#I'm getting mixed signals lmfao

[lemonisntreal]

Heh. Funny dream...!

The first four seconds were kinda serious before it started going downhill lmfao. God, it went downhill so fast with basically zero prompting-

[EDIT: The beautiful image of them smooching does NOT belong to me. Apologies to @cacaocheri for forgetting to credit! Thanks for reminding me]

[here's the original post where it came from too if you wanna forget how to breathe for a few minutes <3]

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So uh, I got a lovely little idea from this post made by the creature known as @whack-patty- and I've seen other people in this small community drawing some Sneep Snorp, so I thought- why not give it a go? What could possibly go wrong??

A lot, apparently.

I don't use an actual drawing program, I use Kleki. And when it closes or crashes, if you didn't decide to save your progress on your measly one file of browser storage- it's pretty much gone. The site decided to shut down on me- twice- destroying my progress on a couple of frames. It was like the universe itself wanted me to not make this. So uh... you're welcome for powering through?

[also rq, this is a crackship, definitely, I think. I think maybe definitely. Get back to me on that one later- like a lot later- but get back to me]

[dumplingsjinson]

Aite so like... It's a long post ahead, which is NOT about cat guy. It's about a guy friend I met on Bumble. We'll name him raccoon dude, because he wants a raccoon as a pet. I just wanna see if I'm getting the wrong impression, because I'm getting the vibes that he might like me (and upon telling my friends, they also said the same thing). ...Or maybe he's just really friendly?

To pre-face this, I was still active on those dating apps before me and cat guy decided to just see each other, and I met this guy before me and cat guy became exclusive. I told him straight up that I didn't want anything other than friendship before we met for the first time, because by that point, I knew I wanted to just see cat guy, but I was still on the apps because cat guy was being inconsistent (complained about it on here, too LMAO) so I was still in and out of those apps just in case.

Anyway. I'll try to bullet point why I think he likes me, but why I'm also getting mixed signals:

Why I think he likes me:

We were at the Apple store. I was looking at the green iPhone and was like "I love this colour" and then he was like "Yeah, that colour suits you." So I was like, "Okay, but why does it suit me?" and he answers, "Because it looks nice." So me trying to be playful, I ask him, "So are you saying I look nice" and this motherfucker dead ass says "Yeah." And when I continue to tease him about it, he doesn't say anything but smiles and laughs.

That same day, he forgot his keys, and his roommate had the keys (he has one set of keys) so we went to his home to get it. He let me into his place and we kinda just ended up chilling in his room for hours. I was laying on his bed and using his pillow and everything, and when I went home that night, this man texts me saying, "My pillow smells like your hair mist. It's really nice." And I was like ??? It's funny because I screenshotted the text and recounted the events to my friends and they thought I was talking about cat guy so I'm like newflkewnf

ALSO. I was asking him to unlock his phone so I can use his Spotify and change the music on his Bluetooth speaker, and he straight up showed me his passcode and everything. I asked him if anyone else knew his passcode and he told me me and his roommate are the only people who know his passcode. He also let me scroll through his phone and like... Let's be honest. You wouldn't let a friend do that, probably not even a s/o, would you?

I took a look at his contacts and I'm the only one who has a nickname. Granted, he calls me "Bestie" *insert my irl nickname*, while everyone else doesn't have a nickname. Then again, he had a lot of contacts so I skimmed through the list.

He KEEPS shouting me for things. I'm hanging out with him for his birthday tomorrow and he's literally treating me to this expensive ass buffet which costs like.. $130 per person. And he would not let me pay him back. He keeps paying for things, and when I tell him to give me his bank account details so I can pay him back, he never does. Always says "You can pay me back later" and never brings it up again. I try to shout him where I can but usually he likes to cover the bills.

And get this. He keeps calling me shit like "My love" and "my dear" and "my *insert irl nickname" and he even called my "my baby" at one point, which didn't sit well with me so I told him to never call me that again. He told me calls his friend that and they don't mind it so there's that, I guess.

He compliments me and is overall very sweet to me, and doesn't get annoyed when I'm being flippant with my decisions or being a moody lil bitch.

He also updates me whenever he can't talk, or whenever he's busy and needs to hop off from our conversation for a bit. Even cat guy doesn't do this (not that I mind because I know he doesn't text much, but I'm just pointing that out because like ?? Wtf??).

He'd also say shit like "I miss you" and "I can't wait to see you" and I get that can be platonic but with everything he's done so far... Hm.

Now this is where the mixed signals come in:

There is a girl he likes. It's funny because he doesn't have her under a nickname in his contacts.

He's going through it because of her; she keeps ghosting him, and then coming back, and it's a mess. He wants to confess, but he never does when he says he will, and at this point, I don't know if he ever will. When he talks about her, I can tell he likes her but she also frustrates him greatly.

He met that girl on tinder. It's also funny, because he met that girl on Tinder before he met me on Bumble (like, one to two months before, and by the time we met, he's already been out with her three times or something like that). After me and him met up, he decides to delete his pics on Bumble. His profile is still there, but he's not active on the app anymore. He never deleted his pictures after meeting with that girl but after meeting with me, he decides to delete his pictures? I asked him about it and was like "Did you delete because of the girl you like?" and he was like "Yeah, I guess I did." SO LIKE?? THE FUCK??

I asked him what he wants for his birthday and he's like "My dear best friend, stay by my side for the rest of my life. That's what I want for my birthday."

Man calls me a friend but then does all of that and I'm like ?? SO. WHO DO YOU ACTUALLY LIKE?? To be fair, you can like more than one person, but I'm out here like if he does actually like me then I'm gonna be so KLNESLKFNEW because 1) I told him from the start I liked someone else and, 2) CAN I GET A GENUINE GUY FRIEND, damn.

He JUST sent me a meme that says "Me and my homies entering 2024 without achieving a single thing in 2023" with an image of the Tom and Jerry making their merry way across the street, and I'm like "You did achieve something - becoming my bestie" and then he's like "That's the best part of 2023." And I'm like, "But wouldn't meeting the girl you like be the best part?" and he completely dodges my question. SO. THE FUCKK.

We were talking about his new roommate who's moving in tomorrow and I was joking about how I wanted to meet him and shit and man sounds like he's dissuading me from meeting the guy so I'm like... Huh. Not that I want to meet the guy after what he's been telling me but yeah lmfao.

And my friends are like "he likes you, doesn't he?"

