#anti-therapist

[archiearchiearchiearchie]

tommy in fanfics vro

[scienceandpuzzles]

the absolute disconnect of taylor swift by describing her album reputation as a punk goth moment of female rage when she wrote lyrics to said record such as: "he can be my jailor, burton to this taylor" "you're so gorgeous i cant say anything to your face, cause look at that face" and "my babys fly like a jet stream" among others. not only laughable but ignorant at best and pedantic at worst. shes just clowning herself at this point.

[thegreatkarma]

the anti hero, the archer, this is me trying, mirrorball, nothing new, castles crumbling, foolish one girlies

[sysboxes]

[Text: This system is terrified to talk to their therapist about being a system.]

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[mohabbaat]

THOUGHTS ON THE NEW TS ALBUM

listen, i had no issues with this woman for a long time. i even liked her, defended her when she released that one video with dylan o'brien. but right now my respect for her is at level 0. mainly cause she let her fans hate on joe alwyn for an entire year, even encouraged this hatred by giving "easter eggs" when his only crime was being depressed??? and not proposing to her???? yeah. she threw him to the wolves just for publicity with no regard to his mental health (which was already bad even according to her) and that's such an asshole move. especially considering he was there when no one else was. also, she made an entire song complaining that her fans were too rude to the racist dude she dated and who dumped her after a few weeks?? but had nothing to say about the literal witch hunt that joe (the dude she dated for 6 years and apparently was desperate to marry) has been going through??? yeah. she needs therapy.

[sweet-ladys-things]

I genuinely want to know what antis are telling their therapists for them to say that comshipping is bad. I literally told my therapist today that I ship incest and why and his response, no joke, was: "Ok."

[proshipmizook]

if no one else got me i know licensed psychologists got me

[hang-on-lil-tomato]

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING! As an LMT, this is a COMPLETE VIOLATION of EVERYTHING we are trained in! An LMT would have their license revoked for this!

If a client is inappropriate…which, to say the least Neil’s behavior is unacceptable…the client is BANNED.

Relationships with a client are strictly prohibited. After 6 months of no massages, if you are still interested, you can date.

In the Massage Therapy community, we FIGHT against this entire “happy ending” bullshit.

Sex workers are fine. But LMTs are NOT sex workers.

If some clown wants something else, please go to a sex worker.

I can’t begin to say how utterly REPULSED I am by this “man”. And the massage therapist should lose their practice. Period.

This may have taken place in New Zealand. Maybe NZ therapists do not receive the same training as we in the USA.

[transmascissues]

i just got back from my first ever gynecological exam and somehow, despite the doctor being really nice and way more knowledgeable about trans bodies than i was expecting, it still ended up being incredibly upsetting and honestly probably mildly traumatizing. i’m sure it’s no secret to anyone following me that going to the gynecologist is a uniquely shitty experience for a lot of trans guys and i knew that but i really was not prepared for that.

first of all, everything you read says that the pelvic exam and pap smear shouldn’t hurt even if they’re super uncomfortable, but let me tell you, that shit fucking hurt. like, i have a pretty high pain tolerance and usually even when something does hurt i don’t show it very much, but that was maybe the most painful thing i’ve ever had a doctor do to me and it showed. to be fair, i’ve never had good luck with things like that — i couldn’t even use tampons back when i had a period because the one time i did, taking it out was really painful — and i’m on t now so i’m sure that makes things even harder and i was prepared for it to hurt, but i really wasn’t ready for just bad it was. it’s been an hour since the exam finished and there’s still some pain so, yeah, so much for “it’s just uncomfortable, not painful”.

(and a side note: when it did hurt, the doctor told me to relax my muscles because the tension makes it hurt more. what they didn’t seem to realize is that if your brain and body are collectively rejecting the presence of something inside you, making those muscles relax is a fucking herculean task and i for one was not in any way capable of it so it just…kept getting more painful.)

i also was never informed ahead of time of what a pelvic exam actually entails; i had assumed it was a more general external checkup, and that the pap smear was the only really invasive part. as it turns out, i was very wrong, and “pelvic exam” actually means the doctor sticks their finger up you to feel around. she asked me if i was comfortable getting the exam because it was so obvious that the pap smear didn’t go well, but i had no clue what i was saying yes to and it was a total surprise for me when there was something inside me again. and she knew it was my first time, so she had no reason to assume i knew that the exam would be like. by the time i realized i absolutely should not have said yes to it, i was too late and it was already happening. it really feels like common sense that if you’re going to be giving someone what basically amounts to a professional fingering, you should probably make it clear that that’s what’s about to happen, but i guess that doctor would disagree.

