#tw body negativity

[pumpklnsoup]

[rippedstitches]

I know being skinny won't fix any of my problems but also. what if it does

[bastart13]

How are there so many "skinny positivity" or fasting/starving positivity posts on tumblr??? I see them everywhere and I honestly get scared because they're fucking dangerous. I feel like I should report them because they can get painful to read and it's not even a triggering topic for me

[dratoba]

Alador: You called me a whore, You made fun of my weight, you gave me the finger-

Darius: And you called my kid Hunter stupid

If you know the audio it might make more sense

[divorcedtom]

tom making all those weight comments in reference to ATN in 2x02 (“my mom’s friend deb weighs like 300 lbs and is pissed about everything” “im here to trim the flab” “body shame ATN, find the fat and point it out”) and then literally being body shamed himself while explaining his plan as the new face of ATN (“boxy corporate look” “what’s wrong with your body, man?” “I tried to get one of his suits tailored by the guy dad uses, but he just looked so.. like—”)

[javaberrychip1998]

I am not beating the internalized fatphobia allegations

[emos-at-ihop]

I got annoyed that when looking for relatable body dysmorphia memes that I only ever see shit like “sometimes, I don’t like how I look in a photo,” so I made hyper-specific bdd memes to demonstrate what bdd can actually do to a person lmao

[melsrants]

When Mitski said, “I've been big and small

And big and small

And big and small again

And still nobody wants me

Still nobody wants me”

SHE SPITTING FACTS BECAUSE DAMN, WAS SHE RIGHT

[fantastic-bby]

ATEEZ vs. their s/o's insecurities

Pairing: Reader x Member

Word count: 1.7k

Genre: Fluff | Comfort | Headcanon

Summary: ATEEZ try to make their s/o feel better when they start feeling negative about the way they look

Warnings: Skipping meals | Body negativity

Masterlist

Hongjoong: the one who turns negativity into creativity

The first time you tell him, he would honestly be so sad over it 

Would have already had a feeling that something was bothering you, but he really hadn’t expected you to tell him it’s because of a past environments

Joong tries really hard to be attentive, but since he’s so swamped with work, he isn’t as around as he’d like to be 

Whenever he does tho, he’d be so sweet about it 

Tries to avoid saying anything that could make you feel worse and would be so reassuring and validating

But the moment he starts noticing that you’re skipping meals or exercising a bit too hard without much break, he’d pretty much try dropping everything to make you feel better

The kind to try and convince you to make something out of your emotions

Would try getting you to paint, or draw

Maybe he’d even bring you to the studio one night to ask if you want to try making tracks with him 

“Let’s turn the negativity into something else, love c:” 

Seonghwa: the one who already sees the wave before it comes

When you tell him, he’s quiet at first

Hwa doesn’t want to say anything that’ll make you worse, so he’s very calculative about what he says to you 

Is also able to see when you’re starting to feel a bit worse than usual 

Sees the way you barely seem to eat around him or would just not eat at all

 Would try to find a way to either encourage you to eat before it gets worse or tries to distract you 

Makes sure to be extra lovey with you when he notices you look at the mirror and poking at yourself a little more than usual 

He isn’t a gym guy, but he’d definitely talk to you about it

The kind to do more with trying to talk to you and wanting to avoid the spiral because he doesn’t want his baby to feel shitty :(((

The moment Hwa’s able to note that you’re starting to skip meals or when you start to seem a little harder on yourself 

He’s by your side almost immediately to tell you that you’re the prettiest person he’s ever seen in his entire life

“Darling, don’t say that about yourself. You’re beautiful just the way you are” 

Yunho: the one to cheer you up by being a fool instead pt 1

Omg he HATES that you feel this way 

Is literally in so much disbelief that you used to have those kinds of friends who were mean to you, it would actually break his heart

You try to reassure him that it’s all in the past and that it doesn’t bother you that much

Only that it does and now you’re feeling a little down in the dumps over it 

Yunho would do EVERYTHING to make you feel better 

He would dance on spot like a dumbass

He would be make purposefully bad jokes to make you laugh 

He would probably end up tripping on purpose if it makes you all giggly at how silly he’s being 

As long as you’re happy, he’s happy too!! And he would make a huge fool out of himself if it helps!!!

