#pro hypergamy

[kokominx]

The best thing I’ve ever learned was to be ok rejecting a man’s first offer. Specifically for gifts, money or vacations. Because I can guarantee that whatever he offered you, he can do better. They never offer you the -BEST- first.

[red-pill-to-swallow]

How to be attractive to men and my goals

Hey babes,

like I said – I want to incorporate RPT (Red Pill Theories) into my daily life immediately.

A few things that every women within the community seemed to be content with were:

1. You are never finished with glowing or leveling up. Never stop learning. Never stop trying to better yourself.

2. Pretty privilege is real.

I agree that pretty privilege is very real. I mean, I get affected by pretty people like everybody else, even if I don’t do it on purpose. It’s just something that is ingrained in our brains and I need to learn how to take this to my advantage.

I think I have a decent starting base, because I’m a skinny white woman in her twenties with long blonde hair. I am not really tall – even short men are at least 5-7cms taller than me – but I’m also not extremely short.

I have a petite frame but my body-shape is something between an hourglass and a peach. My face is average – I don’t really have striking features or am a natural beauty model – but my features also aren’t hideous. It’s really just something you can look at without thinking too much.

On a scale, I would rate myself a 5,5-6/10 on an average day and I guess that’s great!

But how can I make myself look better on a daily basis? I really took hours to research how I could make myself more attractive to wealthy and high value men.

Obviously, no man is like the other and every man prefers something different. One man might like tattoos and piercings while another man with the same social status thinks they are hideous. I don’t want to completely change who I am and I don’t want to spend thousands of dollars for it.

However, I really like this whole clean girl and old money aesthetic that is going viral on Tiktok right now – and I think those two aesthetics could fit me and my personality really well.

Most wealthy men seem to like this traits in women:

1. great skin without obvious pimples or enlarged pores

2. long and healthy hair in a natural color

3. straight white teeth

4. clean nails on both hands and feet

5. hairless legs, armpits and at least trimmed pubic hair

6. wearing clean and wrinkle free clothes without any holes

7. wearing a nice smell that is fitting to your overall appearance

I think those are the basics and they can be achieved by almost anyone. If you can’t afford braces make sure that your teeth are always perfectly brushed and that you’re keeping up with your dental hygiene in general.

In fact – if you have problems affording certain beauty procedures, research how to get as close as possible to them with DIYs.

For years, I always wanted to be the mysterious woman in the room. The woman with a dark aura, the woman that doesn’t speak much and remains most of her life a secret.

Well, I am not this woman even if I’m trying very hard. It would be an act that I would put on and I am sure that everyone in the room would notice.

I am naturally very bubbly and I love having conversations with people in general. I would also say that I have a broad knowledge on different topics and that I’m able to talk to almost everyone.

I am also very welcoming and I enjoy making people laugh and have fun in my presence. I tend to have strong opinions and I’m not afraid to take on a discussion.

With everything that I know about myself now, I made some points that I need to tackle in order to level up:

1. stop oversharing. Being bubbly is great but not everyone needs to know everything about my business. Sometimes it’s just better to be silent and to listen.

2. start with exercise again. I am happy with my weight but I am extremely weak and I have almost zero muscle mass. My breath is getting heavy if I have to take the stairs and my legs start to hurt after roughly 15 minutes of walking. I plan on going for a walk every day and doing pilates 3x a week.

3. start doing my hair and makeup again. My hair is long and blonde – so it is an eyecatcher. It’s also very healthy but I usually just throw it up in a bun or in a clawclip, so no one is really seeing it. I have multiple styling tools at home and I need to start using them. The same applies to makeup. I have so much great stuff that looks really beautiful and natural but I am just too lazy to use it. I plan on taking 20 minutes every day to do my makeup and to suck it up – because I usually always do a double cleanse at night, so it’s not really a struggle to take it off in the evening. It’s just inconvenient in the morning.

4. taking better care of my skin and of my dental health. I have high quality skincare and I love doing my skincare but sometimes I’m just too lazy. Let me just say that it doesn’t happen often – but still too much for my liking. Also my dental health – I need to make a dentist appointment asap. I think the last time I went was around 3 years ago!

5. buying better fitting clothes. I don’t like shopping for clothes but it is what it is. Right now I only have cute lounge sets for being at home but when I go out I usually only wear jeans with a basic top and sneakers. I want to look more polished and feminine. I want to stop wearing jeans and focus more on pants, skirts and dresses. Also literally any other shoes than sneakers.

