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[custommounts]

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[thepsychesphere]

Attachment Styles and Personality Development: A Theoretical Exploration

Unlock the secrets of how your earliest relationships shape who you are today. Dive into our exploration of attachment styles and discover the powerful connection between your childhood bonds and your adult personality. Whether you’re striving for healthier relationships or curious about the psychology behind your behavior, this article offers insights that can change your perspective on life.

[tavatinta]

Love blooms in patience and understanding's embrace, A newfound joy, an exciting chase. Day by day, in constant learning's delight, Discovery and falling in love, our bond shines bright. We complement each other, every moment shared, The joy of being loved, the time we dared.

[daffodilrays]

Understanding attachment styles and cultivating healthier relationships

Our attachment styles are determined and developed in our childhood. It is these attachment styles that greatly influence the way we form and maintain relationships throughout our lives. Understanding these attachment styles can shed light on why we relate to others the way we do and help us build healthier and more secure connections. Attachment theory, developed by psychologist John Bowlby,…

[prismaticstreams]

Question: I have boundary issues in the opposite way most people seem to have them, what is the secure way to do this?

I saw this question on Reddit recently:

Title: I have boundary issues in the opposite way most people seem to have them, what is the secure way to do this?

Throughout my life, I've used a "one strike and you're out" policy, where if I don't like something about the person, I cut them off immediately if they don't change right away.

The problem is that I can't tell the difference between normal human flaws vs. red flags, and I don't want to stick around in a situation that is potentially bad for me. My brain is like a home security alarm that goes off at every little movement, even if it's just the wind.

I've had friendships that ended with a long dramatic conversation, where I told them that I don't like something that they do and, because they pushed back instead of apologizing/changing the behavior, I told them it's over.

What kind of things are normal and I should stay in the relationship even if I dislike them? vs. what is definitely not good and I should leave? Aside from the obvious like rudeness, aggression, cheating, prejudices like racism/homophobia/etc., and drugs/alcohol.

Here is my response:

It sounds like you have a very all or nothing, black and white view of friendships. I find if there's issues in a friendship, I can often de-escalate the connection and just hang out with the person in group situations. Or reduce catch ups to once every 3-6 months, instead of daily, weekly or monthly hangouts. The nice thing about friendship is that it's very fluid and you can have friends you see once every five years, or friends you talk to on the phone several times a day. And everything in between!

I had a situation with a friend who was texting me daily and we started to fight more, so I told them we needed to reduce the frequency. Now the friendship is fine as we usually chat a few times per month, and we hardly ever have conflict.

I've also had friends who I lived with as housemates, and we just weren't compatible for living together. But when we don't live together, the friendship is great.

Another case is a friend who I hate talking with on the phone, as he always dominates the conversation and doesn't let me talk. Yet he is polite and considerate in emails, and I can contribute equally to the conversation in writing, so I just contact him that way now.

Of course, as you noted, this may not apply if the person is being egregiously rude, abusive, bigoted, hateful or displaying any behaviour that is clearly harmful to your wellbeing. But I find in most cases there's a way of reducing the intensity and frequency of the connection that works for me.

I've also noticed that in general, most people with healthy boundaries don't formally end friendships, unless there is extreme behaviour like abuse. They usually let them slowly fade out, and only end it directly if if the person doesn't take the hint and keeps contacting them frequently.

[consciouslyrelating]

Restore vitality - Have a good ecosystem of both giving and receiving. Make sure you don’t block either! 🙃

We’re made to exist among a community, to depend on others and have thriving social circles, but more and more we’ve been adopting a more isolated approach that’s not natural and leads to a lot of the reasons, ironically, that promote further disconnection both physiological and psychological.

Being part of the flow of giving and receiving, trusting you know how to meet your needs as well as expressing them is vital. Trusting yourself to lay boundaries out of love rather than scarcity and fear is vital. Trusting yourself to support and be there for others, able to meet their needs is also vital. Giving restores your vitality and energy as much as receiving, or even more at times. Out of balance on either, you dull your own light.

Why, despite living conditions being on average far above what they’ve been in most of our human history, we have potentially a lot more depression, anxiety and other states? When we have more comfort and opportunities, more time to spend on things other than solely survival, why are we lacking so much energy when we get home? Why are we isolating ourselves when that’s biologically not healthy for us?

Think about that?

Make sure you make an informed decision about why you are where you are, and don’t put your head in the sand.

[utsaahpsychologyclinic]

SAD is marked by intense fear or distress about being away from attachment figures, often leading to avoidance behaviors like refusing school or being alone. Common signs include excessive worry, clinginess, and nightmares about separation.

SAD goes beyond typical worry. It’s intense fear, tears, and resistance every time a child is apart from their caregiver. Understanding the signs is the first step to helping them feel safe and supported.

SeparationAnxiety #ChildMentalHealth #UnderstandingSAD #MentalHealthMatters #EarlySigns #ParentingAwareness #CompassionateParenting #SecureAttachment

[boss323michalmiskovic]

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[kingmakher]

Onlyfans but I read you books on Polyvagal Theory and attachment styles.

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[mymommyisapsycho]

Abrolhosolhos e põe-se logo em sentido

Muitos pais/mães. Achavam e continuam a achar que isto é um bom sinal. E é. Confere.

Quando se abre os olhos ou se dá um berro a uma cria. E. A cria para de fazer a porcaria que está a fazer. Isso é ótimo. Facilita a gestão do comportamento. No momento e no futuro.