And I told my manager about how I'm going to the expensive ass buffet for his birthday and my manager was literally like "...That's a good friend you have 👀" and I was like lknewkfnew GIRLLL-

So yeah. I'm just... Out here? And not the same friend who keeps insisting he likes me being like "Or maybe he could be your glucose guardian" LMFAOOO

We could be reading into this wrong, or maybe he does like me and that other girl but like... I hope I'm wrong lmfao.

[hiroshikoi]

What natural traits do you have that your future spouse wanted in their spouse? (Which made them decide they would marry you)

Intuitive Reading + Shufflemancy

this reading could basically double as a pick-a-pile simply talking about your qualities/traits. these are the traits your future spouse prioritizes in what they want in their spouse (which you have). At the same time if you don't have every single trait mentioned, please take note that this is a general reading.

thank you so much for 900 followers! 🥳

How to Pick a Pile: Take the time to look at each picture above it is numbered piles 1-4 from top left to the bottom right. Which one sparks a memory? What emotions do you feel? Do you feel anything at all? If all piles spark a memory, choose which one is the strongest. If none, try to go with the one that draws you in the most otherwise, these messages are not meant for you (at this time).

Photos aren’t mine, got it from pinterest and all credits go to the owner.

1 • Pile One

Kiss Me More by Doja Cat ft. SZA, My Little Love by Adele, and beside you by keshi

One of the traits that you have that your future spouse wanted in their (future) spouse (so you) is someone that is comfortable with showing their affection to someone. They may like someone that is clingy even. They want someone that would tell them that they love them, verbalizing what you love about them. Shamelessly saying that you wanted to kiss them, hug them, be with them... They want someone that shamelessly expressed their love to them. Your future spouse doesn't necessarily want someone that shows public displays of affection though, but if you were to do that they'd have no problem with it. The emphasis here is you being open about your love to them. Leaving nothing that could be interpret a different way. "If you love me tell me. Please show me. I want you to show me. Please don't be shy or embarrassed.. I love it. I really do. Please don't give mixed signals.."

Communication is definitely a big thing for them, and that's what you have that made them want to marry you. You are not afraid of confrontation, and believe that the best way to resolve things is to talk about it. "I don't want anything to not be clear with you, with us. Please tell me if you have a problem with me, or have a problem in general. Please talk to me, I want you to talk to me." Your future spouse may have had past relationships or were surrounded in an environment that kept him guessing. This caused them a lot of hurt, so now, they really just want someone that makes things "clear as day". They don't want things to be left unresolved, they'd really always make the effort to talk to you to make amends whenever you would have an argument, disagreement, or what not. They love you so much...

I feel like this applies to the both of you, as in they want someone who has this trait because they are like that as well and that is specifically them wanting someone that is a romantic. I feel like before, a lot of people around them thought it was cheesy or may even think they were a player with them expressing their romantic nature but they truly are just like that. They want someone that would do (grand) romantic gestures. I am specifically getting that they want (again i feel like this applies to both of you, so they would do this to you as well) someone that listens to them where they would just randomly say that they like a certain food and you'd come home/meet them surprising them with it. I can see them grinning at this... "You remembered! Wow... hahah"

They are overflowing with their love for you pile one oh my god. Its like they don't want me to end this reading lmao. They also want someone to almost overwhelmingly express your love to them. You'd feel so light. Your body lightweight, speaks to me... lmfao sorry it just came to mind.. You'd definitely feel your love be overwhelmingly reciprocated, I'm seeing like water rushing together but... you don't feel scared of it. You're not thinking about the past, you're not scared of what negative thing that might happen, you're just happy to be there and now. They're happy to just be with you, in that present moment. They'd cherish you everyday for the rest of your lives.

traits: clear intentions, freely showing (overwhelming) affection, open communication, a romantic, putting effort in resolving the problems in the relationship

2 • Pile Two

See You Again by Tyler the Creator ft. Kali Uchis, 00:00 (Zero O'Clock) by BTS, Nervous by The Neighbourhood, and MOON by (G)I-DLE

Hmm.. this pile may be opposite to pile one. Your future spouse likes someone that is more shy about their feelings sometimes. I get that they may have been love-bombed, or flat-out lied to a lot that's why they prefer it to be this way. They may think that its more authentic, because "why would anyone fake being shy anyway? especially of their feelings?". Yeah, while I'm typing this I got the song "MOON" by (G)I-DLE for you lmao. If pile one’s fs liked someone that embodied the sun, your future spouse wants someone that embodies the moon.

Mm.. don't take this the wrong way but your future spouse wants someone that is maybe more of a mess with their feelings. They're more than happy to be your saving grace. They don't care that you're not perfect or that you have lots of lows. They want you... raw.. lmao. not me snorting. They want someone that is comfortable with showing them their bad side, their ugly side. They're someone that will always be with you through the difficult times, the rocky times, for as long as you love them back as they would not stay with someone that doesn't even like them (back; refer to the love-bombing...).

Again, if you don't have every single trait here please don't feel bad but I'm getting for some, your future spouse is into someone that has pretty eyes and you may have that. They may really like the colour of your eyes and how the light hits it, if not your eyes itself. They may like someone that is animated with their facial expressions as well or... you and your future spouse may communicate a lot through your eyes. Like you just know when you give them that look or vice versa (they could tell what you're feeling). They also like someone that keeps their promises, its not necessarily a deal breaker but they'd really really like whenever you are true to your word. It makes them feel like you really are the one. "I can't believe I'm with someone like you... I can't believe you really did it..." (they slightly tear up at this honestly, you're unreal. what a sight..like the moon 😉)

They also want someone that they can run to. They want someone that would be their safe space. They'd especially like moments where you'd just lie in each other's presence not talking, just things being peaceful, enjoying each other's company. They may like to lie their head on your lap.

