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before pride month ends im gonna take this opportunity to say. if a transfem corrects you for using ‘dude’ or ‘man’ to refer to her, and you reply that ‘actually dude and man are gender neutral’, consider that she knows this. and she’s correcting you because she doesn’t want to be referred to as gender neutral. she wants to be referred to as a woman. and perhaps - really stew on this one - your reluctance to refer to her with traditionally feminine language, and even to incorporate and co-opt traditionally feminine language into your casual gender-neutral usages in everyday life, are indicative of an internal sexist bias. this is not necessarily in itself a condemnation of your character - but if you feel perfectly comfortable calling someone (regardless of gender) ‘bro’ but not ‘sis’, that’s worth a smidge of introspection.
#shut up me#this blog unequivocally supports transfems and trans women#as a casual user of dude and bro. the transfems and women in my life don’t bat an eye because i’m just as casual with flipping the other way#if you feel okay saying dude to a woman but not saying girl to a man consider why. try it out even! queer your language! it will free you!#the solution to the problem of outdated gender roles and performances is not to remove gender entirely. play with it! enjoy it!#gender is fun! the performance of gender is fun! personal expression is fun! if you’re allergic to masculinity and femininity that’s so sad!#i have many nuanced takes on this sort of thing but rest assured i don’t intend to live on this soapbox
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i woke up with a sudden onset of a cold and my mum has had me gargling and drinking neat vodka at 9am because there's no whiskey for me to drink the 70s cure-all and potion of warm milk, honey, and whiskey.
#my mum: you don't feel good? time to drink neat alcohol#me: do you think considering the women in our family have almost all been alcoholics or had an alcohol problem this might be problematic#mum: no#me: ok#crazy to me the solution to feeling ill is drinking whiskey and vodka#effie rambles
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they invented a character with repressed anger issues, made him smart and practical, and then gave him a bow and arrows. what am i supposed to do, NOT be obsessed with him???
#feng xin#nan yang#nan feng#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#heaven official's blessing#mxtx#mo xiang tong xiu#i've only read book 1 so far but like. come on!!#he's good at figuring stuff out! he takes initiative to find a pragmatic solution to the problem! he's scared of women!#he has a bitter rivalry with his dearest friend! he can't be assed to come up with a fake name! he's self-sacrificing! he's ripped!#what's not to like????
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feel like I've put myself through a cognitive ringer in the past week with being down a mental rabbit hole
I must have some 40-50 new white papers I co wrote with GPT
Every time I think I'm out of new things to explore, I end up pulling a thread and more stuff shows up. It was actually blackpilling and a bit upsetting to get through, because I'm actually using GPT and Grok and DeepSearch functions to challenge a lot of narratives
and some of them I'll never be able to discuss with people, because it's like telling people God doesn't exist, or something. You are butting up against what the majority of normal people, let alone educated people, believe. And people are very very emotionally committed to what they believe.
#I have a new take on ~Women in Tech~ that is very very very against EITHER side of the narrative#basically both sides of the culture war are completely wrong#and neither has solutions that will actually fix their problems
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"dont get gender affirming surgeries what if you regret it" what if
#'its permanent!'#yea its also like a lifelong problem#so thats the whole point yk#i am seeking a permanent solution#trans#trans man#transgender#transfem#trans woman#trans men#trans women
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Betty Friedan was a pick me and hated lesbians.
Betty Friedan's position on lesbians is unfortunate but absolutely irrelevant to the point I was trying to make in my post.
The "trend" of "stay-at-home-girlfriend" and "tradwife" influencers on social media (as well as all that "girl math" and "girl dinner" and "explanation for the girlies" bullshit) is a revival of a second wave feminism era problem that requires a revisit of second wave feminism texts.
I, jokingly, suggested that these influencers should be tricked into reading Friedan's "feminine mystique" so they can be exposed to the dangers of the "problem that has no name". I don't think any contemporary feminist literature would speak to them because they chose to live like 1950s housewives, with the dangers of 1950s housewives, and thus should read about 1950s housewives.
