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a reminder that it is REAL and VALID to be fluid about your feelings towards being misgendered.
there are some days where i could break down in tears, wanting to tear my hair out due to the fact someone saw me as female and not male.
then there are days where i smile and realize. some people arent educated. and that maybe they arent having a good day, and simply didnt pay enough attention when addressing me.
these feelings are REAL and RAW. dont ever feel like you're not valid for feeling one or the other during different time periods. were all different, were all struggling, were all trying, and were all gonna make it. emotions are real.
#pride month#pride 2025#transgender struggles#transgender#trans#trans struggles#trans feelings#transgender feelings#nonbinary#non binary#non binary feelings#intersex#intersex feelings#intersex struggles#non binary struggles#nonbinary struggles
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"If we use force against our enemies, our allies will remember it": an exploration of the Archon Quest in DAtV.
Not everyone will have gotten this quest, as it's only avaliable if you saved Minrathous over Treviso. So let me start by setting the scene:
Rook has just found a secret list of Venatori plans in a Venatori vault. This includes a list of magisters who have been engaging in 'illegal slavery' and also a list of the backers of said magisters.
Dorian and Mae are arguing over how best to use this information. They have decided that one of them should become the Archon, however, they both have different ways they would go about it:
Dorian wants to 'crush our enemies by any means neccessary' - 'destory them and their networks by any means neccessary'. Maeveas describes this as 'swords and spies and blackmail; the devious means [Dorian] learned in the South'.
Mae wants to 'do this in the open. Show the people of Tevinter that we're here for them'. She wants to make this information public in order to 'inspire'.
Both will support the other, depending on what Rook decides. Both of them want to abolish slavery and get rid of the rule of Altus mages; 'the Soporati deserve a say in their own governance'. They say they have the same aims, but they would go about getting them in different ways.
Except...none of what they say actually makes any sense whatsoever.
Tevinter is Not a Democracy
Tevinter is not a demoracy. People do not 'vote' on who represents them.
Instead, there is a magesterium made up of magisters. These roles are hereditary (although you can have apprentice who take your title instead). You rule, because of your birth, or because you were lucky enough that somebody who rules because of their birth picked you.
There is not an election cycle. The magisters do not have to do anything to remain in power beyond making sure people aren't angry/scared enough to stage a coup.
Political factions exist within the magisterium, but you have to work to gain those who already are in it onto your side, you can't just get people to vote more of your faction in.
So....with this in mind, how is Mae's plan ever going to work.
Mae talks about wanting to do things out in the open. She wants to show Tevinter that politicans can be here for them. But those people...don't have a say. They can't meaningfully change things, or vote, or do anything beyond have a (probably violent) revolution.
And yet, we are led to believe that Mae's option will be the path of least resistence. Mae's option is 'working within the system'. What system? Mae won't be able to do anything, even if the public is on her side. It doesn't matter.
The magisters who are Venatori may die by the end of the game, or they may simply step down and give their titles to their children to avoid public disgrace. Maybe, maybe if people are angry enough, the heirs and apprentaces from other houses and magisters will take their place. But I don't see how Mae publishing this list of people and their backers will get her into power.
Especially in a country where slavery is legal. You know the people who would want Dorian and Maevearis's plans to succeed? Slaves. Because they're the only ones unlikely to be culturally indocronated to believe slavery is a good thing. Those a 'rung above slavery' like Krem, may also want their plans to succeed, but they'd likely have to be convinced, or have something happen to them (e.g. like how Krem's family struggled to remain in business because slaves can do their work for free so the products never cost as much) to push them into seeing all this. I highly doubt most people in this society as is would distinquish much between 'legal' and 'illegal' slavery. What even is illegal slavery? Taking people from other nations into slavery without the consent of said nations? That's most of the nations in thedas then. And if slave imports are continuing then surely everyone already knows that this is taking place and that people are arranging it.
AND EVEN IF THEY DID THERE ISN'T A DEMOCRACY FOR THEM TO VOTE MAE IN. To get Mae in, Mae has to convince the magisterium - and that includes convincing them to let her back in ON TOP OF convincing them to elect her as their ruler OR she has to have a violent overthrow backed by the people. That is the only way that 'inspiring' the people can succeed here.
Meanwhile, We have Dorian. Tarquin acts like Dorians plan will mean another Anders style chantry explosion, with things getting worse before they get better. But Dorians plan is vague to say the least. Blackmail? Okay. Working within his place in the magisterium? Now that makes more sense to me; if he can work within his place that might get him to be archon which would in turn allow him to potentially effect meaningful change from the top down with less tape around what he can and can't do.