They just want to make you happy, they want to take your pain away. I am getting that some of you may have a chronic/serious illness (maybe mental illness: depression, anxiety, or etc.) that you are facing everyday. If not, you may be someone that feels like you put so much effort than other people in your life. You may be someone that repeatedly feels defeated (in life). They want to be strong for you, they want you to know that they are there for you, and that they love you. They want someone that they can see wants to keep trying no matter how hard it gets, even though sometimes you think it'd just be easier to give up/you'd want to give up. “I want to take care of you. Let me make it easier for you. Let me help you. I want to make you happy.”

traits: shows/expresses your difficult emotions, shy, keeps their word, someone they can run to/someone that will be their safe space, keeps fighting despite hard problems you're personally dealing with

3 • Pile Three

Hold Me Tight by BTS, Green Light by Lorde, Homewrecker by MARINA, and Uh Oh by (G)I-DLE

You're very loyal and committed. You have so many layers to you, you may be more outspoken and even are pretty levelheaded which sometimes may suggest that someone is more emotionally detached but no you're not like that. To your future spouse at least, you make the possible impossible. You make fantasies real, you cross boundaries (not in the negative sense)/genres/charts (?). You may be logical but still very much in touch with your emotions. Wow I'm so overwhelmed right now, you really are a dream come true to them. They never thought they could meet a human being like you, but here you are. To them, you are perfect, perfectly imperfect. As an analogy/metaphor, its like how a little asymmetry here and there makes someone even more extremely attractive. You make them hypnotized, they can't express how much they love you because its so surreal. You're surreal. Trying to ground these messages more, they may have thought or have been told that they have high standards and so they assessed what they wanted in a spouse. They concluded that yeah maybe they were asking for too much, "I guess how can someone be like that..." and may have not been even possible. I'm specifically getting that of course it will be a lot more personal for each of you but I'm getting maybe you are someone that are freedom loving. As in you like talking to a lot of people, or travelling to a lot of places and with that it may suggest that someone is more flighty or non-committal but you're not. You may actually be the opposite, you're really loyal and are able to exhibit/embody traits that may be contradictory to each other at once.

Yeah, you showed them another way that they never thought was possible. For example, if you travelled a lot or had a job that had that kind of nature, you make the effort to bring them with you and/or you text and call them every day even though you're hella tired. You buy them things/suggest to do things with them that shows that you listen to them all the time.

Again, I feel like this pile is more personal to each one so the traits would be a lot more specific (as in the mix of traits. just emphasize on seemingly more polarizing/contradicting traits that's what you have, you are able to make both co-exist pretty seamlessly). But trying to get a little more here, pile 3 you just have a different way of thinking than most. You just say it how it is or you say these thoughts of yours in such a matter of fact way. You're your own person. You definitely think for yourself.

Your future spouse is so speechless when it comes to you, they're so in awe so unfortunately there's not much dialogue/thoughts that I got compared to the other piles, other than this: "You're... wow.......perfect.." traits: very loyal and committed, having seemingly contradictory traits co-exist, outspoken, different way of thinking than most (or that they have met)

4 • Pile Four

Francis Forever by Mitski, Big AL by Westside Gunn feat. Rome Streetz, and Already by (G)I-DLE

You're transparent. You have your heart on your sleeve, you don't keep secrets from people. You're honest, you live life how you authentically would like to. I'm getting that even though something may be said to be "cringy" (just do what you want guys who cares. life is short! "I'm having all this fun, so why. would I. ev-er stop?") you still do it anyway because you like it. You have the right attitude (for life). People should be more like you. I'm getting that you may have a certain niche you're very good at, and I'm referring to "niche" as in you may have "invented" something. I'm getting that you may be the first at making youtube videos about a certain thing (you're a guide for that game? that job? you may be someone that people mainly go to because you're the first one who does this and you're good at it). You may do podcasts a new way, I'm seeing like drinking on the podcast? lmao i know that's not really new but I'm getting maybe something with liquor/alcohol. There's a lot of traits coming up here now, and I feel like I really am just exclusively describing you.

I'm getting that you're also a calm person, a nice person to be around, like someone just wants to bask in your presence. You also seem to keep improving in life. You keep leveling up. You know how to leave things when it is time. You are able to move on efficiently (?, that's what I got). If pile 3 was kind of more a force to be reckoned with, you may be less "groundbreaking" (not an insult omg) but you're continuous. You just keep going. You continue to live your life. Your past experiences with people or life in general have no weight upon you. Yes you may have been affected and may have made certain adjustments from the lessons you have learned, but you never are weighed down by any of it. "It is what is" may be your mindset and the way you approach life.

You barely mope is what I'm feeling like lmfao. You learn, and continue to keep your head up high. With this consistency, you may have achieved so much. Looking back, a lot has been dealt with by you.. loose ends do not exist with you. You completely close chapters, and that is so admirable. Your fs just can't help but take you in. They're enthralled, they're inspired, they're subtly motivated. With your behavior you make them want to change naturally...and they do. You are a good influence to them and to others (yeah even though you have other habits that may not be role-model worthy.) I'm getting they're almost like your biggest fan pfft. Its like if you for example eat your chicken with ketchup or something, they're like "oh wow cool" and casually starts to do it themselves almost all the time too, and shares it with others that its good even though they may not particularly say it was from you hahah. You influence a lot of their life. With this, I feel like you may also be older than your future spouse or at least act more mature. They're saying this with their eyes gleaming, wholesome vibes: "Can I do that too? I want to do what you did last time it was pretty cool."

traits: transparent, consistent, learns and moves on, lives life authentically, calm, good influence/example

[xxlady-lunaxx]

I love you; I don't | {SaneGiyuu}

Theme: Angst? It's not bad but there's no fluff lmfao

Note: Spoilers<33

A little UzuRen mention

Idk but when I tell people my oneshot ideas somehow they always make me get angst ideas from what they say abt it, my sister told me i should end this in angst 🫡

btw the part 2:

part 2

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"Tomioka."

Giyuu turned at his name, tilting his head at the Wind Hashira who stood there, his arms cross and eyes averted.

"Yes?" 

Sanemi bit his lip, as if contemplating his life choices. "I like you. Romantically."

Giyuu gave a start, his eyes widening and cheeks flushing. "What?!"

"That's what I said," Sanemi snapped, embarrassed. He looked up, glaring at Giyuu through his bangs. "Do... you want to go out??"

"I... I-" Giyuu was at loss for words and his mouth opened and closed several times.

"Take your time," Sanemi said, rolling his eyes.

Giyuu looked down. He wanted to say yes, really, he did. But. But, if he dated Sanemi, he would end up losing him. It wasn't like he could protect Sanemi—one, Sanemi was at the same level (if maybe less or more) of strength as him, and two, he would never let himself be protected, really. Which just increased the chance of losing him, paired with the fact that they were both Hashira and were always sent on missions that were considerably harder. Dating Sanemi would only make Giyuu grow fonder and closer to him, which would make the loss... a thousand times more devestating. So...

