#fearfulavoidant

[2fairywings]

This is what I'm doing rn

[floridakilo]

What’s your flirt game like? Or do you kubrick stare till the boy talks to you?

its really easy if its someone i dont like or a random stranger im talking to for the first time... beyond that its agonizing and feels cheap #fearfulavoidant

[uapro]

Love

[tinysweetandmighty-blog]

#trauma #fearfulavoidant #spilledink

[roquesox]

sometimes i get really jealous of toxic people.

imagine how easy life must be to move on from any situation and be totally guilt-free, even if you hurt someone so badly they can't ever recover?

probably way easier than me being gaslighted to the point where i now feel guilty about wanting to take care of myself instead of every other person in the world (who also has it so much worse than i do).

[empressempathidi]

#KnowThySelf ✨ #Rp @epicinitiator Before you go diagnosing yourself (or others) with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Codependent, etc, please just throw away the titles and consider them ONLY as types of wounding. ⁣⁣A label does not make a person AND we are fully capable of healing, in fact, our body, our emotions naturally move towards wellbeing. We have neuroplasticity — we know that attachment styles as well as wounds can change and heal, so don’t get all wild on this one. ⁣⁣The other thing I want you to consider is the human animal. Try to think of the aspect of ourselves that is strictly instinctive and trying to protect itself and optimize survival. Consider the human spirit, the human soul as part of the whole but we can address it separately. ⁣⁣I think when we understand consciousness is layered, ever evolving and awakening it helps us have more compassion for ourselves. ⁣⁣This is a good time to announce that I’m part of an online summit called Crushing Codependence and it’s all about…you guessed it: codependence!!! So calling all my insecure attachment peeps! It’s free and if you want in you can visit my website and join my mailing list to be notified or stay tuned abd links will be up very soon!! Super excited to get this information out to you all!!! ❤️❤️❤️⁣ When we heal from the inside out, we have the confidence, self-trust and skills to enter into the right relationships and to honor our own feelings so we can opt out of ones that don’t feel good sooner. You deserve for love to be easy and rewarding. ⁣⁣For more info, follow the link in my bio @epicinitiator ⁣⁣⁣⁣#healthyrelationships #anxietyanddepression #attachment #polyvagaltheory #healingtrauma #anxiousattachment #avoidant #disorganizedattachment #fearfulavoidant #attachmenttrauma #attachmentstyles #reparenting #attachmentstyle #consciousdating #secureattachment #codependency #codependent #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery #loveaddiction #loveaddict #boundaries #abandonment #enmeshment #narcissistic #relationaltrauma #relationaltrauma https://www.instagram.com/p/CVWORDaP7Nn/?utm_medium=tumblr

[renewyourheart]

If a child’s needs for connection and physical touch aren’t met, they learn to rely heavily on self-nurturing behaviors. They stop seeking closeness, expressing emotion and may even disconnect from bodily needs.⁣ ⁣ This attachment style follows them into their adulthood. After decades of living a pseudo-independent orientation to life, it feels uncomfortable when someone gets too close, and they will unconsciously push people away.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ❤️ 𝘓𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘴𝘵𝘺𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘳 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘴:⁣ 𝘙𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘸𝘉𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘶𝘱𝘉𝘰𝘰𝘵𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘱.𝘤𝘰𝘮⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #tinder #datingexpert #vancouverinfluencer #relationshipexpert #breakupexpert #breakuptips #scienceofattraction #breakupbootcamp #breakuphelp #estherperel #brenebrown #survivebreakup #heartbreaktips #anxiousattachmentstyle #codependency⁣ #getoverex #getoverhim #getoverher #breakuphelp #anxiousattachment ⁣ ⁣ (at New York City, N.Y.) https://www.instagram.com/p/CU8AjueB4KJ/?utm_medium=tumblr

[sunnymegatron]

On episode 130 of @americansexpodcast, @AidaManduley introduces us to attachment theory and explains how it impacts our daily lives. It turns out the way we connect in adult relationships is influenced by how we related to our caregivers as kids. Find out which best describes you–secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful? Aida also adapts attachment theory to polyamorous relationships, tells us how attachment styles affect the way we express ourselves sexually, how they impact our relationships in quarantine, and how BDSM roleplay can be used to explore our styles. Aida also gives us specific exercises we can do to help us relate to our partners better and overcome obstacles influenced by our attachment styles.⁣ SWIPE FOR CLIPS ---> ⁣ Get it here (link in bio): http://sunnymegatron.com/attachement-styles-aida-manduley/⁣ ⁣ Or find it on Pandora, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. ⁣Please subscribe so you never miss an episode! itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/american-sex/id1269884261?mt=2 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ p.s. Don’t forget to tune into our free Wednesday night s*x ed live stream on @GetVokl -- 8pm PST/11pm EST⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Wed 5/27. Plus our s*x-positive @discord community is thriving! (What’s Discord? It’s a community-building platform that has the features of a classic internet text-based forum mashed up with some of the audiovisual options of Zoom. You can access it free through your web browser!). Join at bit.ly/discordasp⁣ ⁣ #podcast #Podcaster #Podcasting #PandoraPodcasts #americanfucker #AmericanSex #sexpodcasts #sexpodcast #healthyrelationships #attachementstyles #attachementtheory #secureattachement #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #anxiouspreoccupied #therapist #relationshiptherapy #AidaManduley #healthypolyamory #therapeuticbdsm⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ https://www.instagram.com/p/CAn5bpdpcXH/?igshid=hc5np62lpycj

