she’s an angel. she’s clean and she smells good. she always dresses cute and her lips r always glossy. she radiates angelic energy and attracts only lovely things. she has long, pampering morning and night routines. she works out everyday, eats healthy, and always makes sure she gets enough sleep. she does her skincare every morning and night. she’s sweet and charming and shows respect to everyone, while at the same time only allowing a sacred few to bask in her heavenly vibes. she is witty and intellectual, and always learning. she sees the good in everything. she stands up for what she believes in. her number one goal is to become the best version of herself. and of course, she knows that she is destined for happiness and success. ⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚
you don’t even think you could string two words together, much less answer his clearly rhetorical question. of course you liked it. you’d been reduced to tears over his content, zeroing in on the moment both little girls flocked to him from the blond jokingly wreaking havoc. the way they’d fit seamlessly in his hold, the way his arms had shielded them without hesitation. something had lit in you then, fidgeting all day until he came home.
you don’t even remember how you’d gotten here. you only remember receiving a kiss like routine—and the rest swims in your mind like a blur.
“hm? asked you a question, baby, did’ya like it?”
his mouth is hot against your skin, ghosting against your neck with each breath. your mouth drops open to let out a broken moan, half pressed into the sheets from his body weight. each snap of his hips against yours further drives away any lingering thoughts, and he can’t help but laugh at the expression on your face.
“can’t talk? daddy fucked the words right out of your mind?” two fingers tap against your cheek not unkindly, and you hum without answering.
“s’okay,” chan nods firmly once, maneuvering you so that you’re on your stomach. “gonna fill you up real nice and give—fuck,”
a low hiss slips past his lips as he slides into your cunt once again, eliciting a low whine now muffled in the sheets.
“g-gonna give you your own babies. shit, pretty cunt just begging to be filled, huh? gonna fill you up, i promise.”
I get it, women take a lot more accountability than men (imo) because society is currently set up this way. Women fill up churches, support groups, therapy, they’re purchasing more self-help books and literature than men, and there are a million pages on social media dedicated to women bettering themselves while there are barely any for men. Overall, anything related to self improvement and reflection is dominated by women. Socially and culturally speaking most parents hold their daughter more accountable than their sons. That’s why a 15 year old boy can be out galavanting late with his friends but a 20 year old woman has a strict curfew.
At some point you have to realize (as a woman) that you automatically deserve more from life and the partner that you choose because it is your birth right (imo).
Just because the majority of men are not decent humans, doesn’t mean you have to settle.
And just because you’re constantly being groomed by society to improve as a woman doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you’re not good enough every time a man doesn’t know how to act right.
Lift your head high and accept the power that you hold. Stop questioning yourself every two seconds and accept that men can often do wrong. Be confident.
I know for some the biggest takeaway from this is the “it takes the same amount of energy to think small as it does to think big”
And while that is important, that’s not my biggest takeaway.
It’s the “I encouraged my husband in subtle, fun ways to become a billionaire by expanding his mindset.”
This is what some men know and why they don’t care about the “what do you bring to the table?” question. They know that with the right woman by their side she can elevate them to levels they never even imagined.
Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation
Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace
Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things
Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume
Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent
If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.
Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.
Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.
Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them
Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.
Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.
Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.
Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.
Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.
Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.
Reason #2 why I love men. When you come across a man who was raised really well. They just get it. They open your door, they cover the tab, they send you a car/driver, they send flowers, they are self-aware, they make sure your taken care of, they make you feel safe, etc.