6. go out more. I’m your typical homebody. Movie night? Reading a book? Ordering food? Count me in! I always have fun when I go out but I’m still mostly at home and I want to change that. I want to have a group of like minded friends that want to hang out with me. Maybe even at home. Lol.

I really thought hard about those six points but I think those are the first things that I need to tackle down.

In the end – I was asking myself: what could I do to feel the most comfortable with spontaneous outgoings and meeting new people?

It came down to wanting to look my best. Obviously. I want to make a good first impression and maybe even profit off of pretty privilege.

I’m sure we all know those times when we’re dressed like slobs and suddenly an opportunity to go out arises and we decline because it would take hours to get ready.

That’s the reason why I want to get ready in the morning – so I would only need to touch up if anything came up.

see you soon!

[ms-chameleon]

Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.

[sosuigeneris]

No One Likes the Perfect Girl in High Society 

Tumblr, Pinterest, hypergamy accounts etc etc will push you to become your better self in order to frequent the high society circles. 

The reality is that this girl is not well liked among the higher classes… Because she comes across as intimidating. 

Sex, drugs, alcohol, infidelity is rampant in the upper echelons of society. They’re all dealing with a cheating spouse or horrible children or business issues or some family dispute or the other. Majority of these women are Serena from gossip girl to a T. 

“Oh but they run the businesses!” Very few actually do. 

“Oh but they donate!” Yes and it’s for PR. 

“Oh but they’re invited to all these high profile events!” Because of their family. 

So the only respite these women/ men get, comes in the form of entertainment. 

Entertainment is another way to claim your spot in society, by showing off how lavishly you can design and decorate and host. I know a certain billionaire family that literally pays people to come to their seasonal parties…. Naturally, there is a lot of discreet murmur. The same billionaire family had strippers for their son’s coming of age party. 

What happens when you decide to go against the norm and stand out? I’ll write very objectively on this. 

My mother is one such case - the “perfect” wife. She leaves parties early, doesn’t drink nor smoke, works out 24/7 and looks 30, is the perfect daughter in law (to a point where my grandfather’s friends openly express their jealousy), is very social, has her own standing in society, has her own projects and business that she’s deeply involved in. So to majority of these other women, she’s too intimidating to be friends with - because the ideal has been set so high. They prefer to vacation, party, spend their time shopping - to each their own. But it doesn’t exactly give them a sense of identity because their entire persona revolves around money. 

Is it truly bad to have your persona revolve around money?

I wouldn’t say it’s bad but I’ll say it’s lacking. It comes across as intellectually flawed. And as a woman, everyone’s going to assume you’re stupid as balls, even before you open your mouth to speak. However, being stupid doesn’t affect you too much, as long as you’re married to the man who has cemented his position - no one really expects the wife to be smart. Any effort put above maintaining yourself and your kids, such as reading or philanthropy, is seen as a bonus. 

So naturally one would assume - wouldn’t the rest therefore gravitate to someone like my mother? Shouldn’t everyone be tripping their feet trying to be friends with her? 

Ideally speaking yes. Realistically that does not happen. 

These people want to be friends with people who are somewhat equally screwed up. So you have to decide where that line is for yourself. Do you want to mingle or do you want to stand out? Each position has its own pros and cons, so it depends on your personality, capacity, discipline and where you want to be. So when you’re trying to break into these circles, bear in mind that being too put together might just alienate you completely. But it’s your choice to conform or stand out. 

[almacambiondaughterofsaleos]

forcing someone to care about an issue is not good at all i remember a black tiktoker whos content about hypergamy buying starbucks then an arab woman ranting about she should care. Black woman are expected to be activist for everything they aren't allowed to center themselve. I get that with frustration i myself pro palestine but that is not the way to do that. When it come to criticism do not put political issue like someone think if they are pro this their work mus be good like hello any person can have medicore work or flop work. Vivziepop should be critizice people are allowed to be frustrated at her

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[papirouge]

Do France have passport bros? Those guys that fly overseas to other countries expecting foreign women to love them for being western with money because apparently all western women are whores/too masculine/only care about money when those same guys also expect those women to be feminine, submissive, and family oriented while ALSO going 50:50 on bills

My brother just came back from backpacking all across the damn planet and got his ass HANDED to him by every woman he tried to date. He was the type to obsess over red pill videos and complain about how all girls in the west are old miserable single cat ladies and he convinced himself that he deserved a submissive wife. So he traveled a lot. He went to east Asia (Japan and Korea), got rejected. He flew to Vietnam and the Philippines and couldn’t find a girl there to stay with him. He went to Baltic countries and told my parents how he was scared of the men there when he tried to ask out the women. And when some girls did talk to him, they quickly left him. He couldn’t get a girl in Dubai to even look at him. Like, girls in the west have him a chance but none of these supposedly submissive girls did. Why? Well he would tell them that they needed to pay their bills for dinner while also telling them how he liked them for being feminine and “knowing their place”. So they ignored him and moved on. They expected this “alpha male” to be the provider which he thought wasn’t right because he was used to going 50:50 on dates. I’m embarrassed for him but also he had been bullying me for years for going to college and studying to be a doctor soooo 💀

Hm passeport bro aren't really a thing here tbh.

