#high value man

[luxuryandlilacs]

If he isn’t willing to take you out on dates, he is not interested in long term. He can’t afford to provide for you or a family. Don’t waste time on unhealthy men who don’t want to court you. We want providers not leeches.

[sk-lumen]

Hi there! Looking for a lil advice about an interaction i had recently that’s left me confused! A guy about my age (25/30) came into my work (restaurant) on Valentine’s day to pickup food for a doordash, and came back after the delivery to give me his number because he thought i was so pretty and nice. I thought he was cute and so we texted for a bit and made plans for a coffee date on saturday. Friday night he texts me saying he’s at the bar and asks if I wanna join him for a drink, im at work so say it’s too late but that i still am excited for our date tomorrow. He never responds and ghosted me for the whole day of our date. the next day he texts apologizing saying he was really sick and didn’t go on his phone the whole day of our date. Obviously a cop out/lie but i’m wondering why he even gave me his number if he didn’t want to actually go out? our texts were pretty generic and limited to 10ish a day but it was only 3 days between our meet and planned date, nothing really happened in those texts- why cancel? Left me feeling so confused!

Hi doll,

The answer is always in how a man makes you feel.

Confusion and anxiety = he's not that into you and/or in his toxic masculine.

Clarity and calm = he's into you & he's in his healthy masculine.

There's no two ways about this. I've tested this time and time again, and how a man makes you feel says everything about his intentions and masculine energy.

He probably did like you but not enough to fully commit to meeting up - most likely he got drunk and lonely, and hung out with another girl or with his friends. Not worth your time. Delete his number and move on darling. I don't recommend giving a second chance to any guy that ghosts you even once. Get used to seeing any disrespect as a dealbreaker, otherwise you're just teaching them it's okay to mistreat you and get away with it.

You deserve a classy dinner date where the communication is consistent and he treats you like a princess.

-Lumen

[yaboiyeeyee]

No one asked but i made more doctor who memes while we watched another episode

[clearvessel]

[fairyneko]

Tf is this “high value man” and “high value woman” stuff?? It sounds ugly— it implies that some people are low value. It’s completely okay to say someone isn’t for you but it’s never okay to say someone is low value. That same person is extremely valuable to someone else.

[smokeringsofmemory]

Hey ladies just popping in bc I have been seeing waaaaay too much content on “high value men” on my already narrowed + selective media platforms, so I just wanna drop a few things here:

Looking fantastic won’t put you in the same class. -This is a lesson that I learned inadvertently, and then explicitly when I realized that those around me who came from well-to-do backgrounds or Ivy-League universities were looking for someone to match their lifestyle— not just aesthetically, but intellectually as well. I’m not just saying “read a lot of books”; there is a cultural fluency that is expected (even if it’s entitled) that they expect you to know (and definitely respect!!!!!) in their spaces. Please don’t be too enamored with the high-quality man who might notice your pretty face, take you out, and then not speak to you again— or only expect sex. These men will step out of their statuses for flings but not for futures.

Yes: family matters. And I think it’s really sad and unfortunate and *extraordinarily unfair* but the reality is that they want to know where and from who you come from. I’ve seen this to be the case because those in good social standing rely on the continuation and support of that to happen with whoever they decide to bring home/marry. I know that insane/awful/devious stuff happens to rich people too, but if they feel as though your family isn’t a “fit” then it might be a bust.

They expect you to know what you’re getting yourself into. I’m in a very loving relationship right now and although I’m not dating anymore, this lesson still stays with me— and I oftentimes share it to warn my girlfriends. *The top 10% of men know that you’re competing to have them, and they’re moving accordingly.* So I ask you: if this is the tier that’s in your vicinity and that you’re looking to date, mark your priorities. A faithful man can be hard to find, *but a faithful man making 6 figures and up*? Don’t be surprised if he doesn’t stick around and/or expects the world from you. These men do believe that they have the world to give, and many women treat them as such. A faithful man was my biggest non-negotiable, and I started realizing just how insane the numbers are. Call it misogyny or whatever you want, but if you want high-value men, you’ve got to be top of your game. You should take excellent care of yourself (non-negotiable), have great characteristics, and know that men who want you will do anything for you. There’s no need to worry about that.

Many men won’t keep their word. One of my girlfriends said to me: “I’d pay you $100 to date an American.” I’m black + my man is Kurdish, but my pattern of dating Eastern European men has long since been established… but anyways, something that would make me insane would be men who wouldn’t keep their word with me. I found it traumatic. I found it condescending. But more often than not, I KNEW THAT IF HE DIDN’T KEEP HIS WORD FOR HIMSELF THAT HE MOST CERTAINLY WOULDN’T KEEP IT WITH ME. Ladies: pay attention. If a man commits to something, he’ll follow through. Even if it’s hard, even if it takes time… he’ll make it happen. These are the men who will make you feel safest and re-assured. Why? *Most women associate money with stability and security and most men find it burdensome.* The men who find it burdensome are typically the ones who have (or have had) a lot of it and know the hardship it can bring: such as everyone expecting so much more out of you (including women). It’s a weird thing that men have explained to me, and I can tell that having money makes them even wearier of women, but *know that men who can exhibit his abilities to commit to his word is a man who can yield you the safety and protection you are looking for and also propel you and him both into the life of your dreams.* -That’s all for now, ta-ta ladies!!! xoxoxo

[subcoolture]

The only reason I still have a small hope in love is because Taylor Swift found Joe Alwyn. And I don’t mean it in a ‘she finally got lucky’ way, I mean it in a ‘Joe Alwyn exists so that means good men ARE POSSIBLE’. Taylor is not only beautiful and talented, she is also outspoken and blunt talking about women’s rights, and Joe Alwyn is not only not turned off by that like other men, it is obvious he admires her and loves her for all that she is and stands for. He is a symbol of hope, and I hope men took notes instead of being beta males that don’t know what to do with an intelligent, corageous and free woman.

[cat-eye-nebula]

Dating, Boys vs Men - Advice by Breeny Lee 💕

“Fun is for girls, fulfillment is for women. Be selective, be intentional and have the patience to wait for it (your man).”

She is the big sister that I always dreamed of 🙏

[talesofaprettygirl]

❤️I literally can’t wait to be a rich housewife❤️

[ashshanea101]

Repost from simply Sheneka…

[luxuryandlilacs]

Man, so 99% of men really are trash eh?

Nope. I would say about 40%, but they’re just the loudest. The high-value and average ones are just busy living their lives.

[beesnbunnies]

Maybe I'm just incapable of being friends with cis men and that's why I'm never gonna have a husband 😔

Men have like no passion to beautiful things. They always smirk and scoff at anything sweet or cute and call it "girly."

I am tired of meeting men who are into cars. I decided to research car models etc and force myself to understand their passion because what if I'm just being a hypocrite...NOPE. cause when I share my opinions it's ALWAYS wrong. I could be agreeing with them and I'm still "wrong".

Are men just incapable of being socially aware too. Or do all men just have ADHD with how rude and immature they are.

Suddenly every man thinks he's a smart sociopath like Sherlock Holmes.

Like to me these men aren't even masculine- they're fucking repulsive. Toxic masculinity? No- just TOXIC.

I still haven't even had a boyfriend yet. How TF will I ever get a husband.

[justoneletter]

Here’s what I don’t get.. As a man, what does it say about you when you think fucking a woman lowers her value?

[ranjith11]

9 Things Women INSTANTLY Notice About High Value Men

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[thombyxbe]

The Ultimate Guide to Being a High Value Man

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