Today was stressful. My ex called me about some drama from no caller Id and then asked to see me and told me he loved me .
I don’t believe him.
Love is actions.
This man has 3 kids lmao 🤣 I’m not over it and we were dating this year until April this man is gross to me.
He is a narcissist and only wants to see if he has access still.
I took back my power and tbh it was hard 🥺😵💫 I hate that for me I want it to be super easy to say fuck off loser but none the less I did it I told him I’m not answer anymore no caller id numbers and when he kept saying how he loved me all I said was I know you do then k said I had to go and hung up.
🥺 why was that hard?
Why is toxic so easy and familiar. I need to get a grip and do better.
But to today was a start I’m happy for the start 💕
Just had the most delightful sushi date, and guess what? I was my own fabulous date! Taking myself out like this isn't just about the food (though that was amazing), it's about showing myself some real love and care. Walking to and from the sushi place, I felt so connected to myself, my thoughts, and the world around me. It's moments like these that remind me of the beauty of self-love and the essence of Unitarianism - honoring the inherent worth and dignity of every individual, including myself. Here's to more solo dates filled with self-discovery and joy! 🍣💕
Sending extra love this morning to all the women choosing themselves in any capacity. Don't second guess that choice.Falling in love is a feeling. Loving someone (building a relationship) is a daily choice. Emphasis on the word daily. Many mistake the feeling of love with the actual work of loving someone. If your definition of loving someone is dependent on the feeling, good luck. Because feelings fluctuate and your relationship will be short lived. Many allow themselves to check out or leave a relationship because feelings have changed or faded (yes, I am guilty of this as well) but that is not enough to leave. If that were the case, no one would have relationships over three years.So you have to choose, every day, to love or not love. Some days it will be easy and some days it will be difficult. But every day is a choice. That's what building a relationship looks like. Everyone wants a relationship but not everyone is willing to make that daily choice, the action of loving whether they feel "in love" or not. So ask yourself if you just want the feeling of love or if you actually want to build something. Because they are different things. Just because you have on doesn't mean you'll have the other.Being interested and interesting to each other is more important than being attracted to each other. Interesting lasts. Attraction fades. Be particular on who you choose to love, but when you do choose to love, love as hard as you can. Every. Single. Day.
In a world that often pressures us to be perfect, it's important to remember that perfection is an illusion. We are beautifully imperfect human beings, and that's where our strength and growth lie. 🌱🌟
Self-compassion is the gentle art of treating yourself with the kindness and understanding that you would offer to a dear friend. It's acknowledging your flaws and mistakes without judgment and learning to love yourself through them.
Embracing your imperfections doesn't mean settling for mediocrity. It means recognizing that growth and improvement happen when we show ourselves love and patience.
So, today, I encourage you to be kind to yourself. Instead of criticizing your flaws, celebrate your uniqueness. Treat yourself with the same love, respect, and encouragement that you would offer to someone you care deeply about.
In practicing self-compassion, you'll discover a wellspring of inner strength that empowers you to overcome challenges and embrace your personal journey with grace.
Remember, it's okay to be imperfect. It's okay to make mistakes. It's okay to be you, just as you are.
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