#askingforhelp

[g0ldenpeach]

i am literally so desperate for help

please, i haven’t had work in 3 weeks but i’m hoping to get started again this upcoming week. i’m having a pretty expensive spinal surgery in 3 days and i’m really struggling with affording things right now. if anyone sees this and is in a place where they can comfortably help me out, my venmo is @spas22 and i would be so forever thankful. 

[amylynnorg]

Episode 12 is a combination of all the shows. I wanted to do something special since the number 12 is so important in the Bible. While I realize that the podcast isn't fully centered around either faith or tech it is a combination of both.  Jesus's apostles: Jesus chose 12 apostles, each representing one of Israel's 12 tribes. The book of Revelations: The number 12 is referenced in many ways, including 12 gates and 12 angels. Jesus's disciples: The 12 disciples of Jesus symbolize the perfection and completeness of his teachings.  The number 1212 can be seen as a reflection of this biblical meaning, representing completion, perfection, and divine authority Buddhists believe that life is composed of 12 stages. Beyond faith: 12 months in a year. 12 hours of day and night. 12 dozen eggs. 12 ribs on the average human. 12 signs of the zodiac. 12 fuction keys on a computer. 12 grades of school. 12 face cards in a deck of cards. Alcoholics Anonymous has 12 steps, 12 traditions, and 12 concepts for world service. Jury of 12. You can read more here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/12_(number) Be sure to Like, Subscribe, and Follow to our social media channels: https://www.facebook.com/AmyLynnsVoiceOvers https://twitter.com/amylynnorg https://thevoiceofamylynn.wordpress.com https://www.youtube.com/AmyLynnOrg Visit our website at: http://www.amylynn.org

[olenaart]

"Hope is a waking dream." - Aristotle 🦊

"The only way to do great work is to love what you do." - Steve Jobs 🦊 #HopeIsAWakeningDream #AskingForHelp #GreatWork #LoveWhatYouDo #Aristotle #SteveJobs #Motivation #Inspiration #BelieveInYourself #DreamBig #WorkHard #NeverGiveUp #Perseverance #Success #PositiveVibes #EmbraceChange

[stannamarsh]

Wake Me Up Billie Joe Armstrong

Last night, Jason the Great changed my oil for free. He's amazing, and I'm still adjusting to being in a good relationship, but the stress of constantly driving to three different cities and staying in two of them (yet not really living in either) is extremely overwhelming. Prior to this, I was used to being single and/or in a partial stopgap fuckbuddy thing so I didn't have to date.

Eventually, I'd love to move in with him but we are both highly independent types who are creatures of habits and I don't want to pressure him into anything before he's ready. I also feel like I need enough money in the bank to ensure that I can take care of at least half of any change of location before I even bring it up. Though moving to the same town where he lives is an option so I Zillow to see what I can get in Cedar Rapids now and found a place that looks good in his neighborhood that is less than the rent where I currently "live."

Over lunch, I called my Dad to explain it all and had a meltdown in my office over the phone. If asked by someone who may have heard it from a different room, I will lie and say I was watching a dramatic Netflix original series. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. I'm not used to having a job where you can be honest about what's really going on without fear of getting fired. No matter what industry you're in, it's not the norm.

There are better and worse, more and less capricious versions of that typical soul sucking pit of a work place where you're expected to figure out everything yourself with zero guidance or you're demoted or fired, but it's the rule rather than the exception.

Just as with Jason, I'm still getting used to a supportive partner, I'm still getting used to a job where I'm able (and encouraged) to ask for help. It's a small nonprofit that provides transitional housing for people with chronic illnesses but it sometimes involves pretending to be mentally healthy than I actually am, which is a learning curve too.

The second half of my day is going better because I remembered to eat. My own negative patterns include putting WAY too much pressure on myself, pretending I like things I don't in order to be nice (especially on TikTok so I will increase my scrolling), and reverting to past childhood encouragement to deny my feelings and to go against my own better judgment. These two things created a cycle of dependency that bit me in the ass as well as the asses of those who instilled it in me.