and of course, the whole time i was also being misgendered. the doctor used the right name for me, but the other staff didn’t and everything about it was so excessively gendered (i’m pretty sure the appointment i had was literally called a “women’s wellness visit” on the same sheet that had trans man and nonbinary as gender options). not to mention, when i told them i’m getting top surgery and have the exact date set, the nurse made a comment to like“well aren’t you one of the lucky ones,” which really felt like it had “i think trans guys have a super easy time getting surgeries that cis women have to fight for” energy.

and the irony of all this definitely isn’t lost on me — i just did a project this past semester about how trans guys are fucked over by reproductive healthcare practices so a lot of us just never go, and now i got some firsthand experience in exactly why so many of us just say “no fucking way”.

i just want to put this out there for anyone who hasn’t done it before because i think this would have been a lot less awful for me if someone had just told me “yeah, it might hurt way more than you think, and also that thing they call a pelvic exam is actually an internal exam.” i thought i was prepared and i totally wasn’t, so hopefully this will reach someone else who will be better off knowing all of this.

[hereathemoment]

It would have created a much more relatable and natural tension between the characters and in Nessian’s and elucien’s bond relationships if Nesta’s powers were recognized as Autumn Court and elain’s were Spring after emerging from the cauldron. This way the strife between sisters would still exist. Lucien already left Autumn for Spring so his and Elain’s romance could bloom naturally. Whereas, Cassian would never be willing to leave his home for Nesta, but Nesta needs to be in the autumn court for her own comfort and to learn her power. Right person, wrong location is something that happens in real life. There would be no need for character assassinations and the main plot themes could still exist. This would even create consistency with the first book and what Feyre painted on the dresser drawers for each sister.

Lucien and Nesta being in the IC is forced for no reason. This too is about control. The narrative is so unlikable because Feyre should not get their cake and eat it too. There needs to be a balance and a give and take here. And I honestly feel like the editors are on leave.

[chemicalreal]

From a show that keeps calling its source material propaganda why do they keep forcing their obvious and deranged hatred of family and motherhood on us

[a-v-j]

Possible height update for all AVJverse characters

@ask-toriel-isthebest idk what's inside the gift lol

I've been thinking of monster-sizing the skeletons(as well as other monsters in Avjverse)

So im thinking of adding up 3 ft to the all standard heights(i.e 4"11+3"0= 7"11 ft✨)

It's not yet final so im just sharing concepts and what they think lol. Just going thru the pros and cons

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[fight-nights-at-freddys]

how is this not point blank harassment?? am i wrong here? i really feel like i'm not.

[sysboxes]

[Text: This alter holds trauma related to a toxic ex-therapist.]

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[pierced-princess]

wait a gosh darn minuet, aren’t WE proshippers? i mean, any relationship with nicole is toxic & from what i’ve heard that falls under the category of “proshipper”

Ooc: Proshippers ship minors with adults, incest and actually encourage/normalize abusive/toxic relationships. Thing is, I personally don’t go out of my way to make the ships i like proship-y in anyway. If i *were* to have a toxic ship, i’d make it very very clear that i wouldnt normalize nor encourage it.

To tell everyone the truth, i used to be VERY proship when i was like 8-13 ish. Yes, i am an ex-proshipper. I am aware majority of proshippers ARE young like 10-17. But i know ADULT proshippers do exist. Which is why i’m so anti-proship, adults can easily groom someone to being a proshipper. I know because I was.

I didnt want this post to be dark, sorry about that Anon. In the game would Jeckole be abusive? Yes. Is Aricole abusive? Yes, it was! Emicole? Depends. But you can always take a ship and change it’s dynamic, and that within itself is NOT proship.

I am open-minded to proshippers and their opinions, but i will never let them CONVINCE me that its okay because its really not

[cybergothvox]

therapists arent police

They are all bastards though for the same reasons. They join an inherently unethical profession that any good person will be pushed out of because your job will require you to abuse someone. They literally incarcerate people. In mental hosiptals, they will have you beaten and restrained and drugged. They are part of the same machine as cops are. They function to enforce societal norms and punish deviation with violence the way cops do. They are cops in all but the gun.

ACAB applies to therapists too.