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bbygirl-aemond · 2 years
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Why do we refer to Alicent as a Hightower? Once she's married, didn't she become a Targaryen? Shouldn't she be called Alicent Targaryen ?
Okay so this is the consequence of the fact that none of the nobility or royalty in Westeros have actual last names the way that we understand them. Colloquially, nobles and royalty are often referred to as [first name] + [House name] (Alicent Hightower, Rhaenyra Targaryen, etc.) which makes it seem like the House names are last names. But they’re not actually, they’re titles. Kind of like how none of the British royal family have last names, just first names. And titles behave a bit differently from legal last names. Married women have equal claim to the House they were born into and the House they married into, and so can refer to themselves as either or. And they certainly don't seem to HAVE to give up their maiden name, no matter who they marry.
It’s entirely possible for people to claim multiple Houses in formal occasions. For example, Tommen Baratheon is referred to as “Tommen of Houses Baratheon and Lannister” during his coronation. But colloquially people only use one at a time. Married women usually have a preference for one or the other. There are examples galore of both options here. Olenna Tyrell and Lisa Arryn always go by their married names; Sansa Stark, Rhaenys Targaryen, and Cersei Lannister all go by their maiden names. Some women might use the two interchangeably, depending on their circumstances: Catelyn might refer to herself as Catelyn Tully while in the Riverlands, but Catelyn Stark while in the North.
Whether the married or maiden name is used comes down to a variety of factors, such as the statuses of the two Houses, the women’s sentiments towards the two Houses, and how deeply the women assimilate into the culture/family of their married House. When a woman is colloquially referred to by her maiden name, it is usually meant to reflect that she is perceived as rejecting the family she married into in favor of her original family. Alicent holds more closely to things associated with the Hightowers, such as the Faith of the Seven, and is largely derided by Team Black for being an “outsider” within House Targaryen. But this is only the case for informal labels.
Now, this flexibility does not extend to the formal titles of these women. When using their formal titles, they must use their married name. This is because there is only one “Lady X” at any given time, and it is a title reserved for the wife of the corresponding “Lord X.” This is true for men as well, by the way: Laenor was never “Lord Velaryon” because Corlys was “Lord Velaryon,” and only one person can hold the title at a time. So for example, Alicent wouldn’t be called “Lady Hightower,” even if she wasn’t married to a King, because the only Lady Hightower is the wife of Lord Ormund Hightower (who is also the only Lord Hightower). This is also why Rhaenys Targaryen is referred to as Lady Velaryon and never as Lady Targaryen.
As for Alicent, she's a bit unique because she married into the royal family in particular. Since royalty needs to feel important, they get their own rules that are a bit different from the rest of the nobility. The only ones with a claim to the name Targaryen are those born to a man with that name. The title of Queen is never attached to a specific House. Alicent’s formal title isn’t “Queen Targaryen,” nor is it “Queen Hightower,” it is simply “Queen Alicent.” But even if she'd married a Lord, she could very well still be known by the name Hightower.
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artkett1412 · 3 months
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Custom Commission for KaraKryptic on Twitter
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isabella-ava34 · 2 months
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Lets just fuck who cares what people think?
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boytransmission · 2 months
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They took down the last one because of my butch bulge swag… this one shall pass the test and remain, i think
Top surgery fund!
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zlinkiez · 2 months
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My Sexuality is very much women in Armor, so Fem Crowley as an Angel only felt right.
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sugaralvida · 2 months
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😍 Make it bigger
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custom-emojis · 9 months
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Some variations of that pointing emojis people seemed to enjoy! I tried to make all the ones I expected people to want lol
Feel free to use in your servers and if you like what I do, maybe send me a tip? | or join my discord server to see emojis ahead of the queue
[Please read my Carrd before using my emojis]
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rosefortune77 · 3 months
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Need some people in my asks telling me what they'd do to me right now
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full-metal-femme · 1 year
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Took some new shots of my kilt jacket to submit to an art show! I don't know if I'll get in but it could be cool - regardless you should check them out :) they're @queermetalsmiths on Instagram 🤘🏻
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thatweirdtranny · 4 months
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leftist qanon types really are something else and antisemitism truly is what forges the horseshoe
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k9emote · 4 months
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just a few of my tons and tons of flag emotes in my discord server (link in pinned msg)
happy PRIDE
WLW/LESBIAN
MLM/GAY
BISEXUAL
TRANS
PANSEXUAL
QUEER
DEMIBOY
DEMIGIRL
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bearswaresshop · 4 months
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hello!
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sugaralvida · 3 months
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Feede girl 😍
Dm for uncensored content 🫦
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I'm back bitches
and boy have I been cooking!
I have made so many wavy Star Pride hearts and they are free for you to use, >:3 ALL OF EM!!!
Guide at the bottom
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uncanny-tranny · 1 year
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I don't know how many other queers do this at their place of work, but if I sense that I'm dealing with a queer customer, you bet your ass I'm hooking them up big time. Having other queer people's backs also means giving them the secret Gay Discount :3
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notaluckypup · 1 year
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It’s so easy to get puppies worked up. A simple tone shift. Eye contact held for just too long. A small touch here and there. Watch your puppy get frustrated so quickly as they become a writhing mess at your feet. Mutts are so quick to beg over basically nothing, with their breathy whining and hips that can’t help but buck, so demanding you might just have to remind them who’s in charge~
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