#learn to say no

[yourmoonie]

You DECIDE

"I don't want to manifest my sp for another 7 months, how can I speed up my manifestation?"

1st: don't be so 3D oriented

2nd: your 3D will conform based on your own beliefs and assumptions

3rd: You are the one who decides you are the one who decides the timing. You are the one who is the CONSCIOUS selector of YOUR reality. Take your power back.

Methods are just tools, it's YOU who manifests, not the method. Methods can just help you to get into state of the wish fulfilled.

State is the one that produces everything. Your` actions, reactions, thoughts and everything.

So don't brat yourself up over your thoughts or circumstances and just go WITHIN.

Relax and be in the knowing that its yours!

[spacedocmom]

Doctor Beverly Crusher @SpaceDocMom Practice saying, "No," in safe places so you gain confidence in saying it where it really counts: the unsafe places. "No," can improve your health, your mental well-being, and even save your life. You're allowed to say, "No," to things that may harm you. emojis: black heart, blue heart, masked 2:44 PM · Jan 19, 2024

[findingmorelove]

protect your energy

[psychic-enemy-dragon]

Sometimes you just have to cut people from your life and you don't need to explain that to them. It's your decision, your mental health etc. Just do whatever you wanna do and try to not feel guilty about it.

[foreverfitnesspositivity]

[coachtfd]

“People would rather hear you say ‘no’ than say ‘yes’ and not deliver.”

- Brian P. Moran, “The 12-Week Year”

[quotes-of-her]

Adults take advantage of children because they don't know how to say no, even when they are uncomfortable. Remember the word "no" puts a circle of protection around you and there is nothing else you need to say.

Please take care.

[caustickally]

Can't believe I was nice enough to schedule a meeting at 7:30 am on a day when I have PTO

[doccywhomst]

[yourmoonie]

DETACHMENT? LETTING GO?

No! You don't need to let go in order to manifest.

Detachment is something that happens naturally. When you accept the fact that you and your desire are ONE, you let go of your desperation to crave validation from your 3D, and that's when you exactly detach.

If you want to practice detachment, then`

- don't take things personally

- see yourself as the prize

- learn how to say NO to "undesirable circumstances" and even people and learn how to say YES to yourself

- mentally be in the knowing/accept the fact that you and your desire are ONE and there is no separation

Good luck !

[mrtequilasunset]

Listen man, you guys can't be like "you guys need to be normal about asexuality" and then turn around and get weirdly judgemental when you find out someone doesn't have sex by choice. Like that's weird that some of you do that.

[reallybadblackoutpoems]

meditations on first philosophy (1641) - rene descartes

"who give a shit"

[live-life-without-medicine]

Whether in corporate life or our daily life, many times, we do struggle to say "NO" even though it is an absolute necessity for our well-being as well as the number of commitments we already have. This blog article presents 10 Tips to Master the Art of Saying "No". When & how to say no? how to say no without saying no? How to say no without feeling guilty? Learn to say No politely. Click the above blue link to read more about it & try to implement it for self.

[talaricula]

Things I've seen tumblr memeing about James Somerton doing à la "How did no one see how bigoted he was!" as if those things haven't been a significant part of tumblr culture for over a decade :

Presenting untrue and bordering on conspiratorial versions of (queer or otherwise marginalised) history without any sources

Completely disregarding and disrespecting any expertise on socio-cultural topics/humanities and distrusting academics and historians (incl. acting as if no academics or historians could be queer or marginalised)

Downplaying the role misogyny played in the historical oppression of queer women and concluding that queer men must have been more oppressed than queer women

Bi women are, at best, not as queer as "real" queer ppl, and at worst, simply equivalent to straight women

Despite nominal trans inclusivity, transmasculine ppl are functionally women when convenient (combined with the above, bi transmascs are functionally straight women)

Despite nominal trans inclusivity (bis), shamelessly attacking, threatening and actively endangering any trans woman who questions them or smth they find important (often by unfairly presenting her as violent or as a threat)

Having absolutely fucking wild and reductive takes about ace ppl, the oppression they face and their place in the queer community

Stating that marriage equality is an assimilationist fight while completely ignoring its direct roots in the horrifying consequences of the AIDS crisis for partners of ppl who died of AIDS

Praising western media creators from the past for queer coding even under censure and in the same breath condemning current non western media creators for being homophobic bc their representation isn't explicit enough

Blaming China for all existing homophobic censoring in western media

Assuming all queer media would be better told by western creators and by western standards

Only out queer ppl get to tell queer stories

Heavily criticising almost all queer media created by women or ppl they see as such (see above points about trans ppl) or involving/starring a significant amount of women for any perceived or real amount of "problematicness", but fawning over and praising and negating criticism of queer media created by and starring mostly or even functionally exclusively men (even when it could be argued that, you know, not involving/seriously sidelining women is a pretty clear example of misogyny which should probably be considered "problematic")

And I'm probably forgetting stuff or there's stuff I have internalised myself and don't recognise as an issue

Like idk but I feel like the takeaway from Hbomberguy and Toddintheshadow's videos should maybe be "be aware of such patterns in your communities bc they definitely exist" and not "this guy is uniquely awful" and I feel like a lot of the discussion I've seen surrounding this has been severely failing at that. Most ppl who've spent any significant amount of time on tumblr prob either have internalised at least one of those thought patterns, have had to de-internalise them, or have had to be extremely vigilant to not internalise them (which is done by, you know, seeking out other sources, which also seemed like an important takeaway from the videos)

[raffaellopalandri]

The Power of "No": Prioritizing My Goals for Growth

Daily writing promptHow often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?View all responses The question of how often I say “no” to things that interfere with my goals is a big one for me. The answer? Pretty much always. Here’s the thing: saying “no” isn’t a weakness, it’s a superpower. It allows me to focus my energy and time on the things that truly matter – those aligned…

[kayodekolade]

When it comes to doing the things

We know we should do to improve our performance...

We say things like,

‘I just don’t have the time.’

We both know that’s not true.

Time is something we all have.

Time isn’t the issue, attention is.

We can have all the time in the world,

But if we have no attention,

Those goals will stay undone.

Watch the video 👇

https://youtu.be/Bd2HmTLoDx8

#dearhighperformer #powerofattention #learntosayno