#dvsurvivors

[teddybearwallflower]

surgery

you’re so fucked up it fucked me up everything was fucked the blinds allowing tiny glimpses of moon shimmering to your chest displaying the lies you embraced on me it was trouble your veins were empty eyes shrined in terror nothing you gave me ever fulfilled me your touch sliced my palms ate at my heart decayed any feeling of love you are a parasite chewing through my bones etching locks into my system projecting the hurt you felt all your life and emptying the clip onto me fuck you the penicillin will take over soon and i will no longer be the host for your hurt

[mother-rearest]

#charcoal #mondopoemprose #wod #poemoftheday #colorporn @miraquillapp @miraquill_ @mirakee_official @writersandpoem @writersshare #wordporn #words #voice #poetrycollective #poetsofinstagramcommunity @poetsglobe @buttonpoetry @poetriesgram #poetsofinstagram #poetsociety #poetrycollective #sexaphone #sexyphone #saxaphone #classicedminitiative #DVSURVIVORSUNITE #dvabusehurtsourinnocent #dvabuseawareness #DVSURVIVOR #domesticviolencesurvivor #divinefeminineenergy #aspiringauthor #aspiringpoet https://www.instagram.com/p/CnDsHWxMTO2_btt5eTwm2O3mjDiXiUP5rb1SYw0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thisliterarylife]

rare, non-special occasion appreciation post for @willprapestis as I work on some of the most emotionally triggering and taxing pieces on #domesticviolence and #coercivecontrol that my amazing lead editor at @thelistdaily trusts me to tackle. #suchgreatheights #wildanddomestic #writerslife #supportsystem #amwriting #fallvibes #vermonting #latergram #family #dvsurvivor #writersofinstagram #writingcommunity https://www.instagram.com/p/ClEa0CFuWGz/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[charklisares]

‼️ JANE GOES ALERT‼️

******Prayer Warriors needed*******

This Jane Goe was arrested after an argument with her husband. Police were called & he claimed she gave him a bloody nose. She spent the night in jail and was charged with domestic abuse and a criminal no-contact order was put in place - meaning she can NOT go home. (This is standard MO).

Unbeknown to anyone at the time - her husband had severely beaten HER and called the police as punishment for standing up to him.

Over the next several days - the bruises from the beating started showing up and the baby she was pregnant with - DIED.

Instead of being able to mourn the loss and start to heal - she’s navigating the SLOW moving wheels of the justice system and ALL the chaos this situation has created. Hiring attorneys, paying retainers, navigating a divorce, child custody, defending criminal charges, visitations, no-contact orders, and rebuilding her business - while learning how to be a single mother to 3 lil ones AND keeping up with school, sports and holidays schedules.

I’ve been here since the beginning - It’s been personally frustrating to watch an innocent person continually get gas-lite by a system that’s suppose to protect HER. (Flashbacks to my own journey).

While the abuser enjoys watching her struggle and knows he will never be held accountable to the true crime.

I WILL NEVER understand why it’s takes so long for truth to be heard and the justice system to self-correct (Arghhh!).

THIS IS AN ACTUAL TRUE STORY happening right now - this could be your daughter, sister, best friend or loved one. If you can help - in any way - reach out to me.

This Jane Goe is on Day 93 of her walk. She’s anchored in faith and surrounded by a tribe of disciples and she trust God is working in mysterious ways.

Please pray for her! She’s got a few upcoming court dates - the sooner we can get her OUT of the justice system - the sooner she can start healing.

❤️‍🩹 Please share - bringing awareness for the need of change is the first steps of change. CKRET Foundation is happy to help.

#ckretfoundation #BeTheChange #ChangeMakers #MakingADifference #ChangeforGood #StandUpForChange #ChangeTheWorld #CreatingChange #ChangeStartsWithYou #InspireChange #TogetherWeCanChange #EndDomesticViolence #BreakTheCycle #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SpeakOutAgainstAbuse #NoMoreSilence #DVSurvivor #SafeAtHome #LoveShouldntHurt #StopTheViolence #HealthyRelationships #janegoe #johngoe

[nicolyboo]

Exciting news, everyone! 📚 My book, "RECORD OF WRONG," is now officially available for preorders at www.recordofwrongbook.com! 🎉 I poured my heart and soul into this project, and I can't wait for you all to read it. Join me on this emotional journey as we delve into the complexities of life and the power of resilience. Your support means the world to me, so don't miss the chance to secure your copy today. Let's embark on this incredible adventure together!