"I'm... sorry, Shinazugawa," Giyuu whispered. "I... can't."

Sanemi blinked, speechless for a second, before nodding rapidly. "It's fine. Alright. See you around." Then he turned and seemingly disappeared.

Giyuu sighed, raking a hand through his hair. He felt bad but... he'd feel worse if he lost Sanemi. Which was practically destined to happen if he had accepted, given his luck. People seemed to die away like flower petals on a picked rose when they got close to Giyuu.

×××

"I don't fucking know! It's like... I was getting mixed signals, it's just... Fuck," Sanemi groaned, banging his head on the table. "But he said no. And now there's not fucking way I can show my face to him again."

Obanai sighed. "We should go somewhere else, people are staring," he said. 

"Right..." Sanemi grumbled, standing. "Let's go to an ocean so I can drown myself."

Obanai rolled his eyes and stood, grabbing Sanemi by the wrist and pulling him down a road. "Walk, bitch. We'll go find a place we can train so you can let off some steam."

"Mm."

After Sanemi got ahold of himself, the two walked down the path side by side in silence. Obanai spoke up after a couple minutes.

"Just forget about Tomioka. It won't happen in a flash but... try? If he said no he probably means no and he's just stupid for acting like he likes you then rejecting you. For all we know he might not be into men. I don't know, just try leveling your own feelings with his and see what you can get from it. But... yeah, I would ignore Tomioka too," Obanai said, glancing at Sanemi. "It's not like you two talk much in the first place, so it'll be fine."

Sanemi rolled his eyes. "Comforting. But, I guess. I'd prefer just to not think about him, to be honest."

"That too," the ravenette said, nodding. "Anyways, relationship are tedious things when you're a Hashira. Or just in the Demon Slayer Corps, period."

"Mm. And yet we have Uzui—in the Demon Slayer Corps, a Hashira—somehow married. To three people. And you can't convince me otherwise that he doesn't have his eyes set on Rengoku too," Sanemi said, scoffing.

Obanai laughed. "He's just built like that. The little fuck is more interested in romance than saving people's lives."

"Eh, wouldn't we be too if demons didn't exist?" Sanemi asked, crossing his arms. 

"Fair point. Or not. I don't know if I'd exist if demons didnt," Obanai murmured thoughtfully.

"The hell is that supposed to mean?"

"Nothing."

"...Right."

"...Back to Tomioka," Obanai said, quickening his pace.

"No, not back to him. There should be a clearing up ahead, wanna spar?" Sanemi offered, unsheathing his katana.

"Bet. Loser has to buy the other something?" Obanai proposed, grinning. 

"Count your money, I want ohagi," Sanemi said, racing ahead of him.

"HEY-"

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Years had past—yes, years—and Muzan was killed and Hashira were lost. Amongst the living Hashira were Giyuu and Sanemi. Tengen, as well, although he had retired a couple months before. And now that there was no obvious constant threat on their lives, they could live more freely, think more freely.

Paired with the knowledge of when they would die, Giyuu felt as if he could act upon whatever he wanted to. Befriend whom he liked, grow closer to those he wanted to. Somehow, throughout the years, he had loved Sanemi all the same. The feeling had wavered sometimes, but would come back in full bloom only a few weeks later. Since he no longer felt as if he would lose someone immediately because of himself, he decided to tell Sanemi of this. 

So, one day, he sent a crow to Sanemi, asking if they could meet together, maybe eat lunch. The letter was messily written as his dominant(is he right-handed?) hand was gone, but he hoped that Sanemi would be able to read it alright.

Luckily, he seemed to have been able to, as he arrived at noon at the park Giyuu had invited him to. The two had both brought their own lunches and quickly found a place to sit and eat. It was quiet for a moment as the two got their bearings together. The weather was nice, warm with a light breeze, and there was a soft scent of sakura flowers in the air.

Giyuu ate clumsily, not yet used to using his left hand as he struggled with his chopsticks.

Sanemi tilted his head towards him, an amused smirk growing on his face. "You eat messier than Rengoku."

Giyuu huffed. "I'm trying!"

"Mhm. What did you me to come here for? Just to eat?" Sanemi asked, putting down his chopsticks. 

"Ah. You know when... you said that you liked me?" Giyuu said hesitantly.

"Well fuck, going right in. Yes. I don't want to remember that," Sanemi said pointedly, sighing. 

Giyuu gave him a small, lopsided smile. "Alright. Well, I told you 'no,' not because I didn't like you, but because I didn't want to lose you. You understand, yes? I'm sorry... for that. And for not explaining. I just... panicked. I didn't want to risk losing you, then blaming myself forever," he murmured. 

Sanemi stared at him. "That's... Fuck you," he said, grumbling. 

Giyuu sighed. "I'm sorry."

"Why are you telling me this now, though??" Sanemi asked, raising an eyebrow. "It's really out of the blue."

"Ah... About that," Giyuu said, his voice lowering. "So..."

"Hm?"

"About what I said, that I said no, not because I disliked you? Well. Well, I did like you. I... do," Giyuu mumbled. "I like you." He cast his eyes down as he waited for a response. When he didn't get any, he looked back up at Sanemi.

Sanemi looked hesitant, his eyes down at his food on his lap. 

"What's wrong?" Giyuu asked curiously.

"I just..." He trailed off, his eyes meeting Giyuu's. "I don't like you like that anymore. I stopped, after a while. I figured I had no chance, so..."

Giyuu blinked. God. Of course. He should've expected this. "Oh."

"Sorry," Sanemi murmured. 

Giyuu shook his head, forcing a smile. "No, no, like you said before, it's alright. It's fine. You don't have to apologize, it's completely my fault. Uhm... I have to go now, I just remembered I promised to meet Tanjiro later, see you around..." he said, fumbling with his food and standing, quickly rushing off.

"TOMIOKA-" Sanemi shouted, his food falling to the floor as he stood.

Giyuu didn't look back, pressing a hand to his mouth to stop a sob that threatened to spill out. He should've expected this. There was no way in hell Sanemi would've stayed in love after years, it was a miracle he'd loved him in the first place. Of course.

