't care if the world is falling apart around me, I still have it." that's when I finally had my desires.

gurl, I just want you to please, if you're struggling. leave the 3D alone! "but I'm manifesting my SP and he just married someone else" leave the 3D alone. "but I'm manifesting my dream body and the mirror is showing the opposite" leave the 3D alone. "but I'm manifesting making 10k a month and they want to evict me from my apartment because I'm behind on rent" leave the 3D alone (obviously do what you can to not be evicted from your home, don't be so crazy lmao). just focus on your affirmations, live in the state, visualize, WHATEVER FUCK IT. just trust yourself and work on your self-concept (because when you have a healthy self-concept, love, you have the world at your feet).

another part that I think is worth mentioning here is this: "So if you don't know, don't give up. 'Cause you never know what the new day might bring."

It's okay if you don't "know" and don't believe in yourself yet, you can definitely change that. just don't give up, if you know about the law of assumption it's for a reason. I believe in you and you should too, manifesting is so simple but so many people spend YEARS complicating it (I will never judge you for this, I have definitely been there several times) . if so many people have achieved their dream lives, give me a good reason why you can't achieve it too? the universe shouldn't hate you like that. just give yourself a vote of confidence and live in your damn imagination, i swear, I swear that if you live 100% in your little imagination, the 3D HAS NO OTHER OPTION but to reflect it. bro... this got longer than it was supposed to be. i'm sleepy and high, so that makes me talkative (unbelievable). but I really want this TESTAMENT to help someone, if it motivates one person, I'm already very happy. i'm thinking of making more posts, I don't know, I'm just sleepy. sleep well my loves and don't make me have written this for nothing.

[estellaa9966]

Hello guys!!!

So update

Broo!! She was not wrong when she say it will helps us find your issue today I listen to tape the same way she recommend.

And my results which I don't know count as result or not but now I realise my issues which is I see manifestation as something magical which is just out of the world. And tbh by reading success stories I somewhere started to became jealous of these people and even start hating myself.

.But the main thing is today also felt sudden shift in my mindset. I feel like I am truly in control Idk how to describe it but it feels like today is the new day feels like I already have everything I wanted I don't even feel obsessed with the results and don't even have urge to open Tumblr or any manifestation related apps.

2. I am so excited about this one😁

So I have a imaginery boyfriend in my mind from around 2 3 years I always think about him and makes scenerios with him.in my mind🤭( I m just a girl🥹🎀)but I never dreamt of him but today for the I have a Romantic dream about me and him and It feel so good babe 😭😭

Here are my today's update and I feel so happy how life seems so beautiful.

Thankyou @adambja 🩵

[mstudi0s]

how to put yourself on the pedestal instead of others?

🤍 Answer :

---- This is a great question, especially since this was something I struggled with for a very long time and would only do me more harm than good. What I did that finally broke this toxic cycle for me was take all the energy I was pouring into another person, which caused me to pedestalize them in the first place, and gave it back to me. I began giving myself the love I wanted to give to that individual. Loving me like I was loving them. This is also known as self-concept. You can't expect someone to put you on the pedestal and put in the leg work if you are already doing it for them. 🌱

If you treat them like celebrity. . .

. . .they will only see you as a fan

[chadnapier]

🌀 “Be Still and Know I AM God” — The Line That Unlocks Everything

Not just a verse. Not just a quote.

This is the shift from trying… to BEING.

✨ Stillness = Power ✨ Knowing = Ownership ✨ I AM = The Creative Force of Reality

You're not manifesting what you want — you’re manifesting who you are being.

Watch the breakdown 👇 https://youtu.be/et8Wq1Gdr4I?si=JFuR0ibFDwqrY70y

[selfloveandconcept]