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What if the need for validation isn’t just emotional—but engineered? I just published a forensic and psychological breakdown of how chasing approval erodes identity and fuels digital manipulation. 🔎 Full article here
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For those interested, I now have most Saturdays off, weird right. How I'm spending today thus far you might ask? Well I'm in bed fully naked drinking red wine straight from the bottle 😅😅😅

#girlslikeus#transgender#transisbeautiful#trans#mtf trans#trans is beautiful#girls like us#this is what trans looks like#okay to rebagel#mtf#trans mtf#mtf hormones#mtf hrt#hrt#hormone replacement therapy#trans pride#trans positivity#trans women are beautiful#trans women are valid#trans women are women#trans woman#transwoman#transgirl#trans girl#trans femme#trans feminine#trans fem#transfem#transfemme#thrist traps
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#i want a cute pussy#boy2girl#boys will be girls#cute tgirl#trans princess#feminine trap#embracing femininity#trans women are beautiful#trans women are valid#feminisation captions#prettymelissasdreams#cute trap
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I'm sorry but the irony of Nico calling Max unprofessional is sending me so bad like sir there's an entire garage full of people, who were literally in the trenches trying to survive the Brocedes fallout while just doing their jobs, who might have a few things to say about your (& Lewis') level of professionalism at that time 😭✋️
#f1#formula 1#formula one#max verstappen#nico rosberg#lewis hamilton#brocedes#like niki lauda had to try multiple times to literally parent trap them to try and get them on speaking terms it never worked#because one would arrive they'd see the other and the other would leave#& if i remember correctly the garage crew would swap around from race to race as a like see we aren't favouring anybody gesture 😭#and thats no shade to nico because it was both of them contributing to that environment#his comment re max is just making me laugh#like if i was a part of the pr/media team - which is a part of the degree I'm working on irl - at merc that year i would've lost the plot#like its insane reflecting on it nearly a decade later but the poor souls just trying to do their job in the eye of that storm#truly gods strongest soldiers#ngl the professional comment irks me a bit because its not like max is engaging in inappropriate work place behaviour#he's engaging in another aspect of racing that his involvement raises awareness of & that makes racing more accessible#& we all know how inaccessible not only getting into racing is but also to continue to pursue the further along you go#theres so many stories of 1 sibling giving up racing so the other can keep going because the family can't afford for them both to race#its a huge financial strain & we only see a handful of drivers talk about that & try to do something to change it#and nicos fellow sky sports commentators are routinely unprofessional on so many levels#additionally max had a lot of valid reasons to be annoyed at his team today#but alas he's not english so he's ungrateful#i hate that drivers can't criticise their teams or car without immediately being branded as bratty & ungrateful#ESPECIALLY WHEN THEIR JOB IS TO GIVE FEEDBACK#you can see the double standards from sky when say Lando or George have complaints with their team/car v the likes of Max and Yuki#especially Yuki my god the things i would do to get the British media to leave him alone#this was a jokey post at one point and then became a rant whoops lmao#I'll leave it that before i write an actual essay here 😭✋️
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Ngl it really peeves me when the debate about Jason's ethics regarding killing in the batfam mixes up the question of him being a moral character in regards to sticking to his own philosophy (aka compromising with what he thinks is right to salvage relationships, but also exploding trains to evade capture, killing random goons in a gang war, etc) and the question of him being a moral character in regards to whether his philosophy is right. And even with regards to his philosophy there is his philosophy on politics, crime control and harm reduction, and his ethical philosophy itself (utilitarianism, aka focusing on intended positive consequences of actions for the greater good rather than the action being fundamentally moral or immoral in itself). Those are different things. Those require different debates and should not be conflated together. I'm not even saying Jason is right! I think utilitarianism and deontology both suck and fail at providing sufficient guidelines for moral behaviour. ("Everybody still loses" like the nihilist clown says. The symbolism of that one scene is pretty cool on that regard.)