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[hor3nee]

Wait besthie bfr with me right now pls was sukuna gonna eat da baby in life or not I feel like Im getting serious mixed signals here and I love his dilfy ass being so uncaring but also like actually so caring and fatherly but CANIBALLISM 😔😔😔😔

HI OMG NO THIS IS SO FAIR TO ASK LMFSODLOGF

I was just shitting around in the replies I didn't actually write Life with Sukuna wanting to eat his baby in mind LMFAO. You are 100%%%% right though he like IS a cannibal and yes I would not put it past him to do that shit like I said. However, it is in my mind that if Sukuna truly cared for a human (like Reader) as a significant other (in his own cursed way), he wouldn't have any ill feelings to the child they bore either.

Especially since it's his too. Like I tried to convey in the fic, he was not necessarily excited for a baby. But he wasn't upset about it either. A kid is just.. there. Only after the birth does he take in legitimate liking of the child, mostly out of ego and pride though LMFAO.

And yeah caniballism if I'm being completely cynical here if he had just knocked up some random other that he did not care for he would eat the baby for shits and giggles I'm so sorry that is entirely in character for him too. LMFAO.

[fandom-hoarder]

Walker 4x10 live reaction

I'm watching walker now, cracking up again at Liam in the recap: "She went out the window!"

Liam is being total dad rn 👀

"Make sure you're as vague as possible. He's not in the best headspace." Hahh yeah

Omg stella

Meeting joanna ALONE AGAIN jfc

"Your GRANDMOTHER, Sadie."

Fainting in sex ed lol

Luna is funny

He did a bit lol

Sadie having normal grandparents to compare joanna to hahhh good

Ok I'm glad they tracked her phone. WHAT ABOUT HER LAPTOP. SHE LOOKED UP THE ADDRESS

Thank you, goddd

Wow, Luna's friend so dismissive

What a diiiick

😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯

BECAUSE I LOVE HER *SLAPS COUNTER*

I like this one

Lmfao liam gesticulating with the knife

Like my old boss lmfao

Is this a walker thing? Lmfaooooo did you not notice

Geri's "yeah. It is." So true

Lmao go angry chop some wood

Stellaaaaa you had ONE plan lmao

Dean ass behavior

Turn on your PHONE girl

Am i insane? Did they take her phone when i wasn't looking?

Luna don't make excuses for him. Like ok but he's also a dick

They're so cute, god

LITTLE HOYT

Oh wow, joanna found out about her through the dna test

That scene was intense. I teared up

I REALLY want abby to kill her lol. I hope she gets to punch her

Ooh Abby knows where to goooo

Lmao GO STELLA

Yes ABBYYYY

Goddamn. SIGNAL, SIGNAL!! LMAO i died

That was a great sequence

This family drama was way more satisfying than the davidsons thing in s2

I always knew it'd end this way omfggg

Lolol sadie telling the signal story

The most cordell thing I've ever heard!! Lmao

Stella found itttt

Lmfao jfc

Letterrrrr 👀👀👀👀

Omggg

LORE

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Lol it is still stolen property

BACK TO THE MUSEUM?!

MIXED FEELINGS ON THAT!!

Omgggg walker ??????

What???

Omggg

Digoxen???

Omfgggg

The blender

YESSSSSSSSSS

Aaaaaaaauughhhh

Omg omggg

EMILYYYYY

YESSSSSSS AAAAUUUGGHHH

I need the next one RIGHT NOW

Omfg

The trailer for next week: Aauugghh gonna be a hallucination ep... this is basically a djinn ep 👁👄👁 BET

I am SO EXCITED

I started gushing to jpop about all the cordell whump I'm about to get and started blushing lmfao

[fallowtail]

Trevor is literally having a mini panic attack in those .gifs of Alberta calling Hetty her friend. He wants Alberta to forgive Hetty so badly. Even though, I am sure he understands, if she doesn't. His breathing is so heavy. Shows you how much souls can get heavy at times. It was a fantastic H-Money moment.

Yes oh my gosh, he's so worried! They didn't have to give us that moment of Trevor caring so much that Hetty is getting banished, but they did, and I do think that means at least something that they made such a point of having him and Alberta blocked together as the one's in distress about it...I have a theory that the Ghost Council made Hetty's punishment so severe in order to help Alberta see she doesn't want Hetty tortured, she just...wants her to squirm and be genuinely sorry (the way Pete goes well you could forgive her felt very Dad-settling-fight-between-his-kids) which Hetty proves she is by accepting her fate, which is why none of the others really seem to give much of a shit about it LMAO, but since Trevor was disconnected from the plot, he wasn't in on the scheme...so to him and Alberta, it's a huge shock.

It was such a delightful little H-Money moment that they didn't have to give us but I'm soooo glad they did, especially because of how involved with the plot Trevor was and that revelation about his commitment issues he had...and what he proceeds to do almost immediately after is frantically ask if he can still go see Hetty if she's banished, completely forgetting that they're hiding from the house because he's so concerned about it, lol. (Now this could just be that man is so desperately horny he is frantically wondering if they can still bone, buuuut given that scene he had just had with Isaac and Thorfinn...it's interesting)

+ The look on her face in response is so interesting too because she is giving him this death stare of "shut up shut up" but her expression also almost kind of...softens? A bit? It's a very interesting reaction, reading expressions isn't my strong suit, admittedly, but it feels like a mix of annoyance and confusion, almost like she wasn't expecting him to care, so even though she is giving him the "STOP TALKING IMMEDIATELY" signal she's like "???" at the same time...some seeds were being planted here, and it'll be interesting to see where it goes. (Also...lmfao. The way the other ghosts all clearly have to know they're still boning now, good lord, the look on Alberta's face especially when he's trying to walk it back...so good.)

