#non binary struggles

[finnslay]

Sigh

[void-does-not-sleep]

Anyone else feel embarrassed to be trans? Like…I wear my name tag with my preferred name and my trans and pronouns badges on my hat at work and for some reason I feel so embarrassed. Especially because I’m pre T and I don’t even have my gender affirming haircut yet so I literally look like a regular cis girl to everyone. And even when I do get my haircut I fear it’s gonna be so obvious I’m trans and I won’t pass at all.

And then when I go out with my friends and try to dress masc (even if it’s just to feel slightly less dysphoric) I feel embarrassed even then cause I literally just look like a girl who’s a tomboy or something.

I try to deepen my voice at work when speaking to customers and my colleagues and it’s probably so obvious cause I can’t keep up with it for long and my voice ends up pitching anyway. I hate it. I don’t know what to do to help me feel less embarrassed.

[cilli-paperthinclouds]

my fellow non-binary people I need your help on some struggles I'm having:

-5 years ago was the last time I wore a dress/skirt, it didn't look good but I felt pretty. now I feel like I can't wear a dress/skirt because i am not pretty and I shouldn't be pretty as a more masculine looking person.

-sometimes I think about growing out my hair but every time I decide against it because it would make me look "too" feminine. logically I know that it's a dumb thought but emotionally I am not there yet.

would love to hear your thoughts, experiences or tips!

[thepowerofthevoid]

Tw: Discussions of Trans Suicide and Mental health issues

Being Non-Binary (or in any other situation where you can't exactly pass as cis) sucks because just blend isn't really an option in our society so I essentially have two options

(A) Be out, correct people that don't recognise your gender CONSTANTLY. Deal with all the backlash that comes with that, (the ignorance, the weird stares and invasive questions ect.) and also accept that some people are so stuck in there norms they just won't learn and will continue to class you how THEY see fit.

(B) Don't disclose anything, endure being constantly being misgendered and let your mental health corrode slowly until you have a breakdown, rinse and repeat. All just to maintain safety and not be stigmatised.

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And people wonder WHY the mental health amd suicide rate amongst trans youth is so high, when your constantly shoved between a rock and a hard place because your fellow humans beings won't treat you with the most basic sense of fucking dignity.

Don't even get me started on the harassment, seeing news articles advocating for genocide the lack of safety in the medical field, and fuck me all the "research" in trying to get us to not exist

I'm so fucking tired

[theonlyonefromsaturn]

no matter what i do and how hard i try to convince myself and the others even people who are close to me won't stop perceive me as /my assigned gender/. there is no way out of it, even if they love me and wish me no harm i _know_ how they see me and i know that me being non-binary changes nothing in their eyes. that realisation has been with me for a long time but this is the first time it made me _cry_ since i came out as nb, which mind you, was more than three years ago.

[sakanart80]

i want longer hair and smoother skin. I want a smoother body with less fat in my abdomen. I want to be able to fit in tighter feminine clothes. I dont want all this body hair and this weird and gross figure.i want boobs, but I don't want a vagina. I want to be androgynous, but here I am, still a man in your eyes.

[senatrosims]

☀︎ The Practical Sun, ☽︎ The Mischievous Moon & ★ The Untamed Star (Townie Makeover)

Haven't done a Townie Makeover in a while, so have these three! ദ്ദി(˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ✧

[aman-duuh]

lesbianklok save me .. save me lesbianklok.....

[babybatxxx]

I find it funny that the only canon non-binary character I have seen in anime looks like this

I mean it’s accurate

[i-really-like-phrogs]

Oh, hey, by the way—

Movie Lydia 🖤

That’s it, that’s the post.

(All pronouns welcome. He/She/They. I just projected on to her a long time ago and I like this idea a lot)💛🤍💜🖤

[void-does-not-sleep]

Do any other autistic/neurodivergent peeps struggle with feeling real or just existing in general? Like dissociation and stuff aside I genuinely find it hard to sometimes believe I’m a real person who is existing on earth. I know autistic people feeling like an alien is a common experience but I want to see if there’s anything else to it.

I find it easier to relate to characters and see myself in them like “hey thats me!” Type of way. Also in general I kinda see myself as a character almost? I feel like I’m naturally kinda animated with my movements and the way I talk but once again this is probably just the autism and me acting not according to social norms.

On top of relating to characters (call it kinning if you want) also relating a lot with non human creatures (animals included) and seeing myself as more of a creature than human.

Really not sure what to call this, maybe it’s just me trying to cope with life and disconnect from human responsibilities cause it’s too much for me.

I won’t even get into gender stuff cause it’s equally as confusing. I prefer they/he pronouns and say I’m nonbinary transmasc but am i really? I’d prefer to be a genderless fairy with no genitals if I had a choice.

Please if anyone else relates or knows why I feel like this let me know. Any support is appreciated.

[cilli-paperthinclouds]

bodies

does it even exist?

it moves like it should... it is mine but it does not feel like me

skin, flesh, blood

i stopped caring a long time ago my body looks the way it does because i don't care anymore

that one time when i wanted to be called beautiful, i wasn't... so i stopped

not pretty, not beautiful just the funny friend never the beautiful or cute one

forever...

i don't have the energy to care anymore

[a-being-of-chaossss]

Thinking back to a few weeks ago where my family and I went to a sushi restaurant and the waiter came up to our table and said "And for the boy?" and I gave her my order then took my hat off and she said "oh im sorry... miss?" and just got extremely confused cause she couldn't figure out if I was a boy or a girl and only got more confused when I responded "yes" to "are you a boy or a girl?". Honestly one of the most gender affirming things ever.

[lynzishell]

List 5 facts about your most favorite sim of yours. Then send this to 10 simblrs whose sims you adore. 💚

TYSM for this ask!! 💖 And I'm sorry it's taken me so long to answer 🫣 I always have a hard time choosing which sim to share... This time I thought it would be fun to share some facts about Spencer because I've been having a lot of fun developing their character and how I see their future! So let's dive in, shall we?

🎻Spencer takes after their grandfather in that they're a bit of a musical genius. They maxed their creativity skill at record speed and are nearly to level 6 in both piano and violin. (and they're already begging for a guitar for their birthday)

🎻Their birthday is December 17th making them a Sagittarius

🎻In addition to music, Spencer loves puzzles and games. But they prefer board games and card games over video games.

🎻They're definitely more of an indoorsy sim, and it can be difficult to get them outside to play. However, they do love a good game of hopscotch and will sometimes spend hours outside practicing. (leave it to Spencer to turn a fun game into a focused challenge/skill building)

🎻They have two best friends: Amy Prescott and Pierce Delgato. (No idea how, but they had full friendship bars with both before they ever visited the house) Being a close neighbor, Pierce comes over most often, and is usually in an angry mood when he arrives. Sometimes he storms upstairs to take his anger out on Spencer's stuffed unicorn. But the two never fight. Usually, Spencer asks him to cloud gaze, which tends to cheer him up, and he always leaves in a better mood than he arrived. (I feel like they take after their uncle Asher in this regard)

[yoldels]

Thh crew save me Thh crew....

I wanted to post drawings + some headcannons of all of them at the same time but that's taking too damn long so I'm doing it in parts instead

[isabela-merceds]

Trans women were never women you delusional fuck.