I like the happy chill days when I can just live my life without the heavy meditations on the way things are going. This is obviously not one of them. Today also highlighted the ways I struggle to take care of myself let alone anyone else (even if it's my actual job description) and as much as I attribute this to money, I'm not sure the high pressure way of living would go away if I had more. If it led to having more money, I'd probably keep doing it because then it would seem like it's justified.

[pguiler-blog]

The Hardest Word is Help

Asking for help can be torture! There aren’t too many words I’m hesitant to use. I can hold my own speaking to a crowd and share lots of good and supportive words. Words are my medium. I’m a writer, a wordsmith. Swearing is even easy for me. Generally, I don’t struggle with the use of words but for this one… “HELP!” I’ve worked in mental health for long enough to know I am not alone. When…

[lauriewoodward]

Mom, Where Are You?

When Mom first got her eviction notice sent in January, our family scrambled to find low income housing. But this is California and only a small percentage of seniors seeking affordable housing find it in the first year. Everywhere we called said no vacancy. At the same time Mom said she hadn’t been feeling well and we noticed that she was getting forgetful, mixing up dates and forgetting to pay…

[energywithshayrizzo]

It is with a heavy heart that I begin to write this message. ❤️ We need your prayers. 🙏🏼 It seems that our puppy received her vaccination with a bad batch of the parVo vaccine. |Ms T was not feeling well, I notice her personality changed a couple days ago. We watched her to see if it was a puppy cold. 🐾 She threw up yesterday morning. We took her to the vet for tests and found out that she’s positive for parVo. She is currently going through treatment at the vet for the next three days. (Our house is quiet). It’s incredibly frustrating, we had taken all of the steps and precautions. Our focus was their safety and now we’re sitting here praying. We can’t go through this again. It’s only been 6 months since we lost Lily to cancer. Please pray for my boys. Especially my little one Emerson. Ms T is his puppy. Im asking for your help. Please pray for all of our puppies health, and wellbeing. My boys need your power ❤️ of prayer. 🙏🏼. #powerofprayer #askingforhelp #puppylove #puppylife #goldenretriever #rizzoed (at Amazing Fairy Garden) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl_dySxLMxO/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[twistedcatmeow]

Ninety percent of the time, the Universe doesn’t give you any more than you can handle. The other ten percent of the time, it offers you the opportunity to allow for grace. And you do have to get out of your own way, sometimes, to let that grace in. When you still think you have the answers or can solve the problem, you block that power from operating in your life. It is only when we are out of answers, when we are up against the wall, when there’s no way out, do most of us drop our defenses and let grace in.

 

If you are in conscious need of grace today, you are in darkness. You can’t see the answer. All around you there are only walls.

If you can stop fighting and say “help me,” the walls become a little more transparent. As you actively, consciously keep staying out of the way and turning it over, the transparency grows, until the full light of grace streams into your life, illuminating everything.

But you have to get out of the way first.

#Grace #AskingForHelp #Prayer #Surrender #Practice #PracticalSpirituality #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #DailyMessage #365DaysToEnlightenment #Ayamanatara #DryLakeBed #HighDesert #Shenanigans

[damagedparents]

Connection goes beyond tasks and labels; it's about embracing the full humanity in each other. Download Your FREE Guide Today! Link in Bio or https://bit.ly/FreeConnectionGuide #DisabilityConnection #ValueBeyondTasks #IdentityExploration #SelfDiscoveryJourney #AskingForHelp #AbilityAwareness #InclusionMatters #DisabilityAcceptance #ChangingPerceptions #FindingValue #BeyondDisability #SelfDiscovery #ConnectingThroughDifferences #AskingForHelp

[stellaadasesay]

#7tips to help reframe your mindset:

@ SELF DEVELOPMENT SL and Self Development SL Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 🇺🇸 (on Facebook and Instagram)