[hyuckmov]

hiii moon anon here i have a lot to say but first off: i've been analyzing the title song settle down and i've been listening to it over and over again and is the story gonna parallel the lyrics itself?? "and i don't seem to be having any effect now" like thats… oooh the angst is gonna be delicious. i hope you take this as a compliment when i say this but the whole fic takes me BACK to 2013-2015 YOU KNOW THAT ERA HAHAHA the tropes, the ambiance, the CHARACTERS!! side question: is mark or jisung gonna play bigger roles? or did they just act as plot devices for reader and haechans development. would not mind either way but given the concept of the story i can totally imagine reader coming back and just wreaking havoc on the band. sorry i love mess lol. maybe i'm delusional or maybe its the fact that it's haechan but it makes me more understanding of the character?? i trust you when you say that there's more to rockstar hc than meets the eye, and especially from his perspective it's pretty realistic that he has his guard up when it comes to really connecting with people, and we see his walls slowly crumbling down by the end too. and even in the earlier parts of the story i didn't expect him to have his sweet moments?? i honestly expected him to be worse but god him calling her PRINCESS has me on my knees i will defend reader's choices with my life because i'd do the same, i'd probably still go to the concert by the end she's so much stronger than me helppp (tho DISCLAIMER i would not be doing this for just any man its bc its haechan why i am easily swayed by the little things,,, just like reader), but i liked how she decided to take a step back this time, especially when at that point haechan is basically offering her what she has always wanted, but knowing his past actions it won't be truly easy to hang onto every word said. this is the culmination of every mixed signals and rejection that haechan gave her, and the build up to it is veryyy well done. also im still reeling from reading the fic i felt sooo many emotions and dk how to fully articulate it yet,, maybe i'll come back when i do. i even made a playlist of my own w songs that reminded me of the fic to help me move on (at least until pt 2 gets posted, cant wait tho!!)

MOON ANON.... when i say my jaw dropped.... my heart rate actually spiked i can't believe you wrote such a detailed review and theorized this makes me so happy especially since you basically inspired me with this idea !!!! giving you a huge hug rn 🫂🤍 

omg ngl this fic encouraging people to listen to settle down makes me so happy because it's one of my favorite songs 😭 it makes me feel so honoured to know that you are analysing the lyrics and anticipating the plot like that really means so much to me !!! i definitely picked it because it had themes i wanted to explore throughout the song...but the lines kind of contain both hyucks and readers pov hehe so i'm excited to explore that in part 2

i take that as a DEFINITE COMPLIMENT i was so invested in that era it was so formative for me... hence a lot of the song choice in my playlist too... i don't know if i genuinely nailed the idea of rockstar in rockstar haechan (because truly...what is a rockstar...) but i did want to give it that 2013 band on tumblr vibe lmfao so i'm so glad you brought that up !!!!

AAAA the band still definitely continues to play a role... they have stuff to work out but i've thought about their characters a lot and i definitely want to show more of their opinions on haechan and reader (it wouldn't be a rockstar au without that). someone else i want to add in is jaemin because ngl reader needs someone purely on her side

i hope i'm not promising too much with haechan HAHA i'm not someone who likes to give too much backstory to characters so i'm just putting it out there: i'm not going to explain that he's this way becaue he was cheated on before or he had family problems etc. i just want it to be genuine layers of his character and personality that's put to the test (love making it hard for myself LOL)

i'm so relieved to know you still managed to feel for his character and appreciate the softer sides of him and a bit of his struggle... i was worried i promised a super terrible character with the preview and people would be disappointed he ended up being so gentle with reader 😅

and her standing him up at the end!!! i'm glad you thought it was justified but at the same time recognise she probably was going to...it really could go both ways and idk if i'm still going through with my original plot arc !!! we will see :)

this was already so articulate omg once i appreciate it sooo so so so much that you shared such a detailed review with me, it literally blows my mind and i will reread your ask again and again !!!! omg and if u want please share your playlist with me too!!! i want to see what songs there are that give him vibes ~~

thank you sm again...you are too nice to me ily!!!!

[pop-punklouis]

Hi Hope! sorry for all the text, I need to vent because what was supposed to be a nice experience turned into hell for me and other fans who are going to attend the premiere in Mexico.

Context: First of all, even though there were a lot of dynamics for fans to win their pass to attend, it only guarantees entry to see the documentary, not to the red carpet. And I would be fine with that if they had specified that from the beginning, which they didn't and haven't, only knowing this because fans have asked. Not to mention that if the people who won can be on the carpet, it would be a bit more controlled because normally at the premieres, the press and ticket winners are on the side of the carpet, and those who didn't are on the balcony. Anyway, that said, it means that the red carpet will be public ANYONE can stand there and stay.

Secondly, there are already people there YESTERDAY. I think they're being very unfair about it by camping out. Considering that a lot of people from other states (who won and who didn't) are spending their money to come for one day and if they're lucky to see Louis up close, this takes away all the chances.

Honestly, I think it's foolish to camp out for this, and I'm not mad just because I can't do it or anything, but it's too normalized in my opinion. Why not just get there early?

This has nothing to do with anything, but to no one's surprise, the people in the plaza right now are the same ones who were outside the concert venue in Mexico City a week earlier. I mean, why are they starting this? What's the need to try to organize on their something unnecessary?

Thirdly, I don't know if you've seen pictures of the place being set up but the thing is that this time they made it very small and I'm worried that the organizers are not aware of the impact that Louis has and the people that are going to attend.

And I just want to cry because I don't know if I'm being selfish for thinking that only people who won passes can be on the red carpet, but if it wasn't going to be like that what was the point of it? just to see the documentary two days before? like I said, people are going to come from other states, and if they're not going to get a chance to see Louis up close because of the people who organize other things they just came to see the documentary two days before? It seems kind of pointless to me. But the cinema just gave mixed signals from the beginning and that's why the whole thing is a mess.

This situation was so weird and caused me so much anxiety from the beginning that I'm seriously considering not attending even if I won ha. But what do you think?

everyone knows how i feel about camping lmfao but yeah, i think it would benefit from the organization that took place with both the london and tokyo premieres. especially if the location is much smaller than the two others. i haven’t paid too close attention to how these events were put together, but yeah. i think it’s more than understandable for you and other fans to be frustrated about the lack of info given about what the tickets gave access to if you won. it would’ve definitely been smoother if those who won tickets to the premiere also won red carpet tickets or there were two separate ticket accesses given so more fans could take part. i don’t necessarily think the public shouldn’t be able to come and experience it if they wanted, but i do get the anxiety and frustration due to the size, lack of communication, and camping. does the ticket fans won have a Q&A with louis like the other two premieres did? because i know that was a huge highlight to being chosen. idk babe it does seem like all of these feelings could’ve been avoided if the event and cinema had been more organized and forthcoming with info about the event etc. i’m sorry :( that really does suck and i hate that it’s given so much anxiety to so many fans going tomorrow. imo i would still go because it’s still a really cool experience regardless of what the ticket includes or not. you’ll be around other louies and feed off the energy of the environment. and that’s fun, in itself!! but yeah i hope things run smoothly tomorrow and you guys have a blast if you win 🤍

[photmath]

I think I sent you a request and now I see on your master list it says you don't. I'm sorry. I do respect boundaries

Oh no mate, you’re totally fine! No need to apologize, that’s on me bc I know in one my recent posts I totally encouraged for them, so I’ve been giving mixed signals.