But Mae implies Dorian is going to start killing people; 'if we use force against our enemies they will remember it'. But....what? Okay maybe Dorian plans to assassinate some people? But if he does, their kids will just get in. Maybe he just plans to threaten to assassinate people (interesting move as that's what got his father, but I think that COULD be an intersting direction for him) and that's what it means by blackmail etc. But if that's the case, is he really going to get to be Archon for long?
Dorians way looks way more like working within the system or...maybe turning the system into some of kind of dictatorship in order to make it a democracy so that Soporati can vote? Do ex-slaves get the vote in this world?
None of this makes any sense, their plans are so so so vague, and what they pitch and what they want means their pitches should be switched.
Who should be the Archon?
Towards the end of this place, Maevaris and Dorian say that a quater of the magisterium are Venatori. This is the implied quater that we have information on, and who needs to be taken out of the magisterium. But...okay, how?
In DAI, three of our companions (Vivienne, Leliana and Cassandra) are up for the role of Divine. But the reason they're up for the role despite all three of them being in some way a break with the past, is that there is nobody else. Everyone else who was up for the position died in the conclave explosion. All three of them have also gained large leaps forward in their reputation based on their actions in the inquistion.
But in DAtV....even if that quater are all killed in the final fight with the Gods, that means 75% are left over. I can see perhaps Dorian - who has maintained his seat in the Magisterium - being able to elbow himself into that power vaccum, win over the 75% and become the Achon. But Mae has been kicked out of the Magisterium already. She's lost her title. How is she going to get herself back in. As detailed above, it won't be by democracy. The Viper talks about her 'triumphent return' but nobody has actually given me a plan to get her to that triumphent return???
Basically; it makes very little sense that these two people are up for archon, even now we know the current one is dead. The archon is usually an inherrited title, either by blood or by being the apprentace of the previous Archon. The Archon can be voted in by only the magisterium if the archon dies without either of these things, however, so that's what they're going for here. But why would any of these 75% of magisters vote for Mae or Dorian?
And even if you argue that the Venatori list had the illegal dealings of more than just those 25% so Dorian and Mae could blackmail them for the position; firstly, Mae has already said she's not blackmailing anyone. So that leaves only Dorian. But the Magisters can pass their seats onto their children, instead of giving in to Dorians demands. That way even if Dorian exposes them, they're no longer in the Magisterium. Similarly, it surely is well known that the magisterium are dealing in 'illegal slavery' and surely even if it isn't, there are ways those within the Magisterium can use their money and power to pretend that they weren't involved with that. Polticians in the real world get away with these lies all the time!
Violence and Thedas
I'm not planning on making this point at length, but I do think the quote I opened this with also makes no sense for Dragon Age. 'If we use force against our enemies, our allies will remember it'.
In a game. Which is. About fighting enemies.
Like, this is a fighting game. We fight our enemies in this game. We don't sit down for tea with the Gods. We don't invite the red templars over to discuss politics. We don't ask the darkspawn if there's any way they won't do what they want.
We've been killing venatori for the WHOLE GAME by this point. We've ALREADY been using force.
I guess that the writers are trying to make a distinction between political violence vs. the rest of the game but uhhh. That doesn't really work either, especially in a game series which has had political violence pretty much at its core (we start with a game about CIVIL WAR and then move swiftly into a game where one of your companions commits an act of terrorism to inspire an overthrow of an unjust system) but also like. The implication that all groups who are bad are just 'evil' and have no motivations beyond 'power' and 'being evil' is dumb, and dragon age games used to be better than that. The Venatori, the Antam, the Crows, Butcher, Illario, The Grey Wardens, all of these people are playing with politics. Dragon Age games used to know this, they ahve a whole thing about 'the great game'.
But. Whatever. I said I wouldn't labour this point and I won't, but this quote makes no sense in a game where we've already spent the whole time using force.
(and also...isn't trying to abolish slavery perhaps a good thing to use force against? This quote implies that both the enemies (pro-slavery) and the allies (anti-slavery) have a similar moral standing which uhhhh i wouldn't say is true)
Why did this happen; some closing remarks
DAtV is vague enough about Tevinter politics that I feel you could, without knowledge of the previous games lore/the codexes believe the following points
slavery is a fringe practice in Tevinter
tevinter is a democracy
In this set of circumstances, their plans would make a lot more sense. Mae really could hope to get people on her side to vote out magisters who are engaging in 'illegal slavery' and other unmentioned things. She really could try and get elected on the promise of honesty and doing things differently, but still working within the system and eventually being Archon.