The whole incel wave contagion is becoming a thing on french internet but IRL there aren't men dedicated to go out of their way to marry women oversea.

Traveling to get married isn't really a novelty but rather a boomer thing here though. It's mostly old celibate men who go to matrimonial agency to marry eastern women (there are agency spefically for French men looking for eastern women) - but they are looked down by younger generation as losers lmao. technically these men aren't "passport bro" though because in the EU we can travel within the whole continent without passeport lol

The average french man is a bro choicer libfem ally so they wouldn't stand a traditional wife reluctant to split bills, not very pro abortion, housewife, etc. That's why "liberated" french women remain french men preference (there are still foreign women fetishist ofc - esp the nationalists ones 👀 one of the most infamous far right trolls here has a fetish for Black women for example)

And looking into the story of your passport bro brother, I'm not surprised he got rejected. Foreign women are starting to get the memo. Ofc there will always be pickme but even oversea women of value don't hand them over the first Western guy who gives them attention. Because they too know their worth. Western men are truly overestimating themselves. Beside, they aren't the only one in the market: Arab, Nigerian, East Asian men are great prices in the game of high value men. That's where all the new money is at. Not Joshua with a backpack.

Those women are smart. They are waaaay ahead Western women when it comes to hypergamy strategy that's why passeport bro get real shock when they realize that average women have such high standards. They won't have sex with them without a ring on. They won't split the bills. They won't accept Netflix & chill or 'taking a coffee' as a decent date. Passeport bro feel entitled to high value men privilege, while providing average men credentials. That's why it will never work out for them.

And let's not forget that the oversea women men won't let them go like that. Don't passeport bro get regularly assaulted, scammed or beat up in the shady countries they're going to? Men can be very protective of 'their' women, and that's something passeport didn't anticipate. Passeport bro are losers, so of course it would never occur to them to protect their women (especially Black diaspora men who are the most anti traditional and fail abiding in their masculine role of protecting women - African men stil abide in traditional roles though) but when they face men from other demographics actually doing the job they get shook. That's why the passeport bro movement couldn't become a thing of great amplitude. One time or another, those countries men would stop them from flocking over there (blocking their visa, like some countries did with Westerners adopting children because they championed child abuse 💀)

[vintagecartier]

[kokominx]

With receipts 🤷🏽‍♀️

[red-pill-to-swallow]

How to skin

Hey babes,

today I want to talk about skin. Our skin – especially the skin in our face – is one of the first things that we recognize in another person.

This is the reason why it is so important to have clean and vibrant looking skin. Your skin color doesn’t matter as long as it is healthy looking and free of pimples.

Clear skin is a universal sign for good health and it can elevate the look of a person completely.

Us humans tend to find other people more attractive if they have good skin – it’s something in our genes.

Personally, I’m blessed with good skin – I never had acne as a teenager, only some lonely pimples right before my period would start.

However, when my gynecologist put me on the pill when I was around 19 years old I suddenly developed acne and it was horrible. That’s when I started to take my skincare very serious and made a ton of research that I want to share with you.

Disclaimer: I am not a dermatologist. Those are simply my experiences and what I’ve learned over the years.

Why do we even get pimples?

A very short summary: we get pimples, because sebum is clogging our pores and bacteria starts to grow in the pore which makes it inflamed.

Is it my fault that I get pimples? Am I not clean enough?

Yes and no.

Yes – there might be people who are experiencing acne just because they don’t cleanse their face good enough. However that’s something that happens very rarely.

Most people with acne wash and clean their face more often and more thoroughly than the average person.

If you experience heavy acne, don’t try to treat it at home. Instead, seek out a dermatologist to see if the acne is fungal.

I would also recommend getting blood-work done to see if the acne is hormonal.

If you never had acne and suddenly get pimples all over your face it could also be because of your birth control, especially if your birth control is hormonal.

Like I said before, I suddenly developed acne after my gynecologist put me on the pill. The reason for that was that the pill had gestagen in it which is similar to progesterone.

Progesterone is basically stimulating the skin to produce more oils and sebum – pores get clogged more easily and pimples form.

