#i hate str8 ppl

[jrueships]

this is so gay

[bunnyboy-juice]

NO MORE ASSOCIATING THINGS WITH FEMMES ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE PINK!HYPERFEM FEMMES ARE GREAT AND I LOVE YOU CAMPY FEMMES WHO EMBODY PINK BUT ALSO JESUS CHRIST CAN YOU GUYS NOT GO MORE THAN ONE DAY W/O TRYING TO SHOEHORN FEMMES INTO BEING ONLY PINK UWU BABIES. I AM FEMME AS IN GRASS AS IN DIRT AS IN TREE BARK AS IN WEEDS SPROUTING THROUGH THE SIDEWALK CEMENT. FEMME AS IN GENDER NONCONFORMITY AS IN FUCK YOU MY FEMININITY IS WHAT *I* SAY IT IS. FEMME AS IN DEPTH AND DARKNESS AND WARMTH AND TERROR. FEMME AS IN CAVES. FEMME AS IN LIGHTNING. FEMME AS IN AN AMALGAMATION OF TRAITS THAT I HAVE DECIDED ARE FEMININE REGARDLESS OF WHAT SOCIETY SAYS. FUCK IS IT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND?!???

[vhvrs]

only thing i got from that episode was rick lost diane at 27 and was ready to chase birdperson to the end of the universe by 35

[dissectedgrrl]

me when a straight person makes a playlist for their gf/bf and they have girl in red on it

[grandpasauce]

I rly need to stop going on the dragon age Reddit why is everyone on there so bitter and rude I am jus a sm all creechur looking for tasty drago n age scra ps and everyone is just arGUinG

some of The Worst takes I’ve ever seen are on that subreddit

[traaanskimkitsuragi]

str8 men r insane imagine seeing this and being like “damn he looks so frail and weak compared to the og”

[beaniebitch69]

i wanna hurl and go number 2 and also im hungry but i ate like 20 mins ago so???

[magical-girl-enjoyer]

do i have a problem w asaden? no.

but yall r fucking ANNOYING jesus christ

"they r so endgame uwu" maybe let denji heal and pursue other kinds of love??? maybe asaden isnt the only point of pt 2???

[venusssssssssss]

love seeing that the homophobic girl who bullied me in school is still pretty and rich and hasn't worked a day in her life and moved to the usa and is travelling and is going to pride because it's "cool" LMAO. hence...you know... there is no god

[jrueships]

i hate when ppl choose to make fun of ant when he does silly goofy things with his family. Like those are his people, they helped raise him after bitchass cancer took both his grandma and his mama. He can dance with the antfam all he wants and wear silly matching pjs. He can shamelessly advertise his brother's newest rap single. That's his family

[stormofstarlight]

When I say I hate straight couples in media, please note that I am not talking about Ricky and Nini from HSMTMTS, they r my emotional support heteros

[cxlliefxn]

WORLD WAR HETERO 😼✨✨

for s c i e n c e 💅

[johannestevans]

sometimes ppl will be like "Oh wow why does this person act like this, they're so unpredictable and unreasonable" but with my rape victim spideysenses i'll be like. no no i got raped too, i get it. they make complete sense to me

like its not being An Empath or smth it's just that some traumas do a specific rewiring of your relationship with The Self and your own bodily autonomy, including your relationships

like being a child actor, being a rape victim, being an abuse victim, etc

nd tbh most people hate rape and trauma victims and don't want to extend us any grace or compassion for us. people hate rape victims bc we're a reminder that rapists exist, and also that rapists generally go free and unpunished.

so they end up taking it out on us

"why is he being so crazy" idk probably the rape. it tends to deliver this thing i call trauma, or what a medical professional might refer to as "terrible vibes"