But this isn't the case. What's happening here is 21st century Demoractic (American Centric) politics are being placed onto a system which is essentially ancient Rome with absolutely no effort to try and make either confirm.
These days there are serious questions surrounding democracy, truth and lies we tell the people, whether its better to work 'behind the scenes' for a better world or not etc. These are all questions that have becoming increasingly relevant in the rise of the far right since 2016. And those who think the system need to change have MANY MANY arguments about whether we need to burn down the system, or whether we need to work within the system and with the backing of everyone to achieve our aims.
But that doesn't work in Tevinter. It doesn't mean anything.
I think the writers were trying to short hand some contempary politics into this world, were purposely vague about the parts of tevinter that don't fit that mould, tried to act like slavery was some form of modern discrimination that can be easily brushed to one side, and then just...released the game like that, with this choice.
But thinking about it for more than 5 seconds makes it SO STUPID. I literally spent ALL of that cutscene going 'wait what??? huh???' i watched it back three times before I understood what they were doing and why Mae and Dorians views were supposed to make sense before I wrote this post.
Another example of the writers not taking established lore/politics/culture in this game seriously. Another example of this game not taking its setting into account. I just. Yeah. This one really pushes me.
td;lr this storyline about who is the future archon doesn't work because Tevinter is not a democracy and they don't actually take into account the political implications, nor lay out actual political plans on how they'd achieve their aims.
#dragon age#datv#bioware critical#this has pushed me#this has pushed me so much#once ive finished azzys playthrough i NEED to take a break from veilguard because just#its fine#its a fine game#but it feels like someone wrote a fantasy game and then slapped the da name on it#they didn't think about religion#or politics#or cultur#basically at all#they in fact care so little about culture#that they won't let a non-binary character be multicultural#because they need to force them into at least one box#i just#yeah
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where my trans kinnies at I know you’re out there I can smell you
#I feel like I put a mask on like kim but my brain is a conflicting mess like harry so idk#I’m the audhd non-binary kimharry lovechild#disco elysium#kim kitsuragi#harry du bois#meme
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I love yapper femmes. Femme who gets dramatic when they are telling a simple story. Femme that gets up to reenact their story. I hate it when they apologize for yapping. Like no baby, keep talking, help me fall more in love with you, let me cross the boundaries of love that exist and for that you need to keep yapping. Femme who shyly smiles when they realize their partner actually enjoys listening to them.
MEN AND MINORS DNI. THIS POST IS ABOUT LESBIANS.
#this is a targeted post#but I love when any femme feels comfortable enough to talk to me unnecessarily#sharing their random thoughts#i love it when my femme yaps#i hate that people have made her feel that when she talks no one should listen to her#but I love listening to her#myposts#stone top butch#butch#butch lesbian#wlw post#wlw#butch bait#femme bait#butch4femme#femme4butch#femme#femme lesbian#lesbian#queer#non binary#wlw blog#wlw love#wlw community
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cute outfit idea i had
#art#oc#my art#furry#anthro art#furry art#original character#cate#every time i draw them i feel more non binary
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to reiterate my statement from a few posts ago. Have some Cleo art!

#hermitcraft#> osha doodles#zombiecleo#cleo!#zombie cleo#mcyt#mcytblr#nonbinary#non-binary#trans pride#also. Stop with the „nonbinary people arent trans“ bullshit.#You can label yourself as nb and not trans sure.#Of course#pls do that if you feel that is fitting to you#The problem is objectively#By definition#non-binary people are transgender.#kablam#> oshas bullshit
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she makes me a little insane okay @gojinka
#when u mentioned she'd wear leopard print i went CRAZY#also she feels like a gal that would wear boots like that in my defense#side note.... is she into people who are non-binary..... unrelated btw#what do i even tag this as#not my oc#not my character#oc fanart#fanart#(?)#myart#glagglearts#gyalvit....... ❤️
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“Why would you want to change that?” 🏳️⚧️❤️🩹 (2024 comic)
This comic makes me cringe a bit and honestly, it’s such a surface level approach to this topic that makes me feel a bit dumb, but whatever. I drew this comic some time ago and never got around posting it because of that, but I think a bit of trans and gnc positivity is exactly what we need rn. This is something that haunts me a bit when I’m feeling low: why would I choose to transition when I fit the role of a girl perfectly? I’m feminine and I’ve lived years like this so, why do I need this? Why do I have to have a hard time when everything could be so easy? But the thing is, being trans isn’t hating who you are, it doesn’t mean you have to change everything you like and do to fit into whatever society expects from you. I am trans, but I’m still me. I can’t force myself to be a girl just because the person I am isn’t what a boy is supposed to be.
