eldest daughter /gn here, you just have to fake it til you make it... kinda like ignoring his existence, it still hurts yeah but you have to detach yourself from him
it helps saying yes, hes my dad, i need him away for my peace of mind Unfortunately
i get you either way when he tries to talk to me i am like 😁😁😁😁😁 please go away im about to combust where i stand😁😁😁😁😁
first of all thank you for responding i love you forever and ever ☹️♥️♥️♥️
yeah :( i haven’t seen him in months and i’m just so nervous i’m gonna fawn and be scared of him instead of being firm and strong :( like he’s so unbelievably evil and every time i hear about him i’m even further convinced but being forced to be around him for the first time in a long time is going to suck either way i feel like. so all i can do i think is try to do my best and stay away from him
i know for a fact he’s gonna try and talk to me & likely say something snide to provoke me so that i react explosively / negatively so it’s gonna take everything i have in me to just give him absolutely nothing 😭 like go girl give us nothing!!!
Thinking about how Victor Hugo wrote one of the most famous portrayals of prostitution that is sympathetic to the prostituted woman (Fantine from Les Miserables) and shows how she is forced by poverty to sell her body, how it clearly is a traumatic experience, and how much disrespect the pimps have for her in reality... And yet he continued constantly visiting brothels and using the women's bodies - so much so that a very famous rumor was created that all the brothels in Paris closed down to mourn him after his death... Kill all men?