And I think some people at dc would very much like for you to make the connection that because Jason is harming civilians/killing unnamed goons, he is a bad person, and as such you don't need to examine the way his stance on moral philosophy (utilitarianism) opposes Batman's. But that's not right, they don't get to wiggle out of the fact that utilitarianism vs deontology is a complicated debate that has been going on for ages, that there is no clear-cut answer where Batman fundamentally comes out on top, they don't get to use the fact that Jason (in the era currently discussed) is a villain to saddle us with a false dichotomy of "well jason is wrong about stuff so batman has to be right" to avoid addressing the actual question. The traits of the people being tied on the tracks do not change the shape of the trolley problem. The traits of the person deciding to pull the lever do not change the shape of the trolley problem. It's still one lever, three people tied on one track, one on the other, do you pull the lever. That's it. Yes, bending the metaphor to address other questions (such as "who keeps tying people to the tracks" to question systemic violence or "how does my bias, my prejudice and empathy impact my decision to pull the lever depending on who is on the tracks") are interesting but that's not what the debate is about. If I wrote an essay about the trolley problem in high school and focused primarily on the nature of the people being tied on the tracks, I'd get a big fat zero with "off-topic" written in red all over my essay, so I'm not inclined to allow DC comics to get away with it.
#you can demonize the character with the opposing stance to batman all you want dc#you can make them the most absurdly evil asshole of all times#if they has a valid point in a moral argument their point is still valid regardless#it's a trap#dc#dc critical#dc comics#jason todd#under the red hood#fandom discourse#i'm still just as bad at tagging and wrote another essay on accident again#batsalt#because I made a later post about how the nature of the people on the tracks in fact matters here's a clarification:#the distinction is only pertinent once you've accepted that 1 the debate between utilitarianism and deontology is real#and 2 deontology fails to give a satisfying answer to our emotions and empathy and the role they play in morals#by which I mean once you accept that deontologist vs utilitarianism is a false dichotomy of options#you can't use arguments against utilitarianism to support deontology#Jason being wrong about who to kill does not mean bruce is right. and does not mean Jason is wrong about killing as a concept. aaaargh
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The Real Rocky Port Incident
Absolutely stunning art commissioned from @namaeekaki that brought to life my personal headcanon about the Rocky Port Incident that Law became known for.
It's not the bullshit Oda decided. It's Law finally getting bloody vengeance on someone who truly wronged him: the survivors of the Flevance Royal Family whom the World Government had spirited away before the genocide. Law tracked them down to where they had been living on a small island as reclusive nobility: Rocky Port. He and the Heart Pirates incited a riot in the town as a distraction, which the Navy (led by Koby) had to quell, leaving the royal family alone and defenseless, just as Law planned. This allowed him to take his time, torturing them and relishing their screams, even allowing his hands to get bloody on behalf of his family, neighbors, and the innocence he lost due to their and the World Government's selfishness. He killed the king, prince, and princess, leaving their bodies for the Marines to find later with the intent of sending the World Government a message:
You can't hide your dirty little secrets forever. Especially not from me.
#trafalgar law#trafalgar d water law#heart pirates#one piece#op fanart#rocky port incident#blood tw#Oda's “reveal” in that SBS about the Rocky Port Incident pissed me off and the fandom's response even moreso#Law is genuinely good at planning. he's just trapped in a comedy-action series where plot demands he fail#plus Law deserves to get proper revenge against at least one of the people who ruined his life since he was denied Doflamingo's death#also there was no Blackbeard involvement. frankly him being part of Oda's explanation seemed stupidly tacked on#Koby did save a lot of lives that day though. it's how he became a hero because he saved innocents and quelled the riots#Anyway this art is everything I could have ever dreamed and I feel validated as hell. Thank you Namae!!!
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COOPER ABBOTT + Expressions (Pt. 2 - ft. The Limo Scene)
#he mad as FUCKKKK#was his crash out valid?#josh hartnett#jhartnettedit#j hartnett#josh#hartnett#film#filmedit#filmgifs#movie#movieedit#moviegifs#trap#trap 2024#trap movie#cooper abbott#cooper adams#m night shyamalan#my gifs#my gifset#my gifedit#my gif#gifs#gifset#gifedit#gif#by me#horrorgifs#thrillergifs
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saying this with only a little disrespect. please shut the fuck up about eddie not being in the episode and his storyline taking a two second break. please.