Mas.

(Vocês já sabiam que vinha aí um mas.)

Se este for um padrão e o topo do bolo de um estilo autoritário. Grande enorme gigante. Tem todos os outros reversos de todas as outras moedas inventadas e por inventar.

O medo é uma resposta automática e universal adaptativa e protetora. As crias podem e devem (e vão inevitavelmente) experienciar episódios de medo. Mas. Ter medo de quem (deveria) cuidar e criar. Torna-se um paradoxo para a vida.

Pode sair daí uma cria que se torna num adulto funcional? Pode. Claro que sim. Mas a probabilidade que tal aconteça não é muito animadora.

O pódio dos cenários mais prováveis é o seguinte:

Pode sair uma cria que se torna num adulto “revoltado”. Com os tais olhos bem abertos para os outros e para o mundo.

Pode sair uma cria que se torna num adulto que se odeia ou detesta. Com os tais olhos bem abertos dentro de si e voltados para si.

Pode sair uma cria que se torna num adulto tão pequenino que não tem voz. Sempre com medo que apareçam de novo os tais olhos bem abertos por parte dos outros e do mundo.

Pode. Ainda. Sair uma cria que se torna num adulto com uma mixórdia de tudo isto. Ou. Um adulto funcional. Mas que em situações de tom ameaçador semelhante. Vão recrutar a resposta precoce que os protegeu na infância. E. Que. Na idade adulta. Pode não ser (sempre) (e geralmente não é) a mais adaptativa e protetora.

#attachment #secureattachment #attachmentstyles #compassion #mymommyisapsycho

[thewickedqueen]

[responsiveparenting]

Secure Attachment “Secure attachment is like a big cozy quilt that you can always feel holding you safe… keeping you warm and loved. It’s a knowledge that the quilt will always be there and you do not question whether you are worthy of it’s warmth, you know you are.” J. Milburn @responsive_parenting #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #attachmentstyles #attachmenttheory #secureattachment #attachmentmatters https://www.instagram.com/p/CUcpweogQrK/?utm_medium=tumblr

[nottinghamcounselling]

A really good explanation of #attachmenttheory #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #disorganisedattachment #secureattachment #parenting #mentalhealth #relationships #relationship #counselling #counseling #counsellor #counselor #gedling #gedlingcounsellor #mapperley #mapperleycounselling #carlton #carltoncounselling #netherfield #netherfieldcounsellor #nottingham #nottinghamcounselling #ng4 #ng4counselling #elainebondcounselling (at Elaine Bond Counselling Services) https://www.instagram.com/p/CPSmCYSFV9l/?utm_medium=tumblr

[empressempathidi]

#KnowThySelf ✨ #Rp @epicinitiator Before you go diagnosing yourself (or others) with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Codependent, etc, please just throw away the titles and consider them ONLY as types of wounding. ⁣⁣A label does not make a person AND we are fully capable of healing, in fact, our body, our emotions naturally move towards wellbeing. We have neuroplasticity — we know that attachment styles as well as wounds can change and heal, so don’t get all wild on this one. ⁣⁣The other thing I want you to consider is the human animal. Try to think of the aspect of ourselves that is strictly instinctive and trying to protect itself and optimize survival. Consider the human spirit, the human soul as part of the whole but we can address it separately. ⁣⁣I think when we understand consciousness is layered, ever evolving and awakening it helps us have more compassion for ourselves. ⁣⁣This is a good time to announce that I’m part of an online summit called Crushing Codependence and it’s all about…you guessed it: codependence!!! So calling all my insecure attachment peeps! It’s free and if you want in you can visit my website and join my mailing list to be notified or stay tuned abd links will be up very soon!! Super excited to get this information out to you all!!! ❤️❤️❤️⁣ When we heal from the inside out, we have the confidence, self-trust and skills to enter into the right relationships and to honor our own feelings so we can opt out of ones that don’t feel good sooner. You deserve for love to be easy and rewarding. ⁣⁣For more info, follow the link in my bio @epicinitiator ⁣⁣⁣⁣#healthyrelationships #anxietyanddepression #attachment #polyvagaltheory #healingtrauma #anxiousattachment #avoidant #disorganizedattachment #fearfulavoidant #attachmenttrauma #attachmentstyles #reparenting #attachmentstyle #consciousdating #secureattachment #codependency #codependent #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #loveaddiction #loveaddict #boundaries #abandonment #enmeshment #narcissistic #relationaltrauma #relationaltrauma https://www.instagram.com/p/CVWORDaP7Nn/?utm_medium=tumblr

[masteringrelationships]

I’ve been told I am a charismatic, charming confident person; however, I battle with self-esteem issues. Not overtly but it comes out in what I allow in relationships, every day dealings, friendships, it goes on. People aren’t attracted to those who don’t believe that much in themselves, I believe. So I’m working on this.

I remember a therapist years ago asking me “what are your values?” — I was like uh do you have a list I can choose from, I have no idea lady. To this day, I need to do that exercise ASAP.

These kinds of questions are important before getting into the dating world as knowing who you are and who you are not is insanely appealing + you weed out potential partners that don’t align with your core self.

via @thesecurerelationship

[sagetherapy-dot-ca]

#attachmenttheory #secureattachment #coping https://www.instagram.com/p/CPRkWQvjQfT/?utm_medium=tumblr