1. #Embrace failure

2. #Ownyourdecisions

3. #Celebratesmallwins

4. #Findgratitude in adversity

5. Don’t be above #askingforhelp

6. #Findlessons in life's difficulties

7. #Focusontheprocess, not the outcome

#MindsetChange = #LifeChange #SelfDevelopmentSL #DevelopmentForAll #DevelopSierraLeone #selfdevelopmentjourney #SierraLeone #sierraleonean #Sierraleoneyoutubers #sierraleoneforlife 🇸🇱 🇸🇱

[amylynnorg]

Sometimes asking for help can be hard. I've always researched things on a search engine before reaching out to any kind of support or to friends. Everyone's time has worth and value. Time is something you can't get back. This is something that should be considered when reaching out for help. Is it something you can find the answer yourself or do you indeed need that helping hand? Please don't misunderstand me. You should never feel embarrassed when reaching out for help. You can also always find instructional videos on YouTube. We are really blessed that so many share their knowledge often times free of charge online. "Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need." - Hebrews 4:16 Tech help: https://askleo.com/ https://techcrunch.com/ https://www.pcmag.com/ https://join.komando.com/63c70c3a/ Be sure to Like, Subscribe, and Follow to our social media channels: https://www.facebook.com/AmyLynnsVoiceOvers https://twitter.com/amylynnorg https://thevoiceofamylynn.wordpress.com https://www.youtube.com/AmyLynnOrg Visit our website at: http://www.amylynn.org

[jobsearch-v02]

Have you studied what it means to have a career path?

1 .. you have your ducks in a row

2 .. you have your life in order

3 .. you know where you want to go

4 .. you know what stands in your way

5 .. you know what to ask for help

6 .. you are willing to fail

#career #jobsearch #careerpath #betting #failingup #askingforhelp #help

[zenwords]

[responsiveparenting]

Why is asking for help so hard? Because our little childhood voices, that asked for help so many times, were often ignored, minimized and even punished, when the way we asked for help was not calm, respectful and polite. But whispering from the bottom of the well never saved anyone. The societal condemnation around a need for community is possibly why so many of us feel like we are imposing when we ask for support. Instead we use passive aggressive sighs and comments to try and get our needs met. If we want our children to be authentic and transparent in communicating their needs, we need to model doing the same.” J. Milburn PRE-ORDER NOW AVAILABLE!! 1/2 Price when pre-ordered. That’s right! You can pre-order now for only 5$’s!! Then, on February 1st, the link will be emailed to you. Just make sure to include your email in your information when you purchase. I won’t be selling it at this price again. This is a very special offer, for my wonderful supporters who just can’t wait for this sequel to the Guide to Survival Mode Plans. 
Responsive Parents Guide to Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation This e-book combines my knowledge of child development, brain science and trauma to offer parents a unique resource that includes lots of exercises, reflections, insights and also… links to additional research, articles and videos that can help support your learning. Link in bio @responsive_parenting #responsiveparenting #peacefulparenting #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #motherhood #parenthood #momblogger #mombloggers #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #parenting #childhood #momlife #mindfulparenting #selfcare #selfcaremama #askingforhelp #jmilburn #parentlife #children #dadlife #childled #kindness #feeling #holdingspace #givegrace #emotionalintelligence #parents #allthefeelsareok https://www.instagram.com/p/CZNZottFvNu/?utm_medium=tumblr

[thedailyquranicverses]

When Ibn Abi Hatim asked The Messenger of Allah ﷺ what Al-Ithm was. Ithm in arabic is إثم , and its means 'sin'. This hadith regarding what the Ism is, was recorded by Imam Muslim in his hadith book. May all of us be able to recognise our faults and mistakes, stop the evil, repent for doing them in the past, avoid it in the presnt and never do it in the future. O Allah, indeed to you we submit as Muslim, You are the only one we rely on, You are the forgiver, So forgive us. . . . . . . . . #dua #supplication #ask #askingforhelp #help #forallah #foryou #forgiveness #forgive #righteous #muslim #muslimah #allahﷻ #allah #islam #lovesallah #islammotivation #islamicreminders #remindertoself #jannah https://www.instagram.com/p/CMPb084FdYa/?igshid=rvkztdyeqt7l