#opened twitter and its the only thing those dumb bitches are talking about. but i know its going on here too#wishing he was trapped as well is absolutely valid it wouldve eaten so hard but acting like his character is being personally victimized#cause his storyline wasnt front and center for the EIGHTH. episode in a row. is fucking ridiculous. genuinely#911 spoilers#weewoo brainrot
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i could explain why anyone that says "flowey cant feel (positive emotions) because he doesnt have a soul" is wrong but i dont feel like it. all you need to know that as a fellow trauma survivor he is my puppet to project onto whether he likes it or not
read the tags for more i suppose
#flowey is a metaphor#my headcanon is valid and cool and you will like it and accept it#let me isolate both socially and physically for my own safety that wont make it worse haha#said the silly whimsical goat boy after being assaulted and killed by an entire village after agreeing to his sibling sacrifing themselves#and dying in his arms#ptsd/cptsd often comes with a hollow feeling and a fuckton of attachment issues#love alone cannot fix something like that#flowey had no way to cope with it and created a hell of his own making instead#i relate to the emptiness that you drown out with anything you can#the timeloop did not help#i often see the timeloop he trapped himself in as an unhealthy coping mechanism and/or drug almost#frisk is the one who saves him from himself#he can finally learn to move on and just... live#yeah im crazy#flowey#undertale#shitpost#headcanon
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Minthara:

Also Minthara:

I just can't with her dialogues, like. She goes from slurs to tadpole sexting to incredibly raw. And then there's just these conversations. Which are just a bazillion times more painful when ya know what's actually going on. Sure rip my heart apart Larian, not like I need it anyway.




This hurts so much.


'You're broken, but I decided I will fix you.' - Minthara Baenre what the hell
Also just this. Just look at this. How the fuck am I meant to be normal about this.

I just can't. Like yeah they're all tragedies in their own right but Minthy and Durge take the absolute cake (pun unintended).
I'm so sorry I'll return to normal in... let's be real probably not until 2029 or perhaps never.
#im so normal about her#so so normal#she makes me cry while also gasp in awe#the doom and the dread but theres also hope#and yet she ends up caught in the webs that trapped her in the first place the very first chance she gets#instead of devoting herself to lolth or the absolute she devotes herself to you#she just straight up deifies you#but valid cuz realistically#she just lost fucking everything#her faith was the only thing that mattered to her but her gods betrayed her#and for those traitors she lost her home; lovers; family#im so cool abt it so so cool#bg3#minthara baenre#bg3 spoilers#<- im tagging it just in case
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#i want a cute pussy#trans princess#cute tgirl#feminine trap#feminised male#submisive and breedable#i love kissing men#i love being pretty#i love cock inside me#just girly things#this is what makes us girls#embracing femininity#feminisation captions#prettymelissasdreams#trans women are valid#trans women are beautiful#i want a vagina
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Looking a hot mess bored but cute 🥰
#trans#divine feminine#fem#girlblogging#girly#trans woman#trans community#trans beauty#trans pride#mtf trans#mtf trap#transfem#transgirl#transgender#transsexual#transisbeautiful#lgbtq community#self love#lgbtq positivity#lgbtq#trans lesbian#trans lady#trans lives matter#girly blog#transfashion#trans women are beautiful#trans women are amazing#trans women are valid
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This... this is probably an absolutely insane idea, but...