The kind to act like a complete dumbass purely for your entertainment 

Would teach you choreo and purposefully mess it up so that he can help you exercise but also avoid you thinking about yourself negatively 

He doesn’t want you feeling like shit and honestly he feels so bad whenever you do, so he would truly do everything in his power to see you smiling again 

“Bunny, look, *falls*”

Yeosang: the one who would be a little lost pt 1

He isn’t entirely sure on how to comfort you when you tell him

But Yeosang would definitely try to filter his words a bit more 

Less blunt and more thoughtful about how he talks to you because he doesn’t want to accidentally hurt your feelings 

Like Seonghwa, I feel like Yeosang would notice the oncomings of your spiral before it happens because he would notice you being a little more distant than usual 

Would probably pull the reasoning out of you because he wants you to tell him what’s wrong rather than guessing what could be happening bcs it could literally be anything 

And when you tell him he’d just go >:| and try to make you feel better 

But he’d be very lost on what to do 

The kind to ask you what he should do to make you feel better because he doesn’t know how to make his efforts come off as a bit awkward

Would also take you to the gym with him if you’re adamant on exercising

But he’d really try and his efforts would show sooo much honestly 

“What do you want to do, honey? How can I make you feel better?” 

San: the one who pampers you to the MAX 

His heart just SHATTERS when you tell him about it 

San’s so sad because he hates that you feel that way 

He also kinda wants to beat up your ex-friends but yk he can’t exactly do that now can he

He will show you how much he loves you sm

Like he’s a straight up romantic 

Flowers to your doorstep or work or classes, makes sure to avoid sending you food as gifts, but still buys you gifts just bcs he wants to

You will be babied SOOOO MUCH and San will spend EVERYDAY basically reminding you that you’re amazing and that you’re so beautiful 

The kind to baby and pamper you to the point where you honestly just have no time to think about anything else but him

If you ever speak out that you’re feeling a lil more down or that you don’t feel pretty enough 

He will prove to you that he thinks you’re so pretty!!!!!! And he’ll show you how much he loves you too!! 

“Baby!! You’re so amazing and beautiful as always!! I love you so so so so much! Remember to drink water!” 

Mingi: the one who would be a little lost pt 2

Mingi would be so lost at how to handle this 

He would still try to make you feel good though, his efforts will show so much love and adoration for you

He wants you to be happy with yourself and he wants to make sure you know that you’re loved

And he would be so so soooo careful with how he speaks to you, making sure that you know how much he loves you and how much he cares about you 

If he sees you’re skipping meals, he would sit with you and encourage you to 

He’s already a slow eater and it means that Mingi doesn’t mind waiting a while if it means he’ll get some food in your system to keep you moving 

The kind to text you reminders everyday for you to eat, stray hydrated, or take any meds that you need just to make sure that you get through the day

Would also force you to take breaks when you’re exercising because he doesn’t want you to overexert yourself

 Might also try to approach you with food if your reaction isn’t too negative towards it and it always trying to reassure you that your old friends are no longer around and that they can’t hurt you anymore

“Darling! Have you eaten yet? Don’t forget to take whatever you need and remember that I love you!” 

Wooyoung: the one to cheer you up by being a fool instead pt 2

Omg I love him sm he would turn into the biggest dumbass 

You would tell him and his initial reaction would be smth sweet and to reassure you that he’ll be with you whenever you fall into a negativity hole or you start feeling a little less sure of the way you look

Would definitely break into a dance and act like an idiot if he thinks it’ll make you feel better or at least stop thinking about it

Would also tell you that you look BANGING in whatever outfit you wear esp if ur naked

He would make sure that you’re sufficiently loved and pampered and also tries to be less teasing and less annoying bcs he doesn’t want to overwhelm you 

The kind to act like a love starved toddler to prove that he loves you and he needs you to give him attention no matter what you look like bcs he wants your attention