At the moment I don’t do requests bc the lack of free time I have, but I’ll totally get around to writing the ones I have eventually. That is pretty much all I’m focusing on right now—completing the requests I have.

I like writing majority of my posts with 5k+ words and just trying to make it filled with as much emotion and content that I can—which all takes a good chunk of time, and that didn’t used to be much of a problem until classes started back up for me. *crying real tears here*

But I mean hey, if you totally want to send your request to someone else, go for it. I promise I won’t be hurt, I won’t even bat an eye, just let me know which one was yours so I don’t spend hours writing it, please. <3

[I don’t even have time to be hurt I wish I was kidding LMFAO]

Although I have started writing one so I hope it isn’t that one lmfao—but again, I do not mind at all.

[thelasttime]

hi Madie, Valentine Heart 💝 anon here! so unfortunately the movie night had to be canceled since his car battery died :( and we would’ve rescheduled yesterday (Saturday) but i was at a beach with my family, but then my mom said i could ask him if he wanted to tag along!! so i did that, but unfortunately he also said he couldn’t :( which was really disappointing, this was my chance to see him again and it’s like the universe conspired to make that not happen lmfao. i really hope i get to see him again soon and that he wants to see me again soon too

in other news, i was talking with my parents about him a few days ago, and my mom told me this story about the day when we were at this new grocery store and he happened to be there (he noticed me first and came up to me and we had a short conversation)! idk how my mom interpreted it, but the way she was telling it, it seemed like his friends were teasing him about our interaction and he was getting flustered? like apparently they were laughing and glancing at me and he would smile and put his head down on the table?? idk how accurate that was since i had no idea any of that was happening in the first place (my back was turned towards them and i was busy talking to my sister). so um. yeah?? this is very new to me.

it made me lose my mind a little, but it also has me confused because a week or two after that, i found out he had asked someone else out and he got rejected (idk if you remember me telling you that or not). so idk what that whole story my mom told me was about??? maybe it was actually about that other girl he went after? but if it was about me then why did he say he asked someone else out? unless he was actually talking about me?? which makes no sense because i don’t recall him asking me out (and i would have said yes). idk.

but anyway, that’s all for now! hoping for a good update in the future!

eeeeeeee!!!! gosh, i really wish i could tell you what's going on but at this point i'm like ... truly ... i have no idea ... many signals ... mixed ... confused ... i am ......

i do think that you might not get the answer you want unless you decide to be straightforward with him and ask what's going on. it's quite scary though but i think you're going to keep going on with these mixed signals if nothing happens ...

[seafoamreadings]

I hate hate hate sending astrologers sooo many placements but I really need your opinion on this synastry lolll. I'm Pisces Rising with Libra Sun, Moon, Venus, Virgo Mercury and Pisces Mars. And that guy has like his Sun, Mercury, Mars in Leo, Moon in Capricorn and Venus in Virgo. He always gives mixed signals which idc bcoz I'm not into him anymore. we both get annoyed with each other but I feel we secretly enjoy that lmfao and this is where I need your help aahhh (according to my observations I think he might be Virgo rising but I can be totally wrong as I don't have his birth time)

maybe you secretly enjoy it because you're actually both still into each other? libra AND virgo venuses can both be a bit like that. it's a fun little game and maybe it's nice to not actually pursue it. also with him being so leonic he's going to just really like your attention, even if he's not doing anything with it, so that might explain mixed signals of a hot/cold nature

[dumplingsjinson]

naurrrrr, so a lot has happened since thursday last week ('tis now a tuesday). the long distant dude i voice called on thursday (took us 6 months and a fucktonne of communication issues in between) hasn't been answering my messages since the call and long story short, i'm kicking him to the curb for the meanwhile and if he ever replies then gg. ion need a partner OR a friend like that, ngl, because he's been inconsistent for the longest of fucking time, and i don't wanna agonise over someone like that any longer.

on friday, i went out with another guy. we'll call him... the cat dude, cause he loves cats and has one himself (she's the cutest thing ever, with the pics he's been sending me). first half of the date was a little boring, ngl. he's a lil' awkward. he was probably also a lil' nervous, which i don't blame him for.

and then we got drunk as shit for the second half, and i was leaning against him and everything while we were trekking around the city, and uh... AHEM. we ended up making out during karaoke. several times at that. i initiated most of them, too, because i wanted someone to kiss (mayhaps kissing is quite fun, imma tell you that much), so i'm like... LKFNEWLKFN. TAKE ALCOHOL AWAY FROM ME RIGHT NOW. a complete menace to society, your honour!

like, i still remember our first kiss where i turned around to face him, looked at him for a second or two then pulled him in by the nape of neck to kiss him. i don't remember how the other ones happened but i remember he initiated one of them. i remember him cuddling close to me, with me leaning against him, while we sang into our mics; him kissing my face (do guys just like... do that after you kiss them or what is this????). the karaoke room was like... right near reception and there's like a small window where people can see us so if workers/guests were walking around, they might have caught us doing that. so yeah. no decorum whatsoever.

i kissed him goodbye at the train station when he dropped me off (I WOULD NEVER DO SUCH A THING WHEN SOBER, I WOULDN'T EVEN HUG SOMEONE WHEN LEAVING UNLESS THEY GO IN FOR THE HUG FIRST SO BITCH), before i hopped my drunk ass on the train to get home (and now i cannot stop thinking about it for the life of me!!! fuck me!! and i also can't stop wishing i kissed him for longer LMFAO). he ended up staying at a hotel (i'm so thankful i didn't stay with him or else things might have happened and i would have woken up to true regretfulness).