ANYWAY, now i have better ideas now to address insecurity around being gender non conforming as a trans person, but after all this was just a personal comic i did to feel a bit better, so it isn’t that deep. I will say that I really like the style and coloring of this comic !! i hope you liked it too lol <3
#i found this comic to be a bit dumb but maybe someone out there needs it#or maybe im the one who needs to share these feelings. idk#whatever it is i hope you are nice to this little comic i did#my art#my comic#trans#transgender#trans art#trans artist#transmasc#non binary#non binary artist#trans comic#queer#lgbtq#my comics#vent comic#queer comic#dysphoria#gender noncomformity#gender nonconforming#jayskai_comic#skai_comic#my artwork#procreate#2025 art
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Now I've been out in the desert Just doin' my time Searchin' through the dust, lookin' for a sign If there's a light up ahead Well brother I don't know But I got this fever burnin' in my soul…🎶
Previous / Next
#I wanted to demarcate each year kind of like the way you’re reading a book and a new chapter starts#but of course with music vibes too#and hopefully this can sort of help keep your place while reading!#or just add to the feeling of the passage of time#because gals guys non binary pals#it is now officially#1936#sims 4 historical#ts4 historical#ts4 decades challenge#sims 4 decades challenge#sims 4 legacy#ts4 legacy#the darlingtons#ts4 story#1930s
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i was put on this earth as a punishment to man
#that’s right ladies and non binary pals#you’re safe#i’m evil and will absorb your soul for my own power#one hit off the evil joint got me feeling sillyyy
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how i imagine myself as the reader, not knowing I was reading a fem!reader fic until I get to the middle of the story when they finally describe the reader but with she/her pronouns and feminine descriptions, because it wasn't tagged in the beginning
as someone who isn't a woman, I automatically feel like I'm Marcus/Kevin Copeland dressing as Tiffany/Brittany Wilson whenever I accidentally read an untagged fem!reader fic and it's just so funny and enhances the experience
#I just thought it was funny#white chicks is one of my favorite movies of all time#idk guys is this funny or controversial#chasing pronouns in my head/ignoring the descriptions does not do anything for me btw#it just feels like I'm attending a party I wasn't invited to yet still trying to fit in with all the invited guests anyways#it just doesn't feel right#fanfiction#fanfic memes#non binary#non binary memes#non binary writer#non binary reader#bob reynolds x reader#Robert reynolds x reader#the sentry x reader#marvel fanfic#thunderbolts#thunderbolts fanfic#lewis pullman#lewis pullman x reader
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why would you feel the need to refer to yourself as "afab transmasc nonbinary"? that's just a weird thing to say. it's not serving any role there, "transmasc nonbinary" works fine. you don't need to treat your gender assignment as like a personal identity trait or whatever.
where's that post like "you gotta stop calling yourself afab at some point"
#it's just a weird thing to feel the need to call yourself#why do you feel the need to specify you're afab when mentioning that you're transmasc?#best case scenario is they were gonna say afab non-binary‚ realised they could say transmasc nonbinary and forgot to remove the afab bit#but like come on
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bonus comic strip i made for class
#art#oc#my art#comic#webcomic#im shocked nobody has said the word furry out loud in this class yet#i tried making a non-furry comic#a metaphor for the feeling of being outside the binary and outside of yourself#and my metaphor of choice was being a weird bunny-kind of creature#ie anthropomorphism#so really i think ive discovered queerness for me just boils down to wanting to be an anthro creature at its base form#and i dont know how to take that#ill post that comic once i finish it :)
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Hello everyone,
I saw earlier that non-binary was trending. And I wonder:
What does non-binary mean for you? I know it’s different from every person.
Please feel free to share.
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And your light shining onto me warmed me like nothing ever had before
#im silly I’m silly I’m goofy#what if robots could feel love?? (my brain whispering to me three seconds before a good cry sesh#beep beep!! booop bop beep!!!!#sonic the hedgehog#amy rose#metal sonic#metamy#ship art#sonic fanart#lgbt#non binary#my art#tv girl
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Dragon doesn't have the time for another crisis
Ivankov is not going to let Dragon ignore this
#he/they Dragon my beloved#Snails love being on Dragon's head#non-binary Dragon#Ivankov is in shock that they didn't pick it up sooner#Dragon feels that their gender isn’t important#Iva is going to have a long talk with him#this is why Dragon doesn't tell Ivankov anything about themselves#if you are in the tags go drink water#thats a threat#monkey d dragon#monkey d. dragon#dragon one piece#emporio ivankov#one piece ivankov#op ivankov#Ivankov#one piece#just silly fun#silly art#i colored it#yippee
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