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Again that link is: www.recordofwrongbook.com

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[grieflosstrauma]

Don't take on the shame or guilt that's not yours to carry. You have done and will always do the best you can with what you know at the time. And that is enough. You are enough. You really are. Repeat it to yourself. I really wanted to say that 💖 be at peace with who you are 🙏 . . #youareenough #loveyourself #selfcare #forgiveyourself #grief #trauma #yoga #spirituality #abundance #youareenough #awareness #consciousness #sobercommunity #soberaf #Domesticviolence #dvsurvivors #childabuse #addiction #mentalhealthawareness #psychology #youaregoodenough #behappy #happiness #joy #love #peace #grieflosstrauma #abrahamhicks #neuroscience #shame #quotes (at Sydney, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CByBql1n_C8/?igshid=1b8cfc3vhkyd7

[freedom4ewa]

5% of every purchase will be donated to Prudence Crandall Center, Inc. and Safe Futures I am currently creating a new series: "Purple Heart" flower - In honor of Domestic Violence awareness The US military presents Purple Hearts 💜 to those who have been wounded while serving. Purple is used to bring awareness to Domestic Violence because survivors and victims have endured physical and emotional wounds. Purple represents: 💜HOPE 💜PEACE 💜COURAGE 💜RESILIENCE 💜HONOR 💜STRENGTH Domestic Violence impacts all of us and together we can all help to save lives! Each flower is $60 including shipping, handling and taxes The purple Swarovski Heart crystal will hang around the neck of the glass vessel If you are interested please let me know 💜 #dvsurvivors #domesticviolencesurvivor #ceramicflowers #swarovski💎 #handmadegift #ctartist #artthatgivesback #purplepower #freedom4ewa #liveinlove #survivingtrauma #safespace #metoo❤️ #sparkle #glassvase https://www.instagram.com/p/CF4LdIBjtV3/?igshid=1etpuqdhhbjkr

[glenandbrisketpowellsdogpack]

Domestic Violence Doesn’t Discriminate

[poshapenguin]

#fuckpoliteness #beyourself #behappy #selfcare #domesticviolenceawareness #dvsurvivors https://www.instagram.com/p/BzHAyLMgK5O/?igshid=1fe5v268nxzml

[crazybishthoughts]

(Okay long post) ..

(These pictures are from my past abusive marriage) .These bruises are not "Love" .. it is hatred, it is hurt, it is pain. An yet I stayed.. . October is Domestic Violence awareness month.. be aware that it could happen to ANYONE!! it isn’t something that you “ask” for.. nor is it something you ever think you will face, until one day you meet the devil hidden under the skin of someone you thought was “good” “loving” “caring” ... they wrap you up and completely fool you of who they really are.. you could be with that person for a couple days, weeks, months, hell sometimes years before they snap and next thing you know your hiding bruises, coming up with cover stories as to why your arm has hand printed bruises, or why your face is black and blue.. “I fell” “I ran into something” ... but it also destroys you mentally!!!! You begin to think you “deserve” the best downs your getting at home from the person you “love” so much.. you begin to think that your this awful person who deserves to be treated the way you are getting treated.. your afraid to leave, afraid to talk to someone, afraid of what consequences may come if you open your mouth or if you walk out the door.. you become trapped..

your family, friends will see the marks, they will ask questions, they will beg for you to leave.. sometimes even plead.. yet you will stay in hopes it might all change.. in hopes that this isn’t really your reality. sometimes you even cut those people out because you don’t want to hear their opinions.. but First it starts off small, a punch or throat grab here and there, and then it becomes a every day occurrence even with your children around... Until you wake up in a hospital bed and don’t have much memory of how you got there, until your pushed down a flight of stairs at 27 weeks pregnant and now your in the hospital giving birth to your now still born daughter. Until they break into a friends home and beat the crap out of you and break your friends leg... at what point do you pick yourself up and say ENOUGH!? I did this for 4 years.. lived this nightmare because I was so scared of what would happen if I left, I was scared of everything that could happen badly. Until finally I said no more!! And I took my life back, and I got out of it. But unfortunately some people don’t get out of it.. some people can’t leave and they die in this situation.. because they feel like there is no way out!! I GET IT! I have been there. 😏😣 but you can get out!! You just have to be willing to loose and risk it all!! No matter how scary, no matter how attached to the person and situation you are..

I have come so far from the toxic marriage I left 3 years ago, I often wonder if I never left that relationship if I’d be in a box somewhere because of domestic violence. The night before my divorce got finalized my ex came into my friends house With full intention of killing me, instead I survived! And one of my friends ended up with a broken leg in the midst of trying to save my life because if that friend wouldn’t have stepped in I may have very well died that night because of domestic violence. I was in a 4 year relationship with someone that beat me every single day. I now know that is not at all what love is or what it looks like. I’m thankful today to be happy, And to know what a healthy relationship with someone really means!!! I’m glad this chapter closed and I am alive today. Reach out to the ones that you may think are being abused help show them that there is a way out!!! I will always speak out and be an advocate as a survivor of domestic abuse myself. Be aware!!!

