THE PRIDIC GENDER SYSTEM + AROPRIDIC
THE PRIDIC GENDER SYSTEM ;;
the pridic gender system is a gender system that encompasses feeling pride in another label! for example:
AROPRIDIC:
aropridic is a pridic gender that feels like, or is related to, aromantic pride/pride in ones being aromantic. a gender made up of pride in being aromantic.
IMAGE ID FLAG ONE :
a nine stripe mogai flag. the first two stripes are a dark gold and then a light yellow, and the third stripe is white. from there the stripes are light blue, light purple, mid-toned purple, mid-toned warmer purple, dark purple, deep warm purple.
IMAGE ID FLAG TWO :
a ten stripe mogai flag. there is a gradient throughout the stripes going from dark green, light green, white, light pink and dark pink.
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I’ve known I was aromantic since middle school, and I also knew that I was not and will never be asexual.
I stopped posting much about it after everything Aromantic began being linked with Asexuality around 2016; god forbid someone is physically attracted to someone but doesn’t want to be romantically involved; or is genuinely repulsed by it.
So I guess it’s nice to see the existence of the aroallo label after coming back to the Aro space.
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Before Realising My AroAce Sexuality
I want to make one thing very clear before anyone starts reading. Though I identify as being asexual and aromantic, I can only talk about my own story because it is the only one I really understand. And I know that all of us have a different story. We all walk a different path. We all react differently to the obstacles placed in out way. But I can only talk about myself and how I, and some people I know who are also aro-ace, have been affected by their sexuality. I hope sharing my story, as well as my opinions and advice is of any use to you.
I also want all my readers to feel free about contacting me if they want their story to be published or simply understood, EVEN IF YOU AREN'T AROMANTIC OR ASEXUAL YOURSELVES. I will handle everything which any of you send me with the utmost discretion and to the word referring to your wishes.
I am a British demigirl teenager of 14 years of age who has been living in Spain since the young age of about 4 or 5. I am currently undergoing my freshman year of highschool. The presence of the doubt that I was asexual always dug at the back of my mind, but I liked to think I wasn't. I was SCARED: I didn't want to be lonely for the rest of my life. In fact, I was obsessed with the idea that I would find love eventually.
I realised I didn't like boys or men when I was about 10 or 11 years old. I simply did not feel romantically attracted by them at all. Yes, I found some boys attractive, and some actors too, but I found I was not able to form romantic attractions towards them. What's more, the people who I had previously 'liked' (obvoiusly I was like 11 so never anything truly serious) had always been very good friends of mine. Such close friends that our friendship almost seemed like the celibate and completely nonsexual relationships the popular kids were forming between each other.
I knew that gay people existed. I'd never been against it. From the moment I realised being gay was a THING, I'd supported it, even if I didn't feel that way myself.
So I went and thought: hmmm... I don't like guys. That must mean I like girls. Now, what girl do I like?
So I found a pretty girl, VERY popular (actually, I remember quite clearly her name was Inés). And I decided I had a crush on her.
Then, 7th grade, I changed schools. And I lost contact with all my friends (including Inés). I found a girl, a Russian called Maria, and decided I liked her. We dated, some months later. But we never DID anything. Max was holding hands or kissing each others cheeks. Then we broke up on rather bad terms., Even now, almost a year and a half later, we don't talk. I was in the same room as her for 15 mins and has an anxiety attack. I must admit, I hold a massive amount of trauma from that relationship still.
I had never made out with anyone and never really felt the need to, even though by 8th grade most of my friends had. I felt like I fancied another of my friends, Sarah, but when I confessed my feelings I got rejected. I was not too sore about it, surprisingly. I felt more like my pride was hurt than that my heart was broken.
And then, something magical happened.
In June of 2023, at 14 years of age, I watched Heartstopper in a day with a friend.
I fell in love with it.
And then, on the 3rd of August, when season 2 was released, I watched the entirety of it at night on my phone. And that was when I discovered asexuality.
More later!
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cannot imagine not being a waterpilled hydrationmaxxing sipcel... im going to send yiu a water bottle via carrier pigeon
I HAVE A WATER BOTTLE... i jsut forget
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Celebrían: CALL YOUR BOY LIBRARY BOOKS THE WAY IM CHECKING HIM OUT
Celebrían: CALL YOUR BOY A HARDCOVER THE WAY I’M TAKING OFF HIS JACKET
Celebrían: CALL YOUR BOY A BOOK THE WAY I WANT TO GET BETWEEN HIS COVERS
Celebrían: CALL YOUR BOY A BOOK THE WAY IM RUNNING MY FINGERS ALONG HIS SPINE
Celebrían: CALL HIM AN E-READER THE WAY IM TURNING HIM ON
Celebrían: CALL HIM MORE FUNDING FOR LIBRARIES THE WAY EVERYONE WANTS HIM
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YOUR USERNAM E IS SO SCARY i ssaw it in my notifs and i got so so scared. say it isnt so
its who i am at heart…. i think c!beeduo r cis and platonic i think ppl who make them kiss are FREAKS!!!!!!! Its literally like ur making the real life guys that stream together all the time kiss its FUCKED UP!!!!
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There are a lot of times that I do consider unfollowing the #aromantic tags and only following #aroallo because it’s so oversaturated with aroace stuff that it doesn’t feel like the tag is even for me (as someone who is specifically aromantic, and not ace.)
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