[daffodilrays]

Understanding attachment styles and cultivating healthier relationships

Our attachment styles are determined and developed in our childhood. It is these attachment styles that greatly influence the way we form and maintain relationships throughout our lives. Understanding these attachment styles can shed light on why we relate to others the way we do and help us build healthier and more secure connections. Attachment theory, developed by psychologist John Bowlby,…

[consciouslyrelating]

Have you ever feared over-committing, so you set boundaries that are too drastic and extreme? Have you ever feared being abandoned, so you ignore boundaries as much as you can? Or have you feared having the wool pulled over your eyes and also being abandoned, so you flip flop between having no boundaries to having extreme boundaries suddenly?

Which attachment style speaks most to you from these common fears of the 4 attachment styles?

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[hissecretobsession786]

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[hissecretobsession143]

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[responsiveparenting]

Came across this post and just love how relatable it is. Attachment Theory is very complex and can be hard to explain in a social media context. Relating attachment styles to familiar characters can make these complex concepts easier to understand. Posted @withregram • @epicinitiator Which character do you identify with the most? Or are you a mix? ⁣ ⁣ While this attachment business is really fun and interesting, it’s important to remember that your attachment goals are more important than your current attachment style because your attachment style is plastic…meaning, it can change. ⁣ ⁣ You’re not stuck, you don’t suck, you’re not doomed to be alone or to be attracted to people that treat you like a*holes.⁣ ⁣ The coolest thing is that there’s a process and I’ve seen so many cool shifts and changes, even within a few months of doing the work. Often if we’re wanting to change behavior, it’s going to take a good year of commitment, potentially more. Neuroscience has now shown that each cell in our body regenerates yearly, so we are different from year to year. We have an amazing capacity for healing, so by this time next year your attachment style could be vastly different. ⁣ Follow @epicinitiator for more attachment theory info ⁣ #attachmentstyles #attachmenttheory #attachment #attachment #secureattachment #neuroplasticity #insecureattachment #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #disorganizedattachment #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #avoidance #loveaddiction #loveaddict #addictedtolove #codependent #consciousdating #consciousrelationship #relationaltrauma #relationalhealing #emotionalhealing #emotionaltrauma #traumatized #counterdependent #connectionmatters https://www.instagram.com/p/CX1h4yKrLsi/?utm_medium=tumblr

[wendycore]

[consciouslyrelating]

Restore vitality - Have a good ecosystem of both giving and receiving. Make sure you don’t block either! 🙃

We’re made to exist among a community, to depend on others and have thriving social circles, but more and more we’ve been adopting a more isolated approach that’s not natural and leads to a lot of the reasons, ironically, that promote further disconnection both physiological and psychological.

Being part of the flow of giving and receiving, trusting you know how to meet your needs as well as expressing them is vital. Trusting yourself to lay boundaries out of love rather than scarcity and fear is vital. Trusting yourself to support and be there for others, able to meet their needs is also vital. Giving restores your vitality and energy as much as receiving, or even more at times. Out of balance on either, you dull your own light.

Why, despite living conditions being on average far above what they’ve been in most of our human history, we have potentially a lot more depression, anxiety and other states? When we have more comfort and opportunities, more time to spend on things other than solely survival, why are we lacking so much energy when we get home? Why are we isolating ourselves when that’s biologically not healthy for us?

Think about that?

Make sure you make an informed decision about why you are where you are, and don’t put your head in the sand.

[wearwolfapparel]

A part of my traumas have left me with severe abandonment issues, I've had to do constant shadow work to detach myself from this and the related codependency. A lot of that work was made possible with the things listed here.ot still have more to do but the difference is huge from how I used to be. ------------------------------------------------------ Reposted from @bobbyjodearnley (@get_regrann) - #attachmentstyle #attachmenttrauma #attachmentstyles #attachmentheory #attachmentwound #fearofabandonment #abandonmentissues #abandonmenttrauma #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #preoccupied #preoccupiedattachment #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #disorganizedattachment #emotionalregulation #selfsoothing #selfhealing (at Urban Shaman Company) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4Sd38xny4m/?igshid=cz0an65lupmn