[grandmabewildin]

Work in Progress:: IT’S OKAY TO LAUGH AT THIS PIECE :: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and art does not need to have its reason explained! That being said: 🔥🌹I’m no spokesperson, but I am a survivor and I’m strong as hell. I’m just a click away & present for anyone that wants to privately talk, needs an ear, understanding, or wants resources 💜 "Love Yourself You Piece of Trash" from GrandmaBeWildin's "Garbage Collection" Reclaim a Dirty Name & Heal from DV cross stitch PDF pattern. This is a cross stitch pattern to provide catharsis to reclaim a word that has been used against so many beautiful survivors of DV. 💜Do you find strength with a spark of humour? This one is for you, shine on you crazy diamond.💎 🌹🔥This design uses the same colors from Grandma's BuzzFeed featured hit cross stitch beginner kit, "Dumpster Fire 2020", the very same fire colours are used in the roses and the dumpster colours are used in the stems. Together with the "Dumpster Phoenix 2021" design using the same color scheme we now have ourselves Grandma's "Garbage Collection" with new designs in the works, favorite Grandma’s Etsy Shoppe, or click for IG notifications and stay tuned for more fiery trash designs.🔥🌹 💜US National DV Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 💜Canada National DV Hotline: 1-866-863-0511 💜UK National DV Hotline: 0808-2000-247 #loveyourself #pieceoftrash #dvsurvivor #rise #myartismyprotest #myartismysoul #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceprevention #dv💜 #survivor #healing #reclaimwordsmeanttohurtus #toxicpeople #youarenotalone #ifmywoundswerevisable #safehouse #crossstitch #xstitch #xstitching #xstitcher #stitchersofinstagram #stitchersofreddit #stitchersoffacebook #crossstitchersofinstagram #empoweredwomen #suzyqueue #punkandpretty #grandmabewildin https://www.instagram.com/p/CRmp3MBrd0n/?utm_medium=tumblr

[mother-rearest]

The accuracy is most often times frightening, terrifying, to accept the unacceptable... flies in the face of my character, against my morality. If that's the only way to find peace, I have to find some way to cope.. I know, and understand, that I can not change the inevitable, that's a given. However, why should I just believe it to be inevitable, until it is? Should I, Would I, Could I..?! The ripple effect? Once the water clears, when the tide swallows parts of the beach, whole... looking back at your own reflection in a shallow, sun warmed pool, you'll only see me, vanish quickly beneath the surface. #copingmechanism #dvsurvivor #victimblaming #survivor #cptsd #codependency #loveshouldnthurt #youareenough #youareloved #youarenotalone #narcissist #childhoodtrauma #fightingthegoodfight and #fthepatriarchy #metoomovement #metoomoms #metoofamilycourt #sayitlouder #strongertogether https://www.instagram.com/p/ClhBlXhON5Tzr8bbVB20xvq42r6ETC5QE0GUwk0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[peachybabycakes]

They say curiosity killed the cat

Being a kitty, I'm good at that

To them boys better put on a hat

All my bitches kissing on my fat lips

Oh shit, I got them birthing hips

I'm an accountant barely getting tips

Simple you must be on a fucking trip

You are not the fuck boy that makes me wanna fuckin strip thesw clothes

Go on, die mad and tell them incels I'm a thot

Tell them stupid motherfuckers how you used me like somw how

You are sad, so pathetic, we all see you as a joke

You take your secret to your grave, in the truth you fucking choke

Ha! Sorry not sorry for all I'm about to say

I have years of fuckin trauma that I want to let go today

For the pain you caused you are finally gon pay

Criminal justice ain't enough for this hurt to go away

I'm done with you tearing me down

To the lies I'm not longer bound

Your spell is broken

I'm never gonna drown

I'm the bitch wearing the crown

Of with your head, the court has spoken

We were something, five years of suffering

Every single day was nothing but arguing

My motherfucking mental health you was altering

With every bruise, sign of abuse you was administering to my face

No game, no joke, bitch youbare so goddamned base

Only an idiot would treat a woman with so much disgrace

All the battle scars you caused, like an armor I display

It plays the story of a woman whom with pain you betrayed

Imma put you in you place, Imma put your game at bay

I'm seeing red, I take your veins and make crochet

Fuck off motherfucker, you ain't welcome in my chalet

Finally letting go the past

Hope these tears are my last

My words for you come as a blast

I swear you won't keep me gassed

Time to throw away tue key and let go

Of shit that happened so long ago

Hope this is the final blow

Bitch the crown, I bestow

"Pain" ©Kitty Babycakes

[thereal-kelsey]

Words I tell myself regularly.