Woo would cuddle up to you like you haven’t cuddled him in years and he would make sure to tell you that he loves whatever body part he’s laying on

Also would probably be a bit more aggressive love side where he would give you bone crushing hugs or would smack your hands if you’re poking or pinching at yourself to stop you from doing it

“Baby, you look amazing with that shirt on; I promise. But you know that I like it better when you’re naked”

Jongho: the one to talk to you about it

There’s two ways this could go, but I really feel like he would be more mature about it and would want to talk to you about it 

Jongho wants to know how it happened, who did it, and how if affected you

Like he becomes your therapist at the same time honestly bcs he would talk to you about it 

He would want to know exactly what you would do to make you feel yourself better so that he knows how to approach you 

Similarly to Seonghwa, he would also try to see the signs before the negativity comes because he would like to help you avoid the feeling in general 

But if it comes, then it’s not a problem for him either

The kind to talk you through it and ask you to communicate your feelings to him so he knows what to do 

The other way is that he picks you up to prove a point that you’re not heavy to him at all like it doesn’t matter to him how much you weigh, he WILL pick you up and squat if it makes you feel better

But that’s also just me like indulging myself in Jongho’s strength lol

He’d also try to be present when you’re working out so that he can guide you through it and encourage you to take it easy

“Honey, I want to help you, but you’re going to need to tell me exactly what’s going on in that head of yours, okay?”

[lesbian-in-leather]

When your mum says

You look healthy

But you know she means

You got fat

[bandkid-doodles]

⚠️Gore warning!!!⚠️

Was having Body Issues earlier and I did vent art to cope with it. I haven't done gore in a bit but holy shit this is the best its gotten since like?? Junior year of HS?? V happy with it

[f1-birb]

okay so this mentions body image/weight so if that's triggering or just something you don't feel comfortable reading about, pls just don't read any further and delete this.

but during that stream today

went from 🥺🥹 as lando squeezed his own cheeks to 😔😒 as he used it to start criticizing his body

then pietra with the "that's just skin" and theo looking at him like he's grown two heads

idk it just makes me feel kind of bleehhhh all of the times he criticizes his body. he has the strength needed to handle the G forces and whip that car around a F1 track, he's healthy, idk idk. just wish he was a bit easier on himself sometimes.

Thank you for checking in with me <3

I didn't watch the stream, just spent a while scrolling through opinions on his haircut some of which made me giggle (he did look like a poodle with the clips in) and then Max's reassurance the curls will be back ("gotta let it marinate") but I did find a clip of that moment you're talking about

Weight has always unfortunately played a huge part of the sport and so many drivers have suffered from it, but with the minimum driver weight now being 80kg it's meant a lot of them (especially taller drivers who can't help how much their bones weigh) have been able to ease up a little bit which is great but there's old habits I think some people can't shake and unfortunately this is not the first time Lando's commented on his weight in a slightly negative way

He talked in streams over the winter break about how he'd been working out and eating more but losing weight (which can and is possible with proper nutrition and training and is not necessarily a bad thing) and he seemed really positive but those comments, especially about his face - which sometimes you just can't change the way parts of your body sit or are like cheeks - are a little concerning

I'm just glad how quickly Theo, Max and Pietra all reacted to be encouraging that he's fine the way he is, and P enforcing my point that sometimes that's just the way you are

I'm hoping it's just a blip and his esteem being a dick and making him listen to nasty comments and he knows people love him the way he is, he's fit and healthy and we know Jon takes care of him, and it's nice to see that he's got plenty of people in his corner (despite P telling him and Max to be less codependent and Max to be less of a simp which I found hilarious)

[0-solshroom-0]

no the thing about being fat and dating someone skinny is that they will do something that in their mind seems completely innocent but is literally enough to make me cry

[thegrandlinesimp]

Been incredibly depressed lately, my dysmorphia is front and centre, so I’m gonna be taking a break from here. Setting up seeing a therapist.

I’ll still be writing, just not reblogging or posting anything.

Don’t know when I’ll be back, I just need a break.

[savageiy]

i think i have body dysmorphia but in the delusional way (i think i’m way hotter and thinner than i really am)