Diet also plays a big part in acne. Personally, I don’t see a difference if I leave out dairy or gluten but some people almost see an immediate effect.

I wouldn’t recommend just stopping consuming gluten and dairy one day, please speak to your doctor beforehand.

Instead, try to limit your sugar and fat intake first before you start to take drastic actions.

My acne is neither hormonal nor fungal, what can I do?

Having a healthy skin-barrier is the key to having clean and vibrant looking skin!

Most of us fell victim to Clearasil and other harsh drugstore products in our youth. I remember slathering my face with a 3 in 1 face wash, face mask and peeling once and my skin was red for days. At that time I didn’t know that the products were simply way to harsh for the skin on my face and wondered why it didn’t work as good as in the commercials.

If you’re just starting out with your skincare journey, here are a few tips that you should consider when you pick out products and a routine:

- a healthy skin-barrier should be your first priority. Everything else can be addressed later on.

- all the products for your face should be fragrance free or contain very little fragrance.

- stick to your routine for at least one month before changing it

- introduce new products one after one and take your time to do so

How does a good basic skincare routine look like?

You don’t need thousands of products in the beginning, keep it simple and gentle.

A good routine could look like this:

am

Step 1: use a gentle cleanser to wash your face in the morning. Nothing too heavy. I like to use a foam cleanser for this.

Step 2: use a hydrating toner and apply it with your hands, so you get the most out of your product.

Step 3: while your face is still damp with the toner, apply a hyaluronic acid serum. Never put hyaluronic acid on dry skin, it won’t do anything.

Step 4: wait for the hyaluronic acid to sink into your skin and apply a hydrating face cream all over your face. Do this even if your skin is oily – it still needs moisture.

Step 5: apply sunscreen all over your face and neck. Sunscreen is essential, especially if you use exfoliants.

pm

Step 1: use a cleansing oil or cleansing balm in the evening. This is to remove your makeup and sunscreen from your face.

Step 2: use a gel cleanser and massage your skin for at least one minute. It’s important that you cleanse every small part of your face. Especially tricky is the skin around your nostrils and on your chin.

Step 3: again, use a hydrating toner and apply it with your hands.

Step 4: apply a thick face cream all over your face, best is something with panthenol.

What are the things that I should avoid?

- touching your face with dirty hands. Always wash your hands before you cleanse in the morning and in the evening. Avoid touching your face with your hands during the day.

- stop picking at pimples. I know – it’s frustrating, but the more you pick on your spots, the more inflamed they get. There also is a danger of you spreading around all that bacteria with your hands and possibly getting scars.

- Never ever use physical exfoliators in the face. They damage your skin with micro cuts that you can’t see with your eyes and damage more than they help. Always look for chemical exfoliators!

See you soon!

[kokominx]

This can sound bitter, but I agree and let me tell you why these “negative” emotions are beneficial. This is exactly how I was able to script in such great detail what I wanted in a husband!

I would always say “ I don’t know what I want, but I know what I don’t want.” that crazy hearing that now because if you know what you don’t want, then you DEFINITELY know what you want 💖.

You don’t want to be with someone aggressive and angry?

Then you DO want to be with someone calm, kind and forgiving.

You don’t want to be with someone with poor money management?

Then you DO want to be with someone financially abundant and responsible who is well versed and involved in investments with large returns.

You don’t want to be with someone verbally/emotionally abusive?

Then you DO want someone who is genuinely supportive, emotionally available, uplifting and kind with excellent communication skills.

You don’t want to be with someone physically abusive?

Then you DO want to be with someone who is a protector and will never push you to or suggest that you do anything that makes you uncomfortable. You want someone is respectful of all your boundaries.

Etc. Etc. Etc. Summary: “IF you know what you don’t want, you can start focusing on what you DO want to experience”

if my dad has taught me anything is to never end up with someone like him

[papirouge]

Wow Candace playing Captain Save a Hoe for Tate is another reminder for black women to stop defending black men. She tried her best to defend him when you know he would never do the same back. Her crying to Tucker is hilarious as if he cares. He had some nazis on his writing team before but he has to keep his pro Israel Christian audience too. What a clown

Anyway, I was going to ask you how France has been with Ukrainian refugees. A lot of refugee hate comes from how a lot of middle eastern men are treating locals bad. But here, it’s been kinda crazy. Like in the past 6-7 months, there was 4 women who broke homes up by going after the husband/boyfriend after being taken in by a family and one was arrested for trying to solicit sex. I don’t know the details but sometimes I talk to my neighbors in my apartment building. But yeah, crazy 💀