#Feminism#Asks#betty friedan#The thing about older feminist texts is that we can just ignore the stuff that is shit#Because we're smart enough to realise that lgbt+ people need to be included in feminism#And that Friedan's work is not like some universal solution to all of feminism#The feminine mystique is a very specific text about a very specific problem of mostly white middle class women#Which was still a very real problem#And a problem we're somehow facing again because of that weird backslash we're seeing on social media#So yes we can apply that specific text to the revival of that specific problem without engaging in her later homophobia
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I always forget how much fun it is to draw real human woman people and not the same skeleton twelve bazillion times
#solution to this problem?#drawing skeletons as human women#ive done that so many times its not even funny#never posting butch killer sans but jusy know shes out there#my art <3#this isnt a human skeleton sadly just a lady i found on Pinterest
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I enjoy thrillers but I hate that when the villain is a guy. He becomes an uwu boi that did nothing wrong
Did we watch the same thing
I like watching video edits after I finish something but I can't do that with horror things cause I end up in thirst trap edits
Hello? Was I the only one feeling adrenaline reading that? The only one glad he's rotting in prison? Where's my scary edit? I don't find them hot they're disgusting serial femicide perpetrators
#just found out English doesn't have a word for γυναικοκτωνος ✨#maybe the only solution to my problem is to watch something horror that only has women in it. lesbians maybe.#a lesbian horror movie#women get mischaracterized all the time and hated even when they're good#make them a serial killer and maybe I'll get my psycho edit#seriously though my first horror story was killing stalking. i felt ADRENALINE and then i go on tt and ppl are thristing over sangwoo be fr#now i finish 'You' and there are people defending Joe?#bro i clapped let the bitch rot in prison#movie#tv show#you netflix#killing stalking
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#ambitious women#beautiful women#beauty#glow society#the glow society#fit beauty#health#self love#self improvement#self care#luxury living#luxury#lux lisbon#luxurious#luxuries#black girl moodboard#self development#women’s health#healthy food#health and wellness#boss women#womens workout routines#fit girls#tumblr girls#becoming that girl#how to earn money#money problems#money management#money solutions#financial planning
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"Walkable cities" DOES include making it safe for women and children. You guys just think having a problem with every solution and offering none of your own makes you smarter than everyone else.
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It is because these people are stupid. Hope this helps.
#like. I don't know what to tell you. most people who commit murder are not Super Genius Criminal Masterminds#if your priority is killing someone and not anything else you don't make a flashy spectacle of it???? most people who do shit like this#want attention. it's not about some moral obligation they want attention. and when people prioritize Getting Attention. they do some#pretty contradictory and myopic things. have you ever observed a human. jfc y'all are not serious people#current events#tw: guns#okay sorry I'M SORRY. I'll stop talking about this. I just feel like I'm going insane#worshiping this guy is NOT it#y'all are going to drive me to substance abuse is2g#In the Vents#also.#if you are a feminist. then you should be against this. hold on let me explain before you go 'how are those even related you're deranged'#violent men are typically the ones more likely to hate women and abuse their partners because of it. and spousal homicide is going to#be a LOT harder to do if no one has access to guns. if you say 'oh there's an acceptable situation where you can point blank shoot someone#because they're a loathsome enough person' then. these people are going to take away the message that if their girlfriend/wife/female#relative/partner/etc. is 'bad' enough. is making their lives difficult enough. then it is acceptable to murder them. if you say 'there is#an acceptable circumstance for this' then EVERYONE WILL THINK THAT *THEY* HAVE THE ACCEPTABLE CIRCUMSTANCE#holding up guns as the solution to your problems IS ONLY GOING TO END WITH MORE WOMEN MORE KIDS AND MORE MINORITIES DEAD#and if you think that's an acceptable sacrifice because someone you hate might die. then I think maybe you shouldn't be talking to me.#like I said. I'm not going to be patient anymore. this is non-negotiable for me. if you're valorizing this guy and the culture of#gun violence that made his actions possible then get out I don't want to talk to you.#oh also once again: if your takeaway from this is that I'm somehow defending the CEO and you come on my post to say that I'm putting#you on blast so everyone can point and laugh at you for your lack of reading comprehension. again hope this helps :)
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A man will go to great lengths to find solutions for a woman he’s genuinely into.
#love#relationships#men#women#solutions#problems#effort#commitment#dedication#genuineness#respect#understanding#support
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Well, I'm just reading about the Chamberlain–Kahn Act and boy-howdy is this something I don't recall learning about in the WWI unit in high school.