"why is so angry/why won't he trust people" you'll never guess what the reason is but it's the rape again probably

people hate any kind of rape victim, but they also like… think of rape victims as a very specific kind of Sad Cisgender White Woman, who comes in varieties of Doesn't Deserve It (saintly virgin / mother) or Deserved It (literally any human woman with flaws and a life)

and like. most victims are not the same variety of Sad Cisgender White Women. people internalise that it is because they still think that rape is about cisgender str8 men wanting to rape women they're attracted to rather than about POWER and control and abuse

[starrylayle]

have you considered that maybe you projected a bunch of stuff on tonks that wasnt there and reading further into the books simply proved you wrong? (for example, the fact that you say she hates being called dora, when what she says she hates is her full name, nymphadora). not every woman has to want kids and be married, but why should tonks have been that woman when she wasnt intended to be so, your own sterotypes on her "type" of character aside? because you liked her?

ok first things first -- you're right about one thing -- Tonks wasn't written to be a queer character. Like at all. I don't think jkr intended anyone in the hp series to be queer,, not even dumbledore (that was definitely an afterthought lol). Any reading of queerness is subtextual no doubt.

That being said,, queerness in media, especially children's media, before 2010 is almost always subtextual. It is very difficult to find any canonical queer characters in 90s/2000s children's media. Queer ppl are still gonna read these books however. And a lot of us relate to a certain 'type' (as you put it) of character -- usually ones that are 'different', don't conform, etc, etc.

A lot of queer hp fans saw themselves in Remus (ostracized for his lycanthropy aids metaphor -- which is not a very well done metaphor but i digress) or Tonks, in her disregard for femininity, tomboyish ways and spunky nature.

Now the problem I have with people saying that we can't headcanon characters who have stereotypically queer traits is --- well who would u rather we headcanon as queer then? It's unrealistic that every single person in the harry potter universe is a raging cis heterosexual -- thats just not how life works lol. Sometimes people will say, 'hc some one as queer that's not a stereotype'. Ok would you rather me headcanon ron as trans? Hermione as a lesbian? because i can provide analysis' for those readings too. But then the argument would be,, 'there is nothing queer about these characters you're just making shit up'.

What I'm trying to say, is that these questions feel like a trap. If we headcanon characters who have traits that alot of queer ppl have the argument is 'you're just stereotyping!!!' If we headcanon people that have traits that aren't especially common with queer folk then the argument is that we're 'just grasping for straws'. The only correct answer in this scenario is to not headcanon anybody as queer for the sake of not hurting cishet ppl's feelings.

also i just wanna add that tonks is not the only tomboyish character in the series!! We have Ginny, the girls on the quidditch team and probably more that I'm forgetting -- plenty of str8 tomboyish characters to go around lol.

I think you'll find that queer ppl aren't as obsessed with queer headcanons as u think -- we just want representation. You'll find in a lot of fandoms that centre around queer shows like the owl house, heartstoppper, our flag means death,, people generally just accept the sexualities presented to them because there are already canonical queer characters in the show.

[lmao-what-the-fck]

hello..... What if I post my entire 4 chap s4 rarepair ship fanfic here.....

Would love to post em but the rarepair might be quite controversial because...

- its a straight ship and idk if some ppl here like str8 ships or hate em (but I do have a same sex rarepairs tbh but only a few since I struggle to find and pair them to someone that they'll have a chemistry with)

- last two chapters are a bit.... Of a freak. Yeah you get that and I honestly don't know if some people here are a fan of it. (But if ppl don't like those I'll just post the first, normal two chapters when I'm in the mood too)

-i know they interacted off screen but hsjdkskskkskd since im kind of afraid of backlash and stuff.... So yeah I'm kinda hesitating on posting them here

- eeeee ion think everyone will like an obsessive, redflag wild guy so

(ooor nah im not going to post the full here kddjiswkks i might only put an sfw works here)

[fictionkinfessions]

CANON FANON;

people keep portraying me as some sleazy gross cishet man (but in a sexualized way) and it actually irks me so much i'm IN CANNON genderfluid and not like that at all???? i hate it. why do str8 ppl..

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