*small sigh, head in hands, mumbling under my breath*
A Slay the Princess "Barbie: Princess & the Pauper" AU where Damsel is Annalise, Prisoner is Erika, and... god help me, but you know that Opportunist would be the perfect Preminger
#this is ridiculous but i'm slightly obsessed#you could have sleeping briars/princess and the frog with damsel being in love with the prickly palace gardener!#skeptic as the visiting prince who's SO not on board with the arranged marriage and having to deal with smitten's buckwild advice!#happily ever after as the queen who's been through a lot of heartbreak but is still persevering for the sake of her kingdom!#hell even the theming works because damsel as a princess is loved and treasured yet still trapped by her station!#and prisoner would be stuck in the inescapable hell that is inherited debt!#and oppy could live out their fucking DREAMS as a campy scheming advisor!#i need validation please tell me that this isn't stupid#slay the princess#stp the damsel#stp the prisoner#voice of the opportunist#slay the princess au
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for those of you writing fics or drabbles about "sob stories" plz consider dissecting why eddie says if it's between buck and christopher he'll choose his son every time. like even buck says he knows he'll pick christopher and that he's not asking him to choose. but WHY does eddie think he is? does eddie feel like he has to choose? (i mean obviously he does BUT...) does buck personify home? when eddie thinks of LA, he sees the ties he's made with his found family, but why did he specifically say between his son and BUCK? and why can't he have both? does he know that's an option?
anyway yeah if you write that plz feel free to knife my veins open and write it in my blood if need be. i just want to read it and be in pain with buddie. ty
#Buddie#buddie fic ideas#eddie diaz#911 abc#buck x eddie#edmundo diaz#911 8b#evan buck buckley#buddie headcanons#I like how everyone is saying Eddie is gonna be in a saw trap#Not cuz I want him there but because it's an accurate AF metaphor#Also Buck was wrong for that sabotage 💯 but I think he is very valid to be feeling upset#However it's like Tommy 2.0#You're an adult bestie how can we express how pain more constructively#I'm glad he apologized and they talked it out#I also think Eddie needs to talk more but that's the journey#Can't wait for more#911 spoilers
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I honestly dont trust Ollie either. I do wonder if he’s tried to tell drew to not trust daddy or pops. Cause like poppy Ollie seems to not care of the bigger bodies die or live.
“Poppy ain’t perfect, but trust me when I tell you that she cares. But you’re right about one thing, I don’t trust Ollie worth a shit.”
(This is a joke, please do not take this seriously! I thought it was funny)
#no Poppy slander in this clown car/lh#okay but seriously I ADORE Poppy’s whole character#OML I could ramble for ages but I’ll keep it short for tags sake#Poppy cares so much and I will die on this hill#she wants to be free; she wants to expose/uncover the company’s secrets so that SOMEONE knows what happened to them#she wants to LIVE#Yes Poppy kept us from leaving but she said it herself#she NEEDS the player. she physically can’t do anything on her own#and we see through her interactions with Kissy that she DOES want to save who she can- remember that she had no idea Dogday was alive!#likely why she never says anything about it#SO#What Poppy is doing; trapping the player. forcing them into this savior role so that she and anyone they can find can be saved#is incredibly human of her#trading the freedom of the one for the validation and seeing and possible freedom of the many is so human#and I adore it so deeply#phrart#art#ask phrog#poppy playtime#ask the three d’s#the three d’s#Ollie ain’t shit though lmao#that’s GOT TO be the prototype#poppy playtime chapter 3#poppy poppy playtime#will smith meme
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As we started and ended, shamelessly…not sentimental, but emotional. And that, I think–we've not gone that way with INSIDE NO. 9 thus far.
INSIDE NO. 9 S7E1 "Merrily, Merrily" | S7E6 "Wise Owl"
#in9#inside no 9#inside no. 9#in9 frames#merrily merrily#wise owl#reece shearsmith#steve pemberton#quote by#christian henson#<- who validated the initial thought here#idk if this works as a post but i'm sticking with it#it's mainly thinking of r&s placing the big “emotional” episodes as the bookends of s7#where both of these chars are trapped by their past or can't move on from it#and their endings are cathartic but in totally different ways#and how no other series starts and ends that way! (iirc)#i reckon it's to do with the covid lockdowns and them likely looking more inwards when writing#(since the 4 K eps were meant for s6)#or something? this is why i'm writing this in the tags and not as some kind of nothing short essay lol#vagueeyes.txt
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