saturday morning, i wake up with a slight hangover (so worse than what happened the week before this when i got drunk as shit) he messages me and says he enjoyed my company, both drunk and sober and i was like... oh. because i thought he didn't enjoy my company while sober LMFAO, but i guess i was wrong (or maybe he was being polite, i have no clue). and now i'm seeing him again this week saturday for a small picnic with the promise we won't be drinking any sort of alcohol. AND IDK MAYBE I'M STUPID but i think he might be feeling me a little? he's more fun over text than in person tbvh, but again, first meet ups are usually a lil' awkward ahaha. and like... he's chill and i wanna see where this goes. (all i can say is, guys definitely get vvvv clingy when they're drunk! you break that touch barrier earlier on and they'll be all up in your personal space esp when you decide to add a few drinks to the mix lmfao. and yeah i only got drunk with like two dudes so the sample size isn't big but ya know??). i know his ass remembers what happened even if we never explicitly talked about it, but i ain't even embarrassed about it at this point. i just find it so funny lkwnfklwenf

as for the mixed signals guy... the dude who kissed me while drunk and got all clingy with me? the one who told me a few days later that he liked someone else? the one who was supposed to watch the fuckin' barbie movie with me? he flaked on my ass LAST MINUTE so he could go have a study date with the girl he likes. (that girl, according to him, doesn't like him back, and he's been pissy about it ever since.)

this guy is a MESS. he keeps reiterating that we're friends and nothing more so i'm acting like a friend towards him even though he probably doesn't fucking deserve my friendship considering how he could so easily flake on a friend after they planned a hang out with him over a WEEK in advance. a whole fucking week, with solid plans, and he fucking flakes. all because he wants to see the girl he's simping after. rude ass fucking bitch! that is not a good friend quality to have at all. inconsiderate, if you ask me. thank fuck i was able to find another friend to go with me.

there's also a lot of shit going on with him and the more i talk to him, the more i'm like... my god, i should probably drop him. i've been telling my friends about it and they're like "is this man okay? you sure you still wanna talk with him?" and i'm starting to think - no, i don't. he has hella issues, thinks getting into a relationship is the only means of having someone care about him (completely disregarding the fact that friends can care about you, too, sometimes even more than a partner does), and he's done questionable shit in the past. he also says really questionable shit.

and, like, don't get me wrong, i wanna be there for him and like... i can partially see why he might be the way he is today, but we had a conversation about it last night and he basically tried to push me away and i'm out here like - why would you ask me to be your friend when your end goal is to push me away? why ask for someone to care about you when this is the shit you do???? you can't be there for someone who simply just doesn't want to get their shit together. it gets draining really fucking quickly.

oh, not to mention, he ghosted all of his friends when he got with his now ex so fucking gg, mate. he seems to expect me to do the same with him when i get into a relo and i'm like... motherfucker, i'm not you. assuming i'd do that, just because you did that yourself, is just so hurtful. a complete red flag of a human being, if you ask me. if he continues to be like this then i'm taking the left exit. i don't need this shit in my life, right now or ever.

[lykoian]

i feel insane lmao i feel like i'm 17 again getting upset that this person isn't showing me how much they care about me, just telling me and then never mirroring their words in their actions. bro like if i'm the person you want to speak to most at the end of the day why are u whipping out every excuse in the book never to talk to me?? like something's not adding up here, i feel like i'm getting mixed signals lmfao.

[tea-with-evan-and-me]

She shared the post on Tumblr 🙄 she’s giving mixed signals and messages all the time like girl stop already!!!

And please tell me where can I get some tea info on reddit? Do you have any blog recommendations?

ohh okay now i see it lmfao she definitely likes the attention that baiting her relationship with evan garners.

for reddit: i just regularly search his name for mentions and if there's any fan accounts posting tea! also the deuxmoi subreddit. you can also follow them on IG but they post so much it's hard to keep up. i also keep up checking his name on twitter and IG whenever i'm not too busy.

[whatlovelybones-if]

How prone are the ROs the jealousy, and if they are, what kind of jealousy (insecure, possessive, etc)? Also does it change between crushing vs relationship phase? (If you’re comfortable with the topic, of course)

j park: they would be surprisingly tame during the pre-relationship arc, since they still want to respect the your wishes before acting too extreme. they've had more than a decade and a half to practice their self-control. it doesn't mean they don't have a limit tho 👀 if the person is clearly pushing your boundaries or rubbing their close proximity in J's face, they will not hesitate to fight them. btw there's still the danger of you giving them mixed signals and flirting with someone else 💀 // lmfao, the person better prepare a casket when you are in a relationship with J and they still have the nerve to flirt with you ⚰️

their jealousy is of pure possessiveness and anger tho, they don't have much room to be insecure. believe it or not, they've convinced themself that they're the only one meant for you and once you're in a relationship, there's nothing you can do to change that 🤷🏻

t kaufmann: i wouldn't say that the detective is a particularly jealous person, they're way too overconfident in their charm to think that anyone would pose a threat to them in getting what they want. honestly, it's a well-earned confidence because they rarely don't get what they set their eyes on. in a pre-relationship they very much respect your decisions so they'd just shrug and support you with whoever you choose // you wouldn't know wtf possessed them suddenly because when you're in a relationship because T is now a lot more insulting and menacing towards people who show interest in you in any way that's not platonic 💀 honestly, your craziness might have started to affect them a little at that point.

their jealousy can be described as “this person has some fucking nerve, i need to prove a point”. they'd go out of their way to show that you're theirs and embarrass who is into you.

vivienne malhotra: she's not a jealous person either so in the pre-relationship arc, she'd probably be like that ‘just smile and nod, y'all’ meme. she'd mostly just want to make sure that the person isn't making you uncomfortable and that you're safe overall. i think she will be the most supportive out of all the cast if you pursue a romance aside from her route, even if it does break her heart a little, especially since she already has a crush on you even before you show an interest in her // in a relationship, she does a complete 180° from her previous passive self and gets more intent on proving that you belong with each other. she is kind of scary like that, if i'm being honest 💀 to better visualise the extent she's willing to go for you, think will graham with hannibal lecter

viv's the (surprisingly) possessive kind of jealous in a relationship and that has a lot more to do with your influence on her that brought out the worst aspects of her jealousy.

sebastián navarro: he'd be hurt and a little put off by how obvious people are about their attraction to you. sebas isn't an idiot, he kind of guessed you were a much-desired figure in the hospital (and the town, in general) with your looks, money and brains. but in a pre-relationship, he knows that he has no control over what you do and who you choose to be with so his crush will remain a secret the whole time. you can notice his feelings and proceed to toy with him tho. even if sebas's brain will scream at him to snap out of it, his heart will foolishly fall into your games if you're sneaky enough // as opposed to the other ROs, in a relationship, he gets more confident that you love him and there is not much room for his jealousy to take root. there are instances where he will show a rare display of maddening anger but it will probably scare him too 🤷🏻

his jealousy is rooted in insecurity but like i said earlier, it doesn't manifest too much once he's in a relationship with you.