Fair enough: Andrew Tate is not White but mixed, and tbh I think his closeness to whiteness and the fact that his victims are White women is the main reason he's both defended by the right AND loathed by feminists. If Tate was Black, conservatives would brush him as yet another black thug pimp, and feminists wouldn't care because they only care when white women are victimized¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

The way Candace destroyed her credibility for that scrote is quite insane. Maybe Tate has something on her of her husband business but there's definitely something shady going on... Candace beefing with Shapiro over the Israel/Palestine thing makes me believe that sacrificing friendships for her """morals"""" isn't a problem for her (bc if she dunk on Tate she may also other rightoids folks mad at her), so I think there's another reason for why she's still defending Tate 🤔 Time will tell.

Tucker Carlson yt channel is A MESS. I refused to believed it waz his official channel so much the content was shitty. Just shitty rage bait short videos of Black doing awful shit... Peak journalism. Tucker is pretty balanced of that Israel wk thing so I think he antagonized a bunch of his original FoxNews audience. But since he became a Musk sycophant he probably won a bunch of new viewers/fans.

For the Ukrainians immigrants I remember the new floating around with Ukrainians kids in the UK who whined about having classes with Muslim students and asking to change school lmao Black french twitter had a field day dragging Ukrainians lmao "bruh you come from a war torn zone and you still have the audacity to be racist? Nah the caucasity is something else💀" French ightoids are like "look how well those Ukrainians integrate in France unlike those filthy Africans!" ...like- they literally get handed over a job, a house, money and stuff. OF COURSE you integrate well in a country when everything is handed down to you🙄 Illegals resort to illegal shit not for the sake of it but for survival.

I always said that NO ONE deserves to leave their country bc of war but NGL I'm very wary of people coming from a country who elevate a literal Nazi as a war hero...

Welcoming a Ukrainian woman in your house while married is insane though. Those slavic ladies don't mess with hypergamy and will do anything to secure the bag. I wouldn't trust anyone near my husband - and would likely have a big discussion with him if he even dares asking me to host one. Those women get enough shit and accomodation to not shove themselves into locals house and destroy family.

[kokominx]

How I feel on self care days

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[honeyknome]

3.20.22

[ourinsatiablesoulss]

For obvious reasons, there is a lot of overlap between the hypergamy community, and the terf community. People need to be on the lookout for gender critical, Anti Trans blogs as it's truly despicable to see these terrible accounts being promoted on blogs as if they're positive role models and inclusive, when in fact they are dangerous and many of them have a white supremacist beliefs that black femininity blogs are completely glossing over because they see the transphobia as pro feminine. It's a serious problem.

[hypergamiss]

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[brownsugar-dreams]

Hello Mam ❤️❤️ What are ur top 5 online shopping sites for clothes? Thank you and have a good day!

This ask has been sitting in my inbox for a while now. I didn’t want to just give a half-assed list so I went to shop around a few online stores to test out the quality and value of their clothing. I came up with a list of 17 stores that I have bought from within the last few months. I have picked my 5 favorite (which was hard) and you can find my full list on my website. This ask actually inspired me to write my next newsletter “Hypergamy and Elite Dating” so thank you 🥰

So with this list and information presented below know you are getting quality, affordable prices, and fashionable clothing. And no the companies did not endorse me nor do they know I am posting about them! I love shopping and finding new boutiques and I like to try it before recommending anything to anyone. Here’s the list in no particular order:

https://whatjordywore.bigcartel.com – black business owner alert! One of my favorite purchases!

https://www.nyandcompany.com/ - affordable and trusted site with a section for tall ladies (5���9 and over) as well as petite.

https://www.tbdress.com/ - affordable and cute as hell. Plus size friendly with lots of patterns and outfit designs to choose from.

https://lavishalice.com/ - this site is a little pricier, but they do have a sale section. They also offer 20% off for students and NHS heroes as well as payment installments. The clothing is high quality and is a great place for your luxury wardrobe update.

https://www.muurswagg.com/ - black business owner alert! Clothing is really affordable and of great quality.

You may be tempted to shop FashionNova because it is cheap, and the clothes are actually quite nice. I implore you to reconsider and here is why: EVERYONE SHOPS AT FASHIONNOVA!!! You do not want to risk running into someone who has the same exact outfit on as yourself. Trust me, it has happened to friends of mine. It is not a good look or feel. So, try to open your mind and expand your boundaries to find a shop that has the look you are going for. All the websites I have listed are high quality and will not break the bank. I hope this list was helpful.

Let me know if you end up shopping at any of those stores and what you think 💕