#this man is a narcissist

[thatrandomblogsays]

Me watching the movie and reading Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes and discovering the young snow everyone is thirsting over is just… an asshole

[sher-ee]

[feralpeasures]

Wilson: Most people who think as much of themselves as you do like to talk about themselves

House: Most people don't like to listen. So, what's wrong with you?

[townslore]

this is so fucking funny to me

[mr-payjay]

doodle dump

[gunsandspaceships]

About actual NPD

Let's see:

there is no indication in the post that this is a headcanon

the post says "actually narcissistic" and "your fav has npd"

How this (and any misinformation about mental and physical health) can actually be harmful:

When you say that something (in this case, behavior/symptoms) is a sign of a certain disorder, but in fact it is not, or it is a sign of another disorder, you are misdiagnosing. Misdiagnosis leads to incorrect or no treatment, which can (and will) ruin people's lives. This actually narcissistic person takes no responsibility for this.

Creating false, harmful stereotypes. Which is ableism btw.

In Tony's case, when people claim he has narcissistic personality disorder, they have no idea about his behavior. When people hear “he has NPD,” and then watch movies and create an incorrect picture in their head of what NPD looks like. No, it doesn't look like Tony, it looks like @yourfave-hasnpd.

[jonahmagnus]

Are you normal or Have You Noticed (shoutout to my friend @cody-paranatural who noticed most of these!!)

[buckys-metal-arm]

I had a rough day and needed to word vomit this out to cope, which is why it doesn't have my usual formatting. GN!Reader, warning for some brief mentions of crying, but other than that it's just Bucky taking care of his partner 💙

Bucky holding you after a bad day at work, keeping you close to his chest and gently wiping your tears with his thumb as you recount the events of the day, listening intently to you vent. He presses little kisses to your forehead as you cry it out, and gets you water once you've calmed down. He refuses to leave your side until you've downed the entire glass because "you cried a lot, Doll. I just don't want you to get dehydrated."

Bucky carries you into the bathroom once you're done, cradling you against his body as he runs you a bath. He was just going to let you lay back and relax while he cooked your favorite meal and turned down your bed so it was nice and ready for you to fall into when you got out, but how could he say no to those pleading eyes you gave him when you asked him to join you? He opts to put in an order at your favorite takeout place and strips down before settling in behind you. You're in his arms as soon as his body hits the water, flesh and metal enveloping you in a cocoon of love and warmth. He takes his time washing your hair, peppering your back and shoulders with with kisses.

Bucky helps you out of the tub after he excuses himself so that he can throw on some clothes and grab you something warm to wear: your favorite pair of jogging shorts, the Henley that keeps disappearing from his top drawer, and a hoodie that he's been wearing a lot lately, knowing that you love how it smells like him. He turns down the bed as you get dressed, and somehow timed the food delivery out perfectly, so he gets you settled in bed before running to meet the delivery driver.

You and Bucky eat in bed, and once you two are done he lays in your lap and lets you play with his hair, knowing that it helps you calm down.

Bucky watches you start to sway, the way you fight to keep your eyes open, and asks if you're ready for bed. You beg him for some skin-on-skin, though you really don't need to. He would give you the universe if you asked him to. He helps you out of his your shirt before stripping off his own and hugging you to his chest. You nuzzle into him, stroking your fingers up and down his happy trail as you happily fall asleep on his chest, your bad day long forgotten as you doze off in his arms.

---------------------------------------------------

Had an absolute nightmare of a day at work and when I told my family about it my mom made it all about her like she ALWAYS does and my dad was at least sympathetic but just gave me like a sympathetic shoulder pat and all I want is a hug but no one in my family really does that so now all I want is a Bucky to hold me and tell me it's all gonna be okay and take care of me so... This happened

[oasisr]

When men neg you by putting down your talents, run. Things will not get better.

Even if you aren't good at something and are just a beginner, he should not be mocking you or bullying you for that.

I'm not a great singer or painter, but I enjoy singing and painting sometimes. My ex would mock me and tell me that he wanted to marry someone who could actually sing.

I gave him another chance after he hurt my feelings. He was good for a couple of weeks, and then went right back to mocking me and putting me down.

Just run. You are beautiful even if you aren't good at everything you try. You don't need someone to put you down and try to harm your self-worth.

You are worthy of someone who will treat you like you are a special and beautiful woman. Because you are.

[pandaspwnz]

So I don't think this is actually the case but what if Eliza and Isaac's deaths werent over a petty amount of cash and a robbery gone wrong? What if, instead, Dutch had seen Arthur spending time with them, had perceived him slipping away as a threat: a threat to himself, his gang, his security, his family, afraid of losing his lead enforcer - whether he truly at that point did love him like a son, or not. And in his insecurity or fear or whatever other reason, he finds someone rotten, unrelated to the gang, and he pays them to murder Eliza and her little boy, so no one will ever tempt Arthur away from the flock, and he instead puts all his energy and time into the gang, the only family he has left.

[sher-ee]

This is the widow of Corey Comperatore the man killed at the Trump rally:

See the last sentence.

Trump went golfing the next day.

[kailixart]

been thinking too hard about my space outlaw au where he's back to being a guy but is just like, still there

[itsalmostavengers]

I’m a truly incredible covert operative when it comes to fandom like no-one irl knows the depths of my obsession HOWEVER. I am aware of the fact that if anyone called iron man a narcissist in front of me I’d have no choice but to kill them with hammers

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Npd + scene kid + trans boy culture is still identifying with the "Scene Queen" label because you feel it has a higher status than the "Scene King" label

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[silveragelovechild]

UPDATE:

A couple of people don’t agree that the MCU’s Tony Stark isn’t a villain. Here’s my explanation…

* Tony Stark was an arms dealer

* Tony Stark’s revealed his identity as Iron Man because of his enormous ego

* Tony Stark didn’t lead the Avengers, he lied to them and manipulated them

* Tony Stark created Ultron despite the objections of other Avengers which led to the destruction of Sokovia and the death of thousands (for this alone he should have been put in jail for life).

* which led to the Sokovia Accord

* which led to the Avengers Civil War

* where he took an under age boy to a foreign country to engage in a super powered battle (lying to the boy’s guardian to accomplish it)

* In his blind fury, Tony Stark attempted to murder Bucky Barnes

* When Tony Stark got the Gauntlet, he could have “undone” the first snap, but because he didn’t want to erase his daughter, he simply brought everyone back - which cause untold suffering for billions on Earth and trillions around the universe. So his death wasn’t selfless… it was selfish.

* Tony Stark then bequeathed his “sunglasses” to an under age boy but didn’t include instructions - the sunglasses controlled weapons of mass destructions; when the boy first wore the sunglasses he very nearly killed a bus load of children, then the boy gave the glasses to a villain who caused more death and destructions (I’d say this was criminally irresponsible.)

[thencomethecherryblossoms]

Imallexx finally getting the comeuppance he deserves was not on my 2024 bingo card