Apparently, the boys in the armed forces liked to patronize ladies of the evening, and kept coming back with STIs.
So they passed an act that provided them with more acceptable curricular activities...
Vague wording like "reasonably suspected" has never gone badly for anyone, right?
The best part is that I found out about it because apparently it's come to the attention of The Right. Which is horrifying.
Everyone was "ooh handmaid's tale" a few years back, right? Shoulda kept quiet, they were listening.
#I love the term “government entities” because it makes them sound like fucking monsters#which they are#Chamberlain–Kahn Act#wwi#military#women#morality#enforced morality#why is the solution to men's problems always to fuck with women#what happened to that personal responsibility y'all are always talking about.#also race played a big part in how it was enforced#because of course it did
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could i, an eighteen year old with zero experience running a d&d podcast and a patreon for said podcast, do better than the council who've had several years of experience and amassed a fan base who so willingly offer (sometimes constructive) criticism on all that's not working? well i don't know, because i don't have the resources or time or energy for a project like that, but i do still understand that their current system isn't working
#solutions i can think of:#1 - hire a team. multiple editors; sensitivity readers; pr people; etc. doesn't have to be loads at first. you could get even six more guys#and i promise it would help significantly. also not all guys. i know i said guys but hire some women and pocs please#2 - create a schedule and unless there's a very good reason (family emergency; mental/physical health stuff; important event; etc) don't#break this schedule. the schedule is your bible now. read it and learn it and follow it to a t or else christian god will get real mad#and so will your several thousand fans#3 - own up to mistakes you've made. this is possibly the easiest of all of them. admit the hiatus wasn't planned well. admit you're not sure#when riptide will come back. admit you probably should've started following#1 & 2 a lot earlier. people will forgive i promise. we want to forgive. we love the content and the vibes. otherwise we all would've left#4 - get more guests on. and broaden this beyond white men please#5 - sort out your patreon tiers and ensure the non patron supporters who still love your content have enough to live off#i can't stand getting one episode every two weeks much longer. the scraps of first episodes and one shots aren't enough#and boom. 5 relatively straightforward solutions to the problem. i have no experience in this field. idk how much this would cost#but it's not like the jrwi podcast is struggling#anyway rant over peace out#jrwi#jrwi crit
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research project presentations in english today and this one girl goes up and talks about how pornography is inherently harmful for women so we need to ban it entirely. hell school
#you are selling conservatism under the guise of womens rights! stop it!#like good job for identifying the issue (degradation and objectification of women in porn) (very prevelant serious problem)#can you think a little harder about what an actual good solution is. other than increasing govt enforced censorship and making it even#more dangerous for women who work in the sex industry than it already is#sorry.#.log
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Divested Black women are falling into a trap. While society wants you to focus on debating about going 50/50 with males or getting into twitter debates about interracial dating, you as a black woman have more important things to worry about. It’s great to see black girls previously robbed of their girlhood reclaiming their natural femininity, however there is more to be concerned about. Divestment is not about males or how cute you can be, but self preservation as a priority. Look past the hyper-sexualizing and demoralizing attempted propaganda. Look past your childhood brainwashing and abuse to internalize the Jezebel and Mammy stereotypes. Stop defending and protecting everyone except for yourself. Stop worshiping males in attempts to gain romantic responses and respect. Pay attention to what really matters. Black Americans will soon have a net worth of $0 as the global economic depression and food shortage gets closer. Our “communities” are the primary target for all things struggle so migrants will be housed where you live, crime will sky rocket, and income/economic opportunities will deplete. Suburban black women are not exempt from this. The vast majority of black girls are not entering recession proof career fields. It’s important that black women are multi tasking everyday life while preparing for the future because 99% are not informed or prepared. It doesn’t have to be alone when there are likeminded black girls and women out there :)
Black women prepping, homesteading, self defense, gardening TikTok compilation. https://youtu.be/KkguBqtXdto?si=daiMQX6kgI6ROt_V
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#pay attention#if you are more concerned with isreal or what dusties are doing than yourself then we have a problem that needs a solution#black women#black femicide#burnthecape#divest#black girls#Youtube#black women in luxury#black femininity#divestment
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